The ridiculously high, unattainable standards of women

[SweetDaddyDom420Participant 391]

I have been divorced for 2 years, and dating has been a joke. I have a lot going for me, and I am grateful for that. PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE…. do not take the following as bragging, or being rude in any way. I am just trying to show how impossible dating has become. Even though I am EXTREMELY realistic about my expectations… I just can not find a female that is worth my time. So I have resorted to sugar baby dating.
At least I get something out of the situation. But here are my stats.
I am white.
I am tall…. 6 foot 6 to be exact.
I am well hung. Not to brag, but for the purpose of this exercise… 8 inches. And I am good in bed. The women I usually bang cum until their legs quiver.
I am 42 years old, but still have all my hair and teeth. I am better than average looking, especially for my age.
I am successful. I own my house outright and own my own business.
I have a slim, muscular build, and I am in good physical shape.
I am highly intelligent.
I am EXTREMELY good with tools, and can build a house from the ground up.
I can dance, sing, and I have a great sense of humor. I am very talented at numerous things…

Yet STILL!!!!! It is not enough!!!!! In the last year, I have been in NUMEROUS situations where I lowered my standards. In other words, if I am a 7, I was willing to accept a 6 and 1/2. I am ridiculously realistic about my expectations. I am not trying to have a relationship with super models. I am simply looking for someone who has a similar build as I do, who is similarly attractive. But I just can’t find even ONE who is real, after dating maybe 100 or so. The women whom I know damn well are on my level…. won’t commit to a relationship even after we have AMAZING sex. The women who want a relationship with me…. are fat, old, disgusting, and a solid 2 on a good day. It is absolutely unbelievable the ENTITLEMENT and AUDACITY of women these days. The entire situation has me extremely depressed. My whole life, I wanted one thing. I wanted a good woman to have a life with. It was my “red ryder BB gun” that just never was under the tree at Christmas. Now, after swallowing the bitter red pill, I am left angry, disillusioned,hurt, depressed, and suicidal. And it occurs to me…. even with all I have going for me, I am still miserable. What could it be like for other guys who are not so lucky? I know that I will never be happy living alone. I just can not believe that this is how reality really is. I am sick, tired, and disgusted with the whole situation, yet going completely without females simply is not an option for me. The urge is too strong. I have no clue how to proceed.

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2096]

Why do you need to post stats??? I really don’t care to know whether you are well endowed or not :/

Anyway:

It sounds like your need to be validated by women is taking over your life. Take a break from them. They are simply not THAT important.
I cann see how someone could become addicted to sex but one pussy is not all that different to another, however pretty the packaging. Focus on male friends, hobbies, interests and seek validation OUTSIDE females. They are a black hole of time, resources and attention.

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[Anonymous 5]

That’s women’s delusional way of thinking you have all these great things going on it’s not like you’re a bum .it will never be enough because there always looking for a 1% nothing will do but the top tier .

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote:

The women whom I know damn well are on my level…. won’t commit to a relationship even after we have AMAZING sex.

Why do you want a relations~~~?…really why?

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote:

It is absolutely unbelievable the ENTITLEMENT and AUDACITY of women these days.

Let them be, they will pay a hefty price later

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote:

The entire situation has me extremely depressed. My whole life, I wanted one thing. I wanted a good woman to have a life with. It was my “red ryder BB gun” that just never was under the tree at Christmas.

Stop letting women validate your worth. What you are looking for doesnt exist so its time to dump your mental hard drive. Love is a fallacy created by men for men.

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote:

I am white.
I am tall…. 6 foot 6 to be exact.
I am well hung. Not to brag, but for the purpose of this exercise… 8 inches. And I am good in bed. The women I usually bang cum until their legs quiver.
I am 42 years old, but still have all my hair and teeth. I am better than average looking, especially for my age.
I am successful. I own my house outright and own my own business.
I have a slim, muscular build, and I am in good physical shape.
I am highly intelligent.
I am EXTREMELY good with tools, and can build a house from the ground up.
I can dance, sing, and I have a great sense of humor. I am very talented at numerous things…

I see you’ve been listening to cosmo magazine, women dont know what they want but they do desire assholes, your whole list you never said you were an asshole so 9 out 10 women wont want anything long term with you because its not exciting enough. You have been sold spoiled goods if you think that list is suppose to enhance your chances. Those things are very good for YOU so love yourself more to be content with this, dont set yourself up to be exploited Mr married once before guy, if it aint in your lap dont press.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

Because if a woman is a 6 and above she will be absolutely inundated with messages on online dating sites. Because of this they think there is always someone better just around the corner so why “settle” and miss out on that.

This story in the daily mail is exactly about this :

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4426784/The-uncomfortable-truth-Tinder.html

“Another criticism of the internet dating scene is that it offers too much choice and people live in a perpetual state of thinking that someone better is around the corner, which only leads to dissatisfaction.
‘With so many people to choose from, Tinder can set the bar so high that if you see a person who is not absolutely perfect or who can’t meet you tonight, you keep on swiping until there’s someone else who can,’ says divorce coach Sara Davison.
‘It makes it harder to commit because maybe you think that the next person will tick more boxes. Then everyone starts suffering FOMO — fear of missing out.”

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2096]

Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

Because if a woman is a 6 and above she will be absolutely inundated with messages on online dating sites. Because of this they think there is always someone better just around the corner so why “settle” and miss out on that.

This story in the daily mail is exactly about this :

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4426784/The-uncomfortable-truth-Tinder.html

“Another criticism of the internet dating scene is that it offers too much choice and people live in a perpetual state of thinking that someone better is around the corner, which only leads to dissatisfaction.
‘With so many people to choose from, Tinder can set the bar so high that if you see a person who is not absolutely perfect or who can’t meet you tonight, you keep on swiping until there’s someone else who can,’ says divorce coach Sara Davison.
‘It makes it harder to commit because maybe you think that the next person will tick more boxes. Then everyone starts suffering FOMO — fear of missing out.”

Simpler than that – they become addicted to c~~~, validation and walking wallets!

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[IntellectualSaviorParticipant 1238]

Well, as I read this I thought this was some sort of an introduction or something. Sir, I think this is the moment you really swallow the redpill and become a MGTOW. Yes I’m sorry for the divorce part but after that you somehow faced the reality and the reason that is making many man swallow the redpill.

A chick would be 4 but still want a 10, it’s not what you have, it’s about what they want and they want more and more and more. They don’t care if you can build a house these days it’s about if you can buy one well did I say one? I mean multiple houses. another thing and let me rant a litte.

A person would appreciate something that they work hard for but couldn’t attain themselves. So;
A woman don’t care if you can build a house because they never tried to build house themselves anyways, they never failed in that and why should they appreciate you benig able to build a house?
A woman doesn’t care about your intelligence because they never work hard to achieve that themselves so why would they appreciate your ability to learn?
A woman basically don’t know what it feels like to work hard on yourself and grow as a person.
So I hate to say it but a woman will never really appreciate you and your abilities and this is the cold hard truth most of us faced and went our own ways.
Stay strong sir, you should be going after(not necessarily) 10 don’t lower your standards because they don’t even worth it, you have more than they would offer.

When I have a pen in my hands, it's lethal.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

I have been thinking about this topic (high standards of women) for a few days. I think women, who live in economically stable countries, will end up overpricing themselves to the point where most men will stop trying to impress them. These men will start dating women in other countries who are raised by TWO PARENTS, taught how to be modest, are not potty-mouthed, and are socially influenced to respect men.

There are beautiful women in many different nations who don’t grow up with expensive cars and electronic gadgets. They get by without first world luxuries and super-sized meals. They don’t live in stylish homes. And they aren’t high maintenance. They will respect the hard-working, good men that spoiled women reject—particularly the ones in the USA.

I’m aware that these NAWALTs will change as their societies increase their GDPs—and they may change once they start hanging around first world women—I’m just saying there are dating options for men who can afford to travel and tired of the bitchy land whales w/ tattoos, piercings, and clown makeup. I predict that foreign brides will become more popular with men who are regular guys, but are rejected by the women in their communities. I hope this happens because it would entertain me to see American/first world women getting p~~~ed off at the competition.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[bladeParticipant]

STICK TO YOUR DOLL . STOP BEEN CODEPENDENT .

WOMAN THEY CAN GO AND F~~~ THEMSELVES

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[bladeParticipant]

So are you still in your fathers house he left you . I remember you once saying you lived in an isolated area . What happend to the single mother that was stopping bye . Suicide and depression this has been mentioned before hasn’t it .when your a sugar daddy picking up cheap college girls to f~~~ why be suicidal and depressed .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[KeymasterKeymaster]

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote:

Yet STILL!!!!! It is not enough!!!!! I

OK, STOP.

The problem is not that you’re “not good enough”.
The problem is — >> you still think you need to be.

Just let that sink in for a minute.

If I went strictly by apparent female approval and there was no such thing as a mirror, I would think I looked like Shrek! But I don’t.

… until one day, I was out hiking, and the answer came from meeting a DOG. This older looking dog was approaching about 20 feet ahead of it’s female owner. It was walking slowly and had a “sad” way about him. He walked straight up to me and I didn’t step aside. I bent down and stroked his head … he sat and enjoyed….. and his owner said “OH OH! HE doesn’t react well to tall intimidating men!!” like she expected him to start growling.

I said “Well as you can see, he’s not intimidated at all. We’re friends already.”.

I smiled and continued on.
And that explained it.

She thought I was “tall and intimidating”. The dog didn’t. But a woman thought he should be “afraid” of me – because SHE would be.

You follow?

Don’t ever forget . . . women actually pretend to NOT be attracted to you, when they ARE. Like little school girl crushes, they pretend they don’t “like” a guy for years. And then years later they tell you they had a crush on you.

—

So if you are using ^ THAT S~~~ ^ as some kind of a measure of you not being “good enough”, I’m afraid you’re f~~~ed ad you’re going to be grossly misled.

Women need to be “good enough” for YOU — and not the other way around.

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote:

I just can not find a female that is worth my time.

That doesn’t say anything about YOU.
It says everything about THEM.

Very different from “I’m not good enough”.

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote:

In the last year, I have been in NUMEROUS situations where I lowered my standards.

Why?

However LOW you LOWER the floor of expectation for a woman,
you can always count on her to fall BELOW it.

I have walked into dating situations expecting nothing but civility and basic manners and was STILL disappointed. She didn’t even have the courtesy to show up on time or text that she was going to be late. You think I’m gonna give a f~~~ if I’m “not good enough” in all other ways?

It’s the other way around. SHE’s not good enough.
So don’t get confused.

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote:

The women whom I know damn well are on my level…. won’t commit to a relationship even after we have AMAZING sex.

This is MGTOW – Men Going Their Own Way.
Not “Men Looking for a Relationship”.

And what are you even doing wanting a “relationship” in less than 9-12 months of knowing her and plenty of good times with her first? I wouldn’t want a “relationship” with you based on that alone! You don’t have sex and “POOF!” you’re in a “relationship” now.

The criteria for sex is based on one thing only: ATTRACTION.

The criteria for a relationship is based on a mile long list of things that are worked on and earned over time – by both of you. You are 10,000 times more likely to meet a women you want to shag, than one whom you will want to spend significant amounts of time with, date, sit across from, listen to, eat with, live with, or marry.

I don’t even understand how you can think you have a problem.

The only “problem” here is =- >> you think you need to be “good enough”.

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote:

And it occurs to me…. even with all I have going for me, I am still miserable. What could it be like for other guys who are not so lucky?

Lol.

You’re “lucky” when a woman DOES NOT want a relationship with you.
And you don’t even know it!

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/9126265/Research-finds-women-feel-happy-when-their-husband-or-partner-is-upset.html

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote:

I know that I will never be happy living alone.

Then you’re LYING to yourself. You have bought into the “happy” LIE.
Chasing “happy”is the first best way to be miserable.

CONTENT is where it’s at.
When a man is content, happiness is sure to follow.

Men can’t even be “content” living with woman, because she won’t let him.

You don’t think you’ll be “happy” living alone because you think you’re “not good enough” for a woman…. and that is an indicator that you don’t even prefer your own company. People who can’t be happy living alone don’t LIKE themselves.

/video/alone-is-far-from-lonely/

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote:

I just can not believe that this is how reality really is.

That’s really too bad.

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote:

I am sick, tired, and disgusted with the whole situation, yet going completely without females simply is not an option for me.

I find this hard to say without sounding condescending, but I feel sorry for you.

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote:

The urge is too strong.

That’s what they are counting on.
And they will exploit it.

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote:

I have no clue how to proceed.

The problem is not that you’re “not good enough” for a woman.
The problem is — >> you still think you need to be.

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote:

The ridiculously high, unattainable standards of women

…. are a meaningless barometer for nothing.

I don’t NEED to be a millionaire, famous movie star, or powerful hotel mogul because THOSE guys are “not good enough” too, and she will want to f~~~ him over more than me. Its time you for you thank your personal god you’re “not good enough”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Women having standards in men is like McDonalds having standards in happy meal eaters. It’s a ridiculous concept when you stop think about it.

Women expect men to ask them out. They expect men to pay for everything. They expect men to work for their attention. In their whorish little mindsets, men are the customers.

And yet they still think THEY are the ones to set the standards?

They forget: the customer is always right.

And you, @sweetdaddydom420, have forgotten it too.

Why do you care what their “standards” are? Why would any man?

It’s on them to earn your attention, not the other way around.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

sidecar wrote:

Women having standards in men is like McDonalds having standards in happy meal eaters.

LOL

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 1]

Time to swallow another Red Pill. If you do not like being by yourself, then you have bigger problems besides women.

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote:

Now, after swallowing the bitter red pill, I am left angry, disillusioned,hurt, depressed, and suicidal

Red Pill Rage is normal, but it wears off over time. Keep going further down the rabbit hole and its wear off faster. Its not like you suddenly wake up one day and you are totally Red Pill. It is an ongoing discovery, there is always more to learn.

[Anonymous 11]

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote:

yet going completely without females simply is not an option for me.

Dude, you’re fighting your primal urges and nothing wrong with that. Escorts and the sugar babies are there for you on your terms so use those as needed. I’d probably stick with professional escorts myself. Sugar babies are amateurs.

I used to be like you, well, not an 8 incher, but still better than average. The point is you are letting women dictate your happiness as I once did. Women’s standards simply cannot be met so why fret over it. We have but one life to live.

I’m not going to recommend you go full bore monk as I chose. However, I do have peace and tranquility.

Learn to accept what woman are, and a path to freedom shall open for you.

[SweetDaddyDom420Participant 391]

I know that everything I read here is correct, and thanks to all of you for your input. I have been treated like s~~~ by 1000s of women in my life… not even exaggerating. From the ones I married, to the ones I bought drinks for only to get traded off at some point in the night for a guy who was less attractive. I know that I should just give up. I know that I should just stop even speaking to women. But for me, they are worse than cocaine. They are like an addiction that I believe will eventually kill me. Most men would love my life. I work when I want to, bang young women, and come home to peace and quiet. But I am miserable.
I don’t think that it’s because I am unhappy with myself, so I will have to disagree on that one. I used to be, but the last few years have changed me quite a bit. For the first time in my life, I DO love myself, and I am proud of what I am. I am just still struggling with finally letting go of this ridiculous pursuit. Thanks guys.

[Anonymous 11]

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote:

I DO love myself, and I am proud of what I am.

That is your foundation to build upon.

We are all fighting our instinct and cultural brainwashing. I do wish there were decent women available. I’d probably be better off than I am now had I found one who would have truly had my back. The only thing they ever had for my back were knives come monkey branching time.

Every single interaction I have with women now only strengthens my red pill resolve. Once you accept the bitter truth, there is no going back.

Stay strong and live your live to the fullest. It’s OK to bang them, but pining for pussy is a waste of time.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

SweetDaddyDom420 wrote:

The entire situation has me extremely depressed. My whole life, I wanted one thing. I wanted a good woman to have a life with. It was my “red ryder BB gun” that just never was under the tree at Christmas. Now, after swallowing the bitter red pill, I am left angry, disillusioned,hurt, depressed, and suicidal. And it occurs to me…. even with all I have going for me, I am still miserable. What could it be like for other guys who are not so lucky? I know that I will never be happy living alone. I just can not believe that this is how reality really is. I am sick, tired, and disgusted with the whole situation, yet going completely without females simply is not an option for me. The urge is too strong. I have no clue how to proceed.

I know the feeling you’re going through firsthand. It’s good to let this out the way you are, always vent as much as possible. The red pill for some of us, is not just a bitter pill to swallow, it’s a PAINFUL one on an emotional scale, that can leave you with the most lonely feeling imaginable.

What i would recommend is you find some male friends, can they replace the nonexistant unicorn we were told we’d have by our side for life ? No, but they can make you laugh, they can put a smile on your face again. Vent to anyone you feel safe venting to, and do it as often as possible. Bottled up and surpressed feelings lead to hell inside your mind.

If you live near nature, try to get some family or friends to go there with you, if they won’t, go by yourself, f~~~ em. I know how hard it is to step outside the biological box we were trapped in from birth, but it can be done, with support from MGTOW, friends, and family if you still have any.

[BraceParticipant 467]

you havn’t taken the red pill yet my friend. if u can’t be happy alone u’ll never be happy with anyone.

all this list u posted doesn’t mean nothing if ur a nice guy to women. and u seem like a nice guy. don’t change for them, invest all the energy ur willing to put in a relationship toward cultivating a good friendship with ur male buddies. women will always disappoint u.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

Brace wrote:

women will always disappoint u.

This is the truth. Especially the modern day woman. With the laws in their favor, and with society backing them up everything they do and say. They don’t know how to nurture, they don’t know how to be supportive. They only know how pretend long enough to get what they want from you, wether it be validation, attention, or money. Then they betray. You can count on that.

I think it’s time men learn how to fill in some of these roles for eachother, because even though we’re perfectly fine 99% of the time, there comes times in life we could really use some support, and a little nurture. I found a couple males who do it well, one is straight, and one is gay, but both helped me more than any bitch ever has.

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