When you finally had your "Aha!" moment…….how let down did you feel?

[experiencedParticipant]

sidecar wrote:

When you grow up with a lot of sisters you learn AWALT before walking and talking.

It starts out as All Women In My Family Are Like That. Then you learn All Women In My School Are Also Like That. After that you learn All Women In This College Are Also Like That. Finally you come to the realization All Women Are Like That. All of them.

You horizon may expand as you get older, but it remains at the same level.

Well, there it is. A contributing factor of “a lot of sisters”.
I always look forward to your / Sidecar’s decisive no bulls~~~ views.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[SolidParticipant 7520]

The same as @oldbill

There is no aha moment in my life, there are several f~~~ed up situations that make think about how much time, effort and money I’ve thrown away.

How every relationship make me feel like a slave, alone, miserable, making me the last priority in my life. How a girl try to brainwash me into a slave for her narcissistic needs, and even I doing what I can, she complains all the time.

The redpill was something that I took some years to swallow, and when my eyes were open, even being in the miserable s~~~ cause by a woman, the freedom, the knowledge, the conscience make it worth. When I realised the truth, even with what is the equivalent to 12 usd in my bank account, even being unemployed for 2 years, I felt like the most rich men. And I felt happy as never before.

If I’m worried about money ? When you realize that the all money that you will ever get is and always will be all yours, any 100 usd look like a fortune. I spend each month to pay all my bills now what I, a long time ago, I spend in a weekend with my ex, just to take her out, to do a boring as hell thing, have an bellow average sex, maybe for 10 minutes in the entire weekend.

When the pieces come together, don’t matter how hot she is, don’t matter how much she cries and says that she loves you. You know that this kind of narcissistic psychopath don’t have any emotion besides pride and envy.

There are several moments, that happened to me and to people near me, that make me think about everything. There are so creepy and disgusting things that you won’t even imagine.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

OldBill wrote:

Doc Fenderson wrote:

Knowing that neither of us had condoms or even would have used them if we had, I knew that if we started f~~~ing, it would just be a matter of time before she got pregnant… so I said no, I don’t think it’s a good idea.

Good grief, that happened to me too…

Same here….they all come from the same Hive.

Except this was a few years later in university. She insisted that she was on the “shot” – STI’s aside, I did not trust a word out of her mouth. Then came the “I have a latex allergy” nonsense. This girl was no stranger to the carousel – so I find that highly doubtful. I was idealistic but not dumb. But god – she had a nice ass….

I insisted on a condom, she agreed, and it was a one time thing. Her excuse on not having a repeat performance – “being responsible killed the mood for her.”

My ex wife tried similar games/scams/tactics. I am firmly convinced, before we were married, she was not on the pill. By some miracle she did not become pregnant.

Like Beer stated prior I saved myself over a million already by her jumping to a Chad and not having any children with her. I figured I already won the lottery.

I live frugal and could retire now – but mid 30’s is too young.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[Bestieboy666Participant 2358]

I’ve been single for 15 years now. I mostly remember being repeatedly disappointed every time I got a new girlfriend. The same old same old. They didn’t all nag about the same thing but they did all nag. The entitlement, the demands and in the case of the last one the nauseous selfishness and narcissism. Ther undeserved sense of sell worth was astounding.
The final straw was not even about myself. It was those fun loving, care free friends I grew up with who had been transformed into something unrecognizable. So I suppose you could say this was my ‘aha’ moment but it had been brewing for a long time.

Women are so bad, if they changed the law so I kept the house, I still wouldn't marry one. I'd rather be homeless.

[RennieParticipant]

Well by the point I made my final verdict. I had pretty much had enough of them, so it was actually a big relief to be finally free of them forever. Never again.

It was as if a great burden had been taken off my shoulders.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

sidecar wrote:

When you grow up with a lot of sisters you learn AWALT before walking and talking.

It starts out as All Women In My Family Are Like That. Then you learn All Women In My School Are Also Like That. After that you learn All Women In This College Are Also Like That. Finally you come to the realization All Women Are Like That. All of them.

You horizon may expand as you get older, but it remains at the same level.

So true. I grew up with a sister – unlike you I was not critical enough a thinker to connect the dots and extrapolate about female nature.

Let me use an example. My sister had a fiancé with a 4 year relationship before he broke the engagement. Within a few months she had met her current husband and was married within 2 years. She comes from a good family, has a good career, did not ride the carousel too much, and is not an ultra feminist. In short, she is the closest thing to a NAWALT as you can get in today’s society but is still an AWALT – for the above reasons and others.

This demonstrates that most females do not pair bond on the same level as men. MGTOW aside, I am divorced almost 3 years divorced and have 0% interest in formal dating/relationships- compare that with my sister?

Women view men as an ATM, narcissistic source, and general wish fulfilling genie. You are a replaceable cog; on one level or the other.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[Maraudrz1Participant 2250]

My ‘aha ‘ moment was when at some point I was reading this site and the forums. I had been puzzled all my life by the actions and words of women around. I didn’t understand a lot of things about them. Then I came to this site and started reading. Then I finally read someone who explained why women are attracted to jerks. Big ” aha ” moment and big epiphany for me.

Women's brains and vagina have one thing in common. There is nothing in there until a man puts something in there.

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