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It’s been a while since I’ve done this. I’ll make it brief.

I’m from South East Asia, been MGTOW for 6 years now and without a doubt it’s been a turning point, a watershed moment in my life.

I grew up watching the dysfunctional relationship of my parents;specifically how much of a mangina white knight my father was. That, coupled with a psychologically abusive mother and narcissistic, entitled older sister, resulted in a hostile living condition for all the boys in the household.

The boys are oftened punished physically and mentally while the girls could f~~~ing do whatever they want with impunity. My mother would complain and nag as well as turn her sons against the father despite the fact that my father is a great protector and provider, while my older sister would demean and berate her brothers openly.

I saw the thing played out in the wider society. Where thirsty cucks would supplicate to women. There was something wrong with women getting the pussy pass that I can’t grasp why this was allowed to happen. Regrettably and shamefully, I’ve done them too, I’m not going to lie, but only because I didn’t know better. Thinking that if I was a good protector and provider, then women, men and society would reward me.

Boy, was I wrong.

It turns out that women really don’t care about honor, integrity, honesty, compassion or fairness. The bottomline is, women just want wage slaves and f~~~ chad. I learned that the hard way. But I still couldn’t exactly put it all together yet.

Then 6 years ago I stumbled across Razorbladekandy, Barbarossa, ManWomanMyth and Stardusk,and everything I experienced, all the observations I made, now had a concrete explanation and evidence behind it all. Hypergamy, neoteny, pussy pass, white knighting, narcissism, solipsism, sexual dimorphism; everything I saw now had a name and a reason for it.

It was revelation.

I could finally let go of the shame that was put on me and the guilt that was stewing inside. I can clearly see through the lies and subterfuge and it felt liberating.

Going my own way had saved my future and helped me buried the past.

I’ve come to mgtow central often to read the great posts by members and thought I’d join after seeing really great posts by Keymaster.

So, hello, I’m a man going his own way and it’s f~~~ing fantastic to be here.

[HammerheadParticipant]

ChaosOverAll:

JollyMisanthrope wrote:

This shows how doomed Hillary was from the start. You had Madonna offering to blow all the guys that voted for Hillary, musicians offering free tickets to their concerts, and so on. They were basically begging in the most pathetic manner to get people to support Hillary, which was a huge red flag.

Yep, desire is not negotiable. Was that a Barbarossa saying? How appropriate here…

I’ve just started listening to this guy. He reminds me somewhat of Barbarossa. A useful reminder for those who think they’ve sniffed out a NAWALT!

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[GnosticParticipant]

Stentorian wrote:

FullMetalExo wrote:

@ Stentorian.
In short:
We all got our own perspectives and life. You are sharing your views on mgtow/your own way as is everyone else.

From my perspective Old Bill is not aiming to appease emotional tampons, for me his posts are blunt and helpful.

If you think it’s your duty to spread the philosophy, do it. That’s your way, that’s the beauty of the mgtow – I don’t have to do what you want me to do.

I get your meaning and I agree for the most part.

You do not need to do what I believe in or feel moved to do. That much is true.

But you cannot deny, that sitting on your hands, and not sharing what you have benefited from, is an Honorable thing.

There is no Honor in this at all.

Perhaps that is my biggest problem with this forum, and the majority of the members here. They do not seem to give a s~~~, in helping anyone.

Of course, this is every person’s right.

But it does not benefit anyone. And if the people who initially created MGTOW content, thought as you do, in that they don’t have to help others. How would you have found this material?

You, me and everyone here, have gained this knowledge and wisdom through the content produced by people who specifically felt called to help others who were asleep and f~~~ed in the blue pill world.

Now to take benefit from this, and not feel any obligation to give back. Or help others in any way.

This to me, while it is an individual choice, I do not disagree there.

But by taking this stance, and not helping others, there is no help given and hence no Honor in it.

Now if this is the kind of place that MGTOW is. Or at least, at present.

Then I would not want to involve myself to heavily with people who are only interested in helping themselves.

My interest lies in helping others. And always has.

To each his own. There we agree.

I guess when I heard Stardark, and Barbarossa, Spetsnaz. I thought the MGTOW site would be more than what I have found it to be at present.

Perhaps in time, the prevailing attitude may change?

Either way, we have no quarrel. And despite any points of contention, I do respect everyone’s right to go their own way, in whatever suits them best.

Oxymoron.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

[StentorianParticipant]

FullMetalExo wrote:

@ Stentorian.
In short:
We all got our own perspectives and life. You are sharing your views on mgtow/your own way as is everyone else.

From my perspective Old Bill is not aiming to appease emotional tampons, for me his posts are blunt and helpful.

If you think it’s your duty to spread the philosophy, do it. That’s your way, that’s the beauty of the mgtow – I don’t have to do what you want me to do.

I get your meaning and I agree for the most part.

You do not need to do what I believe in or feel moved to do. That much is true.

But you cannot deny, that sitting on your hands, and not sharing what you have benefited from, is an Honorable thing.

There is no Honor in this at all.

Perhaps that is my biggest problem with this forum, and the majority of the members here. They do not seem to give a s~~~, in helping anyone.

Of course, this is every person’s right.

But it does not benefit anyone. And if the people who initially created MGTOW content, thought as you do, in that they don’t have to help others. How would you have found this material?

You, me and everyone here, have gained this knowledge and wisdom through the content produced by people who specifically felt called to help others who were asleep and f~~~ed in the blue pill world.

Now to take benefit from this, and not feel any obligation to give back. Or help others in any way.

This to me, while it is an individual choice, I do not disagree there.

But by taking this stance, and not helping others, there is no help given and hence no Honor in it.

Now if this is the kind of place that MGTOW is. Or at least, at present.

Then I would not want to involve myself to heavily with people who are only interested in helping themselves.

My interest lies in helping others. And always has.

To each his own. There we agree.

I guess when I heard Stardark, and Barbarossa, Spetsnaz. I thought the MGTOW site would be more than what I have found it to be at present.

Perhaps in time, the prevailing attitude may change?

Either way, we have no quarrel. And despite any points of contention, I do respect everyone’s right to go their own way, in whatever suits them best.

“He who takes an eel by the tail, or a woman at her word, soon finds he holds nothing.”

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Buller100 wrote:

Not for women , for them it’s a great idea they gain equity and money for free.

That’s more true than anyone would guess.

Personal “feelings” on the matter play less of a role when realizing a marriage contract / relationship is nothing but a business and a bottom line for women. Barbarossa broke this down 4 years ago and he’s not even a psychologist.

For starters, Vice showed women will even stay in bad relationships as long as it pays the rent.

In this beautifully researched piece, he shows how marriages and divorce are just a business transaction for women (including in lesbian relationships where there is no man at all) because the moment women have “their own money” or some kind of affluence, they divorce in record numbers – WORLDWIDE.

So the “happily married man” is essentially living a lie.
Interesting to say the least.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[MgtowWaveParticipant]

I think Trump and HRC are in cahoots.

They were friends for years and years.

Barbarossaa spoke about Trumps gynocentrism.

These ignorant women saying they own the future are like children who get a dollar or two from daddy and mommy so because they are never satisfied and then,think they deserve 20 or 50 or 100 $$$s at a time.

Argueing with women and their sycophants is a waste of time.

Time to show them some tough love.

Let or even encourage them to build their towers of ridiculousness so that they can experience failure.

“Girl power” needs to be allowed to fall flat on its face.
Because its a hollywood illusion.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

Greetings everyone,

I wanted to write a brief intro, as I am new to MGTOW. Not to the way of life, as I have been mostly single since 2003. Only having dated on and off since that period, with very few short/long term relationships. So in a sense, I’ve been MGTOW without realizing it, for quite some time now. But only 2 months ago, discovered the community and philosophy of MGTOW. And this incredible site and the brave men who have walked through hell and back, still here, and thriving. And if not thriving, then at least on the path towards recovery.

Since having discovered MGTOW. I took the Red Pill. And have been steadily watching, learning and studying the underlying science behind this philosophy. Stardusk, Barbarossa, Spetsnaz. And many others. Each opened my eyes to the reality that for most of my life, I have been completely asleep. Blue pill as can be.

I’ve always been in relationships, and have had female partners. The longest was 8 years. And I regret it, as I literally wasted my youth on someone who did not deserve it. If I had access to MGTOW resources then, well….let’s just say my life would have been quite different. I would have dumped her. And spent those years banging. It may sound crude, but there is no shame in wanting to derive pleasure from females. Spending that amount of time, with just 1. Given everything I have now been exposed to, confirms that this was a total f~~~ing waste of my time. Alas, we learn the hard way. If only knew then…

Now, in my mid 30’s. I have found these resources. They have opened my eyes and awakened me from the slumber that has been the majority of my life. I see now the truth behind Feminism. Misandry. Hypergamy. The utter horror stories that I have been reading the last few days, of the good men who had been used and f~~~ed over by the court system and ex-wives. Just brutal. I empathize with those men very much. I was not married, but my longest relationship dragged on for 8 years. Was not a walk in the park either. I thank God that I never married. What a nightmare that would have been.

So now, having seen the many videos on youtube. Almost every video here and audio. I am in a period of profound awakening.

As an aside, I would like to mention, that my father is also learning about the MGTOW philosophy and teachings. He’s just getting into all the materials online, steadily going through them. I would not be surprised if he signed up in the near future, given his interest and what he’s found via all the content here and on youtube. As he already feels a sense of relief and comradery.

I am humbled by what I see here. We stand on the precipice of something great. Where men will regain their rightful place. And this philosophy cannot be stopped. It is as futile as trying to stop truth. Just as Barbarossa stated, [paraphrasing] “MGTOW represents certain fundamental truths, which when absorbed. It becomes very difficult to go back to being as we once were.” That for me, has been the process for the last 2 months.

My father got f~~~ed by the courts and by my mother. I lost 8 years of my life to someone totally undeserving. But we are both here, and we want to thank all of you. For being here, for sharing and for joining and moving together. Evolving, healing and growing into stronger and even better versions of ourselves.

With the Deepest Gratitude to MGTOW, and everyone here. The pic below, is a nice graphic representation of the inherent process that is MGTOW. Freeing one’s self from all forms of enslavement. And going our own way.

“He who takes an eel by the tail, or a woman at her word, soon finds he holds nothing.”

[MgtowWaveParticipant]

Old Sage.

I can imagine how you feel.

I have avoided any kind of dating or fwb situation for years now and the emotional and mental scars are as present as ever.

It F~~~ing burns.

Damn why didnt i have someone like Barbarossa and Stardusk back then?

I regret every relationship i have ever been in.

Keep your head up OldSage.

Keep your heads up guys

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Veritech Ace wrote:

While I can’t disagree with the effectiveness of such an approach, especially after reading Barbarossaa’s article on hybristophilia on sheddingoftheego.com, I think we all know it would put men on a fast track to a 5×5 jail cell. I don’t care how much you think you’ve got your woman “in line,” all it takes is just one phone call and she’ll introduce you to the proxy violence of the state in a matter of minutes; even if you never laid a hand on her.
No…it ain’t worth it…I’ll just go my own way thank you very much.

I’ll go you one better. Why should that be my job? If I have to hit someone to keep them in line, then they aren’t worthy of my time. I’m a grown ass adult and if some woman has to be treated like a child in order to for her to be a decent human being then I’m just getting as far away from her as possible.

Seriously, no one has to hit me in order for me to have an intelligent decent conversation. Change that from your girlfriend to your guy friend for a minute. Do you have to smack your guy friends to keep them in line?

If she really wants to get smacked around, just wait a few years. The Wall will do it for you.

Order the good wine

I found this website that advocates spanking women in order to keep them in line, and because they subconsciously desire to be kept in line through such measures.

http://theheadofhousehold.com/mgtow/

While I can’t disagree with the effectiveness of such an approach, especially after reading Barbarossaa’s article on hybristophilia on sheddingoftheego.com, I think we all know it would put men on a fast track to a 5×5 jail cell. I don’t care how much you think you’ve got your woman “in line,” all it takes is just one phone call and she’ll introduce you to the proxy violence of the state in a matter of minutes; even if you never laid a hand on her.

No…it ain’t worth it…I’ll just go my own way thank you very much.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

MgtowWave wrote:

I owe Barbarossa and Stardusk and RBK ….. MGTOW is the only sane way.

You only owe it to yourself. 🙂

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[MgtowWaveParticipant]

When i signed up i think we were like 5000 or mabe 7g but now?

We grow and our influence seeps everywhere.

KM and guys like Sidecar and Puffinstuff i owe you.

I owe Barbarossa and Stardusk and RBK .

Reality is sad.
A dose of reality is a stinging slap in the face.

MGTOW is the only sane way.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[MgtowWaveParticipant]

Good idea:
Change your phone number.

Lesson learned hopefully.

If you are not as stupid as i was before i started watching Barbarossa videos.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[MgtowWaveParticipant]

Barbarossa made a video years ago about how male mortalaty has gone up relative to womens.

Anyone want to look it up?

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

I’ve been MGTOW for a few years. My red-pill moment came when I was another forum in which the men started posting about their brutal divorces. I could understand the wife being hurt and bitter to the extent of her saying she hates him or whatever. But all these men from diverse walks of life with such similar stories of false accusations, underhanded cash grabs (that were often at play from the beginning of the marriage), and attempts to utterly destroy him (if she snagged a new provider and didn’t his financial support) made it clear that marriage isn’t worth it these days. The worst, though, was the prevalence of their turning the kids against the father and in other ways dragging them through as much of the drama as they could. I of course heard stories like these over the years, but seeing all those posts flooding in brought the whole thing together for me so I could finally see it for what it was. It was like growing up believing that all my childhood dogs ran away, then finding out that there was an alligator in the neighborhood.

As we all know, it doesn’t stop with the women. The stories abounded with unscrupulous lawyers, hostile family courts, and local societies that apparently thought believing the damsel was the right thing to do. They’ll drive you to the brink of cashing out, then tell you to man up, get back on that horse, and find a single mother to marry. I should point that this scenario hasn’t happened to me. But knowing men who have been treated like this, and knowing that there are so many more of them out there, is more than enough for me.

Once I took the red pill, I looked back on so many of the women who had been in my life (more so relatives and coworkers than romantic interests) and saw them for who they were. I also realized that my father was almost never around when they were. He was obviously steering clear of them.

I sharpened my perspective by listening to Barbarossa, Sandman, Stardusk, and the others. I’m a big fan of Messenger Rising. I’m glad to see that there are so many other MGTOW out there, and I’m glad that they’re spreading the word and educating other men.

I’ll leave the rest for the forums. Looking forward to it.

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

I can’t be too harsh on sandman because he has done his share of helping the movement but let’s just say once you see a lot of his videos and you get the message you kind of move on and there are people like spetsnaz and barbarossa to supplement that but I still go back from time to time.

Δεν υπάρχει τίποτε αδύνατο γι’ αυτόν που θα προσπαθήσει. - Μέγας Αλέξανδρος

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Eyeswideopen wrote:

I will have to start listen to Barbarossa; any suggestions where to start?

If you haven’t yet, you’re really in for a treat.
Left some starter links above.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[EyeswideopenParticipant]

So many others do MGTOW content better.

Mr. Popp was my first introduction to MGTOW and led me to you guys. I find his stuff super entertaining.

I will have to start listen to Barbarossa; any suggestions where to start?

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[KeymasterKeymaster]

FrostByte wrote:

I looked up Barbarossa….. does he have his own channel?

/channel/barbarossa/

This is a great first listen to Barb.
/video/post-feminism-man/

Some more epic singles
/?s=barbarossa

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.