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[cyberguy94Participant]

Stupide cagne arpie succhiacazzi

PS: i kinda like insulting in my language. It makes feel the enemy unconfortable, cuz they’ll realize that the MGTOW is spreading around the globe.
The best would be if some of my female compatriots, used to get chivalry, free passes and eternal worshipping (or should i say, whoreshipping?) just for having a vagina, casually jumped here and saw that.
(Just to let you know: “Cagna” is one of the worst insult that can be yelled at the average italian femitard in her 20’s. I don’t know why but they get really mad at this word LOLOL)

[The_Mad_PirateParticipant]

bob__ wrote:

Whoever wrote this either broke his own rules on how to be a gentleman or is a woman telling men how to be “real” men.

The later, most probably. The rules make way too much emphasis on political correctness and chivalry.

"We didn't start the fire. It was always burning. Since the world's been turning" "A world that vilifies men only breeds a generation of men that feel no empathy towards women" “In a woman’s mind , there is really no such thing as a ‘we’. In her eyes, earth allways revolves around her, not the other way around. So thinking that your needs , aspirations or desires are valid enough to be persued, or even that you are entitled achive such goals, is like asking your boss for a pay rise in your very first day at the job.”

[bob__Participant]

Does anyone know where this thinking comes from???

I remember being on some forum or something, and these feminists were like “We only want equality, you must be sexist if you’re against that.” So then I said that if they really wanted equality then they should give up “chivalry”. I didn’t actually call it that, I just listed all the special treatment women “expect”. Their response was mentioning something about men going extinct, men not being needed etc. This was like 15 years ago. I don’t even remember where. I was only a teenager and I knew what women were really about.

[FearlessMGHOWParticipant]

I used to be friends with a feminist c~~~ who posted pictures like this on her Facebook wall ALL the f~~~ing time. It amazes me how women expect a chivalrous tradcon man, but when we expect anything of them, it’s automatically “misogynistic.”

The only women I even help anymore is if I’m forced to on the job, or a few of my family members (mainly because they’re old and can’t move around much).

And I don’t even help the women in my family out of chivalry, but because they’re my family. If they expect me to be chivalrous towards them, they can go f~~~ themselves like I’d tell any other woman.

Women who expect men to help them just because they have a vagina between their legs are nothing more than self entitled c~~~s.

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

[Anonymous]

They can hold there own doors,carry there own s~~~ ect..F~~~ chivalry im done with it.To me its the hight of arrogance for feminist c~~~s to still expect chivalry from us.F~~~ them f~~~ that.There on there own.Any one who orders others to not make eye contact is a raging megalomaniac.

[Anonymous]

Enjoy The Decline wrote:

It looks like these feminists of today would even be offended by a gentleman who would even do any chivalry at all for her

Yes, and it is totally dangerous! Let’s imagine, a dude from a different culture is just being polite, in the way he used to do at home, without any intentions at all, and then, in western feminist point of view, he is offending someone.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Enjoy The Decline wrote:

It looks like these feminists of today would even be offended by a gentleman who would even do any chivalry at all for her. You cannot win with these feminists because they get offended easily, especially if you are just trying to fulfill your role as a man.

For one example, Hillary Clinton is notorious for this. When she and Bill were in the White House, as rumor has it, workers were ordered, ordered, to not make eye contact but confine themselves to their offices with doors closed when she was about to come down the hall.

Gawd help you if you opened a door for her!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant]

It looks like these feminists of today would even be offended by a gentleman who would even do any chivalry at all for her. You cannot win with these feminists because they get offended easily, especially if you are just trying to fulfill your role as a man.

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[Anonymous]

@sovereign,
There is a Russian saying that a pessimist is an informed optimist.
I think you are falling into a linear vision of history. A vision of progress and successive approaches to the present pinnacle of human development.

Unfortunately, I believe this vision not to be true.

NotMyProblem wrote:

THE DAYS OF HUNTER-GATHERERS

As you all know, humanity began as nomadic tribes of hunter-gatherers. Climate change and other factors eventually led to the formation of agricultural societies. This agricultural revolution took thousands of years.

The present technological view of the world prevents us to see a very clear fact: it was necessary to master a great set of skills for humanity to survive in a hunter/gatherer world.
There is a TED video called “debunking the paleo-diet” that adresses the interesting point that humans change so many animals and plants to their advantage that they cannot begin to understand how hard it would be to survive before such changes. Video.

In fact, I would state that the majority of people today would simply die in the wilderness. That alone should make us respect a little more the “primitives” that could survive in even worst conditions.

NotMyProblem wrote:

The unfortunate side of this, was that farmland is immobile and therefor prone to being conquered. Over time, various religions became the centers of power in this agricultural society. For the sake of this argument, I will focus on Europe and the rise of Christianity.

THAT is a big jump. You completely forget a huge number of civilizations, including the roman empire, that should teach us a lesson. And the lesson is that they crumbled.
Even more important is to notice that the farming techniques que allowed for the human population to explode would also deplete the soil, and in time contributed to the colapse.
Web page.

NotMyProblem wrote:

In Feudal Europe, we had a system called Chivalry. Everyone pledged oaths of Chivalry to the Pope-King and the Church. In this system, a small group of maybe 10-12 men on horseback could dominate an entire village.
[…]
These groups would rape and pillage the peasants, demanding not taxes, but something called a tithe.

The “Middle Ages” is one of the least understood historic period. I am a bit of a student of the era, as I practice HEMA (longsword).
The first mistake is top believe the knights where opressing the farmers, when in reality it was the other way around.
With the fall of Rome people lost the habitability to sustain trade or grow crops due to an apocalyptic mad-max type scenario. There was simply no safety anywhere, so people congregated in closed fortresses that where well defended by highly trained men-of-arms.
In return for this safety, the people had to provide for those that defend them. The nobles had the questionable honor of training for war since birth. Web page.
In fact the middle ages are so misunderstood that people ignore the great innovations of those times. They created new and more sustainable agricultural methods, and the monasteries where great centers of knowledge that avoid the total loss of Greek and Roman culture. Wikipedia.

NotMyProblem wrote:

THE INDUSTRIAL REVOLUTION
[…]
Some of the more notable industrial technologies were the printing press and gunpowder. The printing press sped up the flow of information, which caused many Men to question the Church’s authority.

NEGATIVE. The printing press and gunpowder where a Middle Age invention.
Even the inquisition, a trademark of the Middle Ages, just started in earnest after the Renaissance, with the Protestant Reformation and the Catholic Counter-Reformation.

NotMyProblem wrote:

All of a sudden those skinny little merchants could now afford to buy a gun. And as more and more merchants purchased guns, it was no longer so easy to dominate an entire village with a small group of men on horseback.

The knight on horse was obsolete BEFORE the gunpowder weapons became efective. It was a combination of tactics and new weapons (like the crossbow) that gave a common foot soldier the capability to kill the highly trained knight, even with his expensive armour.

NotMyProblem wrote:

THE INFORMATION REVOLUTION
[…]
Conclusion: The information revolution is happening within our lifetime, and it’s ultimately leading to an increase in wealth and freedom for the average man.

Think about it. The days of big industry and the much-glorified factory job are long gone. Nowadays, we have kids creating billion dollar companies that rise up almost overnight.

Here comes the inevitable conclusion that all before us was bad, we are good and the future will be better.

Until the Renaissance people would consider the present to be a degeneration of the golden years of the past. Romans would always refer to the “holly antiquity”.
It is an extreme view, but at least it respected the past.

What you fail to see is that the present society is a joke. Without the “big industry and the much-glorified factory job” there would be no present society.
The “kids” that run “billion dollar companies” actually use products that have to be build in a FACTORY. And that factory has workers.
What happens is that factories where shipped to the 3rd world to be manned by slave work, ignoring environmental concerns, and building ever more crappy equipment.

And the crazy part is that crappy products are better because they get replaced faster therefore creating more demand.
And as all this is going on, we the westerners are only playing with money, buying cheap in the 3rd world and selling expensive here.

This so called “services economy” is the ultimate joke. People that don’t produce anything, pretend to work for each other, and somehow are entitled to consume what everybody else is producing.
It is no wonder that feminism is rampart in the west. Consuming is a female thing, doing nothing while pretending to do much is a female thing, taking advantage of other people’s work is a female thing, and entitlement is a female thing.

My friend, dont take my words the wrong way, but you have been sold a fairy tail.

Somehow you think that internet high-tech companies are the future because they do well in the stock market. But they are called “unicorns” by people that look for the real value of things, because most of them have been operating in loss, sustained by the market’s belief that they could get on board with the new “facebook”. Mostly this is a scam.

Money itself, even bitcoin, is meaningless. It is no substitute for physical goods that we can use. It is only useful when people take our money in exchange for the product of their work.

Actually producing something physical of real use is worth more than money. Money is only worth something because it can be exchanged by physical things.

To conclude, we should look to the past to realize that a society that is not sustainable is doomed. It is when a society believes that it is imune to failure, that life is easy, just fun and games, that it fails.

PS- Sorry for the probable English errors, its not my first language.

[CaliParticipant]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Beer wrote:

Author hits the nail on the head pretty well. Just reminds me of this skank on a dating website…in her profile she says…

I miss being in a relationship; the one night stands and weekend hookups are just not my style anymore.

Same profile, a few sentences later…

Please: word of advice gentleman: Let’s not forget tradition and chivalry.

She wants tradition and chivalry from men still? That’s nice…I’d like a traditional woman…not one who admits to being a whore in her profile but wants to hop off the carousel and settle down now that she’s ready. These women just don’t get it. They want to rewrite the traditional rules women of past generations lived by and demand men still live by the traditional male rules, exactly how the author describes. No f~~~ing thanks skanks…enjoy the carousel while it lasts, I’ll have nothing to do with you afterwards.

Oh I see. All the other guys got to pump and dump but I dont. I care why?

But don’t you understand, Jan? She made a few mistakes early on when she was “young and naive” (more like young and horny), but all that is behind her. Now all she wants is a good man to be “her companion” (her ATM). Everyone deserves second chances, right? Her days of chasing Chad are over now. Forever. Unless he’s back in town while you’re out of town…

Just a misogynist virgin hiding away in his mother's basement. Nothing to see here...

[Jan SobieskiParticipant]

Beer wrote:

Author hits the nail on the head pretty well. Just reminds me of this skank on a dating website…in her profile she says…

I miss being in a relationship; the one night stands and weekend hookups are just not my style anymore.

Same profile, a few sentences later…

Please: word of advice gentleman: Let’s not forget tradition and chivalry.

She wants tradition and chivalry from men still? That’s nice…I’d like a traditional woman…not one who admits to being a whore in her profile but wants to hop off the carousel and settle down now that she’s ready. These women just don’t get it. They want to rewrite the traditional rules women of past generations lived by and demand men still live by the traditional male rules, exactly how the author describes. No f~~~ing thanks skanks…enjoy the carousel while it lasts, I’ll have nothing to do with you afterwards.

Oh I see. All the other guys got to pump and dump but I dont. I care why?

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[BeerParticipant]

Author hits the nail on the head pretty well. Just reminds me of this skank on a dating website…in her profile she says…

I miss being in a relationship; the one night stands and weekend hookups are just not my style anymore.

Same profile, a few sentences later…

Please: word of advice gentleman: Let’s not forget tradition and chivalry.

She wants tradition and chivalry from men still? That’s nice…I’d like a traditional woman…not one who admits to being a whore in her profile but wants to hop off the carousel and settle down now that she’s ready. These women just don’t get it. They want to rewrite the traditional rules women of past generations lived by and demand men still live by the traditional male rules, exactly how the author describes. No f~~~ing thanks skanks…enjoy the carousel while it lasts, I’ll have nothing to do with you afterwards.

Russky wrote:

The only hot girls there are underage. As soon as they ship off to colleges – they’re never coming back (unless they marry a guy who attends church – then they tag along)

The biggest slut I knew in my high school days went to Catholic school and wore a gold cross necklace all the time. She was on the hunt for a rich guy at 16 lol. Unfortunately for her she’s fat now, looks like s~~~ from way too much fake tanning, has a joke degree from an over priced college so unless her parents paid for it she’s hosed financially, and still unwed at 30. But hey…she still attends church…she must be a good girl, right?

[Anonymous]

Never thought I would agree with anything Whoopi Crackwhore says but she is right, if a woman hits a man than she shouldn’t be surprised if she gets hit.

And chivalry was only ever a Western European thing, only applied to the wealthy knights and was only applied to other Christian enemies.

I don’t pop on here often, but when I do I notice a recurring theme – pessimism of the future and where the world’s heading.

Now I do agree that the vast majority of society is f~~~ed, and I also agree that our current system is going bankrupt and will probably collapse soon…

Yet I’m still insanely optimistic… In order to explain why, I’m going to take a giant step back and take a look at the big picture as I see it.

Here’s a quick history lesson:

THE DAYS OF HUNTER-GATHERERS

As you all know, humanity began as nomadic tribes of hunter-gatherers. Climate change and other factors eventually led to the formation of agricultural societies. This agricultural revolution took thousands of years.

THE AGRICULTURAL REVOLUTION

As agriculture took a central role in society, the main source of wealth was the farmland. This new way of organizing society provided the average man with a higher quality of life, leading to more prosperity and more freedom.

The unfortunate side of this, was that farmland is immobile and therefor prone to being conquered. Over time, various religions became the centers of power in this agricultural society. For the sake of this argument, I will focus on Europe and the rise of Christianity.

In Feudal Europe, we had a system called Chivalry. Everyone pledged oaths of Chivalry to the Pope-King and the Church. In this system, a small group of maybe 10-12 men on horseback could dominate an entire village.

These groups were usually led by a Bishop, with several Knights under his command. They had swords, bows, and armor. Hell, even their horses had armor. These groups would rape and pillage the peasants, demanding not taxes, but something called a tithe.

This tithe was essential the first form of taxes, and typically >50% of the grain produced by the peasants went up the hierarchy to the Church.

THE INDUSTRIAL REVOLUTION

The industrial revolution spawned many new technologies that increased the average mans quality of life, providing him with more freedom and more prosperity. This industrial revolution took about 300 years.

Some of the more notable industrial technologies were the printing press and gunpowder. The printing press sped up the flow of information, which caused many Men to question the Church’s authority.

Gunpowder was invented by the Chinese, and it eventually made it’s way through the Middle East to Europe. When this new technology arrived in medieval Europe, an interesting thing started happening.

All of a sudden those skinny little merchants could now afford to buy a gun. And as more and more merchants purchased guns, it was no longer so easy to dominate an entire village with a small group of men on horseback.

This caused a major power shift, leading to the rise of industrial society and the NATION-STATE. Bear in mind, this idea of a “nation” has only been around for a few hundred years.

Industry and factories were also an immobile form of wealth, so they too could easily be taxed. This led to the current centralized power structure that we all know and love…

THE INFORMATION REVOLUTION

Lets recap for a minute. The agricultural revolution took thousands of years, which led to an increase of wealth and freedom for the average man. The industrial revolution took a few hundred years, leading to an increase of wealth and freedom for the average man.

Conclusion: The information revolution is happening within our lifetime, and it’s ultimately leading to an increase in wealth and freedom for the average man.

Think about it. The days of big industry and the much-glorified factory job are long gone. Nowadays, we have kids creating billion dollar companies that rise up almost overnight.

Here’s a newsflash in case you’ve been asleep… These are all Information-based businesses. The thing about information-based businesses, is that they are all highly mobile and not easily taxed.

I think by now you guys realize that Google and Apple and just about every website on Earth doesn’t pay taxes, right? Same goes for software and apps and most other information technologies…

Where’s the Internet located anyways?

My point here is that national governments and our current way of organizing society is completely f~~~ed, so that’s why everything seems to be crumbling all around us…

The reason the fore-mentioned technological revolutions are called REVOLUTIONS…. is because they always lead to a complete re-organization of the power structures in society.

If you guys think we’re in the Information Age because we have smartphones and facebook, think again. Moore’s law is just getting warmed up. We have driverless cars, virtual reality, augmented reality, 3d printing, and a zillion other exponential technologies that are coming, and they will likely improve our lives in multiple ways over the next 10-15 years.

THE INFORMATION AGE

Looking back on history, we can see that technology has only improved the average mans prosperity and freedom. The only time a technology can harm you is when you don’t understand it, or you refuse to adapt. This is called being a Luddite.(look it up)

Think about it: Can you name even one technology that resulted in a decrease of the average mans wealth or freedom?

The first thoughts we all have are typically based on fear, which is an emotion for girls. Having everything connected is indeed terrifying – if these systems are centralized…

So what does our high-tech future look like? Will we be living in George Orwell’s 1984? If technology does end up enslaving us, it would be the first time in human history that technology would have a negative effect on the average mans wealth and personal freedom…

Think about it. Has the Internet affected your life in a negative way? Has decentralized social media like MGTOW.com been a bad thing? Does the fact that everyone has a camera in their pocket help the power elites control us, or does it ultimately keep them accountable?

Call me crazy, but I think the more connected we become, the LESS power the governments of the world have. The psychopaths in charge can’t even fluoridate the water anymore without millions of people freaking out about it on twitter.

The future will be decentralized, and that’s a good thing.

The Internet, social media, solar panels, 3d printing, bitcoin, etc etc.

It’s all DECENTRALIZED. Centralized authority figures are a feature of the industrial age.

The Internet is already the 5th largest “nation” on Earth by GDP. If current trends continue, CYBERSPACE, not China, will become the largest economy on Earth by 2025.

So what does it all mean?

It’s my belief that the Information Age officially started on February 9th, 2011. This was the day that Bitcoin reached parity with the US dollar. Like it or not, it has since gone on to become the MOST VALUABLE CURRENCY UNIT ON THE PLANET.

Now honestly I’m not sure the particular algorithms behind Bitcoin will hold up over time. My point is that this is simply the first example of a decentralized, programmable form of money that isn’t under anyone’s control.

If your unfamiliar with Bitcoin and other digital currencies – These are not companies and these are not currencies. They are decentralized trust networks. There are multiple parties involved, each with it’s own checks and balances.

Developers, Miners, Exchanges, Merchant Processors, Wallet Providers, and Users all have a say in the system. The idea is that no one has control, and it’s insanely hard to update or change the code, because everyone has to reach consensus in order to update this open-source software.

The ledger is open to scrutiny (anyone can become a miner and run a bitcoin node, and have full access to the entire ledger), however these are numbered accounts. There’s enough transparency so that the average man can audit everything, but there’s enough anonymity to purchase pot and guns on the dark net.

There have been several supreme court precedents here in America, that make it very clear – Currency choice is considered freedom of speech. The government cannot f~~~ with this, as much as they would love to.

Either way it’s unstoppable because it’s just information. This network has over 7,000 nodes all over the world. The Bitcoin network just exceeded 1 exahash.

That’s an unfathomable amount of hashing power – more than the top 500 world supercomputers combined. There is literally more processing power going into keeping this network secure than Google or the NSA will ever have.

I understand many of you still prefer centralized currency. Nothing like having Big Brother to keep you safe.

See everyone is afraid of digital currency because we’ve all heard the NWO conspiracy theories. A one-world, CENTRALIZED digital currency is something we should definitely fear. An example of this is the US dollar, since it is global, 97% digital, and 100% centralized.

See, the crypt-anarchists beat them to it. Centralizing control over money is some seriously dangerous s~~~. Anyone who thinks decentralization is somehow a bad thing needs to get their head examined.

Name one technology that made the average man less prosperous or less free…

They don’t exist. Technology ultimately gives US the power not THEM.

Ya better watch out for that scary Bitcoin.

They might track ya…
They might print a trillion currency units…
They might shut off your account…

OH WAIT… there is no THEY. It’s just an internet protocol, like email or TCP/IP… It’s simply a set of rules that everyone follows. F~~~ with the rules and you’re no longer in the network. Create extra currency units or a fraudulent transaction, AND THE INFORMATION WILL SIMPLY FLOW AROUND ANY NODES THAT ARE CORRUPTED/DAMAGED/HACKED…

This is why the government is so fearful of encryption.

PROSPER IN THE NEW FINANCIAL PARADIGM

The future of politics will not be left vs right.

It will be LAND vs CLOUD

The INTERNET is the new printing press.

CRYPTOCURRENCY is the new gunpowder.

Not my property... Not my problem

[Jan SobieskiParticipant]

I have been studying Bushido and Stoicism. F~~~ Chivalry, Bushido…the way of the Warrior.

The everyday Warrior. MGTOW is Bushido.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous]

boisdevie wrote:

So I often find profiles of women that need help and I try to help them.

Wrong move, women of yesteryear didn’t need help, they devoted themselves to their family as promiscuity for the most part did not exist, the days of the unicorn, long ago, when men had a code of honor, the law on their side that did not allow such convoluted filth to exist.

boisdevie wrote:

I have this vain hope that if these deluded t~~~s are challenged often enough they might, just might, get the message that they really need to improve themselves. I’m probably p~~~ing in the wind I know.

Your p~~~ing over a cliff in the face of a hurricane! You owe these modern women absolutely no chivalry, it’s like blood dripping in shark infested waters.

They’re far beyond mental illness, they’ve explored delusional behaviors deep dark abyss!

Looking for a unicorn now is like sifting through nuclear ashes for food you hope you can eat.

[OldBillParticipant]

Spacemonkey wrote:

They are also very happy to reap the “benifits” of feminism all the while decrying the movement which provided these “benifits”. I’m sorry ladies, if you take the Devil’s penny you had better dance to his tune. They are like the anti-union guy at work who will take the pay rise the union has fought for.

Therein lies the rub.

They’ll denounce feminism to the heavens while silently accepting the many privileges feminism provides them.

Similarly, feminists will scream about equality only to bitch about the “lack” of chivalry in their very next breath.

Hypocrisy, thy name is woman.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Anonymous]

Just because feminism melts before us like cotton candy in a hot shower it’s not our fault! I doesn’t make us anything! It’s the strict laws of nature coming home to roost that has it out for feminism!

How long can the arrogance of feminism keep running everything over and expect men to stand in it’s destructive path!(chivalry)

It’s like calling the animals in the path of a tornado the destructive ones! Because they ran out of the way?

MGTOW; here to stay and growing!

Feminism; slowly rotting society away.

I don’t do social rot! If that makes me fem-nemesis then so be it!

It took quite a while compiling the more relevant chapters for this testimony.

But here’s my story..

From the time I was 4 years old I came to the realization that I was and would always be the black sheep of the family. I was the “mistake”….while my sister who came after me was the “blessing”. ,My responsibilities entailed being the emotional (and physical) punching bag whenever pops had more than enough of his liquor intake or whenever anything wasn’t going right in his life, being patronized and belittled for being left handed, putting my elbows at the dining table (like everyone else), coming home without his side-order of cigarettes from the shop because the store owner refused to sell them to me, being responsible for work loads far beyond my age range and being on standby when my sister needed someone to bite or to point her finger at whenever she broke or destroyed something…..I recall many instances of being sat on or suffocated for reasons left unanswered by Mommy Dearest, as well as being beaten in front of her friends for what seemed to be sheer entertainment. For a while in my childhood I started believing that this was normal….that by default I wasn’t entitled to birthday parties, friends, playtime, tons of clothes and awesome Christmas presents like my sister was and that I should keep my head facing the ground because I’m “an ugly big-headed idiot” as well as “a burden” as redundantly stated by dadz.
However that perception started to change a bit when I began working at 15. Im sure most of you here know the joy of earning your own cash for the very first few times right?…..Yea, the thought of knowing that the money you have in your savings account will be HUGE by the time you’re ready to go overseas to study at your dream college, where you’ll become an Icon in your field and maybe even make your parents proud? Well here’s a feeling you don’t ever want to experience;……after 10+ years of saving-and-saving-and-saving then winning a scholarship prize that would cover tuition fees I turn to mother dearest (Who I entrusted to take my earnings to the bank and on my account) and ask……”so how much do I have in there?” Long story short, I didn’t attend the college and the scholarship became void, needless to say that my net-worth wasn’t even close to that of a doritoes wrapper. Shame on me for trusting someone who I would always catch strangling my piggy bank ornament by the neck on numerous occasions…..but who am I to be angry at mother for spending out all my savings on……..stuff. Well not just “stuff”……apparently most of my earnings were the prevalent kick-starter for my sister’s entrepreneur business….unknown to me until recently. Unfortunately today I’m still the individual being financially sucked dry. The family of mine broke apart leaving me to attain residence with the initial motherly role who has casually quit her job in the midst of an ongoing nationwide financial/economic crisis because she felt entitled to an early retirement. Im stuck giving her money for rent, food, real and imaginary bills (Yes, imaginary bills, and OVER the actual required amount for the real bills to my recent discovery) and the occasional excuses like “my toe is hurting me, give me $200 to go to the doctor.” or “My friend wants to “borrow” some money to do……something, she’ll pay you back in a few weeks” Note that right now Im working multiple jobs everyday and being paid by the term, and not paid much at that”

Relationships? Well, I’ve for the most part of my life been the “friendzonee”, I’m the guy that has to hear about the dude from her neighborhood sucking her genitals while she is giggling on the phone with me when she rejected my request for a date only the night before. I’m the guy that musters up the courage for months/years just to say those ‘three little words’, and get a “Yea, I know :)” as a response and eventually a spammed chat box and my messenger window loaded with pics of her and a boy she met the day after…..until he screws her, breaks up with her, and we do that same process again and again. Im the guy who keeps the forced smile on my face whenever the female I invested courage/money/time/support on flaunts her engagement rings she stupidly bought for her financially decrepit-emotionally distanced soulmate and herself and constantly asks me how happy I am for her, knowing Im going to be the shoulder to cry on when he gets what he wants and leaves. I’m the guy whose lengthy romantic letters are used by the lady I dedicate them to for plagiarism when they in-turn write a love-letter to some random sap with no ambition other than spreading legs and taking names.
Ok, Ok…I definitely have been in a relationship, with a Christian girl at that…..sealing that deal seemed to be a fitting complement to a 5 year old crush since secondary school. Now I didn’t mind her forcing me into a vow of celibacy. I didn’t mind her being skeptical of us kissing for more than 2 seconds, I assumed that’s how religious girls are and besides, my mindset at that time was “OMG I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND, I’m not going to let anything screw this up”. I sacrificed alot for her, Even an invitation by the Prime Minister (Basically a President of a Caribbean country) Just to spend time with her. I foolishly turned down other events for her, I even dismissed the fact that my grades were slipping a little when we were in college together. It seemed as though it was just us two vs the world…..of course until she got her cherry popped by a mini-bus conductor now turning 40 her 17 yr old ass was admiring on the side. You can imagine how troubling it was for her to tell me she cheated on me……..you know….with the blushing triumphant smile on her face and the sarcastic “Awwww” and the pat on my head when I told her how hurt I was. Foolish me decided to accept her back when she put on the crying act on the phone a few days later. Soon enough this female I rekindled a tarnished relationship with was telling me about a guy she met in town and became friends with, and asked me to come with her and him to the movies. I was appalled by the fact that she would want me to accompany her and a random guy “friend” to the movies like if I was some kind of 3rd wheel (I’m her bf dammit). I was p~~~ed off of course and she claimed I was over-reacting. Well after they went alone to the movies together and they accidentally kissed (mhmm…..accidentally), they got into an argument and he left her at the cinema. Naturally she called me crying saying that he kissed her and she yelled at him for doing so. Now I know guys……I’m an idiot, why was I still with her? Well, I guess I wanted to prove everyone wrong, I wanted to prove that my relationship can last, despite her infidelity. I wanted to believe that she would eventually become faithful…….after all, she is a religious girl, right? Who am I not to forgive her…….twice? So after that scenario I became almost emotionally numb, I didn’t want to “over-react” whenever she was boldly flirting with my friends and asking them for their numbers right in front my face. I didn’t want to “over-react” whenever she made an embarrassment of me in front of family and acquaintances. I didn’t want to “over-react” whenever she came at my house and didn’t feel like speaking to me or transferred all my phone credit to hers. The day I finally broke up with her, It resulted In her laughing in my face while I was pushing her out of my house, then her calling the cops with false allegations that I violently assaulted her (Her uncle was Commissioner of Police at that time). I almost missed my exam that day. Apparently she thought she was entitled to waltz in my home and I was supposed to leave her there to do whatever (or probably whoever) she wants. Oh and guess where she got the credit to use her phone to call the cops on me. (Well I shouldn’t be mad, after all she DID leave 35 cents out of my $10 dollars I had credited on my device.) But all irony aside, I guess I was a guy who loved too strong and found it hard to give up on people but for a while I felt as though I was totally over her….In fact 2 weeks after our break up, I recall my friend and I playing video games and he paused the game and announced that he had a confession to make…..just by mere instinct, without hearing his confession, I unpaused the game and jokingly told him “well I hope you satisfied her better than I did haha” and continued playing. (We’re not friends anymore of course) 2 years ago, she called me. I was astonished to hear her voice and I suppose some feelings came back as well. We started talking and It almost got to the point where I would finally make love to her for the very first time until she told me that she had an STD, and that (get this part Lol) I would “just have to accept her how she is now”. We don’t talk anymore because I guess being sympathetic and acknowledging her whenever I could doesn’t really tantalize her loins like a good ol’ fashioned sexual disease transmission session from one of her recent hit-and-run boyfriends would.
So yea, I’ve been single for almost 13 years. 31 now and more recent scenarios have given me an absolute distaste for women. Last story for now, I promise:
So as a music teacher I offered to take on a neighbor’s student. Now this student is a minor and has a huge reputation for promiscuity and lying. Unfortunately I didn’t know that until she flashed me a few times during my tutoring session. This resulted in me giving her a series of pep talks which at the end of it all went ignored. Now before I continue, you may ask….what do you mean by “promiscuity”…..well, I’m talking, being caught behind her school by a teacher with the father of another attendee at that same school, I’m talking about flashing in public, I’m talking about sending naked pics and nasty chat dialogue to grown men who usually buy beer and liquor at her mother’s unlicensed establishment…..but enough about that dirt. As of recent, Her mother decided that the reputation I’ve built was something her child would never amount to, so It would be only feasable to tarnish it the moment I indicate to her what her daughter had been doing during my classes. That mother-daughter duo has a history of lying for each other for pointless reasons, like their birthdays, how well her daughter is doing in school and if she puts in personal practice at home on the instrument I selflessly gave her. The new lie for the past few months is that I sexually assaulted her child, and if you guys were to hear the allegations, you wouldn’t believe them. Anyway, she even made a police report. Now the rest of that family, especially the father figure knows what she is doing, but like the puppet he is, he is on her side since she also spread a bit of scandal about him sexually assaulting the same daughter and he think’s I’m the one spreading that rumor. I’m sure it was a joy for them when the cops came at my door, slapped on the cuffs and escorted me through the neighborhood to their cars. (The cells in a police station are cold as hell, but i digress) I am expecting a hearing in a few months. From what I’ve heard, so far the daughter has been well trained to look “scared” at the sight of me, recite lines in court and heaven knows what else (probably cry on contact). In my country much of america’s policies are followed and in some cases over executed, so I’m hoping that I don’t have a jury that will believe a vile human being and her daughter at the end of it all.
Here where I live, women and females in general have this sense of over-entitlement, Once you have a vagina, you can do almost anything you want without repercussion. For example, If a woman passing you on a sidewalk comes over on your side, you better haul ass and make way for her. Even female children can humble a grown male pedestrian’s directions and they know it. Being a female gets you free rides on the bus, depending on how short your skirt is or if you know how to smile, and they are privileged to take a dump on any chivalry shown to them. Women cheating here is a norm as well, and there is even a word press article (“Naked Departure” I think its called) where bored females who like scandal give pics of their Ex boyfriends or husbands or other male politicians/artistes/personalities they don’t like (and in some cases don’t even know) to the publisher who then creates an article labeling these random guys as molesters, drug dealers, murderers, pornographers, pimps, abusers, homosexuals, frauds or anything not deemed of good regard in my country, which ofcourse results to shame and embarrasment for those guys who end up finding out about the article while browsing their facebook news feed.
Ofcourse the forementioned experience has pushed me even farther in the corner. Before It happened, I vowed to live by myself and grow old alone……Imagine how I feel toward females NOW. I can’t stand the sound of a female speaking, My head starts to hurt after 2 sentences…….their inflections of speech eventually start sound like nonsense, no kidding.
I had a friend……well, a “friend”. I was basically her dumping ground for homework from secondary school to college to university, and her confidant whenever she and her countless amount of boyfriends she chose over me got in to a dissagreement or cheated on her, as well as her mirror-mirror-on-the-wall whenever she needed the feeling of confidence and selfworth. I relayed this situation im going through to her. I couldn’t imagine the backlash I would get. It was the only thing she messaged me about that wasn’t related to homework. Whenever she was bored, she would message me just to degrade me calling me a molester and a “lonely sad f**k” just to feel a sense of triumph.” (Of course she did this when she completed university and had no more homework) It actually gave me a mental breakdown. When I got back home. I wrote her the most eloquent “f**k you” letter and eradicated her from my social circle.
I used to enjoy teaching but now any classes I have I go with the paranoid presumption that I might give my students too much homework and one might get angry and say I did something vile to them. I’m more distanced from my female colleagues now, and Its not nice hearing my name all over the neighborhood because of a spiteful jealous human-being. Half the buses on my route don’t even stop for me any more. (Its gotten that bad). I’ve already made the mistake entrusting my preparatory lawyer fees to my mom, not going to do that again of course.
I remember going on the internet not long ago, and stumbling on this site. Honestly I thought I was the only one who had run-ins with women of my magnitude until I found this site. I’m truly fortunate I did.

[Anonymous]

We’ve had hundreds of years of chivalry. Women are now privileged beyond belief and they still keep asking “what more can I get”.

It’s time for men to start expecting reverse chivalry of women. We can’t change women, but we can change ourselves. We need to expect a lot more from women and hold them to a higher standard.

Women should be working towards tangible results to help boys in education. Any woman that doesn’t engage in reversible chivalry and get positive tangible results for men in the real world isn’t worthy of your time and attention. If we don’t get that then fine, our time would be better invested in doing stuff that makes our own lives better than on some selfish little girls.