Why do I feel like I do? Is it Red Pill Rage?

[DocParticipant]

Zarathustra wrote:

Yes! You can even be a relatively s~~~ty person but if you spend time with your kids it matters to them and they grow to be healthy. I have no respect for parents who bring children into this world and won’t spend time with them for frivolous selfish reason. Both my parents neglected me and I eventually just stopped talking to them altogether. Its a long story but the short of it is you will have a relationship with your kids in the future. Your wife might not.

With you on that one Zarathustra.
My parents split when I was a baby.
My dad left and returned when I was 13.
My mother neglected me. Preferring the company of men.
My dad killed himself 2 years ago. A blow made easier by his absence when I was young.
I hardly speak to my mother because her neglect has meant we have no meaningful bond. Her behaviour with men even out me off women.

I learned early in life that all kids Need is their parents time and attention.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[OgreParticipant 5863]

SESQUI ano est wrote:

She doesn’t even have a Chad, she is just a self centered spiritual fruit cake.

Eat, take a dick, Pray, it’s a spit roast, Love, Bitch you don’t even know the meaning.

They change religions or spiritual routes to suit the D they seek. It’s just the spiritual version of the hamster wheel.

Enjoy having your kids, and make the most of your time.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

So much good advice.
Mine is come back often and blow off some steam.
It will pass on it’s own.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[DocParticipant]

Thanks Ogre.
That’s the idea. Give them the time children deserve. Thst defo helps me switch off to the nonsense I see all round.

Grab those moments and cherish them.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[DocParticipant]

FrostByte wrote:

So much good advice.
Mine is come back often and blow off some steam.
It will pass on it’s own.

That’s what I do. Daily visits here to keep me straight. Safe in the company of like minded men.

Take things a day at a time and try and grow spiritually and psychological while maintaining physical condition as much as possible as I steadily grow older.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Doc wrote:

That’s what I do. Daily visits here to keep me straight. Safe in the company of like minded men.

Take things a day at a time and try and grow spiritually and psychological while maintaining physical condition as much as possible as I steadily grow older.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[DocParticipant]

Right back at you Frostbyte.

Cheers Brother. 👍

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[JosephParticipant 274]

Even as I type this I am still trying to make sense of that. I freely admit that I still have feelings for my ex Pumpkin so can partly understand the jealousy and envy but she has been seeing this chad for months so why am I feeling these feelings now?

Well if you still have “feelings” for this woman who doesn’t love you and doesn’t give a single f~~~ing s~~~ about you then from this point you will suffer emotional attacks at random. Until you stop giving a f~~~ing s~~~ about her and stop caring about what she does or doesn’t do he she f~~~s or doesn’t f~~~ the pain will continue.

She never loved you ever not even one time. She’s a liar and she used you for money and material goods. Once you finally understand this and believe it your heart can then let her go and you can then find peace in your life.

You got way better things to do then care about what this woman does with her knew breathing atm machine.

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[IRuleMeParticipant]

Why should you be upset? You have your sovereignty, you have your kids… The only person who should be red pill raging is the Chad who your ex is playing like a fool. Stealing his time and resources. Keep it in perspective. If your ex decides to place more importance on her selfish motives and gina tingles over her kids, that’s her problem. It’s not yours. The kids will see, and the kids will resent.

[ghostParticipant]

IRuleMe wrote:

Why should you be upset? You have your sovereignty, you have your kids… The only person who should be red pill raging is the Chad who your ex is playing like a fool. Stealing his time and resources. Keep it in perspective.

ECP has a point.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Joseph wrote:

Even as I type this I am still trying to make sense of that. I freely admit that I still have feelings for my ex Pumpkin so can partly understand the jealousy and envy but she has been seeing this chad for months so why am I feeling these feelings now?

Well if you still have “feelings” for this woman who doesn’t love you and doesn’t give a single f~~~ing s~~~ about you then from this point you will suffer emotional attacks at random. Until you stop giving a f~~~ing s~~~ about her and stop caring about what she does or doesn’t do he she f~~~s or doesn’t f~~~ the pain will continue.

She never loved you ever not even one time. She’s a liar and she used you for money and material goods. Once you finally understand this and believe it your heart can then let her go and you can then find peace in your life.

You got way better things to do then care about what this woman does with her knew breathing atm machine.

“She wasn’t yours, it was just your turn”.

[HermitParticipant]

Ranger One wrote:

If you ever get a chance to f~~~ your ex again, do what I’m going do if I get another chance: pop a big nut on her face and use it to fingerpaint the word “Slut”.

That’s a beautiful thing.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[HermitParticipant]

Doc wrote:

I seriously did not see that coming.
The contempt and part of the anger is because she has f~~~ed off and left the kids so she can have a jolly with chad. But I’m holding contradictory thoughts because there are many times where the kids are with me and she don’t see them. But this time it’s because she has gone overseas.

What the f~~~ is the jealously and envy all about????
Even as I type this I am still trying to make sense of that. I freely admit that I still have feelings for my ex Pumpkin so can partly understand the jealousy and envy but she has been seeing this chad for months so why am I feeling these feelings now? It makes no sense.

Everyone has offered you some good words so just as well that I have none for you, other than this story.

After my divorce it didn’t take long for my x to get another man. I had hated her for so long, it barely affected me at all. I had no more feelings for her, so that was good…..especially good because one day when I went to her house to see my son, her new man was there and she said she wanted me to meet him. What the f~~~? What could be the purpose of that s~~~? Did she wanna’ have a three way? Had I still had feelings for her, I have no idea what I would’ve done…..punched the dude? Anyway, I of course told her I had no interest in meeting the dude. I made it clear. He comes out the door and the dumb bitch tries to introduce us to one another. He sticks out his hand and I calmly say, “You’ll forgive me if I don’t shake hands.” He mumbles something uncomfortably and quickly walks away. She got p~~~ed and said I was rude. Makes me laugh every time I look back on this.

She even went so far as to tell me that this guy turned her on when they were making out. That’s when I was absolutely sure I had no feelings for this dumb bitch. What the hell? Why…???…… Why would she say something like this? How would it affect her if I told her about my new girlfriends and how well they suck my dick? Nonetheless, other than the absurdity of the comment, it didn’t affect me at all. No f~~~s given and that is true freedom.

Dumb bitches are not worth any thought whatsoever. I went through my rage while I was married to her. No reason to waste any time, emotion, nothing on those worthless t~~~s. They are nothing. They do not affect me or my life. I have more emotion for a movie or a TV show about zombies.

Freedom from women is such a wonderful thing.

One last thing. I recently asked a gal out for dinner and she said yes. At the time, I appreciated her interest. Then I thought, I’m having a good time not having women in my life. Why screw that up? The dinner date never happened and I’m still livin’ the good life.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Ever5Participant 1008]

Yeah, I think this all revolves around biology.

Men have an emotional need to be “needed”. It’s so strong that we hallucinate, even me knowing it, I’ve found a couple slips in my thinking. We hallucinate that we are needed by a woman, trying to find someway to be useful or have purpose.

When we find out the truth, when they leave because they don’t need men anymore. All this negative emotion comes up, the flip side of the coin, of what allowed a man to be with a woman in the first place.

When is a woman not a weight and a burden? So why is it that any man would volunteer to be with them in any form of a relationship. They can’t even have decent conversations. They can’t see outside of themselves. That’s why the lack of empathy, it just doesn’t exist, unless they are faking it, being an actor. The whole thing was based on man’s emotional need to be needed, to have a “cause”, a “purpose”. And committed relationships have lost purpose. If men knew that before hand and accepted it fully, how many men would have gotten into a long term relationship? If they knew that it had no purpose?

Anyway bud, just hang in there man.

Glad to know you still have your kids. That’s better than most.

I think the red pill rage stems ultimately from a loss of purpose, or realizing one’s previous purpose was invalid, a waste of time and energy. Maybe find a more meaningful purpose, even sharing your story here has a meaningful purpose, it’s helping other men.

That’s all I got for now.

Truth has no place to live in the mind of a woman.

[nonameParticipant 746]

Hermit wrote:

I went to her house to see my son, her new man was there and she said she wanted me to meet him.
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She even went so far as to tell me that this guy turned her on when they were making out.

You were rude!?
They really do not understand feelings or manners (in this situation). I would go so far to say that she did not know you at all if she wanted for you two to shake hands.

She wanted to provoke and inflict damage it may even be subconscious need.

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. - Aristotle
Warrior asked Fear, “How can I defeat you?” Fear replied, “If you don’t do what I say, I have no power.”

[DocParticipant]

Joseph wrote:

Even as I type this I am still trying to make sense of that. I freely admit that I still have feelings for my ex Pumpkin so can partly understand the jealousy and envy but she has been seeing this chad for months so why am I feeling these feelings now?

Well if you still have “feelings” for this woman who doesn’t love you and doesn’t give a single f~~~ing s~~~ about you then from this point you will suffer emotional attacks at random. Until you stop giving a f~~~ing s~~~ about her and stop caring about what she does or doesn’t do he she f~~~s or doesn’t f~~~ the pain will continue.

She never loved you ever not even one time. She’s a liar and she used you for money and material goods. Once you finally understand this and believe it your heart can then let her go and you can then find peace in your life.

You got way better things to do then care about what this woman does with her knew breathing atm machine.

I keep telling myself this because I actually believe it too. She never loved me. Just what I could provide her.

IRuleMe wrote:

Why should you be upset? You have your sovereignty, you have your kids… The only person who should be red pill raging is the Chad who your ex is playing like a fool. Stealing his time and resources. Keep it in perspective. If your ex decides to place more importance on her selfish motives and gina tingles over her kids, that’s her problem. It’s not yours. The kids will see, and the kids will resent.

Exactly ElCP.
I am annoyed at myself for letting myself be affected.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[DocParticipant]

El canto,
Gambit – I agree that keeping it in perspective is imperative.
It works but I find the anger appear out of nowhere.
I’m calming but was took by unpleasant surprise.

Good story you told there Hermit. Helps me stay more grounded. I keep telling myself I have no f~~~s to give. It works.

Thanks for the input too Ever5

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[MaddladParticipant 765]

You have every right to be angry. You put a lot of time, love and effort into someone who basically used you til she got what she wanted or got bored (her doing, not yours), and now the c~~~ is taking someone else who didnt do anything for her and is going to hump his brains out on holiday. How is that for thanks for all you’ve done for her? Its f~~~ing disgraceful and disgusting mate and you know it. We all do. However, we all know they are all c~~~s and they are all like that. They get a new dick in them faster than you can blink, and they justify it as easily as breathing.
So all we can do is as others have said, take back ownership of your emotions and realise its some other poor idiots problem now, not yours. You have your sovereignty, your kids, and most importantly, your freedom.

Enjoy it for all its worth mate. Freedom is everything! 🙂

[DocParticipant]

Maddlad wrote:

You have every right to be angry. You put a lot of time, love and effort into someone who basically used you til she got what she wanted or got bored (her doing, not yours), and now the c~~~ is taking someone else who didnt do anything for her and is going to hump his brains out on holiday. How is that for thanks for all you’ve done for her? Its f~~~ing disgraceful and disgusting mate and you know it. We all do. However, we all know they are all c~~~s and they are all like that. They get a new dick in them faster than you can blink, and they justify it as easily as breathing.
So all we can do is as others have said, take back ownership of your emotions and realise its some other poor idiots problem now, not yours. You have your sovereignty, your kids, and most importantly, your freedom.

Enjoy it for all its worth mate. Freedom is everything! 🙂

Nice one Maddlad.
I am working on regaining my emotional composure.
I have been going about my hours reflecting on what’s been posted here and it’s been a great help.

I have been reminding myself of everything I have gained. Not lost. I have my sovereignty and won’t give that up too easily. Smashing the excercise to get the negative energy out of my system so I sleep better.
Funny thing is – I slept like a log last night.

THIS PLACE MAKES THE DIFFERENCE.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[HermitParticipant]

noname wrote:

Hermit wrote:

I went to her house to see my son, her new man was there and she said she wanted me to meet him.
—-
She even went so far as to tell me that this guy turned her on when they were making out.

You were rude!?
They really do not understand feelings or manners (in this situation). I would go so far to say that she did not know you at all if she wanted for you two to shake hands.

She wanted to provoke and inflict damage it may even be subconscious need.

The insanity of the female seems to have no limits and they think it’s perfectly normal because, “that’s what women do”, or “that’s just how women are”. Just more of society’s acceptable behavior that absolutely should not be acceptable at all.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

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