Your thoughts on controllingwomen.com

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Its not an actual website; rather its a term invented to describe men who like to control women. You know, the old-school thinking ‘you need to control your women/family’.

I watched a documentary on the 2004 murder in Anne Arundel County, Maryland where the wife murdered her husband because he was controlling her and her children and made the daughter pregnant.

This got me thinking.

The roots of misandry might be largely because of incidents like this. Its the controllingwomen.com mentality that victimizes women.

Just because of a few sick men, the feminists get their food for lashing out on the entirety.

I do not know what creates this mentality. Poverty maybe? Or maybe some of us get so fed up with women that we decide violence and intimidation is the only solution instead of silently walking away and not caring?

What are your thoughts on this? Is there an effective way to combat this problem? I know it will be difficult to think about this.. but I think we really need some insights on this because its an important issue.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[Anonymous 18]

Varun wrote:

I do not know what creates this mentality. Poverty maybe? Or maybe some of us get so fed up with women that we decide violence and intimidation is the only solution instead of silently walking away and not caring?

What are your thoughts on this? Is there an effective way to combat this problem? I know it will be difficult to think about this.. but I think we really need some insights on this because its an important issue

When you think of misogyny, do you think about men hating women? As a sane, average, normal man I can’t comprehend what hating a woman looks like. I simply can’t. I can hate the ways she manipulates or lies or her duplicity, but I can’t hate a woman.

No man can. The female characteristics are unpleasant – they are promoted to be such. But the need to mate, partner is designed over millions of years.

When you hear about misogyny, it is mostly projection of women’s hate for one another. Again based on evolutionary principles of securing a man with resources having competition from another women trying to do same.

The examples of violence toward women are seen and intentionally not explained in depth. Because men (immature, unable to control emotions) lash out violently to inner conflicts that women they are with antagonize them with. I don’t condone it. Far better to walk away and not associate with a person who brings out that negativity in you or someone (man or woman) who passive-aggressively breeds insecurity in you.

Regarding misandry – feminists don’t need facts or evidence. If so domestic violence is a greater problem for men than it is for women. You won’t hear them speak about things. Some may call it cherry-picking but there is no equality or balance between the sexes.

At best there is some harmony where deficits of one are supplanted by the other.

Our societies (especially western ones) are far removed from dialogue. Emotional appeasement wins and victimhood in women (who for most part get there by mere poor choices and decisions) is a crutch for aging females.

You control yourself. Idiots try to control others – man or woman.

[Anonymous 1]

Hey Varun, good to see you again.

My thoughts are in tandem with this man:

“Women are like elephants. I like to look at ’em, but I wouldn’t want to own one.” – W. C. Fields

Varun wrote:

Is there an effective way to combat this problem?

We don’t need to combat this – I’m gone brother.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Your thoughts on controllingwomen.com

Don’t have any. Why would any idiot want to be with a woman who does’ even WANT to be there? Tie her to the stove? Confine her to the kitchen? What the f~~~ FOR???? It would actually make her MORE of a nuissance than she is already!

Occasionally we get a few of these morons who have come here to try and demonize MGTOW as the kind of men who “want women back in the kitchen” , but we educate them and throw them out — every f~~~ing time. Plenty of examples in the LitterBox Forum.

And how do they justify it?
• “Women like to be told what to do”
• “Women secretly want to be dominated”.
• “Women like being controlled”.

I don’t f~~~ing care what women like / prefer / get off on. Until she bakes you a goddam lasagna, what idiot would? I have had women tell me to slap them because they get off on that s~~~ and can’t have an orgasm unless he does, and I got the f~~~ out of there. Not giving her a SINGLE CHANCE to play “victim” in my presence.

I KNOW women get off on all of it.
And I would recommend every man denies her the satisfaction.

So when these retards who “give women whatever they want” start shooting their yaps off, thats’ where we send them…. controlling-women-dot-com. They can start their own forums there, and knock themselves out.

They don’t even understand women!!

If you want a woman to stick around, you show her the door and tell her to GET OUT. She will refuse to leave. You want her to leave? Just tell her how beautiful she is and you can’t live without her. She’ll be planning her departure by the end of the week.

Men who think women should be “controlled” don’t understand a f~~~ing thing about it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[pabsawakeParticipant 1761]

Whenever I discuss a topic like this I always talk about my 2 grandfathers. My mothers dad was born in 1901 and my fathers father in 1905.

They were the most gentle and classy men I have ever known.

My grandmothers ran the house, period, my grandfathers would only put their foot down unless it was something that they were absolutely certain about.

This was a much different time, gender roles were understood, men and women had mutual respect for each other. The family unit was strong and respected. Religious institutions were strong, no big daddy government.

I’m not trying to sound like a tradcon because I’m not. My point is that these check and balances were in place. There really was no need for my grandfathers to raise their voice or their hand.

I think that some men today and in the years passed try to be controlling (foolishly) because these things are gone, and repugnant female nature is allowed to run amok.

"You can either love women or understand them, you can't do both". Truth over everything

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22525]

Avoid those with controlling personalities at all cost.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Trying to control women is like trying to control fire. There is a pretty good chance you’ll get burned.

While I considered all women to be “crazy”, there are different degrees of crazy. With the obvious nut jobs, you really want to make an effort to avoid them.

A few years ago, I got a call from a friend who went out with one of these dominant chicks. He had been handcuffed to his furniture. I had to call a locksmith for him. Hilarious. But I’m glad it didn’t happen to me.

[JuehueParticipant 1316]

Varun wrote:

I watched a documentary on the 2004 murder in Anne Arundel County, Maryland where the wife murdered her husband because he was controlling her and her children and made the daughter pregnant.

Let’s flip the gender. A woman tried to control (nagging) the husband and the children. The husband resisted and DV charges.

I think that controlling your women is merely a manifestation of insecurity (you could argue ego here too). They probably thinking something like “if I don’t control her, she will control me”.

Now, let say the husband successfully won the top dog status. He tasted the power and starting to abuse the women ==> DV charge, or get killed like the documentary.

Then you can throw in all the tricks woman can use and the law, you’ll find that relations~~~s are s~~~.

[Anonymous 3]

lol women WISH men would enslave them. That is a funny secret they’ll never admit.

You see, a slave owner is responsible for their slave. The master MUST pay for room and board, feed, clothe, protect and care for the slave. Even oligarchs aren’t interested in that arrangement anymore, they’d much rather pay wages for “at-will employment” where they don’t have to cover those base necessities and have zero legal duty to look out for their wage slaves.

What women are looking for is that same arrangement in marriage. They want the benefits of a slave on a master, but refuse any of the obligation or commitment.

I guarantee you, as more and more men wise up to how bad the deal of marriage is, and as marriage rates continue to crater, women will begin demanding more legal slavery aspects to marriage. They know the great deal they get in marriage, no matter what BS they claim about how bad it is.

Just look at how much women hate MGTOW. All MGTOW is, is men refusing marriage with women. That’s it. And they can’t handle that, because it means women don’t get all those ridiculous benefits of marriage. Meanwhile they scream marriage is oppressive and all men are out to rape them. Yet their biggest beef is with the men that just avoid them completely. Think all of that through and you’ll understand women better.

[Anonymous 22]

F~~~ them! bring me a woman who actually is happy to cook food etc. In the western world 99% of the women seem to be very mascular now.

What the f~~~ is going on? I don’t want anything to do with muscular bitches!

[Anonymous 54]

There has allways been some mean spirited men who abuse those in there lives.
These days we are all painted with that brushes wide stroke.
This is what we good Men feel from the world these days.
And they ask where have all the good men gone.

You ran us all off.

[Anonymous 42]

All I’ve ever known are controlling women, is there any other kind? I don’t like being controlled!

THAT’S WHY I’M SINGLE AND FREE!!!

[Anonymous 0]

I just want to be left alone. Women don’t understand that even when I tell them.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

I never understood the whole “woman’s place is in the kitchen” thing anyway. I can’t remember the last time a woman prepared me a meal that was worth eating.

None of the women I know are even qualified to wash dishes properly.

A woman’s place, as far as I am concerned, is about three meters away so I can get a good look, directly under me for about 30 minutes, and then as far away as possible. At that point, I don’t care if she’s in a kitchen or not.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Controlling women? Then what? Buy the c~~~ dinner?

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Anonymous 25]

Women get off on control. Women were the ones buying the 50 shades book and going to the movie

Women are significantly more controlling than men. Studies prove it

The whole ‘male control theory’ is a scam to get government funding for wimminz shelters

They kicked Erin Pizzey out from the shelters she founded, because she said it wasn’t about gender

The Dulith model has been discredited

Control plays a part in intimate partner violence, but strategies for dealing with stress and mental health are a much bigger part. Women are far more violent. Probably because they suffer more from mental health and are generally less resilient to stress than men

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

Women are significantly more controlling than men. Studies prove it

They are obsessed with it. But here’s the kicker…..
On the surface, women want to be the ones in “control” in their relationships and marriage,
but they are MISERABLE when they are permitted to do so.

That’s why you let her end up with the weakling who kneels at her feet…..
and thank your personal god you’re not that guy.
Let her hate and resent the s~~~ out of HIM instead.

Ler her become that miserable middle-aged sandy vagina who never stops complaining because she got exactly what she deserved.

Stargazer wrote:

I never understood the whole “woman’s place is in the kitchen” thing anyway

That’s because a woman’s place is in the wrong.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 42]

Keymaster wrote:

a woman’s place is in the wrong.

Is that Chinese for bedroom? If so I agree!

[Anonymous 11]

Stargazer wrote:

At that point, I don’t care if she’s in a kitchen or not.

A woman in a kitchen. Ha, Ha, Ha! That skill died out in any woman born post say the 1960 range. Sorry bitches microwaved popcorn in a bag served to your children for dinner does not cut it.

I submit to no woman, man, or group. I am sovereign.

[experiencedParticipant]

Discretion =
http://www.bing.com/search?q=discretion&src=IE-TopResult&FORM=IETR02&conversationid=90E9A01BA9F648998047C422B9D278D4&pc=EUPP_
Coupled with: “like a golden ring in pig’s snout is a beautiful woman who shows no discretion.”
Ergo women who need / want to be controlled are pigs.
Most of us are not in the market for pigs, let alone ones who wash their hands of responsibility.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

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