To all you guys who had marriages and LTRs with women, what were they like BEFORE things went south? Yeah I’m sure they were great in the sack and had nice bodies, but what was it that kept you in it for so long before things went to s~~~? A lot you guys sound like you had above average decent women for a while, but they had low shelf life.
BEFORE:
– One of the most beautiful women I have ever seen in my life. The most beautiful girl I have ever dated.
– 125 pounds at 5’7″ (smoking body)
– Hardworking and driven. Had worked her whole life and had two degrees, one advanced.
– Humble, caring, loving, provided great sex.
– Romantic and passionate.
– Great kisser.
– Smart women who I felt enhanced me intellectually. Taught me things I didn’t know.
– Seemed mentally stable. No WTF moments or s~~~ tests.
– Tidy. I never saw anything of hers that said “messy.”
– Hated that I played video games and liked them.
– Supportive of me.
– Liked my family.
AFTER:
– Let herself go to the height of about 60-65 extra pounds. This was well after the children. Just cellulite extra fat everywhere.
– Starting wearing this fat suit called Spanks that made me cringe on sight.
– Embarrassed to be seen with her, oftentimes. Frumpy clothes, and she wouldn’t even wear her war paint after awhile, unless at work.
– Would shut down and cry at the slightest bit of criticism or go full rage mode.
– Did not really know how to cook or clean and never really tried to. Didn’t do any real chores besides laundry (but not mine).
– Messy as f~~~. Piles of her s~~~ everywhere. Hair everywhere. Dirty f~~~ing sink and shower from all her makeup goo and whatnot.
– Hated that I played video games and liked them.
– Good worker at her job but lazy as f~~~ at home. Did nothing but watch TV and sleep.
– Had no real hobbies or interests or things that made her grow. Only hobby was f~~~ing shopping and that god damned TV.
– Brought a lot of her family drama into our lives like toxins.
– Went from being a good mom to an absentee parent and more of a friend role.
– Would not kiss me for 15 years. Claimed claustrophobia, which was bulls~~~.
– Hated anything I did that was fun that wasn’t her.
– Tried to restrict my behaviors, friends, and interests.
– Hated all my family members for one reason or another, except my stepmother.
– Hated all my friends.
– Spent way more than her portion of income on clothes and other useless s~~~, especially expensive make up that didn’t do anything about her looking fat as f~~~.
– Went through the I want an upgrade ring phase, because girls at work upgraded their husbands and got bigger and more expensive rings (I declined)
– We lived on two separate floors of the house and went out maybe once every two weeks once the kids could be home alone. It was fun but not enough.
– Became an ultra liberal, feminist, and social justice warrior.
– Started a daily beer drinking habit on top of her s~~~ty eating habits and being near land whale fat.
– Did ABSOLUTELY NOTHING for me or to help me ever.
– Sex dried up to a very poor frequency after kids. Sex was then frequent but pretty mechanical in nature.
– Undermined me repeatedly as a parent, yet had no standard or goals for one kid but double standard for the other.
That’s most of it. Hope this helps. I’m actually glad I did this. It helps me remember why I’m divorcing her.
Holy F~~~! That “after” list was brutal.
Never lose sight of what brought you here.
Mr. Crowley 3 years, 4 months ago.
