Your thoughts on controllingwomen.com

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    Why would any man concern himself with controlling women? The only person you should ever control is yourself. Live the life you want to live and don’t worry about women. That’s the whole point behind MGTOW. I don’t want to control anybody. I just want to be left the f~~~ alone.

    Besides, have you seen these f~~~ers that try to “control” their women? They’re the angriest, most uptight f~~~ers you have ever seen. They drive themselves crazy always worrying about what their woman is doing. What kind of life is that? I’d rather focus on my personal happiness.

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    Varun
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    You are wrong. A man would admit it and learn better. Why can’t you?

    Because I’m having a hard time believing you. You’re contradicting years of education and assumption I based my thoughts upon.

    Articles like this are all over the internet:
    http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/social-sexual-cues-behavior-0803121

    I’ve also watched a lot of documentaries on human sexuality and human sociology; every single one of those say what I have said so far.

    You mean to say that all of those are false? All the experts, their research is false? I know a lot of them has been disproved, but whenever I make a simple observation, I always find that we men always lead; we always have a deeper voice that commands authority.

    That would be a s~~~-load of deprogramming I’d have to go through if what you say is true.

    Those men are actually few and far between though, not universal as you keep claiming. It’s a bulls~~~ feminist assumption and is no more true than the feminist claim that “all men are rapists”.

    Have you ever actually met any? I mean actual men who actually do beat and control women? I never have. In fact I have only ever heard young, stupid boys who don’t know any better promote the idea.

    I have, actually, but that doesn’t mean I know he actual number of these type of men. I’ve also seen women equally violent and controlling. My grandmother was one of them.

    Despite feminist claims, men don’t need to dominate others to get what they want, and men instinctively know it. A man is capable of getting what he wants himself. It’s women, who depend on the productivity of others, who have to resort to dominance games to get what they want.

    Then tell me why all managers and CEOs in high positions rely on shouting/shaming and putting employees down. I have seen it firsthand. No doubt it creates an effective workplace, but if men really could get things done WITHOUT needing to dominate, they could never become managers and CEOs.

    You might be right in the fact that these men are far fewer than I had originally presumed, but even if there are more women who dominate, men do a far better job. That is no something o be ashamed of. That is not ‘evil’ or ‘patriarchal’. That’s just way it is.

    I’m never insulting men.

    I mean, I know we all get off on the dominance cue,

    F~~~ you. No we don’t. The assumption is insulting. How can you not understand that?

    Honest mistake. Perhaps you don’t. I do. Its not something to be ashamed of. I’ve never hurt a female in my life ever….. except one…. that too verbally.

    Statistically speaking, we have successfully saved 17000+ women from either getting beaten or murdered.

    F~~~ you. No we haven’t. That statement presumes that all MGTOW would be woman beaters had they not Gone Their Own Way. Which is also f~~~ing insulting.

    I never thought about that. Blame my narrow mind. I based it on my ‘social justice reactionary’ logic that women always victimize themselves while being with men. By going our own way, we’re doing them a favor. That may be too much stupidity, bu it clicks with me and I stand by it.

    And completely untrue, because, statistically speaking, MGTOW are likely the LEAST likely men, who are already highly unlikely, to be woman beaters. Woman beaters do not walk away, but MGTOW, by definition, do. MGTOW aren’t woman beaters before they Go Their Own Way. They aren’t woman beaters after the Go Their Own Way. So MGTOW walking away doesn’t reduce the very small number of woman beaters one jot.

    My thoughts exactly. And I know I should have thought a bit more before making this statement.

    You haven’t made me miserable. You’re just wrong.

    And wrong in a way that denigrates men and MGTOW.

    And you persist in your folly in the face of repeated correction from myself and other men here.

    Your folly is you still subscribe to the same stupid feminist false worldview that’s been spoon fed to you your whole life. That is not necessarily your fault. But persisting in that worldview in the face of reality is your fault.

    No shame in being wrong. Not the first time some red-piller had stated something that denigrated men. It was just my lack of proper knowledge. Maybe I should join the 80% of the members here, and shut up when the big boys are talking. I’ll be more careful and thoughtful from now on. Sorry.

    A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

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    Narwhal
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    ‘Controlling’ is such a wonderful word.

    When I first got married, my then wife told me one of the things that she liked about me was my leadership skills. After a couple years, she told me she thought I would change after we got married, but I didn’t. She said it was her fault for assuming that I would. Not too long after that, she started telling me I was controlling. You know, things like trying to keep her from running up the credit card debt, following the advice of the marriage counselor she wanted us to see, things like that.

    So if my ex where handed a survey with the question “Have you ever been in a relationship with a man who was physically or emotionally controlling?”…what do you think she would say?

    A couple years ago, I met a woman who liked to cut herself when she got depressed. When she called the ambulance, she would lie and say that a boyfriend had done it. Otherwise she would be suspected of a suicide, not allowed to leave the hospital (or something like that) and lose further access to her children.

    We are constantly told how evil men are towards women, yet it’s hard to find in real life whey you really look at it. So do I believe we have a problem of male controlling behavior? I believe it’s way, way down on the list. There certainly are sick people in the world, but most of what we see as ‘controlling behavior’ is only a problem when it conveniently gets her what she wants.

    Ok. Then do it.

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