The day I knew it was over.

[foolsgoldParticipant 5649]

It was Friday. I cane home from work like usual. I waked in the door and could tell something was different. The dog didn’t greet me and the house was silent. I walked through the house and stopped at our bedroom. No sign of the dog, the kids, or her. I opened the closet and saw that her clothes were gone. I knew it was over. I went to the hardware store and got some materials to change the locks. Within an hour she pulled up and attempted to get into the house. To no avail. I walked outside and she had her phone out threatening me. She then made THE PHONE CALL. I hopped in the car and got the hell out of there while she was on the phone with the cops.

As luck would have it I was officially on vacation that day. I proceeded to drive up North to the cabin. I stayed up there for 9 days fishing and drinking. I came back on the Sunday before I had to return to work. I noticed that the house was undisturbed and looked the same as before I left it. I went to work the next morning not telling anyone what was going on. After I finished my shift I came home like usual. I was greeted by the local Sheriff with a summons to appear in court within a few days. Domestic assault allegations just magically appeared. I went to court a few days later and the allegations got thrown out. I was lucky because she just simply didn’t know how to lie YET. She was just trying to get me out of the house but she didn’t know how YET. The next week I was served with divorce papers. She had taken the kids and dog to her parents house not knowing she would be stuck there for 6 months until the divorce was final.

Her and the kids got back into the house after the divorce was final. Her it is 13 years later and that’s where she remains. I’m ok with it because I have less than 3 years left on my extortion payments. My son is an adult and has moved out. My daughter remains in the house. I have a marital lien on the house so she will most likely stay in the house as long as possible. I’m guessing she will sell it once the extortion(child support) payments expire. I’m ok with it.

My son asked me about it this past weekend. I told him exactly what happened. It turns out the ex never told him much of anything. I’m guessing she felt it was better she kept her mouth shut or everyone would find out what a (UN+ she is. That was one of the few good decisions she made.

Choosing to be MGTOW is easily the best decision I have ever made. I would like to again thank this site and all the members.
End of rant

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2730]

Most of us here have that pivotal moment becoming a man going his own way. Thanks for sharing yours.

You have made it this far…three more years. It will be here before you know it and you can cast off that financial ball and chain.

Peace.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

foolsgold wrote:

She then made THE PHONE CALL.

foolsgold-

Yep. The phone call.
You will get through this
Celebrate your freedom. No skank can hurt you again.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

I never had an LTR…ever

I was lonesome, just a quiet 20-something. The pining for a vagina that never comes along lasts many years when you meet certain criteria.

a. male dominated career paths
b. preoccupation with drinking
c. non blue eyed, 6ft, 6inch, 6figure
d. self involved, exMarine, cerebral
e. lovey gooey emotional feelings

I wanted a woman so bad but it was never on offer. And when it partially arrived here and there, it was always some toxic bitch, or drug addict bitch, or single mom bitch… all rancid, uncaring bitches.

There was no love except my own which I gave freely to these infrequent and few encounters with women.

Unsatisfied pining for sex and affection, the common plight of many 20-something males.

And this goes on and on, feelings of despair. And one day I stumbled across some youtube stuff and found a spark. Whats MGTOW? And that spark ignited in me. And the despair was lifted from me, replaced by answers that made sense in real life.

You can love women or understand women, not both. Once I understood, there was nothing left to love.

Sometimes I feel like I missed really great sex. Its true, I did. But my time wasnt wasted, I was often visiting galaxies of solitude that those other men havent the faintest notion of what THEY missed.

Some people cant be loners. They are socialites. Every night, they endlessly chase human interaction. To me, that seems like a circular prison cell. Im off on my own program, star hoping nebulae in my freemind. I do not regret a single day of my mgtow 6 year journey thus far.

GYOW🚀

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22523]

When you know its all an act, which is what it boils down to, to be able to use you and dispose of you when they feel they can’t get anything else they find useful out of you, and the sex is an act/show, largely, how can you love what you can’t trust or know doesn’t really care about you?

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

Gravel Pit. . .

Sorry but I had to laugh on the ‘non blue eyed’ part.

OMG.

It’s true I guess.

I had pumpkins during my blue pill era hyper-focus on telling me I have ‘beautiful’ blue eyes.

Important to note: none of them had blue eyes.

I realize now that if any of them had the ability and skills to cut my eyes out and replace theirs with blue eyes they would have.

Sounds nuts but they focus on what they envy.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

They would definitely steal the blue eyes right out of your head if they could. When they have you they think they own you…even up to death. A man dying for his love is soooo romantic.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[MonkParticipant 16994]

Yet again, we see the immediate use of the ONE PHONE CALL.

foolsgold wrote:

IMy daughter remains in the house.

Don’t try for any relationship with your daughter. She will be a poisonous mini-me. Focus on your son.

I have a marital lien on the house so she will most likely stay in the house as long as possible. I’m guessing she will sell it once the extortion (child support) payments expire.

She will probably sell up, although she might go looking for a new sucker to move in and pay the bills.

Do be prepared for her to come after you again for more money – going for a second bite of the cherry is increasingly common, particularly if the man has done well financially since the divorce.

Is there any way you can legally force a sale?

[foolsgoldParticipant 5649]

The marital lien requires her to sell after my daughter graduates or pay me half the value of the property. Which ever she chooses. I don’t need the money so I prefer she stays in the house until my daughter graduates. She couldn’t afford to buy me out at the time of the divorce so a lien on the property was the best option. My guess is she is trying to find a way NOT to pay me.

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

THE day I knew it was over…..

We were driving home from a winter vacation. We had spent 2 days each at my parents, and then hers. I had stopped off of the Interstate at a town about 1/2 way between home and her parents on the way home. A cold February day and I wanted to get a feel for prices on a new car I was interested in buying. I asked if she didn’t mind and that it might take an hour at most.
The car was dirty from travel, so I decided to give it a good wash knowing any salesman was going to “size me up” during any “negotiations” over the price of a car.

When we were dating, I used to wash the car on occasion with ex in the car. Everytime I did; I would make pretend that I was gonna soak her with the wand/hose. It was a silly gesture, but I would go to no end to try to make her wet. This meant doing crazy stuff like sticking the wand against the window,….making silly gestures(including sticking the wand between my legs).
Of course I was totally helpless at getting her wet, but it ALWAYS made her laugh.
So,….. on this cold February day I washed the car and did my silly routine. She didn’t even crack a smile.

I KNEW something was wrong that moment. Strange as it may sound, it is the little subtle things that set off the alarm.
Less than 2 months later; we had separated.

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[EGParticipant 1853]

Prefer Peace to Piece wrote:

foolsgold wrote:

She then made THE PHONE CALL.

foolsgold-
Yep. The phone call.You will get through thisCelebrate your freedom. No skank can hurt you again.

Sadly this isn’t true. Women will only become more and more creative in their efforts to delete all men. Predators don’t sit still when their supply runs out.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Daryll55 wrote:

THE day I knew it was over…..

I was told that it was over, over the phone. She waited until I was stuck 1500 miles away (work related) to tell me. Didn’t see it coming at all, totally blindsided.

It was a real eyeopener though as to how heartless these bitches can be. Hard but a very valuable lesson. Having gone through something like that makes today living ‘monk mode’ easy. I would never want to go through something like that ever again and as long as I stay a MGTOW monk I know that I never will…

[TwistParticipant]

Monk wrote:

Don’t try for any relationship with your daughter. She will be a poisonous mini-me.

This was a painful realization for me also. After so many years of training, I don’t even know who they are anymore. I would not trust them under my roof. I can’t even imagine the cataclysmic event that could ever heal this. I have attended a couple of recent funerals for friends’ children – one a suicide, one a brain tumor. Two of the saddest days I have ever experienced. I felt a perverse sense of envy. Chew on that one…

Autolite wrote:

was told that it was over, over the phone. She waited until I was stuck 1500 miles away (work related) to tell me.

.

Via text message. Sitting at work in a meeting. What a f~~~ing coward. She had already assembled her support army.

[Bob DylanParticipant 1352]

I had strongly suspected my ex-wife of having an affair with another married women (her bff).
As time went by, they became more and more careless. Words would accidentally slip out. Shopping all day, and come back with nothing ?…but I finally found undeniable evidence, and although I thought I was prepared, it made me feel sick and woozie.
Straight women act gay on ‘normal’ setting, so actually detecting discreet bisexuals is difficult….if they are careful.
She never denied me sex and was nice to me most of the time.
At both of the places we lived previously, she has bff(s) that seemed a bit too ‘chummy’, but I just shook off any thoughts or suspicions.
I truly believe that if a woman has a wallet locked down, Chad can be male or female.

..it ain't me babe...it ain't me you're looking for, babe...

[TwistParticipant]

Bob Dylan wrote:

I had strongly suspected my ex-wife of having an affair with another married women (her bff)

Same.

But woe to you if you express concern of your children (mine teenage daughters) being raised in the statistically most violent type of relationship.

You Homophobe!

[HermitParticipant]

The day I knew it was over was the very day I moved in with her and she started bitching at me because I didn’t come home when she thought I should have. The very fukking day I moved in with her………but I was young and dumb and tired of living in that schitty little apartment and didn’t want to have to move all my schit again. Looking back, maybe I should’ve moved all my schit again.

Then, we got married and soon after that got into a big fight and as she threw her wedding ring at me she told me she hated me. That was the next day I knew it was over.

After that it was like an annual thing for her to threaten me with divorce until one day I said, “Look, I know we don’t belong together but my son doesn’t deserve to go through the schit of divorce just because his parents can’t get along, so let’s at least try to work it out until he’s old enough to understand.” She had a very shocked look on her face as one of her weapons of control, (divorce threats), disintegrated in her hands. That was another day I knew it was over.

Finally, after over two decades of living mostly in misery, I knew it was REALLY over when she kept trying to talk to me and I kept avoiding her. I knew this was IT. That day was the day. That was the day when she told me she wanted me out of the house and we agreed to get divorced. What a wonderful day it was.

So, even though it was over as soon as it began, I went through the torture because I kept thinking it would get better. What a fool I was…….what a pitiful ignorant fool.

Good thing is, the following chapter in my life has been great. For over seven years I’ve enjoyed the freedom from that horrible marriage with that terrible woman. Now that my son has moved out of her house, I have very little reason to go over there again. Can’t stand to be around her for even a few minutes anymore. It’s definitely over. Thank goodness it’s over!

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Twist wrote:

Via text message. Sitting at work in a meeting. What a f~~~ing coward. She had already assembled her support army.

Being blindsided once (and monkey-branched), I never want to go through something like that ever again. I now know that I am not the type of person who can deal with it well. But I had to learn that about myself. And now that I know that about myself, I know that I am not the type of person who will ever again commit to a serious relationshhit.

I am not ashamed to admit that I am just not someone who bounces back easily from something like that…

[Bob DylanParticipant 1352]

Twist wrote:

But woe to you if you express concern of your children (mine teenage daughters) being raised in the statistically most violent type of relationship.

So very sorry Twist. Your girls will surely be affected for the worst.

I didn’t blow the whistle on the bff….and she chose to stay with her husbank….imagine that ?…lol..
Husbank is a totally blue-pilled cuck, and I doubt that he would have done anything anyway.

It’s interesting that after a couple of years, my ex blew through her divorce cash and she married another (male) wallet.
AWALT !

..it ain't me babe...it ain't me you're looking for, babe...

[MATRIXParticipant 2343]

The day the cops dragged me from my garden while I was busy doing yard work. They just came and took me away, threw me in JAIL.

She wasn’t even in the house.

I didn’t see it coming.

The kunt made THE ONE PHONE CALL from her work place.

That was the day I woke up and MATRIX was born.

To try and warn others of the power that has been given to these evil whores.

There is NO wisdom in signing a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

No discussion of divorce. But I knew she had one foot out the door. She kissed me goodbye for work and the house was empty of people when I got home. We had a 9 month old and a nanny. So I made an appt to see my attorney the next day and my son was returned to my home from her fathers house, 8 hrs away, the following day. I went for the jugular and won.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

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