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[MGTOW2012Participant]

Once you break the repetitive cycle of them expecting you to bow down, that’s when they realize their vagina isn’t worth as much as they initially thought.
Sure it’s nice to mess around with women once in a while, but only if you know how to cover your tracks and proceed with caution.
Even then one may think it’s not even worth it but to each their own.

The programming that we have been receiving for centuries needs to stop NOW, nonetheless.

If we keep following the same ordinary routine with the entire chivalry act, we’ll never advance in society and just remain as we are.

There needs to be a shift in the tides of the social context towards self-liberation.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant]

Don’t forget chivalry is benevolent sexism so it’s wrong.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Funny stuff, man.

Remember if chivalry is dead, it’s because women killed it.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Anonymous]

Here my adaptation of Cap’s masterpiece(Adjusted for regional differences):

About Chad
Let’s play a game I call ‘Reverse the Genders’. I’m going to write a profile similar to those of women in my dating range (mid 20s to late 40s). Since you all have this Santa Claus long checklist where every box needs to get ticked, let me treat you in a similar fashion. I can’t speak for all men, but many, more than you know, agree with me. Don’t worry, plenty of thirsty simps out there. Wondering what you’re doing wrong? Wondering why you can’t find the ‘perfect’ guy after being on multiple dating sites for 5 stinking years? Don’t act like you haven’t been. Imagine if every male profile you read was like this:

Hello. My money is my own and you will get none of it. Not for some time at least as trust and respect have to be earned. I prefer petite, women who aren’t land whales with at least shoulder length hair, and so if you’re amazon like tall, have a short ditzy-bob haircut or can’t control your eating, you need not apply.

My exercise and hobbies take up much of my time but I’ll squeeze you in if I can. They also take up money…and that’s not going to stop even if we dated on a regular basis. You need to have job. You’re all equal now. If you’re not liar and are truly interested in real companionship, why does what I do for living, what car I drive or where I live matter? Pick equality or chivalry, you can’t have both. At our age, let’s face it; marriage is out of the question as most of us have been dragged through the divorce ringer. Why is just having a long term relationship a problem? Marriage is bulls~~~. Disagree? Probably means you’d like the law involved to get your hands on my cash. Move on.

You will never be my best friend as those are the guys I’ve known since the age of 17. They like me for who I am. You never will. Sex is a very important part of a relationship. Yes, it takes more than sexual attraction and looks but let’s not kid ourselves. You know within the first 45-60 seconds of meeting us if you want to get horizontal (more on this in the date section). So none of this ‘friends first’ bullsh*tas that means I’ll be shelling out lots of cash for God knows how long. We’re all adults here. No sex by the third date? Move on. Nor did I just fall off the turnip truck.

You think I don’t you’re texting the guy you’re probably going to **** later while we’re sitting at dinner? I’m on to you and tired of competing with your 24/7/365 connection to the hive mind. For the love of God, stay off your phone for 10 minutes, it that’s even possible.
You like to talk about how relationships take work while you won’t do it yourselves.

I know your inboxes are over flowing so why work you can sit back and get your ego stroked? Same goes for first dates and as the relationship goes on. I work for the ‘pleasure’ of your company while you do nothing. I won’t put on a clown suit? The next sucker will, on to him. You want to work for a relationship about as much I like the Lifetime channel. It’s all empty rhetoric.
In no particular order, don’t message me if:

1. You have high angle pictures or other deceptive ways of hiding your body. We’ll have to meet in real life eventually so why lie? You want an honest man? Be honest yourself.
2. You think overweight means ‘average’ body type.
3. Have pictures of you with men in them. Who are they? Old boyfriends? FWB’s?
4. Pictures of you with your girlfriends. Which one are you? I’ll wager not the attractive one.
5. Pictures of you with duck lips. Are you 15?
6. Text talk. See 5.
7. Pictures of pets, flowers, motivational quotes, etc. Who the **** cares?
8. Talk exercise and your body doesn’t reflect it. See 1.
9. Pictures of you in New York. I’ll just assume you’re pretentious.
10. Pictures of you with wine, going on about wine, good wine, etc. Giant red flag of pretentiousness.
11. What I should be doing or how much I should be drinking on the first date. Anything else mom?
12. You plan on giving me a job interview on the first date. Instant walk out.
13. On your phone? Instant walk out.
14. You have a motorcycle. Cool, but no thank you.
15. You have stupid statements in your profile. “I like to have fun!” No s~~~?
16. You are a ‘career’ woman. Pass.
17. You can’t cook.
18. We live in the same town and you want to drive all the way to the city to go to bars. ****ing really?
19. You get your life lessons/ideas from Sex in the City.
20. I like super heroes and science fiction. Deal with it.
21. Baseball season is coming. Hope you like watching the Braves.
22. If you started liking the Braves in 2010, Do. Not. Contact. Me.
23. If you can’t explain bunting or stealing don’t even talk to me about baseball.
24. I’m a straight male. I don’t dance.
25. I own guns. I carry one. Get used to it.
26. If you’re “Waiting for Superman, Mr. Right, Prince Charming or the Perfect Guy”. Don’t hold your breath. Remember what I said about being on here for 5 years?
27. “If you can’t handle me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best.” I just threw up in my mouth.
28. “Tired of games, liars, players”. Heard it before. Prove it.
29. You’re ‘just looking’. This is a dating site professor.
30. I mostly watch animated shows. Deal with it.
31. I will not go to 50 Shades of Grey. Have fun.
32. If you like the beach. I hate sand.
33. You can’t pull off a bikini. A real one.
34. You have snakes.
35. You have anything in your profile stating how crazy you are or how you’ll stab somebody because of your ethnicity. No thank you. Don’t want to be killed in my sleep.
36. You live in Atlanta. Too far. Don’t like crowds, waiting.
37. If you think I’m meeting your friends anytime soon.
38. You’re looking for ‘casual dating/no commitment’. Translation – free sh*tand no sex.
39. You list travel as an interest. It means I’ll be paying for trips. Plus, who the hell would want to go to an airport if they didn’t have to?
40. You think I care what your sign is.
41. You think you’re a queen or princess.
42. You’re pushing 40 and looking for someone to marry. For what exactly?
43. Your tongue is out. Put it back in your damn mouth.
44. “I’m done with the bar scene.” No, it’s done with you.
45. You do anything in mud. Are you a pig? Just another stupid fad you latched on to.
46. You have pictures of girls’ night out with stupid sideways peace signs. You’re always telling us to grow up, why don’t you do the same?
47. Contact me if we dated/talked before. I have a mind like a steel track and I will burn you.
48. Go on about your ‘career’. This does not turn me on, nor do I care.
49. Get surprised when I tell you to go **** yourself if you flake on the first date. No, I won’t’ reschedule.
50. All your friends are guys.

First Date
A bar I will pick and you can pay for your own overpriced drink. Or, for once, you come up with something. Do I look like a jester that’s supposed to entertain you? You’ve gone on and on about how educated and intelligent you are but can’t figure out a date idea? It won’t be dinner. Whatever it is, you’ll be paying for your own s~~~. We’re adults, so if you think we won’t be horizontal after the third date, just move on because you want free dinners or lack the will to act which is probably worse. $40 is my limit. $0 is optimal.
Whoops. I just disqualified every woman in America. How does it feel? There are reasons you’ve been on dating sites for half a decade. Keep searching for that unicorn.
Friendly advice: Peruse the interwebz for multiple articles and videos of women lamenting about “Where have all the good men gone” and the like. You may control sex, but we control LTR’s and marriage. A little self-reflection wouldn’t hurt either.

[Spank The MisandristsParticipant]

Chivalry is dead and women killed it. Look how she expressed her entitlement with that fugly disappointing face.

[anonymousyamParticipant]

I think the funny part is she is expectant of the act of chivalry and her reaction when the guy did not give her the beer. Almost like women have evolved to get this kind of behavior and get p~~~ed when they don’t get it even thou they are equals now.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

This had me curled up on the floor when I first saw it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NWniOP4rQ9Q

Women are so bad, if they changed the law so I kept the house, I still wouldn't marry one. I'd rather be homeless.

[MattNYCParticipant]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

She Door Raped me and some females wonder why “chivalry” is dead.

JS thank you for your bravery. You’re a warrior for the cause of female justice against Door Rape.

We owe it to you & to all women to make mgtow.com a safe space where we don’t have to be afraid of the patriarchy’s door rape any more.

DON’T TEACH JAN SOBIESKI HOW TO DRESS!
TEACH DOORS NOT TO RAPE!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

they don’t need any help doing that!

Joking aside now, they never really need help with any of it. They just want a man to do it. “Can you open this?” – even if it’s a bag of chips. But I won’t let her get away with thinking I did it “because chivalry”.

Jan Sobieski wrote:

As you know strong independent females don’t like it when men hold doors open for them. One time a female lit into me for holding the door open for her

Oh I know. Same here. I actually mentioned this in another thread days ago. In 1993 a woman with shopping bags in both hands did the same s~~~ and said “I can open it myself”. What a c~~~. I let it slam in her face and walked away. I remember it very well.

As a result, I don’t permit women to use the word “chivalry” any more. When I hold the door for others and the person is female, It’s because women have taught me they can’t even open a bag of chips.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Speaking of “door rape”….

Recently, a woman accused me of being “chivalrous”. I felt so violated.

As a man, when I’m accused of something, I think about what that something is before running my mouth. Since a woman accused me of being it, I chose to define “chivalry” in terms that a woman could understand.

I told her, the only reason I held the door open is because I thought she was going to walk right into it and give herself a big nasty bump on the head… and we can’t have that.

I don’t like bruised peaches either – and that’s not “chivalry”.

(you should have seen her face)

Women don’t seem to be able to open anything correctly without a man’s help.
A jam jar ….. a conversation ….. potato chips…… nail polish…… their legs.

Women have expected me to open all of those for them.
So why would a DOOR be any different??

So ladies, please don’t call me chilvarous just because I don’t like a woman to hurt herself. Persistence, alcohol, and making sure your woman isn’t banging into any doors has worked since the beginning of time.

“CHIVARLY” —>> is when some poor shmuck has to put on his suit of armor and make sure his slutty girlfriend isn’t whoring herself out for more male attention on Match dot com / Tinder / Facebook or any other dating websites.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

As you know strong independent females don’t like it when men hold doors open for them.

One time a female lit into me for holding the door open for her. I wasn’t an ass, I didn’t say anything demeaning to her. I just held the door open for the next person behind me. For the record I didn’t even know the person behind me was a female. Well, she lit into me, feminism, sexism, blah, blah, crap, blah.

Apparently, good manners are part of the patriarchy (there is no patriarchy).

Anyhow, this weekend at a gas station a female and I arrived at a gas station door at the same time. Due to how we approached the door she grabbed the handle and opened it for me. Instead of going all feminist on her (I am smart, independent, strong enough to open my own doors), I said “thank you” and walked in.

She Door Raped me and some females wonder why “chivalry” is dead.

For the record, Rape (real rape) is a horrible crime I would not wish upon anyone. However the females started it by making everything rape. When everything is rape, nothing is rape.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[VarunParticipant]

RedDawn wrote:

Varun wrote:

No wonder you’re asking those questions. All our vital moral principles were based on lies! If we don’t have those, who are we?

Do you just mean chivalry? Can you be more specific? I’d like to explore what exactly you mean by this.

Chivalry and everything else that attaches self-worth to you. Just take the example of the convos above…how everyone’s just celebrating how they didn’t help a woman. If a blue-piller passes by, he’d be like “What? These people are f~~~ing insane! How could you ever entertain the thought of not helping a woman when she needs it and laugh about it later? Sick bastards!”

This issue hit me a lot of times when I was purging my femucation. “How will I be looked at if I just stop being chivalrious? I’d be branded a bad man”. You cannot attach self-worth to yourself once you stop becoming chivalrious. What MGTOW academy taught me and what the particular video taught me was that you have a lot of worth anyway for being a man.

True, being chivalrious would earn you praises and everyone would go like “What a man! What a real man, helping others like that.” But what you don’t know is that whenever you go out of your way to help somebody who doesn’t deserve it, you’re losing your self-worth. Chivalry becomes weakness.

The knight would only help a damsel in distress. A white knight would mistake the infamous harlot of Slutville for a damsel.

I woud help somebody when they need it, even if they’re a total bitch sometimes; but would not continue to do so if they continue their bitching. The worse of the lot are those who blame you just because you helped them.

Who told you to help me? Just because I don’t have legs doesn’t mean you have to carry me out of that burning building.

..and you’re still sucking up to her? That is not being chivalrious. That is being a pussy.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant]

Chivalry is benevolent sexism so non chivalry is non sexism which is exactly what females want.

As Popp would say….Winning!

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[sidecarParticipant]

I’m not sure if this was an example of a non-chivalrous (opposite of chivalry) act or an achivalrous (without chivalry one way or the other) act.

The difference is that there’s no need to be a dick, but also no reason to be a white knight captain save-a-ho.

Anonymous wrote:

I closed the curtain grabed a cup of coffee and put my feet up.

I’d have left the curtain wide open and enjoyed my coffee while watching her work. You can’t buy that kind of entertainment.

I stood in the window and had two drinks watching her shovel and toss fits and look back at me in the window…I just sipped my drink.

Great minds really do think alike.

Keymaster wrote:

Isn’t it curious that the OP (“bone”) will always remember his “first non-chivalrous act” as a landmark moment in his life and is compelled to start a thread on it. And I am also here remembering my “first non-chivalrous act” as a landmark moment in my life – 23 years after the fact.

I’ve been thinking for a bit on this, and I honestly can’t recall mine. At a very young age I learned to always ask: “What’s in it for me?”

However I do have an amusing snow shoveling story of my own. Or at least one that amuses me. This whiny neighbor bitch kept nagging for me to shovel her driveway after I finished my own. (Why is it always a whiny bitch neighbor?) She just would not shut up about it. In the time it took her to harangue me she could have cleared it herself. Eventually I got tired of hearing her harping about it so I told her: “Look, I don’t have time to shovel both driveways. The best I can do is shovel half of yours and then I have to go. Take it or leave it.” After complaining she finally took it, figuring a half shoveled driveway is better than nothing. Little did she know…

So I shoveled precisely one half of her driveway. Lengthwise. While throwing the shoveled snow onto the other half.

When I got home that night I saw she’d royally f~~~ed her minivan (very nearly completely rolled) it trying to drive it down her half cleared, half double snow load driveway.

She never bothered me again.

[RedDawnParticipant]

Varun wrote:

No wonder you’re asking those questions. All our vital moral principles were based on lies! If we don’t have those, who are we?

Do you just mean chivalry? Can you be more specific? I’d like to explore what exactly you mean by this.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[VarunParticipant]

So chivalry IS dead. Thank you Queen Femtoria!

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[Anonymous]

Keymaster wrote:

Lesson learned: When women treat you like an asshole no matter WHAT you do…..
it’s time to just go ahead and BE that asshole.

You’re right Keymaster, I learned to be “that asshole” at the flick of a hair trigger switch!
I’m kind and considerate to people around me, it’s good mechanics, same in traffic too. I don’t cop attitudes or skip a beat over miserable self centered people. The majority of people CAN’T, WON’T, WILL NOT, simply use those humblest of two worded phrases; YOU’RE WELCOME, and THANK-YOU.
Phrases I use quite often……..

I don’t sit and hold the door like a moron waiting for Queenie the Meanie, I simply time it right for them to catch the door as I give it an opening shove to delay it’s closing, or let it close behind me to avoid any bad timing or confusion. I too was trained to step aside from chivalry, but not my manners, they’re mine, they’re for me, and I’m keeping them!
It’s called CLASS…

If a bolt of logic ever penetrates the concrete narcissistic heads of one of these brain blended creatures, they’ll say to themselves in my crossing trails with them, “gee,, why was I such a c~~~ to him, he was polite and well mannered”….

But, and I mean a big BUT You guys and I know that will NEVER HAPPEN Just further proof I do it for me…

Nothing satisfies the sole more than stepping over s~~~, and not skipping a beat!

In my blue pill years, I’ve always gave a f~~~ about what other people expected of me. I was worried about what people thought about my appearance, my job, my sex life, (or lack there of) my beliefs, my social life, and my standards in women.

During my blue pill years, I tried to change myself to fit in with crowds I didn’t belong to. Whenever I did something to “offend” them or got me kicked out of their little clubs, I thought that it was me that was the problem. Because of this, I would go out of my way to be extra “helpful” to them. I’d even waste large amounts of time trying to help set up events, give a few donations here and there, and even promote the group I was in to get more members.

I’m also really “anti-social”. I feel the happiest and most productive when I’m alone. When I was growing up, my parents had home-schooled me and I didn’t have that much interaction with kids of my age. As a result, my parents, especially my mom, thinks I don’t want to hang out with other people because of this and as usual, they both have a big f~~~ing insecurity problem with how they raised me.

I keep telling them that me wanting to be alone is just a personal preference. However, because of their insecurities, they just keep blaming themselves. If they won’t listen to reason, I figure it’s not my problem. They have to learn to deal with it. As an experiment, I tried going to a hang out group at a comic store to play Magic The Gathering. I felt like a complete outsider because I really don’t like being around people unless I have to. I only went once and never went back there. I Just felt so out of place.

As far as my sex life goes, I’ve never really knew what my sexual preference was growing up. I experimented with loads of porn and I’ve only ever had sex with a few women. I entertained the idea of having sex with men, but never went through with it because the idea of it just felt weird. Once I hit a certain age, I knew without a doubt I was straight. The reason I’m bringing my sex life up is because I listened to all those retarded PC liberals saying stupid s~~~ like “sexuality is fluid” “If a man can’t handle seeing gay guys kiss he’s insecure about his masculinity, blah, blah, blah.”

I’m also an atheist. But, digesting the red pill was very hard at first, because, as you know, most atheists in general are PC liberals that promote all kinds of retarded s~~~. I never did become a full blown mangina, but I entertained the idea for about a week and gave up on it because it just felt like I was lying to myself.

After I was completely comfortable in my sexuality, I noticed that whenever I voiced my standards in women, some woman, no matter who it was, had something negative to say about it. They always gave me a disgusted look and called me a “sexist” or a “misogynist.” Because of this, I actually became a white knight for about a year or so. Once I figured out that this white knight bulls~~~ wasn’t working, I researched feminism, chivalry, marriage, and eventually found out about MGTOW.

Now, I don’t give a flying f~~~ about what other people “think” I should do. To help myself learn to do this, I listen, read, or watch MGTOW content almost on a daily basis. Which is why I’m thankful that this website exists. With it being an archive, I have hours of content to help me re-program my brain and flush all the gynocentric bulls~~~ I was taught at an early age down the drain.

[OracleSummonParticipant]

Bumbling idiot dads on TV in advertisements, shows, etc.
Showing that the “woman is always right”.
Romantic “comedies”.
Seeing any proposal immediately gets me thinking: “Good luck with your divorce.” If not “What are you, stupid?”
Women who claim to love men that are not related to them (they only love what you possibly can provide for them).
Those who believe in love, but do not call it by its actually name: infatuation.
Men and Women who believe that they can do no wrong and male sexuality is evil.
Men and women who believe that just because they have vaginas, they should get free stuff.
The stupid notion that “It takes a real man to raise another man’s child”, no! It takes a simp/sucker/idiot/imbecile to do that.
Those who believe that men do not face any trouble in life and are not as important as women when it comes to issues.
Double standards in pretty much everything regarding men and women.
The double standard that men should still be eligible for the draft while it is too “dangerous” for women (make it equal or abolish the whole thing altogether)!
Politics and how everyone is kowtowing to women’s “problems”.
Someone trying to establish or reinforce the “no hitting girls rule”.
White Knights and Manginas who immediately attack men who are trying to defend themselves from aggressive and evil women, but not doing anything to stop the woman.
How the Christian Church is being poisoned by feminism and no longer holds women to their duties and Christian wives.
Women insisting that men pay for dates when they are “independent”.
Men are expected to make the first move when it comes to dating or relationship fulfillment.
Expected to take part in chivalry, when chivalry in of itself makes no sense and only benefits women.
Women and children first, as if! My family, friends and I will survive, screw everyone else.
Pretty much everything.
Putting everything down on the line to appease a woman (impossible and not worth the effort).
Videos, advertisements, any other form of media that depicts men as aggressive evil pigs/monsters.
Men who agree to only be friends with women when they wanted something more.
Women who insist that if a man does not want to stay friends with her, then that means he is being manipulative and vile, when he is just avoiding wasting his time.
Too much to name, but there exists many things that really rubs me the wrong way.

[TheBardParticipant]

Women were not fully thinking when they wanted equality. Women only wanted the good that comes with equality and failed to realize in an equal world men don’t show chivalry. What do women even do to earn it? They make false rape accusations, cry oppression non stop, defend double standards, never happy, and try to ban anything male related.