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Ok, so I wanted to make a post to explain my belief and definition of patriarchy and gynocentrism. If you have any disagreements or anything you would like to add, please give a reply because I hope this post could be used to lay the groundwork for any future useages of the term.
Now the word patriarchy is a simple one, so I’ll start off with that. It’s a word that is thrown around quite often.
The dictionary definition of a patriarchy is literally “a system of society or government in which the father or eldest male is head of the family and descent is traced through the male line.”
Now, feminists don’t use it in this way, feminists use patriarchy as “a system that benefits men at the expense of women”.
Feminists say we live in a patriarchy but there are many flaws to this argument:
1.) There are numerous areas where women have advantages over men, like gender quotas, selective hiring, more female scholarships, and the gender discrimination of boys in school.
2.) A woman isn’t obligated to take her husband’s name, in fact, she can even choose whether her child takes her name or takes her husband’s name
3.)Women aren’t obligated to marry or produce kids
4.) The discrimination against men in the family or divorce court systemsTaking these four factors, using either the dictionary definition or the “feminist” definition to describe the west as a patriarchy would be completely flawed. You see, and feminists know their definition is flawed, which is why they invented this thing called “patriarchy backfiring”.
The major flaws of patriarchy backfiring is simply this:
Feminists expect me to believe that men have oppressed women since the dawn of time, but somehow, just somehow, men are too incompetent to create a system that completely benefits men at the expense of women? Seems legit.“Benevolent Sexism”: Because female privilege would be too ironic. Women are more likely see a man as bad or evil if he doesn’t act in a chivalrous fashion. No, both women and men are more likely to precieve a man as a sexist or a villain if he treats women the same as he treats men. This is literally one of the reasons feminism doesn’t make sense to me. They complain about microaggressions and how women don’t want chivalry from men yet the women who they swear they are defending would see a man as a bady guy simply because he doesn’t hold doors for women.
I rememvered another study that showed that 68% of women would reject a man if he said they should split the bill on a first date. So Question: How can feminists call this sexism when women are the ones perpetuating it.
Now another cop out feminism use is called “socialization”, that men socialize women into wanting men with big wallets and wanting chivalrous men:
1.) Why would men make it harder for themselves to earn women if their whole goal is reproduction?
2.) 50% of children are raised by single mothers, and the majority of elementary school and even middle school teachers are women. So who has more control in how children are socially constructed?so now, since I handled the basic points about patriarchy, let’s move onto gynocentrism. I have seen this word getting tossed around numerous times by both MRAs and MGTOW and I feel that it’s being used poorly in some situations.
For example: Imagine ISIS or a terrorist organization comes takes over a village and they kill all the men but let the women live? Would this be a gynocentric system.
“Well, they’re letting the women live but not the men”, the interest of women is being put above men right?
No. Because more than likely the women are going to be used as sex slaves or raped. This isn’t gynocentrism. Because when looking at the long term view of women, they’re going to be raped. Their views aren’t being put above the interest of men because they are going to go through Hell.
True gynocentrism is the interest or view point of the women being put above men and children. Do we see this in society today?
Well, let’s take child support as a example. Now I know some people will say “well, child support is for the child right? Because…the child” no, it’s not. Child support is only granted when a woman requests it. And there is very little obligation for a woman to use the money on the kids.
Now, I know some people will come out of the wood works and cry these two points:
1.) well if the patriarchy didn’t automatically see women as care givers, then this wouldn’t happen: google tender year doctrine, and National Organization of Women call reform to the child support system anti-women
2.) Women pay child support too: This is what I would call the quantity fallacy, men pay the majority (90%) of child support, so a few women doing something that is done primarily by men doesn’t make it equal. And, how many women v.s. men go to jail due to backed up child support? How many men get their driver license revoked compared to women?Another example: Throughout history, churches and the state have supported women for just being women. Is this gynocentrism?
It depends? Is it at the expense of men.
You see, women are a resource, they have kids. A man provides sperm but the rest of the process has to be done by women. Simply giving women money isn’t gynocentrism. Because, you need women to reproduce, if women aren’t reproducing, then your society is going to crumble or the village next door is going to enslave your kids in the future, so you need to support women in order to thrive. This isn’t gynocentrism, this is just logic.
Now let’s look at the alimony system. Is that gynocentrism? Yes. You see, think about Bradd Pitt and his current wife who is divorcing him. She’s going to get a large portion of his millions of dollars he made way before even knowing her, she is most likely not going to have more kids so she’s not going to contribute by reproducing. This is benefiting the woman at the expense of a man, this would be gynocentrism because there are no obligations or responsibilities given to the woman aside from gaining money from the man.
Now, this is just two of the many systems, if you look at divorce, the money being thrown at women in college, etc. you can find more example of gynocentrism in society.
So this is my view point of gynocentrism and patriarchy. If you have a counter argument or something that can help me, then please show it.
I don’t teach you anything when I say: the law favors women in many ways.
Of course alot of non-written laws also favors them such as : ladies first, free drinks for the ladies, the long dead chivalry code still being used by feminists for … equality purpose maybe? Who knows if they understand logic but anyways, thats another story.
The reason I start this topic is to focus mainly on the actual laws that benefit one sex over the other and how we can fix them into making it balanced. I know we come from different countries, it becomes difficult to universaly assess the question but still, an interesting subject to discuss.
I am not a laywer but am curious in knowing more about the laws that protect us, the laws that plays against us and the laws that would need a good old paper shredding treatment with a complete makeover with the help of a 20 years experienced Kim kardashian esthetic surgeon.
Canadian Divorce: “The value of any property that you acquired during your marriage and that you still have when you separate, must be divided equally between spouses. Property that was brought into your marriage is yours to keep, but any increases in the value of this property during the duration of marriage must be shared.”
Does that mean I get to keep half of my future ex-wife’s dress, makeup, jewelry, expensive lotions and s~~~ like that? How does that even work? How the hell do they decide on how to split all what you own?
Canadian Divorce: ”When you separate, both of you may want to stay in the family home. If you cannot agree on who should stay in the family home, you can use lawyers, a mediator or an arbitrator to help you decide, or you may have to go to court to have the judge decide. An order or agreement for exclusive possession allows one spouse to use it, but not the other. It may be that, after the separation, neither of you will be able to afford to stay in your home. If you have children, the person who has custody of the children will most often be the one who stays in the family home with the children. This helps children adjust to their new family situation in a place and neighbourhood that they already know.”
We all know what that means, judge will favor women for the custody of the children AND than guess who keep the house?
What solutions could we bring to the actual LAW. I am not only talking about divorce and mariage but also any law that favor women over us that would need a good spanking.
Topic: Future of the World
I have tried to be MGTOW for a while. And, I have a question.
I really like MGTOW. Nowadays, I am reading about ghosting. It took a time to realize ghosting. But, it is great to be silent against manginas.
I know that feminists want to destroy all civilizations (especially western civilization), and I know that MGTOW is a defense movement to protect men from them. It is like that let them whatever they want to do for themselves because feminism will damage women more than men. Basically, they are falling on their own sword.
But I don’t understand something. What will we happen in next decades? I mean, let’s assume that important part of women agree with MGTOW movement and accept their misandry. What will be the answer of MGTOW?
As I know, MGTOW is also against former man-woman relationship (chivalry, self-sacrifice), and so MGTOW is not a conservative movement. (As I know, because I could misunderstood).
But, what if women give up their misandric behaviors, what will MGTOW do to rebuild western civilization? In which case MGTOW lean towards “marriage”, long term relations”, etc.?
I believe that we, men, are on strike against man-hating society. What if it change, what will be approach of MGTOW?
I hope, I can express myself with my poor English.


