Done with Family

[Bestieboy666Participant 2358]

Hey guys, hope you’re all well.
When my Father passed away a little over 3 years ago I was left with an entire Family of females. Mum, 3 sisters, 4 nieces, 2 great nieces. Although I gave up with relationships many years ago I always tried to the right thing with family. Blood is thicker than water as they say. That’s bulls~~~ in reality.
I visited one sister last night and another sister and 2 nieces were there as well. They’d all decided to join a gym and were basically ranting on about that and asked why I don’t go. I’ve had a frozen shoulder for 3 years (thankfully almost back to full range of movement) and said I’ll be starting some light weight training in the near future. They all chipped in.
“Frozen shoulder?”
“Yes that problem I’ve had for 3 years. Remember? Where I couldn’t move my left arm above my head or behind my back at all for the first year.” I’m thinking WTF are you really that cut off from my well being.
“Oh yeah” one Niece says.
“I had to be careful not to force my arm and just do very light exercise and stretches. I told you all this before!”
“That’s rubbish.” said one sister. “Someone at the gym had a shoulder problem and he still does weights. You should try it”
“He can’t have had the same problem, or at least less restrictive. Its not about moving weights. I couldn’t even more my arm past a certain point.”
“Well you’re wrong.”
“Really. So the advice from my doctor, physio and a few trips to the hospital was all wrong then?”
“Why’s it all about you?”
“Errr. Eh”
It escalated from here where all 4 of them appeared to have been hijacked into the Borg collective and just started verbally attacking me. Their accusations and attempts at shaming me were nothing short of astounding. Have you been in a position where people are so uncontrollable that nothing will stop them. If I’d insisted that water was wet they would’ve disagreed with me. The misandry coming out their mouths made me want to throw up. F~~~ them. I’m done.
They continued for a few minutes and I calmly stood and walked to the door. I looked back at one sister.
“The next time you want me to take care of your pets when you go on holiday, you can f~~~ off. Tell Mum the same thing.” The next Sister.
“The next time you want free rides because your car keeps breaking down, you can f~~~ off.” One Niece.
“The next time you want me to babysit so you can find a new c~~~ to jump on, you can f~~~ off.” Next Niece.
“You are the most disappointing, after all the countless things I’ve done for you over the years, you can f~~~ off.”
“We’re done here forever”
I walked out and can you believe they were all laughing. Blood may be thicker than water but my resolve to never do anything for them again is thicker.

Women are so bad, if they changed the law so I kept the house, I still wouldn't marry one. I'd rather be homeless.

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Good good-bye, brother! I’m appalled with their lack of empathy, but should we have expected anything else?

One of them will probably call you within a week and demand you help them out with something.

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[007 (Reborn)Participant 1672]

I am disenfranchised from my family too. Had a horrible time with them on my bday yesterday. The road to mgtow is a long and treacherous one.

Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

007 (Reborn) wrote:

I am disenfranchised from my family too. Had a horrible time with them on my bday yesterday. The road to mgtow is a long and treacherous one.

Happy birthday, brother! Feel like telling us what happened?

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[Anonymous 42]

Thank the spirit of feminism that inundates their hearts and souls, these women and all modern women are destroyed by this disease. They have no idea the plague they bring upon themselves in biblical proportions as MGTOW philosophy counteracts 150 years of feminism and gynocentrism.

You may as well say they’ve formed a chasm between the genders that now runs eternally deep. I know I will never be the fool again that tries to bridge a connection.

F~~~em, let their cats eat them.

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

I feel you Bestie. About 3 years ago my eldest (and only) brother had died. Our relationship, whilst not the greatest, was okay for the most part. We were as men were, while we are apart, we do our thing, when we meet again, it’s usually a blast. Beer, Sushi, Gym, trading war stories (I then in the military, he a police officer). Like I said, not the greatest, but we made do.

Now unfortunately my five younger sisters as well as my mother, proved to do as women do. Keep up petty, incessant, nonsensical drama. And for a minute, they had came between the two of us. Now, being how as I know a thing or two about appreciation for life (a few tours of combat will make you come to terms with your mortality), I often insisted for them to try to peace keep where possible, as you never know when our card with get punched. Sure as s~~~ they never listened. And after my brother passed, everyone wanted to “come together” and be family.

F~~~ that noise. Truth is brother, sometimes, family will be the first to screw you over, because they are comfortable around you, and believe they know your character. And given the degree of help it sounds like you’ve provided, the only thing they will be sorry about is losing the opportunity to bleed you dry of time and resources. I for one watched as they did that to my brother and I REFUSE to be anyone’s crutch.

Don’t feel bad. You don’t have to hate them, but you don’t have to save them either. Sometimes absence is the only thing women understand.

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[Anonymous 42]

Binary Logic wrote:

Sometimes absence is the only thing women understand.

Sometimes? Not modern women, no no, absence is mandatory for modern man’s SURVIVAL!

Pinless grenades? NO THANKS!

[007 (Reborn)Participant 1672]

Nerevar wrote:

007 wrote:

I am disenfranchised from my family too. Had a horrible time with them on my bday yesterday. The road to mgtow is a long and treacherous one.

Happy birthday, brother! Feel like telling us what happened?

Seeing my brother enslaved on my 23rd b-day

Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

[Jeremiah JohnsonParticipant 2219]

Happy b-day 007…Very well said Binary….I have family issues f~~~ing galore BestieBoy…My father passed in 2007, and it is just my mother, sister, and myself…So I know how that is…My only difference here is that I wrote my sister off YEARS AGO…Worthless and that is all I can say about her…My mother, if you have not read any of my posts, is a very controlling, narcissistic, sadistic, drama f~~~ing queen, with a very low IQ and absolutely no control over her emotions in any way shape or form…And let me not forget the recent bout of Münchhausen Syndrome she has recently contracted, (where she is mimicking her severely disabled new husband that has Parkinson’s and trying to mimic me with my Ankylosing Spondylitis) If your unfamiliar with Münchhausen, it is a FAKE disease…Where in the person is faking symptoms to get attention…That is my mother in a nutshell…F~~~ing Literally…anyway…I hope in sharing that little nugget of goodness you can at least feel a little better about your boat…As far as you writing them ALL off I say good riddance to all of them brother…Do not look back either…As far as blood being thicker, not in this life I have not seen such, however, I have heard of such families, just never met one…At least, not to my knowledge…Does not make it so, just not as common as the saying is….Be strong brother…It sounds to me like you already KNOW what’s what, and you already have done the right thing in telling them off…I would not put it passed them to confront you multiple times in the near future, but I would let slide off me like Teflon brother, and just let that s~~~ hit the floor and leave it there….Hang in there and stay strong, you are doing the right thing brother…

Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Bestieboy666 wrote:

I always tried to the right thing with family. Blood is thicker than water as they say. That’s bulls~~~ in reality.

Don’t hesitate to cut the bad/negative s~~~ out of your life. Don’t buy that blood is thicker than water bulls~~~. It’s not a one way street. Family is apparently so important that these c~~~s don’t even care about your wellbeing. Drop them, and walk the f~~~ away dude. I did. Family or not, no s~~~ty people in y life.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Anonymous 43]

go your own way sometimes means walking away from family.

sometimes family walks away from you.

everything will be alright, everyone will find their own equilibrium eventually.

for you will find peace. for them, they will find someone else who will put up with their bulls~~~.

[Bestieboy666Participant 2358]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

Bestieboy666 wrote:

I always tried to the right thing with family. Blood is thicker than water as they say. That’s bulls~~~ in reality.

Don’t hesitate to cut the bad/negative s~~~ out of your life. Don’t buy that blood is thicker than water bulls~~~. It’s not a one way street. Family is apparently so important that these c~~~s don’t even care about your wellbeing. Drop them, and walk the f~~~ away dude. I did. Family or not, no s~~~ty people in y life.

That should be a MGTOW slogan!
As bad as things can get, a few reads on here, a few new topics started and everything seems to make sense again. I took the red pill a long time ago, so I’m usually cool most of the time, but is infuriating how that one pill gets trapped in your teeth every now and again.
Take care guys and thank you.

Women are so bad, if they changed the law so I kept the house, I still wouldn't marry one. I'd rather be homeless.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Well done.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[JimBoLeaParticipant 1891]

OHHHHHHH I CAN JUST SEE THE ESTROGEN DRIPPING OFF THE WALLS .
HAVING BEEN RAISED WITH 3 STEP SISTERS AND A RAGING STEP MOTHER WHO DRANK BOXED WINE AND POPPED PAIN PILLS LIKE M&M’S . I COMMEND YOU FOR TURNING TOWARDS THEM AND TELLING THEM LIKE IT IS. AND THE WAY IT’S GOING TO BE!
BUT WITH KIN, UGH TIME TENDS TO SOFTEN VERBAL BLOWS.

STAY STRONG!!!

LILITH IS THE HEAD SUCCUBUS AND SHE LIVES ON THE DARK SIDE OF THE MOON

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Beastie-
Well done brother.
I personally found that I was closer to my friends than I was to my family.
I only have people in my life who add value, including family. I interact with family only if they are polite and civil and respectful.
Again, well-played.

[Anonymous 3]

They were laughing because they don’t actually believe you will stop being exploited and don’t even care about you at all in the first place.

Their words are the words of people that do not care for the person they are speaking to. It’s just constant attacks and putdowns, and telling them what to do.

It’s not unique to them, as it’s all women. But some women at least try to hide it better and lay off when a man is getting more frustrated with it. Unless they really, really hate that man and don’t have a tiny bit of respect for him.

[AttonParticipant]

Stick by it that is all that matters.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[VarunParticipant 2981]

They probably thought you were p~~~ed off for the moment, and gonna forget everything till next morning.

The question remains, can you really tell them to f~~~ off when the time comes?

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[SolidParticipant 7520]

Good one brother !

Feminism + easy life + no real problems + being a c~~~ + too much free time = that !
This is the final equation that answer to these behaviour !

[OldBillParticipant]

While I applaud you finally shedding the c~~~s in your life, I wonder why you felt the need to add to the drama. While passionate exit speeches are fine on TV or in the movies, in life they’re nothing but a waste of time and will be misunderstood by the recipient.

You don’t owe those c~~~s anything and you most certainly didn’t owe them an explanation. You should have stood up, collected you coat, made a few noncommittal comments, and walked out the door to never be seen again.

Be well, brother, and enjoy your journey.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

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