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[Chuck WowParticipant]

PistolPete wrote:

CombatRoll wrote:

I’m trying to ween myself off of being under the power of the mighty Poontang

You should have said no to her advances—and watch the fun afterward. When you openly deny the tyranny of the t~~~ they go nuts!

Yes I was tired of always being the one that initiated sex and finally stopped caring/trying. It really mind-f~~~ed her when I consistently turned down sex and blowjobs. Can’t remember the last time we had sex and give zero f~~~s anymore. Our kid will be 18 in a few years and I am already executing the early stages of my escape plan. I look forward to the day when I can live alone and only worry about myself. So tired of being a slave to my wife and kid

[nick123Participant]

Faust For Science wrote:

Scary S~~~ happening in last 24 Hours you need to know about!!

October 04, 2016.

Not counting Hurricane Matthew, a lot of events are happening which most people do not know about, or are willfully ignoring.

It seems that last night, while the U.S. population slept, the Doomsday Clock was moved to One Minute to Midnight. And the only reason we did not have Armageddon last night was that Julian Assange decided not to leak any information about the U.S. government from his Wikileaks organization.

https://www.cnet.com/news/assange-10-years-of-wikileaks-berlin/

It seems that in the last twenty-four hours, Russian did a 40 MILLION person nuclear war drill.

http://www.zerohedge.com/news/2016-10-03/40-million-russians-take-part-radiation-disaster-drill-days-after-us-general-warns-w

The reason is very simple. Because for the last two months, the people of the western rich 1%, their servants in government, and their sycophants in the TV and radio media, have been pushing to get to the White House, Hillary Clinton, has been blaming Russia very everything under the sun.

And Russia clearly had a strong believe that those affected by any such leaks might decide to start a nuclear war with Russia to deflect and avoid responsibility for their actions.

That is not all. That is only the tip of the iceberg.

Last night, when Mister Assange has his press conference in Europe, the 1% and their servants in industry and government shut down the U.S internet system in the few hours window when Mister Assange’s press conference happened.

Interesting Coincidence – U.S. Internet Disruption Maps During WikiLeaks Presser…

Yes folks. The internet was shut down in the U.S. Those whom seek to see us harm have tipped their hand they do have a kill switch on the internet.

More on this later.

The U.S. Presidential election is not going the way the 1% had hoped. After openly rigging the DNC primary for Hillary Clinton, Hillary Clinton’s support has dropped to the point she can not even fill High School gyms for her rallies. At best she can pull together a few hundred people. And most of these people are likely paid to be there.

Hillary Clinton has no ground game. And she has reached the point of having carefully scripted rallies, the locations and times of which are not publicly announced before the rallies are held.

Clinton Campaign Panics Over Lack of Volunteers

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It has reached the point that Hillary Clinton is giving up campaigning in a number of important states.

Such as Ohio. Which was heralded as THE bellwether state for the presidential election, until yesterday, when Hillary Clinton abandoned hope for winning Ohio.

Now, her sycophants in the media are saying that Ohio is “too white” and “too uneducated” to be a bellwether of the election.

https://pjmedia.com/homeland-security/2016/10/03/is-hillary-clinton-abandoning-ohio-media-downplays-buckeye-states-importance-for-her-electoral-calculus/

Even thought Hillary Clinton is spending money 50 to 1 in comparison to the amount that Donald Trump has spent in advertising. Hillary Clinton cannot draw a crowd.

And the only way Hillary Clinton is doing so well in the polls is because the polls are weighted for her supporters, some times in the double digits.

(“Weighted” means the group favoring the way the poll taker supports is increased in overall numbers in said poll.)

RIGGED: CNN POLL CLAIMING HILLARY WON THE DEBATE SAMPLED 41% DEMOCRATS COMPARED TO 26% REPUBLICANS

Meanwhile, Trump is drawing crowds for his rallies in the tens of thousands. Some times twice a day in different locations. With there also being thousands of more people in the overflow areas that could not make it in to the stadiums.

Donald Trump is cheered by large groups of American people wherever he goes.

AMAZING! HUGE COLORADO RALLY FOR TRUMP- More People In Overflow Crowd Than at Hillary’s Rallies All Month!

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In response, there are already been signs that the election is going to be rigged by the 1%, their servants in government and their sycophants in the media.

Homeland Security is already trying to take direct control of the election process from the states. That is not counting the election is done electronically, which everyone agrees can be tampered.

‘Homeland’ Elections Czar Picks Sides: Trump Policies ‘Un-American’, ‘Irresponsible’

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We already have examples of election fraud in a number of states.

Bombshell: Over 1,000 Illegal Voters in Eight Virginia Localities

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http://www.zerohedge.com/news/2016-09-24/dead-people-are-voting-key-swing-state-colorado

Given the 1% was willing to shut down the internet last night to cover their asses. I have no doubt the internet will likely be turned off a few days before the November 8 election and remain off.

The media for TV and radio is in complete control by the 1%. They have censored anything politically damaging to Hillary Clinton, while going on nonstop political attacks on Donald Trump.

Meanwhile, much of the media on the internet is for Donald Trump.

It is merely academic that a few days before the election, the 1% will shut down the internet for the U.S. to prevent political opposition from forming both before, during, and after the election. Silencing the American people.

During this time, the media in TV and radio will completely ignore the voices of the people. As they have been. They will do a completely media black on Donald Trump. And they will declare Hillary Clinton the winner of the Presidental election.

In a case where the rigging of the election is so blatant that no one will believe the election was legit.

The internet will be continued to remain off for the people. With only electron financial communications allowed. Such as international banking and the stock exchange.

This will not end well for anyone involved.

A good majority of Donald Trump supports want Hillary Clinton in prison. In Donald Trump rallies, there is always a vocal number of people chanting, “Lock her up”.

And Hillary Clinton has made it clear that she views the majority of those supporting Donald Trumpt to “irredeemable” and “deplorable”. She has shown she only has ill intentions towards those whom disagree with her.

http://www.breitbart.com/big-government/2016/09/13/irredeemable-clinton-deplorable/

Society cannot function when a large portion of the people have no respect for the appointed administrator, with the administrator equally disrespecting said portion of people. Especially after said portion of people were denied their political voice as a way to force said administrator into office.

I do not know how this will play out. But, there will be some sort of response to this naked theft of the election system. Possibly in the form of a peaceful tax revolt. To other measures.

Though, it will be interesting. Given many major police unions have thrown their support towards Donald Trump. These are the people that 1% will expect to enforce their will against the American people. These law enforcement officers may instead decide to all catch a sudden case of “blue flu.”

As the legitimacy for the U.S. government, by the American people, swiftly erodes into nothing.
One way or another, the 1% will decide to play their final card, with them having their servants starting a nuclear war with Russia.

A war that Russia is right now preparing for. While we Americans are not.

And everyone agrees on one point concerning Russia. Russia plays for keeps.

I am looking at this at several angles. And when is comes to us of the American population. If the current corrupt course is continued, we are not going to make it out of this one alive.

Even if you survive the nuclear explosions/implosions, the radiation, and the scavenging. Eventually, one of the nations that prepared for the nuclear war. Likely either Russia or China. Is going to have their military roll into you little corner of the world and either kill you, or enslave you. And then said military take everything you still have left that is over value.

Pray they kill you. In such a situation, you do not want to be taken alive. And the surviving women will have it worse.

And to make matters worse. Even if I am wrong about the U.S. election and Donald Trump is elected president. There are events playing out that could cause the 1% to start World War III even before, during, or after, November 8.

The U.S. continues to pick a fight with Russia over Syria.

http://www.zerohedge.com/news/2016-10-03/us-suspends-bilateral-diplomatic-relations-russia-syria

On top of this, the German Deutsche Bank is all but insolvent. This is one of the big banks of the world that is heavily leveraged. If this bank goes, it will likely take the rest of the western world’s economies with it.

Then, the 1% will likely start a nuclear war to prevent having the starving populations of the world coming for their hides.

http://www.zerohedge.com/news/2016-10-04/deutsche-bank-%E2%80%9C-probably-insolvent%E2%80%9D

This may be it folks. And all because those at the top are so scared of being held responsible for their actions that they would rather take a shot at destroying all humanity.

If you have any plans. Such as a vacation. Or going to see a friend. You might want to do those plans now. Rather than wait for later. There might not be a later.

The only silver lining in all this is that it looks like Russia has its ducks in a row. They are as ready as possible for the end of the world. And Russia has become close to the ideal model for western civilization. And the Russian people are known for surviving and enduring hardships. So, if any people would have chance at restoring humanity back to this level. It would be the Russian.

So, this may not be the end of the world. But instead, one really bad day for everyone on Earth.

Food for thought.

I really can’t believe you think this would be more important than Kim Kardashian’s new shoes? What’s wrong with you?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Masculine_Man wrote:

That is a strong possibility Keymaster! Look how bad women behave. Think guys want that?

I would ASSUME any drug that is designed not to produce sperm is against the laws of nature and unhealthy for one reason or another – as well as a gamble with certain side effects. But it is a necessity.

Reminder: Human females are the only species of females on the planet that fully understand where babies come from – in advance – and all the implications that go along with that.

A female lioness makes NO connection with her cubs to that event under a tree so many months ago. Any understanding of that is totally instinctual and probably a complete mystery to her. She doesn’t plot, bargain or negotiate or terrorize using “I think I might be pregnant” tactics for the purpose of harming or “OOPS!!” to trap a male.

But a women knows. She schemes. She plots. She terrorizes. She threatens. She uses her advanced understanding of this for personal gain as if there is a war on. And that’s how she is with her own husband – a man she pretends to “love”.

Now…. for the first time ever in history, where women have had 100% choice on this matter for about 50 years, men can FINALLY say “f~~~ you” and decide to NOT be a father without requiring her permission or consent. She will need HIS CONSENT for him to be the father now.

Women will be OUTRAGED.
Expect pure anarchy after 5 decades of “100% choice for women”.

And when the artificial womb arrives? There time is up. They are done. There will be such a marked shift in female behavior and social attitudes virtually overnight. They will practically be offering free blowjobs in the streets to get ANYONE to pay attention to them, marry or have kids with them.

Interesting times ahead, gents.

Women angry men won’t use s~~~ty male contraception

Women are not “angry”. They are terrified because it will permanently put an end to bitches like this. If they are angry it’s because they are about kiss 50% of their “power” goodbye. Women have over-leveraged.

http://archive.is/yK3Ag

Imagine it. You girlfriend / wife is going to have to wait until you are good and ready to ask you for your permission to have a kid with you. Try and wrap your head around that concept alone. There will be no more “OOPS!!”. Lying sluts will be busted wide open when they try and pin fatherhood on the wrong man.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[SolidusXParticipant]

qeeqo wrote:

I made the mistake of beimg talked into cohabitation for about six months. It was sexual 4 times then it changed into celibacy. this was someone i’d known since 12’13 yrs old. First thing she says when i moved in… “you don’t think you are just going to sit on your ass in that chair do you. she has her daughter over the next day to plant a forest in the back yard, unbeknownst to me i was the unarticulated care taker at a half an hour a morning. I was volunteered, i knew it was over towards the beginning when she said she wanted to be left alone because menopause. If it wasn’t such a pain in the ass to move i would have left that weekend. it was the continual f~~~ng scrutinized ny f what. aphasia and wasn’t paying attention ention to which led to her calling me slow. what’s a relationship if she can’t throw in a little gas-lighting.
one day I was waking down stairs to watch tv and told her so. she screams at me “WHAT DO YOU WANT FEOM MEEEEEeeeee” a little companionship. well shes addicted to bravos odious c~~~s, let her know that i find them disgusting, and totally unwatchable.

relationship ends. i have been getting back to peace and quiet in my own simple place that never requires standing and holding for an entire day, worthless bags of sparkly s~~~ at a shopping mall.

fastforward to work last night. I was asked to make sure The back door was locked. I went to lock it but was followed by a female coworker. She asked me a question about locking the door and I answered her without looking her in the eye as i walked right by her. To which she said to me “I don’t want to do it like this anymore” I said how’s that? she said, “you won’t even look me up n the eye when i address you. I said there was no need for that since i answered you.

she will make an issue out of it. I
have been called a misogynist, a racist. and falsely accused of abandoneding patients cause she had headphones in her ears and couldn’t hear me. it went to the director because i wasn’t immediately submissive.

i don’t look women in the eyes and truly keep to myself, that’s not good enough and taken as aggression.

Sounds like you are in a rough situation bud sorry to hear it… I used to never really make eye contact with people either as I was shy and timid and let people walk over me as I am not a very big person. Now however I command respect in any room I enter and look people right in the eye and talk firmly and concisely when I talk to them. It puts women in their place if they know they can’t walk all over you and makes wannabe alpha men into betas. A CEO of a company I worked for a long time ago told me this and it works like a charm. After I started practicing I found women more attracted to me, I did better in salary negotiations, and got better treatment places I went. I think people can sense the difference and do treat you differently… you may come off as a domineering person but I tell you people will treat you better.

I am glad you got out of that toxic relationship and living situation you had, I know the feeling of being stuck with someone s~~~y. It’s like finally being able to take that massive dump after eating a bunch of Mexican bean burritos.

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[Anonymous]

Robby wrote:

Glad to finally have found a place where people actually think for themselves. My name is Rob, I’m a computer science graduate and grew up in Georgia with a dad that is the biggest tool on the planet and has raised the rest of my family to conform as much as possible. I grew up with him shoving down his beliefs down my throat making me go to public school, public church, public everything and doing everything he can to make me follow the crowd. All he does now is watch feminist television and try to make other people watch it with him. Anyways, I survived and I’m glad to see you all have too as I know there are a ton of people just like my dad. Hope to finally have some meaningful conversations with you fine gentlemen.

Who the f~~~ is this guy, I thought we had this website all to ourselves?

Glad to finally have found a place where people actually think for themselves. My name is Rob, I’m a computer science graduate and grew up in Georgia with a dad that is the biggest tool on the planet and has raised the rest of my family to conform as much as possible. I grew up with him shoving down his beliefs down my throat making me go to public school, public church, public everything and doing everything he can to make me follow the crowd. All he does now is watch feminist television and try to make other people watch it with him. Anyways, I survived and I’m glad to see you all have too as I know there are a ton of people just like my dad. Hope to finally have some meaningful conversations with you fine gentlemen.

[GargamelSpectator]

Sparticus66 wrote:

If only!
That was the younger me.
I’m divorced and having pay the mortgage, plus my own rent plus debts while she works part time as a result of drink and drug problem. And I have to fight to see my sons. Read my intro. The only reason I’m not entirely homeless is because my brother was good enough to buy a small place for me to rent. My credit rating is dead and always will be thanks to her spending

And now this is your story that serves as a warning to young men not to make the same mistakes.

In the days before the internet women had an easy time f~~~ing men over in a divorce. They just told their entire hive that “he is a loser” and his side of the story would not make in the local gossip news. He would even get more pressure from the outside world.

Because women are the prime gossip communicators. They have maximum control over the bulls~~~ that “is said” around the city. Men with problems couldn’t get any help because everybody was polarized by his woman.

But now the internet has come along and it finally busts their corrupt way of “local mass manipulation”. Men can now say: “See I’m not the only one YOU are trying to publicly turn into a loser, better watch your step, people don’t believe you anymore…”

Sharing our stories with other men will make us all stronger.

And the hamster lurkers will also see that “their victim” is not alone anymore. And that HER story, her yelling and her bad behavior might end up on Youtube. Then it’s the end of the stress free dating game for cupcake.

Local women that had f~~~ed over their husbands in a bloody divorce sometimes couldn’t get a new man because her reputation was shot.

I was often hit on by “divorced” women that were looking for a new wallet. And just knowing that she lives from alimony was so “non erotic” to me that I never pursued any of them. I scared them away. Even if there was pressure in my b~~~~ and even if I found them attractive.

I don’t sleep with the enemy.

I said to them things like: “The right hand rule does not only apply to the magnetic field”…

Better if women think that you are a fool and leave you alone than if they try to catch your attention by making you the center of her gossip.

Anyway, MGTOW will change all that.

For me is was now the confirmation that I was doing the right thing in all these years and that improves my mood even further.

Every thought that I found “controversial” and kept to myself is now “open source”. And I like that.

Because of this MGTOW forum I now get the answers that I were missing.

The fact that women cannot love was felt inside of me for over 45 years. But now I have confirmation that my feelings were true.

I am absolutely sure that our knowledge is beneficial to all males on this planet.

We are the “Service Manual” for all men that need to know the traps of life.

You tell a young boy not to put his hand on the oven and you should also tell him to learn how to deal with gold diggers, because that is what all women are.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[Oz-BlokeParticipant]

THREAD UPDATE – Bettina Arndt of the The Australian has penned one of the better articles covering the release of The Red Pill in Australia in her article;

Cassie Jaye’s Red Pill too truthful for feminists to tolerate

To quote the article;

“Clearly this documentary has the feminists very worried — with good reason. Cassie Jaye is an articulate, 29-year-old blonde whose previous movies on gay marriage and abstinence education won multiple awards. But then she decided to interview leaders of the Men’s Rights Movement for a documentary she was planning about rape culture on American campuses. As a committed feminist, Jaye expected to be unimpressed by these renowned hate-filled misogynists, but to her surprise she was exposed to a whole range of issues she came to see as unfairly stacked against men and boys.

As news of this very public conversion started to leak out, Jaye came under attack. She was smeared, told she was committing “career suicide” and saw her funding dry up to the point where it looked as if the movie would never be made. Prominent feminists she had planned to interview refused to participate; none of the “human rights” funding she hoped to attract proved available for a documentary on men’s rights.

There’s a powerful interview with Erin Pizzey, who is no longer allowed near the British women’s refuge she started back in the 1970s, the first in the world. Pizzey ran afoul of the sisterhood by campaigning to expose the truth about women’s role in domestic violence.

Stephen Marche in The Guardian admits that “men do sometimes suffer mistreatment from the courts or from the women in their lives”, but suggests the film fails to demonstrate any systemic cause. “Instead, the author of men’s troubles here is always that vague bugaboo feminism, which we’re told is designed to silence its opponents,” sniffs Marche.

That’s pretty ironic, given this “vague bugaboo” persists in trying to silence Jaye’s attempts to tell this story. As she points out in her movie, the issues she examines came as a revelation not only to her but to many others exposed to the material she put together. That bugaboo carries a lot of clout.”
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The more than 320 comments in the article’s comments section reflect how men are finally finding their voices and are willing to call the feminist movement out on all their bulls~~~. When one group (feminists) tries to silence another (men), it speaks volumes about who the real ‘oppressors’ are in our society. And given 60% of all women consider themselves ‘feminists’, that’s a large chunk of the population who oppose the men’s rights messages being heard.
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#ManOut

[Anonymous]

No sadness.

an end to the fear of this day, and the sweet relief of that worry
He had been living with pain for most of his life, and now he is free.
The man planned for this day well in advance, family is in good shape financially.

He was a college teacher. When his day was over usually at 4 he would pick me up from hs and everyday possible we would throw a nerf football in the front yard with me and my brother with hands destroyed by arthritis. In the winter we shot pool in the basement. This time of year, we would rake the leaves onto a blanket and drag them to the back yard to burn. We would sit in the garage and talk about the future and responsibility for my life, basically kicking my ass because I didn’t have a clue. I can’t tell you how many cribbage games we played and had good times laughing so hard we ached.

I am so glad he saw me recover from the damage of the divorce, get through college again and have a career that I am proud of.

For the first time in more than 49 years, my mother sleeps alone.

Thank you for your kind words brothers, you steady me while my knees tremble.

I wanted to be the father to my children that my father was to my brother and me. It is my greatest frustration that I can not be that father to my children. I had them for a short while, and in that time I packed as many life lessons, museum visits, reading together and playing games as I could. When I go to my final reward I want my kids to remember those times, too.

I’m driving to Florida tomorrow. I need to say goodbye to a man I am proud to call Dad.

[PhantomParticipant]

Hey bro, I know we never really talked much, and Keymaster already put the hand writing on the wall, but seeing that I used to be homeless, I wanted to share some of my story, going through that.

Like you, I am also from Texas, and was homeless there as well, during that period of my life. I made the mistakes Keymaster warned you about. Counting the bird in the bush type of s~~~.

Needless to say, the rug was ripped out from beneath me, and it went completely south. At times, I was so hungry, I would go into fast food places & ask if I could do some dishes or anything, for a bite to eat. Needless to say, because of laws, they told me, they could not allow that.

However, sometimes I would be given free food. I gave things I had in my car to some of them to express my gratitude. Some would not even except it, and told me to keep my chin up and so on.

Anyway, in all my times of being down & out, I have had to always formulate a solid plan, in order to get out of the s~~~. Day labor for daily cash helped a lot, seeing I was living day to day.

I lived in my car for a very long time, but I finally was able to get enough cash flow going, to get into a cheap weekly rate motel.

I hope things work out for you as soon as possible. I know it’s stressful at the very least, having s~~~ be so tight.

I don’t want to sound like I am kissing Keymaster’s ass here, but he is telling you the absolute God’s truth.

Best wishes bro!

Just found this site, love it… registered… and now want to make an introduction. As I was reading the nine pages of stories, at first I was laughing harder than I had in years. You know how comedians like to take real life scenarios and make them into jokes, because the audience can relate?

Well, once the laughter subsided, I was pondering what I had just read and my mind soon drifted to wondering if the rafters above my desk would be strong enough to hold the other end of the rope I wanted to put around my neck.

All that aside, glad I found this site. I’ve been pouring through it with extreme interest.

I actually stumbled into it as I was researching personality disorders, which I had finally come to the conclusion was at hand here. I had just read several papers on Vulnerable Narcissistic Personality Disorder. It was as if the entire study was done on her. Then came the eye opener reading all the other posts here and I realized this is far from an isolated issue. It’s an epidemic. It wasn’t that I was just unlucky and happened to stumble into the path of a sociopath; the odds were actually very, very high.

So, the actual story in summary…

Married my college sweetheart.
We had a terrific time in college and all was great and wonderful.
She would actually wear me out.

Then, exactly on our wedding night as we arrived at the hotel – “I’m actually way too tired, but I feel like it’s something we have to do.” That college sweetheart had now shed her disguise and turned into a brain-eating zombie right in front of me. Then came the panic. I could almost hear the trap door close behind me. Dozens of witnesses to the vows earlier that afternoon. We went on with things. Now it was no longer about doing what we liked together. It was all about her agenda. I had no idea what to do.

I figured I must have done something wrong and just needed to be a better husband. I did all the classic mistakes – abandoned my friends, did mounds of housework, and complied with the agenda – complete with targeting that next house move-up. There came a point, years later, when I very nearly left. I was handed a gift. My employer wanted me to relocate, but she refused to go. My plan was to take the relocation and move on, with them even picking up my move expenses. Instead, I continued in my stupidity, and tanked my career there. But then there was peace. I thought everything was better now. It seemed like old times. Nope, I’d now fallen for “the big one” – the biological clock was driving all that nice-ness. Yep, after that, everything returned to normal, only worse than before. I wouldn’t give back my kids for any cost, including my own life, so I don’t regret that part. Today, I’m 51, and 28 years into this mess.

I now consider it fortunate that our sex life has gone from ICU to the Funeral Home. It’s allowed me to clear my head. I’m no longer entrapped by things. I don’t have to take her out, I don’t have to buy her things, I don’t have to waste my precious holiday time off with the in-laws, and I don’t need to spend a fortune on family vacations that nobody but her wants to go on. I can spend my time at the gym, mountain biking, etc. I can make my own decisions about what I’m going to do, regardless of how that fits into her agenda.

A lot of that involves doing things with my kids – things she doesn’t want to do and places she doesn’t want to go, so she stays home. Please do! All she’ll do is p~~~ and moan and ruin it for everyone else, anyway. Naturally, she’s totally off the rails about not being able to control me anymore – drives her absolutely mad. I’m not mean to her and I do still help out quite a lot just because it needs to get done; I’m just not going to be controlled. Naturally, I’m being unfair and she says our biggest problem is that we need more “God” in our marriage. Really? Where is He not? Because I don’t lavish you with gifts, trips, dinners and obey your whims? I’m familiar with the Scriptures. That’s not a requirement. In fact, they warn against it. They do say a husband and wife should be having regular sex. Don’t be trying to use Him to support your sociopath ways, chick.

So, back to the site…

I was finally at the point about to start proceedings. But I think I need to spend some more time getting educated here, and planning a proper strategy. I’ll be damned if I’m going to let some slanted court system determine the fate of the assets I’ve built. I’ll do what I can to make sure I decide what they’ll get their hands on. My youngest is 15, so in three years child support won’t be an issue. Not that I won’t help my kids; I just don’t want it going through the courts and her. Next, I busted my butt saving for their college (in classic fashion, she has refused to enter the workforce, but has no problem imprinting her fat butt on the couch binge-watching some Netflix series, Judge Judy, and such). If I split now, that’ll probably just get divided and I’ll wind up paying for their college out of what little is left for me, rather than community property. In three years when the last one enters college, the second one will be almost finished. At that point, there won’t be much to divide and I can probably scrape by to finish that one. I can rebuild. I guess that makes us essentially DIPs – divorced-in-place. She no longer controls me, and I won’t be getting any sex either way, but at least this way I can keep some control of the assets, for now, until I decide when it’s the right time.

By the way, I saw a few of the posts (by women, of course) recommending marriage counseling. We did that for a time. I did a lot of research on that, too. It is rarely successful. Don’t do it. We went to three different ones! Every one we went to was dismissed the moment they even hinted that she could possibly have any part in the issues. It wasn’t “counseling” – she clearly viewed it as arbitration – seeking not reconciliation, but vindication! The point for me was when the last one asked me about what I believed about her and I gave some basic observations, without being harsh, and some were even positive – she’s an incredible cook.

Then she was asked about what she believed about me; without hesitation, the first one – “I believe he’s very selfish.” I thought my head was going to explode. That sealed it for good, right there. (Yes, I cancelled Netflix last night and she has four months to find meaningful employment before I release the housekeeper). End of my rant as most everything else I have to say is just repeats of what the rest of you have been through, too. Plotting my escape from this tragic mess.

So here I am at MGTOW.com, the only place that seems to make sense of the f~~~ed up world we live in. The stories and insights of other members resonate with me in many ways.

Many of you have had it far worse than I could ever imagine. The lies, theft and betrayals that force a man to re-examine everything he was brought up to beleive in. His place in the world his value as a human being.

I used to think that the only logical reason for existence was to pro-create the species. Everything else seems ultimately transient, life is short, you can’t take material things with you but you live on through your children right?

Unfortunately, or fortunately some would say, the goal of fatherhood was denied me, except for a very breif time, but more on that later.

Born in the mid sixties I was wrenched from my maternal mother at 13 months old and given away for adoption. My adoptive parents had already gone through a long eligibilty process with the local council to be allowed to adopt my older sister. They told me it took months of interviews and tests before they were finally alolowed to take her home. Then some months later there was a knock at the door and a council official stood there with a baby and asked if they would like to adopt another child as well? That child was me. I was literally taken from one mother and dropped off at the doorstep to another. An emergency intervention I guess. My mum told me I was dressed in filthy clothes so I figure I must have come from the wrong side of the tracks.

Although my adoptive parents did the best they could for me (and I’m grateful for that), I never quite felt I “fitted in”.

This feeling of being an outsider has been with me ever since. Although tall, blond haired and blue eyed, I never felt confident with women. I think my lack of confidence stemed from the idea that “If your own (natural),mother didn’t value you, then why would anyone else?”

Eventually at 19 I finally got it together with my first girlfriend. It’s your first love you remember right? Well my first love was a psychotic narcissistic, abusive, controlling, cheating head f~~~ing Uber Feminist -Spare Rib- reading bitch.

It took me 14 years to be free of her. Everytime I tried to leave and would set myself up with another woman, she would come back into my life to f~~~ it up and prove she “owned” me. Having f~~~ed up other relationship I got into, she would then dissapear again with Chad and leave me devastated once more. What gave her the power to do this? She knew how to push my buttons. Anyone who’s been involved with a narcissist will know what I mean.

Eventually I got free, and the crazy thing is after all the abuse, lies, cheating, theft, bad mouthing me to all, f~~~ing my friends behind my back, trying to pimp me out to her girlfriends, (honestly you wouldn’t believe it but it’s true),and the ultimate crime – the do it yourself home abotion of the only child I have ever fathered, (that f~~~ed me up big style for years), You know the final thing that made me realise that this woman was poison to my life? She accidently f~~~ed the mothboard of my computer with a BIOS flash virus and tried to make out it was my fault. For some reason that did it for me and I was outta’ her life forever.

I then became MGTOW in my dealings with women. Pump and Dump, Oil Change dating etc. I was never going to let a woman rule me again. My goal was to earn money (just got my first graduate job), and buy my own house then chill with the guys. smoke hash, play guitar and bang chicks with no commitment.

Then, as often happens in life, out of the blue I met my Unicorn, at work in a large corporate office. I never expected such a good looking woman could have no baggage, no kids, no crazyness. I married her less than a year later and was happy. She wanted kids and I wanted to make her happy but it just didn’t happen. Kind of ironic that the Ex Bitch got pregnant by me (and killed it), but my wife and I couldn’t.

About four years in the usual things started to happen, I don’t want to go into details but you know how it goes, (not saying I was blameless-far from it). It looked like we were going to split. I was ready for it and due to my past experiences with women I can be an Ice Cold Unfeeling Motherf~~~er when I want to be. Then it happened. The “Event” She got a headache that just got worse and worse. More and more pills to ease the pain but it wouldn’t go. I started to get worried, but, as I had started to drink on a regular basis I put it down to she must just get worse hangovers than me. I was wrong very wrong, in that diagnosis.

2006 One day she was so in pain she was delierious and passed out. I rushed her to hospital, they f~~~ed up (anyone from the UK who’s been to A&E will know the score). Finally they realised the problem. She’s got a brain tumor, it’s expanding and crushing her brain. Emergency Op’ 13 hours, half way through the surgeon comes out and tells me to prepare for the worst, She aint’ gonna make it.

I f~~~ing sobbed and sobbed like a baby. Just weeks earlier I had been planning my escape determined not to be f~~~ed over by a woman again and now the most important thing in the world to me was that she should live. I prayed and prayed constantly that whole 13 hours begging God to spare her, (I’m not a person who bothers God on a regular basis). Thing is, against all the odds and to the visible amazment of all the doctors, she pulled through. She survived, She was not a “Vegtable” as they said she would be. Intensive care 1 month, step down ward 2 months, contacted MRSA from the filthy hospital, fought it off. They were misstreating her on the ward (neglect), so I busted her outta’ there. They didn’t miss her for seven hours. I got her home and I cared for her till she was well.

We got life back on track and did the best we could for another 8 years, then the seccond Event occurred and this time there was no reprive. She died at home in my arms. If I could have ended her suffering painlessly I would have. A local nurse thought I had done a “Mercy Killing” on her as I hadn’t returned the morphine they gave me to administer for pain relief. She called the cops and I was arrested for Murder. Spent a night in the cells with crazy drunk/drugged people and got interrogated all night. They searched my house and found the drugs I had held back. I think the cops knew that I hadn’t killed her with these drugs (they were unopened), but I was intending to use them on myself rather than live without her. I knew I would never find another woman like this and my life was over.

My experience of seeing her fight this disease and the couage she showed means that I can never hate all women. My attraction to MGTOW comes from the first bitch that f~~~ed up my life, and more recently the entitled attitude of women I attempted to get to know on dating sites (POF).

It seems to me that my whole life has been influenced for better or worse, right from the get go, by women. I have lost my eagerness to try and please them. I’m not going to find another Unicorn so I must swallow the Red Pill. As many have mentioned, It’s a bitter pill to swallow, but once you realise the games rigged, you don’t want to play anymore. F~~~ them. Why should they profit from my hard work and struggles? What do they offer me now?

I am a spirtual person and I beleive my wife may have influenced me in finding MGTOW. She doesn’t want some skanky gold digging bitch getting her claws into me before I join her in the next life.

Everything happen’s for a reason, and for some reason I find myself here.

Greg

It's Time to get Wise

[OldBillParticipant]

While I applaud you finally shedding the c~~~s in your life, I wonder why you felt the need to add to the drama. While passionate exit speeches are fine on TV or in the movies, in life they’re nothing but a waste of time and will be misunderstood by the recipient.

You don’t owe those c~~~s anything and you most certainly didn’t owe them an explanation. You should have stood up, collected you coat, made a few noncommittal comments, and walked out the door to never be seen again.

Be well, brother, and enjoy your journey.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

I went into town yesterday to find myself a cutting board (ended up just going to the DIY place and buying a piece of wood to make one myself) and I noticed that the barber I used to go to had a sign in the window reading ‘for rent’. I peered through the window and even though they had covered most of it with ads I could see the room behind it was completely empty even the counter got ripped out.

Over 2 years ago I was a regular in that place. They cut my hair, they didn’t make a fuss about it, the price was ok and most important of all I was in and out of there in 30 minutes flat. It was run by the time by an older women until one day I walked in and it was clear from the start that it was under new management. New stuff, some new staff and the new owner (a woman with, I kid you not, blue hair) running around telling everyone what to do. I could tell she was the owner because people grudgingly did what they were told. The older woman that used to run the place was no where to be seen so which prompted me to ask one of the older staff members if the place was under new management which got affirmed with a hushed yes.

As per usual I walk up to the counter to ask if they could fit me in and if they could do it in 30 minutes or less and the ‘new’ girl behind the counter didn’t even flip through her appointment book and just pointed me to the waiting chairs. There was only one other person there so I figured it wouldn’t take long even though most of the barber chairs were occupied.

20 minutes later I was still sitting there… I was still sitting there not because those women in those barber chairs and the staff behind the barber chairs had complex dye jobs or anything like that but because the owner would constantly intervene in their work which in turn resulted in a whole bunch of bitching and moaning when she went into the back room.

After a good 30 minutes waiting I was about ready to walk out of the place when it was finally my turn. I still needed my hair cut so I sat down and one of the ‘new’ girls got assigned to me.

“How do you want your hair cut”
“Short, a little longer on top, shorter on the back and shave all that frizzy stuff off the back of the neck and clear the ears a little”

Now at this point it should be noted I don’t have a difficult haircut and I am happy as long as I can go to work without people asking “wtf happened to your hair”. In fact considering the amount of women that they have in those places I would have expected that cutting a man’s hair is like taking a break while working but I digress.

So this girl starts working… and chatting… and getting interrupted by her boss… and cutting a little more and I kid you not it took over an hour and she was literally getting nowhere.
When the owner intervened again I asked both of them how much longer this was going to take and both of them snarled at me that it was going to be done when it was going to be done. I reminded them that I asked if it could be done in less than 30 mins and they said yes and it had been an hour and a half already.

They had the nerve to snarl at me again and the owner stomped off huffing something about asshole male customers and I just lost the plot completely. I ripped the hair dresser thing off from around my neck, checked my hair in the mirror and yelled loud enough for people outside to hear

If you’re going to treat your customers like s~~~ and not even have the decency to tell me it’s going to take a little longer than planned after I specifically asked multiple times how long it would take then you’re going to be f~~~ing bankrupt soon.

I turned around and walked out grabbing my coat on the way. I didn’t pay because well my hair barely had been touched, went to the nearest sundries store, bought myself a trimmer and I’ve been using that to cut my hair ever since.

So now about 2 years later, and frankly it took longer than I expected, they are done. Closed and hopefully never to torment another customer with their bulls~~~ again.

I just feel bad for the poor guy married to any of those stupid c~~~s that will now most likely sit at home whining about how ‘terrible customers’ ruined their business.

I humbly submit to you that most women are bad for business unless that business involves selling sex.

"Listen to all, Follow none"

Hey gents,

Last night I got a frantic, panicked call from my Asian friend who i was sharing the flat with, (he lives above the biggest white trailer trash c~~~ on the planet), and he begs me to come over and help him.

For those of you not in the know, i used to live with him, and he deals with some vile, hostile, selfish c~~~ neighbors- punk ass little c~~~s in their early to mid 20s who think they can do wtf they like when they like. Playing loud as f~~~ music until 4am on weekends, etc etc etc.

So i get there in my car, with a hammer down my pants, and a hunting knife strapped to my side, in its holster thing. I hear night club volume music coming from one of the flats which has its windows wide open. Bare in mind, i have just finished a 14 hour shift at my day job then i did my bouncer job afterwards. I am surprisingly awake and focused, probably because of the adrenaline surging through my body.

Before i can get out of my car i see a Police van approach and pull up behind me. I put the hammer in the side of my drivers door, but kept the knife on me. I went over to them to have a chat and told them what the deal was, and they told me they were waiting to noise control to turn up and issue paper work.

!0 mins later i see the police van leaving from my friends apartment window, thinking great…what now?

Within seconds, we heard several people run up the steps to my friends place and someone violently punched the siding glass door which is the door to access the place. (The front door.) Then i hear “open up this f~~~ing door now c~~~!!!”.

I pulled out my knife i could hear at least 3 people outside and opened the curtains. There infront of me what the f~~~ing whore from downstairs screwing her face up trying to look mean and was demanding i open the door. I saw 3 guys to the right of her obviously waiting for me to open the door then jump me. Of course, im not stupid and keep the door bolted.

She is obviously a druggie, she was talking absolute s~~~e as she usually does. One of the guys said to me “I will f~~~ you up!” to which i replied with, with the knife visible and pointing toward them, “I will f~~~ing KILL you”.

There was a glass sliding door between us but the situation was serious enough for me to be ready to stab one of these c~~~s in the throat should they try and break in or whatever.

when this bitch finally noticed the knife she shat herself, started crying and was convinced I was going to stab her. And i said i would if she didnt f~~~ off. This c~~~ had gotten her boyfreind and his mates to come up to intimidate us, which doesnt work on me, but its hilarious how this pussy is such a tough guy when hes got his freinds to back him up. He has never had the b~~~~ to face me me one on one.

Somehow the police turned up again, about 5 cops in their mid 30s, and were demanding that they get off my friends balcony.

I honestly dont remember much after that. Theres prob a bit that ive forgotten to tell. S~~~ like that happens so fast, you know what i mean.

THe cops came to the door and i still had the knife in my hand when i opened the door to the. They asked me politely to put the knife down and i told them i wasnt going to use it it was just for scare tactics, but they understood and i wasn’t in trouble for it.

Anyhoo, the night ended with some of those pieces of s~~~ arguing with the police, the c~~~s were issues with an actual 72 hour noise cease thingy, and the music was switched off. I talked to the police a bit more afterwards and I suddenly recognized one of the police, his son goes to my sons school! Never knew he was a cop. My son plays with his son as well and he was asking if i had my son with me and i said no way mate, i wouldn’t have him here at all. He gave me his address and a card and said to call him about and apartment he knows about hat my friend could move into and i said thanks very much and they hung around outside for a bit then left.

I have never experienced s~~~ like this in the UK, and ive lived in dives and s~~~holes there many times. There is something inherently wrong with these Kiwi c~~~s. Inbred pond life pieces of s~~~. This is the youth of NZ im talking about, and the majority of kiwis especially in Christchurch. There are exceptions, and i hate to tar everyone with the same brush, but most of these people are f~~~ing backward.

Who the f~~~ comes to someones front door punching the windows and demanding to come out so they can assault someone? They failed to intimidate me but i think my friend almost had a heart attack.

He’s a mate so i do what i can for a mate, i will always help out. But this s~~~ was mental, these c~~~s have no morals or nothing. Trailer trash scum.

I wanted to ask you American gents something if i may-if this happened in your neck of the woods, are you guys allowed to blow these motherf~~~ers heads off? Can you shoot them if they trespass? How i would have loved to have shot those f~~~ing t~~~s in the face.

My friend is now moving in a week and told me he has a lawyer to get him out of the lease of the property etc. But i hope something is done about finding him a new place. He doesn’t have the money to just bail out and apply for a new place. If i had a place of my own id let him stay whenever he wanted free of charge.

Anyway, thanks for reading. We both now leave and enter his rented property armed with weapons. Its f~~~ing ridiculous but these people are unhinged and you never know if they will be waiting i nthe dark one night to jump one of us.

What would you guys have done if you were me?

Cheers.

[Sky-OParticipant]

Dagny Taggert liked c~~~.

She rode a few c~~~s while still searching for her ideal c~~~.

Somehow the guys prior to John Galt sensed they were the best she could do at the time and wanted to bang her anyway.

Her pussy rocked.

Reardon made her a bracelet.

She banged him again.

She only wanted to bang men that were capitalists.

John Galt wanted her pussy too. So he worked underground on a railroad line near her office for years so he could make sure she was safe when society finally collapsed.

She kept taking c~~~ until she decided to find the guy that built a motor that functioned like something a Jedi could make.

That great creator would have a better c~~~.

So she flew her plane into a gulch to find him (and his c~~~).

She f~~~ed him.

Then a bunch of other stuff happened, the world collapsed, everyone was living the dream in Galt’s Gulch.

Dagny left Galt’s C~~~ to ‘save the world’ and he went to rescue her, got captured, she rescued him and his c~~~, the world continued collapsing. . .

Then the superior ones began rebuilding and planning to reclaim the world from the looters.

The End

[GargamelSpectator]

Jeremiah Johnson wrote:

STDs ‘will soon be resistant to antibiotics

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-3765695/STDs-soon-resistant-antibiotics-updates-advice-chlamydia-gonorrhea-syphilis-time-10-years.html

EXACTLY WHY I HAVE GONE GHOST MONK!!! NO PUSSY IN ALMOST 3 YEARS!!! And I don’t miss it one f~~~ing IOTA!!!

I had no pussy in 5 years. So I guess it will stay this way. When these germs become resistant to antibiotics, then hell will break loose.

Going MONK will eventually save your life.

Anonymous wrote:

MGTOW ends the plantation…

And I am helping in shutting down the plantation. In good family tradition. We also left the East German communist plantation in 1958…

Keymaster wrote:

I once happened to go along with a woman who made an appointment, and her gynecologist told me 80% of sexually active women under 21 have (or have had) an STD. Thats 4 out of 5.

EIGHTY PERCENT have polluted vaginas.

And nature will eventually run it’s “overpopulation cleanup program”…

We are just the beginning of it. I saw MGTOW coming. Watching this s~~~ going on, drawing my conclusions, protecting myself as good as I could…

Beginning around 1992, I always thought to myself “When will men wake up and change all that?”

And it is finally happening.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant]

Awesome KM – you rock.

Just to kick things off, here’s the text in its entirety of his last message:

Last Statement

by Tom Ball

A man walks up to the main door of the Keene N.H. County Courthouse, douses himself with gasoline and lights a match. And everyone wants to know why.

Apparently the old general was right. Death is not the worst of evil.

I am due in court the end of the month. The ex-wife lawyer wants me jailed for back child support. The amount ranges from $2,200. to $3,000. depending on who you ask. Not big money after being separated over ten years and unemployed for the last two. But I do owe it. If I show up for court without the money and the lawyer say jail, then the judge will have the bailiff take me into custody. There really are no surprises on how the system works once you know how it actually works. And it does not work anything like they taught you in high school history or civics class.

I could have made a phone call or two and borrowed the money. But I am done being bullied for being a man. I cannot believe these people in Washington are so stupid to think they can govern Americans with an iron fist. Twenty-five years ago, the federal government declared war on men. It is time now to see how committed they are to their cause. It is time, boys, to give them a taste of war.

There are two kinds of bureaucrats you need to know; the ones that say and the ones that do. The bridge between them is something I call The Second Set of Books. I have some figures of the success of their labors. You and I are in these numbers, as well as our spouses and children. But first let me tell you how I ended up in this rabbit hole.

My story starts with the infamous slapping incident of April 2001. While putting my four year old daughter to bed, she began licking my hand. After giving her three verbal warnings I slapped her. She got a cut lip. My wife asked me to leave to calm things down.

When I returned hours later, my wife said the police were by and said I could not stay there that night. The next day the police came by my work and arrested me, booked me, and then returned me to work. Later on Peter, the parts manager, asked me if I and the old lady would be able to work this out. I told him no. I could not figure out why she had called the police. And bail condition prevented me from asking her. So I no longer trusted her judgment.

After six months of me not lifting a finger to save this marriage, she filed for divorce. Almost two years after the incident, I was talking with her on the phone. She told me that night she had called a mental health provider we had for one of the kids. Wendy, the counselor told my then wife that if she did not call the police on me, then she too would be arrested.

Suddenly, everything made sense. She is the type that believes that people in authority actually know what they are talking about. If both she and I were arrested, what would happen to our three children, ages 7,4 and 1? They would end up in State custody. So my wife called the police on her husband to protect the children. And who was she protecting the kids from? Not her husband, the father of these children. She was protecting them from the State of New Hampshire.

This country is run by idiots.

The police sergeant Freyer screwed this up from the get go. When I got the Court Complaint form the box was checked that said Domestic Violence Related. I could not believe that slapping your child was domestic violence. So I looked up the law. Minor custodial children are exempted. Apparently, 93% of American parents still spank, slap or pinch their children. To this day I still wonder if Freyer would have made this arrest if it had been the mother that had slapped the child.

Labeling someone’s action as domestic violence in American in the 21st century is akin to labeling someone a Jew in Germany in the 1930’s. The entire legal weight of the state is coming down on him. But I consider myself lucky. My family was destroyed. But that poor bastard in Germany had his family literally annihilated.

Arrests are mandatory for the police in New Hampshire for domestic violence. That is not law. That is police department policy. Laws come from the Legislature and the Governor’s office together. God only knows where these policies come from. The State’s Attorney General also has a mandatory arrest protocol for domestic violence. I call these policies, procedures and protocols The Second Set of Books. You never cover the Second Set of Books your junior year in high school. That because we are not suppose to have a Second Set of Books. This is America-we have the rule of law.

I am a regular guy, a coffee and cheeseburger type of fellow. As remarkable as my life has been, I figure that what happens to me must be happening to others as well. I was 48 years old when I got arrested here for my first time. So I went looking for the arrest numbers for domestic violence, this new group that I had unwilling joined. I could not find anything. So I wrote the U.S. Dept. of Justice in Washington. They wrote back that they did not keep track of domestic violence arrests. The FBI keeps track of all other crimes. How come not domestic violence? I thought some low level clerk was blowing me off.

At the time, I had mailing addresses in both New Hampshire and Massachusetts. So I wrote to all six Congressional offices, the two Senators from each state and the two Congressman. They like doing favors for constituents hoping you will favorably remember their name in the voting booth. All six offices reported back the same thing. They do not know how many arrests for domestic violence have been made. I immediately knew something was wrong. And I also knew this was not going to be good.

Improvise, adapt and overcome. The Army teaches that to every soldier it trains. They say that no battle plan survives the first five minutes of combat. So your people on the ground had better be able to think for themselves. Taking casualties in war is just an occupational hazard. Taking casualties and not accomplishing your mission is a disaster. After 21 years of Army service, I am pretty good at improvising.

The first thing I found was a study not of domestic violence arrests but of domestic violence injuries for 18 unnamed states and the D.C. in the year 2000. In the study 51% of the injuries were ‘no injuries’. So I knew I had a study of police reports. Who else but a police officer would record no injuries? I populated that out to the 50 states and came up with 874,000 arrest in the year 2000.

I had originally populated the number back to 1994 when the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) was enacted into law. I would later find out these arrests stated with the U.S. Attorney General’s Task Force of Domestic Violence ten years earlier in 1984. As individual states data became available for various years and states, I would incorporated in to my informal study. The number I have now in 2011 is 36 million adults have been arrested for domestic violence. I have a gut feeling this number could be as high as 55 million. But I only have data to 36 million. So 36 million it stays. And there is a really cool trick you can do once you have this number. You can find out how many American men. women and children ended up homeless because of these arrests.

Most of the domestic violence statistics I have seen break down with 75% male and 25% female being arrested. So I am going to used the male pronoun for the one arrested spouse and the female pronoun for the victim spouse. That should make the domestic violence feminists ecstatic-man bad, woman good. But that is okay because that is probably the last nice thing I am going to do for them today.

When then a man is arrested for domestic violence, one of two things can happen. If they are only dating and have separate apartments, then he can head home. But if they are living together, then this fellow has a real problem. Bail conditions and then a possible protective or restraining order prevent him from being with her. So he needs to find a new place to live, at least until the charges are resolved. The King of his Castle is no longer allowed into his castle. A feminist name Pence who wrote that was absolutely giddy at that outcome. So he can get his own place if he has enough money. Or he can move in with his mother, his sister or another relative. He might have a girl friend who would let him stay with her. And if none of this is possible, well then I guess he is sleeping in his car down by the river.

If he has minor children, money will soon turn into an issue. Most men I know do not mind paying child support. They want their kids to have food on their plates, clothes on their backs, and a roof over their heads. But it does stress that man’s finances. Child support is usually 33% of the man’s gross income. Withholding for taxes, social security and health insurance can range up to 28% of his gross paycheck. So a man making $500 a week gross has only $825 monthly left over after withholding and child support. That is not enough money for an apartment here in Central Massachusetts. That does not include other expenses like heating, electric, gas, groceries, telephone, cable, car payment and car insurance. So he is in a financial hole. Estimates of homeless men run 82% to 94%. I am going to round that down to 80%.

After the King has left his castle, his wife runs into a problem. She was use to getting his whole paycheck for the household. Now she get a third for child support. Figure they both work and made the same money, her budget went from 100% down to 66%. If she was running the house on $3,045. a month when the King was home, now without him she only has $2,220. Most households in America cannot withstand a 27% hit on the household account. She’ll juggle the bills but eventually most wives figure out that they can pay all the smaller bills if they just does not pay the big bill. That would be the rent or the mortgage. So six to nine months after the King is out of the castle, the Queen, the Princes and the Princesses are also on the street. Domestic violence feminists state that 50% of victim spouses of domestic violence end up homeless at some time in their lives.

The last group of homeless from these arrests are children. The domestic violence feminists state that 70% of domestic violence couple have children. So 50% female times 70% children equals 35%. But children is plural. So we will double to 70%.

(Odd isn’t it? They know that 50% of victim spouses end up homeless and that 70% of them have children. How can they know the percentages when they do not know how many total arrests were made? Those people at the U.S. Justice Dept. cannot even pull off a credible cover-up. )

Men are 0.8, women are 0.5, and children are 0.7 for a grand total of 2.0 homeless Americans for every domestic violence arrest. Multiply that by 36 million and you get 72 million men, women and children ending up homeless at some point in their lives over the last 25 years because of these domestic violence arrests.

That is a really large number even by Washington standards. That is almost 25% of the entire population of the U.S. using 2010 census figures. Which begs the question did these homeless people contribute to this latest economic meltdown, or did they cause it? Because if they did cause it then the recovery will not be measure in months or years but in decades.

Some of the boys in the Father’s Movement think Congress might have shot themselves in the foot over this one. Personally, I think they shot themselves some place anatomically higher. No wonder the Speaker of the House is always crying. The Dummies on the Potomac.

Twenty-five years ago the federal government start pushing these arrests on state’s legal systems. Now, we have an economy on the rope. They have thrown a huge amount of money at banks, big business and local and states government. And we are still in the mud. But no economist either at the Treasury Dept., Federal Reserve, universities or think tanks are even looking at the impact of all these broken families. If that 36 million arrest is correct, then 72 million men and women, have been throw out of the middle class into subsistence living. Or is the number 55 million and 110 million? No one knows and no one is even looking. But why should look? According to the Attorney General, we do not know how many arrests we have made.

And if the Tea Party is any indication, insurrection is brewing in the land. Just a coincident? Not likely. This is what happens when the government wipes out the middle class.

The idea for these arrests came from something called the Minneapolis Police Experiment (MPE) of 1981-82. In the experiment police offices were given pads with one of three words written on them; counsel, send or arrest. Counsel meant the officer was to try to mediate the couple’s spat. Send was to send one of the spouses out of the house for eight hours as a cooling off period. Arrest was arrest one of the two spouses. The officer was to do as the top paper on the pad said to do. The experiment was set up by the Police Foundation and Lawrence W. Sherman was the lead researcher. The results show counseling resulted in a future assault in 24% cases, send was 19%, and the arrest option resulted in a future assault in only 10% of the cases. Perhaps a cheap way of cutting down future domestic violence.

In 1984 The U. S. Attorney General’s Task Force of Domestic Violence recommended arrest as the primary weapon in domestic violence assault. Lawrence W. Sherman recommend not using the arrests because the MPE was just one study and it could be wrong. They ignored him. And by 1992, 93% of the police departments in the nation had adopted some form of mandatory arrest in domestic violence cases.

But by 1992 five more addition studies similar to the MPE became available. Lawrence W. Sherman reviewed all five studies. Then once again he wrote that the police should not use arrest. In two of the five studies, they found the same result as they did in the MPE, that an arrest cut down the odds of a future assault. But in the other three studies an arrest actually increase the odds of a future assault. So arresting someone in a domestic violence situation to cut down on future assaults did not work any better than just flipping a coin. I do not know if Lawrence W. Sherman is still alive. But fortunately he wrote a book call Policing Domestic Violence that was published in 1992.

So we have 800,000 American police officers arresting one in every six adults in the country and throwing 25% of the men, women and children out on the streets in an effort to enforce a policy that they knew did not work back in1992. And I had always assumed that you needed a man to really screw something up. Oh well, there goes another glass ceiling.

Why would they push an arrest policy that does not work? There are two schools of thought on the reason why. The first comes from Lawrence W. Sherman. He calls it the Law of Just Desserts. Revenge for slights and offenses, real or imagined. I am sure there are some that would argue that women are not vengeful. But what is that old saying? Hell hath no fury…..

The second idea comes from the mother of the second wave of feminism. I do speak of the brilliant Betty Friedan. In the Epilogue Chapter of the 20th Anniversary Edition of her book The Feminine Mystique, Betty relayed why she resigned as the first president of the National Organization of Women in 1970. Betty wrote that she, “was unable to openly fight the man haters and unwilling to front for them any more…” So man hating bigots no only existed 40 years ago, they were also grabbing power. Now Washington is funding them. Makes you wonder what bigots they will fund next. Maybe the Klan?

Feminists had always claimed that when women took over, we would have a kinder, gentler, more nurturing world. After 36 million arrests and 72 million evictions what we got was Joe Stalin.

The third wave of feminists do not like to call themselves feminists. The word feminist could be perceived as gender oppression. These third wave of whatever-we-call-you got that right The treachery of our legal system over the last 25 years may end up giving all feminists a bad name. Which would make us as bigoted as the man-hating feminists who got us into this mess to begin with.

So let us talk about those bureaucrats that do. These are the ones that actually carry out the evil deeds. I like call them the do-bies.

Any one swept up into legal mess is usually astonished at what they see. They cannot believe what the police, prosecutors and judges are doing. It is so blatantly wrong. Well, I can assure you that everything they do is logical and by the book. The confusion you have with them is you both are using different sets of books. You are using the old First Set of Books- the Constitution, the general laws or statutes and the court ruling sometime call Common Law. They are using the newer Second Set of Books. That is the collection of the policy, procedures and protocols. Once you know what set of books everyone is using, then everything they do looks logical and upright. And do not bother trying to argue with me that there is no Second Set of Books. I have my own copies at home. Or at least a good hunk of the important part of it.

I got my Second Set of Books when I sued the Jaffrey NH police department. Under the discovery rule, I write them with the material I wanted and it would arrive in the mail a few weeks later. I got the Police Academy Training Manual. I got the Department’s Policy and Procedure Manual. I got the no-drop protocol that the attorney general sent to all his or her prosecutors. I even got the domestic violence protocols for the court system, one hundred pages worth. Once you read it the material, then you will know what the police, prosecutors and judges will do. They are completely predictable once you know what set of books they are using.

The police academy training manual states that an arrest in a domestic violence call is the preferred response. They cite the Minneapolis Police Experiment (MPE) as its justification. But the author of the MPE, Lawrence Sherman, said do not use arrest because five follow up studies show that it did not work. The would be a violation of the 4th Amendment in the First Set of Books against unreasonable search and seizure. Then there is that whole issue of whether the police have the right to arrest for any reason other than they believe a crime was committed.

The Jaffrey Police Department Policy and Procedures Manual states that if a wife says she does not want her husband arrested, the police are to ignore her, arrest the husband, and get with the prosecutor to see what they can work out. In other words, make the arrest and then see if you can Mickey Mouse it. The wife is eligible for spousal immunity. If she invokes it, then no statement she mades, written or oral, are admissible because she cannot be cross examined about it under oath. ( Did you say that? What did you mean when you said that?) With no statements the police have no probable cause in most cases to make an arrest. Also a violation of the 4th amendment in the First Set of Books.

The actor Nickolas Cage was drunk in New Orleans with his wife. Everyone else is drunk in New Orleans, so why should Nick be any different. He and his wife were arguing over which house the rented for their stay. Nick grab his wife’s arm and started to lead her to his house. The police arrested Nick for domestic violence. His wife was stunned. That was not domestic violence. “Nothing we can do,” the police explained to her. “Just following orders.”

That is an accurate explanation for victims, even if they do not think of themselves as victims. The police have a zero tolerance towards any physical contact. Things might get worse in the future is the feminist logical for this present iron fist approach to domestic relations. I would have to agree with them. After all the arrests, poverty, homelessness and misery, I can assure you-things are going to get worse.

But that nothing we can do, just following orders the officers explain always sounds so timid and lame. The police need to punch their explanation up a bit, make it more authoritarian. And there is a quick, low cost way of doing it. The police officers only need to say it in its original German.

The state Constitution in NH said the prosecutors job is to promote justice. The Attorney Generals protocols said that domestic violence case are no-drop cases. (Unless, of course, they take the Deal. Continue the case for a year, go to counseling, and everything falls off the books after the year. They did after all find some way of getting rid of all these cases.)

The Attorney General can hire, fire, layoff, promote, demote, commend or award bonuses. The constitution is some old, quaint, dusty document up in the Statehouse some where. So which one do you think is going to get obeyed?

Prosecutors are funny. Some, maybe most, have egos the size of Cape Cod. But of the three, police, prosecutor and judges, prosecutors have the least protection. Micheal Nifong, the prosecutor in the Duke Lacrosse Rape Case, was fired, disbarred, convicted of a crime, and actually jailed for trying to enforce the no-drop prosecution protocol for sexual assault in the Duke case.

The prosecutor in my criminal case fared a little better. I filed a complaint with his boss for summoning my two daughters, ages 7 and 4, to court. I had already conceded that the facts were not in dispute. The trial would be about the law. No witness were need much less a couple of toddlers. He still summoned them. (The Second Set of Books tells the prosecutors to get a sympathetic face in front of the judge or jury. What’s more sympathetic than toddlers.) The prosecutor could not refute my allegation because I enclosed a copy of the trial transcript. I had to pay for the transcript. When the prosecutor read it, he gave his two weeks notice and then blew town. That transcript was the best $46 I had ever spent in this life.

There is a name for what happens when a bureaucrat is destroyed by the First Set of Books for attempting to enforce the Second Set of Books. It is called the Abu Ghraib Syndrome. The people within the law enforcement community no longer seem to know the difference between the law, with its checks and balances, and the policies, procedure and protocols that constitute The Second Set of Books. In some cases you do not even know who wrote the policy, procedure or protocol. It could have been the local high school gym teacher for all anyone knows. Many of these bureaucrats are eventually going to learn the different between the First and the Second Set of Books. And my guess is that many of them are going to learn it the hard way. Because the only checks and balances in The Second Set of Books is The First Set of Books.

Judges routinely use our children as bargaining chips. Get the adult into counseling, continue the case for a year, and then drop it. This will open up the docket for the new arrests coming in next week. These judges that use our children are not honorable. Which is why I never use the term ‘Your Honor’ any more. I just call them judge.

Alex Baldwin, the actor, wrote that you have never seen a coward until you have seen a Los Angeles County judge. I call my judges-Sullivan, Arnold and even Runyon-cowards, too. When I first started observing them, nothing made sense. Arnold was completely infuriated when he was maneuvered into ruling not guilty. He verbally went up and down me so many times I lost count. What was the big deal? If I was not guilty just say and then we could all go home. But that was back in the days before I knew about The Second Set of Books.

I lost visitation with my two daughters when I got arrested. One was the victim-the other was the witness. After a not guilty, I expected to get visitation with my girls. But the divorce judge, Sullivan, decreed that counseling was in order and they would decide when we would reunite. I told the judge that the decision on whether these two girls had a father or a fatherless childhood was not leaving this courthouse. There would be a couple of reason for that decision.

First, by then I knew of the Second Set of Books. As much as I had prayed for the return of my children, I knew that this counseling might get thrown in the way. Judges are addicted to counseling like a meth-head is addict to crystal meth. Sullivan wrote in the divorce decree that he envision only one or two meetings with the counselor. There is no counseling done in the first meeting or two. It is intake-who’s the players and what are the issues. But Sullivan was not interested in counseling. He merely wanted to unload the decision out of habit. And if we do not shut them down now, they will be doing it to our kids in twenty years from now when they have little ones running around the house.

Second, just exactly where does the buck stop with our legal system? Police have to make an arrest. The prosecutor has to pursue the case. Judges now also walk a away without rendering a verdict, and passing the buck does not constitute a decision. Can those mental health counselors slide the decision over to someone else? Just where does this end? Who is responsible? Who is accountable?

The mental health crowd is the third reason I said no. Some people think they are geniuses with their Masters and PH D’s. Others think they are so wacky that they call them fruit loops. Well, I have a third name for them. Suckers. They did not get hired for their medical ability. They got these because they were willing to take these cases off the judge’s hands. Which has done nothing for the credibility for their profession. We are not here to help-we are here to unload. And they created a liability that did not previously existed. If a judge releases a defendant and he goes kills someone, that judge or the judiciary cannot be sued. But a mental health worker, and their employer certainly can be held liable. Our judiciary is now using the mental health field like a ten dollar whore.

I sued Monadnock Family Services to make them go away. I told their lawyer Byron that they were a legitimate target for men. We settled for no money. They would have nothing to do with this reconciliation. The counselor was released. And they would no longer get involved in any domestic violence cases.

Every time we ended back in court over whatever squabbles, I would ask Judge Sullivan for my children back. The decision belong to the counselors he would tell me. But he knew he had screwed up. I could see it in his face. But he would not fix it. He would not step out of that box those domestic violence/sexual assault advocates had built for him. After five years, he retired to a part time position at the Littleton courthouse 120 miles away.

So when guys like Alex Baldwin and I call judges cowards, we have legitimate reasons for doing so. It is not good for judges to be called coward. It is unlikely that it is good for the rest of us.

I do not claim to have all The Second Set of Book. I know of one book that I do not have. And I would have love to read that one. That would be the seminar that the domestic violence and sexual assault advocates put on periodically for legal personnel including judges. These advocates are camped outside every state, not federal, courthouse in America. The U.S. Dept of Justice provides 50-100% of their funding depending on the program. They have three day seminars at resorts where everything is paid for except the liquor. Judges in NH are ordered to attend. Neither Sullivan or Arnold would confirm or deny they had attended. They actually said nothing. It must be like the Masons where they will not say anything about the organization until you show them the secret hand sign.

Supreme Court Judge Louis Brandeis once wrote that the best description of a judge is the impartial guardian of the rule of law. How does three days of wine, women and song contribute to impartiality? It does not. So it should not have been any surprise that they would not answer me. After all, they were not on trial. I was. But they are going to be. They were suppose to protect to rule of law not collaborate in its demise. They have failed miserably.

A guardian ad litem is an attorney appointed for a child. The attorney solely represents the child. I got one when I was first separated to get a neutral pair of eyes and ears on the family. I was disappointed in his findings.

A few years later, another guardian was appointed for one of the kids. A regular report filed with the Court painted me as some sort violent psychopath. I thought that was uncalled for seeing as we had never met. It start a flurry of nasty letters between until we both came to the conclusion that this was not about us. We ended on a friendly note.

At a Court hearing later on I approached him. I asked him if he had had any domestic violence training. He said yes, that it was required to become certified as a guardian ad litem. Another chapter for The Second Set of Books that I never managed to acquire.. So men, if you were thinking about getting a guardian ad litem for an unbiased assessment, then you should ask for the domestic violence material that certified the guardian. And do not worry that you are not sure what you are looking for. It will stand right out.

There are more sections of The Second Set of Books. Medical personnel are supposed to report suspected domestic violence. The college professor Angela Davis has a story of a Latino couple in California getting in trouble feeding the dog his liver for dinner. Mental health employees are also required. Think of Wendy threatening our kids with foster care. Teachers, day care providers, the list just goes on and on. The East German secret police, the Stazi, had 25% of the population on record as informers. The United States is not that high yet, but we are still growing.

These people-police, prosecutors and judges-are suppose to protect us. They are checks and balances to prevent injustice. That is why we spend so much money of police training. But if the police screw it up, the prosecutor can catch it. If the prosecutor misses it then the judge can step in to fix it. But if all three have been compromised, then what does one need to do to get justice? Go to the appeals court or the Supreme Court? That seem a little ridiculous particularly when the zero tolerance has arrests for something as trivial as touching.

On one hand we have the law. On the other hand we have what we are really going to do-the policies, procedures and protocols. The rule of law is dead. Now we have 50 states with legal systems as good as any third world banana republic. Men are demonized and the women and children end up as suffering as well.

So boys, we need to start burning down police stations and courthouses. The Second Set of Books originated in Washington. But the dirty deeds are being carried out by our local police, prosecutors and judges. These are the people we pay good money to protect us and our families. And what do we get for our tax money? Collaborators who are no different than the Vichy of France or the Quislings of Norway during the Second World War. All because they go along to get along. They are an embarrassment, the whole lot of them. And they need to be held accountable. So burn them out.

In the last 25 years they have arrested one in six adults in this country and forced 25% of the men, women and children into homelessness. In 50 years it will be one in three adults arrested and 50% of the men, women and children ending up homeless. Most of our kids will live to the age of 68 years old. As bad as it was for you, your children will have twice the odds of it happening to them.

Some of you will say that 50% homelessness sounds absurd. But 25% is absurd and that is already here. There is no evidence that the police, courts, or government is planning to do anything different in the immediate future. And they will not do anything different until we make it so uncomfortable that they must change. Bureaucracy at its worst. So burn them out. This is too important to be using that touchy-feeling coaching that is so popular with business these days. You need to flatten them, like Wile E. Coyote. They need to be taught never to replace the rule of law. BURN-THEM-OUT!

Most of the police stations built in New England over the last 20 years are stone or brick. Fortunately, the roofs are still wood. The advantage of fire on the roof is that it is above the sprinklers. But even the sprinklers going off work to our advantage. There is no way they can work in a building with six inches of water. And I am certain we will disrupt their momentum once they start working out of a FEMA trailers. If they still do not get the message, then burn down the trailers.

The easiest way of burning a building is with the Molotov c~~~tail. It was invented by the Finns when the Soviets invaded in 1939. You fill a bottle with gasoline and stuff a rag in the end for a wick. You light the wick and throw bottle, It shatters on impact spraying gas everywhere and the wick ignites the gas. Simple, readily available, and effective. And only two things to remember.

First, use a glass bottle. Thinner glass is better than thicker glass. You want it to shatter on impact. When I was teaching a kid at the high school on the West Side Worcester, MA. threw a Molotov c~~~tail into his school. Fortunately, he used a plastic bottle. It burned about three square inches of carpeting. I had to laugh when I said to myself, “Thank God for dumb kids.”

Second, you need to tie the rag to the bottle. Nothing worse that throwing a Molotov c~~~tail, landing where you wanted it, and having it shatter perfectly. Then you noticed the wick had fallen out on the way to the target. No wick-no fire.

Some of these building will have brick faces and metal roofs. Just break a window and throw the Molotov c~~~tail inside. Carpets, furniture, computer plastic, even paint on the walls will burn. It is okay if the sprinkler goes off. I wonder if you can get hip waders over a gun belt?

We had a kid in my hometown that burned down the old junior high school. He walked up to the front door one night with a can of lighter fluid. The applicator on the end squirts the lighter fluid out. He squirted under the door and along the seams and lit a match. The kid took out the entire old part of the building. Why are kids so competent when it is something they should not be doing?

There will be some casualties in this war. Some killed, some wounded, some captured. Some of them will be theirs. Some of the casualties will be ours.

Now, nobody wants to get killed. But let us look at your life. You are broke after paying child support. She and the kids are not doing any better. None of you are middle class any more. You have no say in the kids education, their health treatment, you may not even have visitation with your sons and daughters. And everything you thought you knew to be true-the rule of law, the sanctity of the of the family, the belief that government was there to nurture your brood-all turned out to be a lie. Face it boys, we are no longer fathers. We are just piggy banks.

So you are not losing anything by picking up the Molotov c~~~tail. It may be too late for us. But without something changing, your kids will have double the odds of it happening to them. That will knock them out of the middle class again, providing they ever get back in. And their kids, your grandchildren, will end up damaged goods before it is over. So it is okay to run. You just need to turn around and run at them. They are no way as imposing as they seem. They only do what they do for a paycheck.

Television would make us believe that people get arrested because of fingerprints, DNA, facial recognition, and instruments that can tell where a substance was made and here is the local distributors. It is Hollywood crap. Most of the people in prison are there for one key reason. They could not keep their mouths shut. They told someone. That someone told others. The cops hear it and start looking at them for a suspect. That how it works in real life.

This need to confess seems to be primeval. Just human nature. But if you cannot keep a secret, do not expect the one you tell to keep their mouth shut. There is only three people I know for certain they will keep their mouths shut. That would be Jesus, Mary and Joseph.

I only managed to get the main door of the Cheshire County Courthouse in Keene, NH. I would appreciate it if some of you boys would finish the job for me. They harmed my children. The place is evil. So take it out

Some where along the line I picked up the crazy notion that it is better to be dead as a free man than to live as a serf. The government needs to be a little more careful about what they teach in our schools.

And bring a can of spray paint to these fires. Paint the word COLLABORATORS ( two L’s with an S on the end) on the building before you burn it. Maybe we can shame them back to the rule of law. And we do want the police to know exactly who burned the building. Then the police can start interviewing the usually suspects, all 36 million of us.

We have covered the do-bies. Now let us look at the bureaucrats that say-ers.

The Second Set of Books originated in Office of Violence Against Women (OVW) which is part of the United States Department of Justice. Some of these policies, procedures and protocol were developed locally. But the local results would be sent up to OVW and, if approved, would disperse it out to all 50 states. They are smart, clever, bigoted and able to lie as well as any politician that ever called Washington home. In other words, they have now become Washington insiders.

But what makes them so uniques is their anger towards men, any man. They are so twisted in their hatred of men that they are positively scary. And it is not what they are doing to men that makes them frightening. You would expect that. No, it is what they are doing to the women and children that makes them so twisted.

When the Pentagon drops a bomb on innocent civilians the military calls it Collateral Damage. It sounds better than, “Yeah, we killed a bunch of women and children.” Those poor, innocent, stupid civilians have always been caught in the middle since the time we were fighting with rocks.. Your wife and kids are Collateral Damage in the war against you, the man in the family. For 25 years these feminists at OVAW have been willing to sacrifice the women and children to get you. And they cannot claim ignorance about what they are doing. Under the VAWA the federal government is funding at least 1,800 homeless shelters. As long as the Office for Violence Against Women exists in the U.S. Department Justice , no American man, women or child will be safe in their own home.

If you ask these feminists why are the shelters all full, they will not say because of all the arrests. The shelters are full because of men. But they knew from the beginning that this was not man bad-woman good thing. The year was 1976. Two things would happen that year.

First, someone at the U.S. Dept of Justice decided to count the dead bodies. In 1975 there were 1522 women killed in domestic violence. And for men killed in 1975? The dead for men was 1506. Statistically equal a friend tells me so.

If you had asked me before the study, I would have assumed that women were getting the worst of it. But I would be looking at it by genders. What I should have been looking at was species, homo-sapiens, human beings. Men are human-women are human. Being the same species you would expect the same results from both genders. And that is exactly what the dead bodies told us.

The second thing that happened in 1976 was the first domestic violence survey was released. It was so new the time that they called it family violence. Murray Straus of UNH and Richard Gellars from a school in RI were the researchers. They did not find two perpetrators of domestic violence, but three. Men initiated violence 25.7% of the time: women 25.2%, and the other 49.1% was the two going after each at the same time. These two people going after each other at the same time is well recognized in law. The law in NH calls that mutual combat. Men are human. Women are human. And once again we found both genders acting the same manner.

So how did we end up with the theory of man bad-woman good that the government at all levels is using? The feminist writer Susan Brownmiller wrote In Our Time that,” the way you get funding and church donations is to talk about the pure victims. If you talk about the impurity of the victim, the sympathy vanishes.” If women get to be good then men get what is left-bad. Man bad-woman good was originally a funding raising technique. After 35 years, it has turned into official government dogma at all levels, from the local cop on the beat to the White House. Men need to be punished, restrained and retrained. Your wives and children are, unfortunately, just collateral damage in this effort to punish men. So you were not dreaming it. There really is a government pogrom against men.

When a man batters or kills, there is no excuse. When a woman commits the same act, there is nothing but excuses. Simple though inaccurate. But there is one redeeming aspect to men being demonized. Now we men can act like devils. And we do not even need to apologize for it. Men are going to start acting just like they made us out to be. As an old high school semi-punk I can assure you boys of one thing. This is going to be fun. You guys are going to end up laughing like hyenas.

The money funded under the VAWA is split in two when it leaves the Treasury. Part goes the Health and Human Services for fund these domestic violence homeless shelters. If that 36 million number is correct, and it is all that we have, then the 1.44 million arrests a year will be made producing 2.88 million homeless Americans each year. Women and children constitute 60% of these homeless people, 1.7 million Americans a year. Shutting down these shelters would be cruel. What would these women and children do then? Go live under a bridge. No, we are stuck with these shelters for a while. But there is one thing that Congress needs to fix when they fund them again.

These shelters do not allow men on the property let alone inside the residences. Why is it against the law to use federal money on organizations that discriminate against black, Jews, gays or even women but it is okay to do so against men? Men contributed half that tax money. Eight years ago a man in California fled with his children after the police warned him to get out after they had arrested the wife and mother. None of the shelters would take him and the kids in because he was a man. I wonder if this would survive a legal gender discrimination challenge in a federal court?

A society without men is freakier than a world without blacks or Jews. That is not to say blacks or Jews are any less worthy. It just that there are more men in the world than blacks or Jews even if you combined them. If these feminist had to deal with men on a regular basis, then maybe the country would not be in the pickle we are in now.

There is a third reason to end this discrimination, something of a more practical nature. Apparently, some women like to have sex with men. But men are barred from the property. Suddenly, that 15 year boy two doors down starts looking real good. It might even be fun breaking in this new meat. So this woman driven into insolvency by the push for domestic violence arrests now finds herself charged as a pedophile because someone barred men from her world. With domestic violence advocates as friends, who needs enemies.

This shelters came up with a novel approach to fixing the pedophile problem. Male children over the age of thirteen are barred from staying there. Too troublesome. The family broke up when the father was thrown out of the house. Now a second break up is happening with the teenage boys. Perhaps a relative has one bed available. Maybe the family of a high school friend would take him in their home. If neither option works then that is okay. He can move in with his father. Then they will both be sleeping in the car down by the river.

Children of these parents also suffer. They used to have their own bedroom in a safe town with good schools. First they have a shelter, then Section 8 public housing. An urban school. Maybe good-maybe not. Kids learn how to be tough in an urban environment. The kids might go bad or they could come out just fine. But there will be no clunky car as a teenager. There will be no saving fund for college. There will be no monetary gift to use as a down payment for a starter home. This tradition of the older generation giving the younger generation a financial leg up has been ruin due to the older generation’s lack of money. Financially, the older generation is merely treading water. It will take generations after these present two generations to repair the economic damage to these families.

So we are stuck with funding these shelters for a while. These women and children have no place left to go. Some of you guys may think that these feminist caused the problem and then created the solution. But homeless shelters are not a solution. They are just barely a band aid.

The remaining money under VAWA goes to the United States Department of Justice for the Office of Violence Against Women (OVW). As long as OVW exists then the government is at war with men. As long as there is a pogrom against men, then women and children are going to end up as collateral damage. So there is no need for discussion about OVW going. The only thing we need to figure out is which of the two ways we can use to get rid of them-the easy way or the hard way.

And boys, do not try to burn down Washington’s Dept. of Justice Building in an effort to get rid of the Office of Violence Against Women. Their offices are over at N Street.

The easy way is using Congress. The VAWA comes up for funding every five to seven years. Next time it comes up, Congress votes no and everyone at the OVW gets a pink slip in late September. Nice and simple except nothing is simple in Washington. We, the people out here in the sticks, do not always know what the dynamics are in Washington. There might be one method of getting Congress on course. Have Congress demand that the Attorney General get, and release the arrests figures. Or have the President order it. He is usually fearless after he makes up his mind. And this is too large and too well known to continue the Washington plausible deniable routine. Then they will know how much trouble they are in because of these arrests.

There are 220 million adults 18 or older in this country of both sexes. If my figure of 36 million is correct, then that is 16.4% of the adults have been arrested. It could be as high as 55 million or 25%. It might be as low as 22 million or 10%. Whatever the number there are two things that Congress should know. First, is the fellow who discovered the arrests in Minneapolis back in 1992 said do not use it because it does not work. And second, the people arrested now constitute a Fifth Column here in the United States. Our loyalty to Washington is gone. But what did these genuises on the Potomac expect? They have harmed our children. If they think Al Qaeda is a pain in the ass, wait to they see what Americans can do once their fuse is lit.

I am certain the Attorney General will sit for months on the request for the number of domestic violence arrests. Then he will explain that they do not readily have the number and that some sort of Manhattan Project effort will be needed in time and money. Nonsense. When Washington started these arrests in 1984 over 6.3 personal computers were sold here in the U.S. That figure does not include all the mini’s, midi’s and mainframe computers sold that year. There is no way they can pretend that this data does not exist in electronic storage. A request to Ohio for the arrests 1984-2010 would tie up a state clerk for an hour, including their 15 minute coffee break. Time for the truth boys and girls. Because this is not going away.

The hard way is more time consuming, cost more money and is full of headaches. Because the only way of removing a department from the federal government without the consent of Congress is to take out the entire federal government.

The first time I heard that, I said that is ridiculous. We cannot run this country without a federal government. But we will replace the old government with something new and improved. The new government would honor the debts incurred by the old government. There are a lot of useful reasons for starting with a clean slate.

The bipartisan debt commission released their recommendation for cleaning up the $14 trillion we have borrowed over the years. Convention wisdom has it that Congress has no stomach for any of the recommendations.

But a new government could install those recommendation on day one. Three years later, most Americans will not remember that anything is different. The old government laid off its employees when it closed. The new government is hiring. But instead of 65,000 employees at the Dept. of Education, the new government is only hiring 45,000. Instead of an average federal wage of $70,000 a year, the new average will be $52,000. The new government will have to write a tax code. Everyone pays 15% with no deductions. How many IRS employees could you get rid of if there were no more deductions? Any thing is possible with a new government.

Normally over-throwing a elected government is considered treason. Treason is punishable by death here in the United States. But there is one way of over throwing the government. That is through the ballot box. Then it is not treason but democracy. Allegedly, Washington is in favor of democracy, particularly if their candidate wins.

There is no legal mechanism in the Constitution or the Federal code of the United States for dissolving the government of the United States. So that is what we need first. Congress would need to write it. We get them to do it through the ballot initiative.

A ballot initiative is when enough registered voters sign a petition to get a question on the ballot for the next election. The following would be a sample of what the question would look like in New Hampshire.

That all elected representatives from the state of New Hampshire to both houses of the United States Congress are to propose and advance a bill that would set up a legal mechanism to dissolve the United States government should the people decide to do so in a general election by a simple majority.

If this initiative passes in all 50 states then Congress will be stuck. They will have to write the law to dissolve. If they do not I suspect within ten years they will be standing in a stairwell at the British or French embassy with a suitcase in hand waiting to get to a rooftop helicopter. I doubt if they will be thinking about the humiliation of being thrown out of the country. They will be far too busy worrying about what will happen if the mob gets their hands on them.

Washington has not got a friend in the world. Even the British and Israelis loath them now. Kind of a bad time to be losing domestic support. And what they done over the last 25 years? They have wiped out the middle class pandering to a special interest group of bigots. And in typical Washington fashion, they did not even know they did it.

This Ivy League inbreeding in Washington has produced an elite that knows what best. Everyone else-husbands, wives, police officers, prosecutors, judges, attorney generals and guardian ad litems-are to shut up and do what they are told. The rule of law is gone, replaced by the policies, procedures and protocols of The Second Set of Books. Which means the federal government will be going shortly. For the government being unable to deliver the rule of law is like an auto mechanic who claims he does not know how to change the engine oil. A certain minimum competency is required. So it looks like the parents of the Washington elite were right. One can be too smart for their own good.

Betty Friedan wrote that the feminist revolution, like any revolution, would have its excesses. Losing the rule of law is too great to call it a mere excess. It is a catastrophe. It is the heart, mind and soul between the people and their government. These feelings of betrayal by losing it may be permanent. I have 21 years of Army service going back to the Vietnam War. My loyalty to the government should be a given. It is gone. I am certain it will never return regardless of how long I might have lived.

It was another woman that lead us in to this decision to clean house inside the beltway. Something she taught us fifty years ago. You simply look at those folks in Washington and then ask yourself the old Ann Landers question, “Am I better off with them, or without them? Are my children better off with them, or without them?” They are sinking like stones.

Washington, DC was chose as the capital because it was the geographical center or the old Colonies. Today, the geographical center of the country is just west of St. Louis Missouri. The new government can set the capital anywhere in the United States it wants. Imagine how many rodents, insects and parasites they could lose by moving 1500 miles west.

Whether you replace the federal government or not, men are still going to need a legal defense center for men. Something like the NAACP used to get black people their rights. The only checks and balances in the Second Set of Books is the First Set of Books. Which means lawsuits. Now I know you guys are broke. Some of you have had your wives and kids thrown into homelessness. So I completely understand when you tell me that you are broke. But if everyone who has been arrested throws in $10.00 a year then the legal defense center will have a war chest of $360 million. You can buy a whole bunch of lawsuit with that kind of money.

The Ball family has been supplying sergeants to the Army since at least the Revolutionary War. Elijah served as a sergeant in Cushing’s Regiment at the Battle of Bennington. His commanding officer was a general from NH with a name of John Stark. General Start was a clever warrior. He was responsible for the bulk of the heavy casualties the British suffer at their victory at Bunker Hill. His orderly, fighting withdrawal allowed the other units on the hill to not only retreat but collect their wounded on the way out.

General Stark would repeat this performance on three hill tops outside the village of Bennington VT one hot August day in 1777. At the end of the battle, the British lost over 900 men killed or captured. The Colonists suffered 30 dead. Two months later, the depleted British army would surrender at Saratoga. That victory at Saratoga would bring the French into the war. John Stark was the most competent general this country ever produced. For that reason alone his men loved him.

But as brilliant as he was on the battlefield, General Stark would become even more famous for something he said. In 1809 the veterans of Bennington decided to have one last reunion. A delegation called on the General with his invitation. But the General was old and frail. He could not attend. But he did send a message, “You tell the boys I said live free or die. That death is not the worst of evil.” Since 1945 the State of New Hampshire has stamped Live Free or Die on every pen, coffee mug, license plate and highway sign that they have gotten their hands on.

I think the General and his sergeant would be please that his words have elevated from the novelties and bric-a-brac to something more dignified like a courthouse door. Neither of them would give a second thought to the mess left over after the fire was extinguished. War has always been a grim business. Civil wars are usually worse.

But they would be trouble by the new enemy. Oh, they understood when a government betrays it people. They took up arms against the super power of their day to get relief for their grievances. But the enemy we face now is the government that these men birthed at places like Bennington, Saratoga and Bunker Hill. Government is no different than the food in a refrigerator. Given enough time both will go bad.

The smartest person I knew in this life was my mother. Perhaps that is true of all of us. Maybe I just got lucky. She was a nurse by trade. She worked in a time when Western medicine made that final transition from butchery to science. But it would not be her nursing skills that made her extraordinary. No, it would be this one incredible knack she had that I had only modest success at mimicking in my life. If she had something important to say to you, she would say and then never mention it again. She would talk about it if you raised the issue. But she never mentioned it twice on her own. And, oddly, you always heard her.

But she did have one favorite saying. I must have heard in a thousand times in the eighteen years I lived under her roof. It always came at the end of the conversation as she peeled away to see if it was time for Perry Mason or Lawrence Welk. She would turn her head to the side, and over her shoulder she would say, “And the only thing you really have in this world is your family.” Now, thanks to the United States Government, neither we nor our children have that.

. I have three things to say to my children. First, Daddy loves you. Second, you are my three most favorite people in the world. And last, that you are to stick together no matter how old you get or how far apart you live. Because it is like Grandma always said. The only thing you really have in this world is your family.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[BeerParticipant]

The thing with the union gigs is they are all about seniority. I have a buddy who is a union carpenter with roughly 25 years in, and he’s got it made. He’s pretty much one of the top dogs in his local so he gets first pick of all the jobs that come up, and he can use his unemployment like months worth of paid vacation each year if he staggers his jobs correctly. A job can end, he gets “laid off,” then he can turn down the next 10 jobs if he wants while still collecting unemployment. Its actually disgusting what he gets with…

If you can get up near the top its amazing, but if not then yeah…it isn’t all that great, and really it comes down to timing. Just for example, I was on a 6 man seniority list at my last job. I spent the first 8 years on the bottom. When we finally had a guy retire and I moved up a spot, they hired another guy below me. That guy lasted about a year and a half and quit. They replaced him with another guy. Over the next year we had a guy retire, a guy switch jobs within the company to a non-union position, and a guy get hurt who ended up settling and going on disability. Took me over 10 years to be the #3 guy in the lineup, then I left for a different job and the guy below me who was there for a year bumped up to #3.

Definitely right about the injuries though. I’ve seen way too many guys get hurt and have to stop working 5-10 years before planned just because they couldn’t physically do it anymore. What’s even worse than that is the younger guys who get hurt…they end up having to go another 30 years or whatever with a f~~~ed up back or a screwed up knee. New employers won’t hire you if you have obvious signs of injury, and if you get hurt at a new job they’re going to claim it was pre-existing, only you won’t be able to go back after the old employer anymore at that point because you’ve already settled or because they’ll be claiming it was unrelated. Its an ugly clusterf~~~ that always ends up with an injured dude going months with no money and when he finally gets something, its after a lawyer takes their cut. I’m glad I’m not a desk jockey at this point in my life, but at the same time I’m glad I’m not doing hard labor or repetitive or heavy lifting anymore either.

Hey Gents,

Hows things everyone? Hope everyone is coping in this bulls~~~ misandrist PC pussy ‘you can’t do/say that’ world?

I finally got a new job after being out of work for almost 2 years due to the c~~~ that is depression, and two failed miserable relations~~~s that almost killed me from stress and misery.

Its for a wank security company who pay minimum wage despite the responsibilities and risks involved. Currently im working 12 hour shifts 4/5 on and 3 off at the airport. I work in one of them toll booth huts (lol) and check entering vehicle ID’s then press a green button to let them in hahahaha. Thats IT.

It’s long hours, but its relaxing, i can watch movies, read a book etc, and the time actually flies believe it or not. I only have a port-a-loo to s~~~ in so i have to sneak off in my car and use the mcdonalds bogs near by for my number 2s. Have you guys ever used a port-a-loo? F~~~ that lol.

I always imagine something horrific crawling out from underneath through the hole and biting my ass. The thought alone terrifies me haha.

But you know what? It’s so peaceful there. Yeh you hear planes taking off here and there (its not that busy there) and helicopters flying over, but i like watching them. I’m wokring alone, no c~~~ is breathing down my neck, and im treated like a f~~~ing adult. I am enjoying the autonomy very much.

I think im only contracted to work at the airport for a month, which sadens me, as i am content there. For some reason on sunday they have me wokring at the university campus doing night shift which ive done before. That consists of walking around all night with a torch but i proper slack off and sit down all the time hahaahha.

I do not enjoy working at the university campus during the day. There is so much nice pussy that i just cant get rid of the urge to f~~~ them. Even tho im red pill, im a man and have a c~~~. This is bound to happen no matter who you are.

The place also brings feelings of despair and self loathing. Weird s~~~ to do with my past, realising im 32 and nowhere in life and seeing people studying etc which i never did.

But then again i had no interest in going to uni or college. all i ever wanted to do was be in a metal band and make films.

I never wanted to do security again in my life, but it was the only job offered to me, so what the hell. I’m enjoying being at the airport because i have peace and quiet (away from c~~~s and wankers at the workplace.) Hearing roaring planes is so much more preferable to a womans abusing cake hole.

I’m still sleeping in my car but its so much better than living with a woman or other people. I do intend to rent a room but the prices are a p~~~ take. $200 a week plus expenses? F~~~ right off. New Zealand is a rip off s~~~hole. (I bet you’re thinking what? New Zealand a s~~~hole? But…but…Lord of the Rings…mountains…paradise…wtf? I’ve seen it on tv, what you’re saying is bulls~~~!) And thats the propaganda you are being fed from immigration nz. Come live here for 2 years. I bet my life you will f~~~ing hate it and want to leave.

So, im employed on minimum wage, but its a start. I hope nothing happens for me to lose this job. It’s all i can manage. Working on my own is vital to my sanity and coping.

Anyone else here like working alone?