My first non-Chivalrous act

[Anonymous 54]

The lady next door. Loud dominant,fat complaing nasty witch with short hair cut..you get the drift. It snowed here. I got up,put the coffe on ,then heard spining tires in the snow.I look out the window and see she cant get out of her driveway.The old me would throw on my boots and hustle my ass out there to push. Thats what Men do right? Wrong! Not any more. I closed the curtain grabed a cup of coffee and put my feet up. Wow! How freeing! I dont have to do that s~~~ any more. This is the world they have created for them selves. I hope there happy.

[007 (Reborn)Participant 1672]

Congratulations dude.

I think it is still cool to help out other people when they need help. It doesn’t matter if they are a man or women. As long as it isn’t a burden for me to help out, I will.

It is your choice though. You’ve discovered a new freedom. Enjoy it however you want!

Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

[OldBillParticipant]

Mgtow is not about being selfish..it’s about not being a slave for others anymore.

Another Pearl of Great Wisdom, Bunker Mode. I think Key should add it to the front page’s quote rotation.

Riffing on Bone’s initial post, I once had a twenty-something single woman ask why I never used my snowblower on her driveway when I regularly cleared the driveway of the 85 year old couple across from me.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Anonymous 54]

007 (Reborn) wrote:

Congratulations dude.

I think it is still cool to help out other people when they need help. It doesn’t matter if they are a man or women. As long as it isn’t a burden for me to help out, I will.

It is your choice though. You’ve discovered a new freedom. Enjoy it however you want!

I will help people who are capable of gratitude,and would have my back in return. A lifetime of giving has taught me thats not women.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

The old me would throw on my boots and hustle my ass out there to push. Thats what Men do right? Wrong! Not any more. I closed the curtain grabed a cup of coffee and put my feet up. Wow! How freeing!

The “sense of obligation” was one of the toughest bits of programming I had to unlearn. Took years. The “feeling guilty” for not saying yes, or jumping at the a chance getting at a star in heaven named after me for some grand gesture was stronger than I even I realized.

I said “yes” because I could. It wasn’t putting me out. I was glad to do it.

… until the first time I was punished for it.

I once looked up a woman’s address and sent her flowers to cheer her up from a family tragedy, and she called me a “stalker” for that. That’s when I asked myself what the f~~~ing point is anymore.

On Chivalrous acts, just yesterday I re-told a story (here) where I held the door for a woman in 1993 who was approaching with bags in both her hands. She said “I can open the door myself”. So I let the door slam in her face, walked away and I will never forget it. Because it was one of the first times I was treated like an asshole for being KIND.

So in the age where women will treat you like an asshole no matter WHAT you do… that is reason enough to simply refuse to anything for them at all.

Enjoy. And feel good about it.

OldBill wrote:

Another Pearl of Great Wisdom, Bunker Mode. I think Key should add it to the front page’s quote rotation.

Well noted! (thanks Stealthy).

The quotes and testimonials are the parts of the archives which still require finessing and are nearly complete. We also have archive materials which are missing photo representations. We released them anyway because it was necessary, but as soon as we tighten it up, RoyDal’s quote collection will also be injected into there ASAP as well, and we can start adding many more. Thank you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RoyDalParticipant]

She’s stand in the window and I’d wave as I plowed her walk…she would not wave, nod or nothing…total c~~~ behavior.

Not even a simple “thanks,” not a trip to the bakery to pick up a bag of goodies for you, what a c~~~!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 54]

I was once willing to lay my life down for a lieing c~~~ of a girlfriend.Littleraly.A story i will tell when im ready.Young dudes on heer WILL treat me with respect.I dont need there permission to celebrate my new freedom.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Isn’t it curious that the OP (“bone”) will always remember his “first non-chivalrous act” as a landmark moment in his life and is compelled to start a thread on it. And I am also here remembering my “first non-chivalrous act” as a landmark moment in my life – 23 years after the fact.

Says something, doesn’t it.
Why are these “landmark moments” at all?

Because men are so conditioned to automatically please bow and serve, that not doing it (and being consciously aware of it) is actually MORE of a personal accomplishment and gives a man a greater sense of self worth and personal satisfaction – because he broke free from that s~~~.

NOT being chivalrous gives men more personal satisfaction than actually being the “man” women would prefer him to be – even if it means totally displeasing her and never getting her approval.

If I can make that rhyme, we will have a #1 hit single.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

Another entertaining story Bunker mode! I’m reading this all while sipping Benedictine (as recommended by you and it is certainly tasty) from my chalice and having a laugh.

The white knights hunt for the holy grail, when really it’s been under our noses the whole time; our own sovereignty.

It reminds me of when my ex lost her s~~~ when I came to drop off my son and I refused to listen to her spiel of BS. The irony was the gaslighter had ignited herself when I decided I wouldn’t respond to her nonsense and instead ignored her.

Glad to see your still in the lighthouse turning on the beacon for those searching for the light.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[Anonymous 54]

Its a hard instinct to over come.Its part of the goodness in Men that women no longer deserve.I had to force myself to not help. I have never done anything in my life like that before.I felt guilyt for about 30 seconds.Then i felt free!!!!!!!

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Congrats!

If I need to do it again, I’d repeat what Mr. B said : “MGTOWs aren’t selfish, they’ve just stopeed giving a f~~~ about helping people who treat him like s~~~ and do not respect him.” Its very important to know the difference. And who made them like that? That’s right! These women themselves!

Just ike $aver wrote in the post that described the fundamentals of MGTOW, its a double-edged sword. They want to be independent, so we’re letting them be independent. They believed that being helped by men makes them inferior to them. Well, good luck now! Do it yoursef!! We’re out!!!!

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[Anonymous 54]

Thanks Varun. Its a surpriseingly emotion thing for me. Am i still a man???How do i mesure my self now? What is the foundation of my belief system? Most unusual.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Anonymous wrote:

Thanks Varun. Its a surpriseingly emotion thing for me. Am i still a man???How do i mesure my self now? What is the foundation of my belief system? Most unusual.

No wonder you’re asking those questions. All our vital moral principles were based on lies! If we don’t have those, who are we?

This thing answered most of my questions. I’m re-posting it in the hope it helps you too.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Varun wrote:

This thing answered most of my questions. I’m re-posting it in the hope it helps you too

Thats awesome. We know the author of that video “AndyMann” and he will be very glad to know that it had some positive impact on your life. Thank you for passing it on as a way of bettering someone else’s.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[SilentParticipant 303]

These are all great stories. I’ve yet to come across my “non-Chivalrous” act yet because I hardly interact with women at all right now.

I remember in my blue pill years that I would do anything to help women out. The urge to be a white knight at least in me is really strong even since I became MGTOW because men are so conditioned to be this way around men at an early age.

Once when I was in college, I helped this foreign woman out. She was probably from Thailand. She was a nursing student that asked me to help her out with something on the computer. Turns out, she was just using me to write her paper. I saw her grades when she logged her student account. It was so damn pathetic. She had a 2.1 GPA and had mostly C grades in most of her classes. I felt bad, so I wrote a few of her papers for her. She didn’t even acknowledge the work I did and I barely even got a thank you for it.

In normal circumstances, I wouldn’t have done it, but she was one of those foreign women that were acting like “she can’t speak English so good.” So I figured I’d help her out because of that. I mainly just typed and she stood behind me telling me what to type.

[Anonymous 7]

good s~~~ brother

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

Varun wrote:

No wonder you’re asking those questions. All our vital moral principles were based on lies! If we don’t have those, who are we?

Do you just mean chivalry? Can you be more specific? I’d like to explore what exactly you mean by this.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Well my step mother who is around 73 years old got help from the neighbor although she never expected it. My father is 80 years old and not in good health so he can’t really help much.
I think it’s good to help the older folks, meaning 60 years old or above man or woman. Anyone younger than that should be able to do on their own.

Remember many of these women leave me when they become sick. JTO and feminism LOL did a video on a guy who was left to be homeless while he provided for the woman for many years. Most women don’t want to return the favor they will just leave and try to smooch off another sucker.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

I’m not sure if this was an example of a non-chivalrous (opposite of chivalry) act or an achivalrous (without chivalry one way or the other) act.

The difference is that there’s no need to be a dick, but also no reason to be a white knight captain save-a-ho.

Anonymous wrote:

I closed the curtain grabed a cup of coffee and put my feet up.

I’d have left the curtain wide open and enjoyed my coffee while watching her work. You can’t buy that kind of entertainment.

I stood in the window and had two drinks watching her shovel and toss fits and look back at me in the window…I just sipped my drink.

Great minds really do think alike.

Keymaster wrote:

Isn’t it curious that the OP (“bone”) will always remember his “first non-chivalrous act” as a landmark moment in his life and is compelled to start a thread on it. And I am also here remembering my “first non-chivalrous act” as a landmark moment in my life – 23 years after the fact.

I’ve been thinking for a bit on this, and I honestly can’t recall mine. At a very young age I learned to always ask: “What’s in it for me?”

However I do have an amusing snow shoveling story of my own. Or at least one that amuses me. This whiny neighbor bitch kept nagging for me to shovel her driveway after I finished my own. (Why is it always a whiny bitch neighbor?) She just would not shut up about it. In the time it took her to harangue me she could have cleared it herself. Eventually I got tired of hearing her harping about it so I told her: “Look, I don’t have time to shovel both driveways. The best I can do is shovel half of yours and then I have to go. Take it or leave it.” After complaining she finally took it, figuring a half shoveled driveway is better than nothing. Little did she know…

So I shoveled precisely one half of her driveway. Lengthwise. While throwing the shoveled snow onto the other half.

When I got home that night I saw she’d royally f~~~ed her minivan (very nearly completely rolled) it trying to drive it down her half cleared, half double snow load driveway.

She never bothered me again.

[Jim01Participant 6678]

I’m still stuck in blue pill mode for this subject UNLESS I am using public transport and then I couldn’t give a s~~~ as too many women have tried to push on trains or grabs seats when I have been there before them….just doesn’t happen

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