The day I knew it was over.

[Colin Combover in a ComaParticipant 5066]

Hermit wrote:

Grumpy wrote:

Looking back it is really hard NOT to see when my relationships/marriages ended.It was the exact moment when each end EVERY woman I was ever “serious” with, figured they had me in lock down. Then the games ramped up to prove it.Ironically (perhaps not), the best “relationships” I was in were the ones that were outright and unequivocally stated and understood (by BOTH her and I) that they were only for occasional sex and company.

Those gals are the best. They don’t expect anything from you but sex and other fun. Well, they do still try to get you to spend money on them if you’re dumb enough to do so, but I don’t mind buying them a beer or two and maybe some food. Good exchange for sex, I say. I still have one or two of those gals I hang around on occasion.
Even the ones I don’t get sex from are fun to hang around as long as you don’t get stupid and start to have feelings for them. That’s where all the problems begin, when you lose control of your emotions and think you can have a relationship with them that is anything beyond casual.
They’re just fun playthings, nothing more. Spend a minimal amount of time with them. Have some fun with no drama or emotional bullschit and go home alone.

Found another one you chocolate teapot.
Must be fate, as “Denise” rhythms with Geese.

[MonkParticipant 16984]

Autolite wrote:

We know that there’s gotta be cops and ex-cops on this forum. How do they deal with knowing they’re helping to destroy the lives of innocent men? How can they not know that what they are doing is wrong? How do they reconcile this in their own minds?

Here in the UK, tickbox quotas and a left-leaning system of political vetting ensure that the quality of police recruits is appalling. Many agree with what they are doing, whilst others are so dumb that they don’t see it.

Most are extremely lazy and will simply toe the official line.

The few remaining cops that are any good avoid jobs like that, keep their mouths shut and collect the pension as soon as possible. Those that won’t keep their mouths shut are sidelined and forced out.

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

The Phone Call….

I sensed this was coming, so I recorded her laughing and saying in a c~~~y fashion, “Ha – If I want you out I’ll just call the cops and say you put your hands on me….Heehee”. Then I clarified, “You would like about domestic violence?”. “Ha – yeah and see how fast you’re gone”.

Then I slid the recorder out of my pocket and stopped the recording.

I laughed and threw that up in her face for a solid year. I still have locked in a safe and backed up in the Cloud.

[MonkParticipant 16984]

This. Way to go.

If you hadn’t done that, you would be in jail.

[MATRIXParticipant 2342]

CombatRoll wrote:

The Phone Call….
I sensed this was coming, so I recorded her laughing and saying in a c~~~y fashion, “Ha – If I want you out I’ll just call the cops and say you put your hands on me….Heehee”. Then I clarified, “You would like about domestic violence?”. “Ha – yeah and see how fast you’re gone”.
Then I slid the recorder out of my pocket and stopped the recording.
I laughed and threw that up in her face for a solid year. I still have locked in a safe and backed up in the Cloud.

What a REPREHENSIBLE KUNT of a thing.

Fukking COW.

There is NO wisdom in signing a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.

[AutoliteParticipant]

MATRIX wrote:

What a REPREHENSIBLE KUNT of a thing.

Fukking COW.

But aren’t we all here to blame? Most of us on this forum at one time were BP. We were their enablers. Hopefully the coming generations of young men will clue into this and not make the same mistakes as we did… 🙁

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

Autolite,

Blame accepted right here during my blue pill era

Due to:

01: Basing my self worth on the type of woman I was with

02: Ignoring my intuition and sixth sense

03: Merging with the darkest and most damaged women I could find. Part of me felt the need to attempt to heal them (lost cause) and the other part was I liked a challenge.

04: Fulfilling my biological needs and succumbing to my male instinct to breed which was just banging with a vasectomy – no breeding or purpose to procreate

05: Unresolved issues I had with wanting to be loved by a woman and my own naive belief that it was possible

06: Craving the neuro-chemical cosmic c~~~tails that occur when in a high drama, sex charged and chaotic relationship (oxytocin, dopamine, endorphins & adrenaline)

07: Thinking another person (or a preoccupation with the idea of a relationship) could make me whole: emotionally & psychologically

08: Flawed and tragic concepts of what romantic (unconditional) love was

09: Thinking that I could cure dangerous, unpredictable and disordered women with orgasms

10: My own ego directing me deeper and deeper into the rabbit hole, while being oblivious to objective reality and the consequences.

In that sense: My fault and responsibility and blame fully accepted.

[EGParticipant 1852]

Autolite wrote:

But aren’t we all here to blame? Most of us on this forum at one time were BP. We were their enablers. Hopefully the coming generations of young men will clue into this and not make the same mistakes as we did…

I thought I was immune to most of it because women are friend-zoned by me right out of the gate. Not so. I only cast a thin layer of blame toward men these days.

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

My ex wife said “nothing you ever do for me is never enough”. She said this after I treated her like a Desney Princess for 12 years. That was the moment when I knew I had to walk away from her.

Past 10 years I have been single and loving the freedom and peace I have felt. Going my own way was the best thing I ever did for my inner happiness.

Thank you to all of your here who helped me in going my own way.

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