Man's insurmountable Sexual Drive

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

Dropping something interesting:

After months of reading and compiling results, the answer was clear. There is a substantial difference, and men have a much stronger sex drive than women. To be sure, there are some women who have frequent, intense desires for sex, and there are some men who don’t, but on average the men want it more. Every marker we could think of pointed to the same conclusion. Men think about sex more often than women do. Men have more sexual fantasies, and these encompass more different acts and more different partners.

Men masturbate more than women – much more. Masturbation is considered by sex researchers to be one of the purest measures of sex drive, because it is not much constrained by external factors (such as the need to find a partner, or the risk of pregnancy or disease). Some people say that women feel guilty about masturbation, but that’s not what the data say, at least not any more. In fact, it’s mainly the (few) nonmasturbating men who associated masturbation with guilt. Nonmasturbating women generally say they just don’t feel any inclination to do it. They don’t need guilt to resist the impulse, because they aren’t resisting – because they don’t have the impulse.

There’s plenty more. Men take more risks and incur more costs for sex. (Remember President Clinton!) Men want sex more often than women, whether one is talking about young couples or people who have been married to the same person for forty years. Men also want more different partners than women want, and men like a greater variety of sex acts than women do.

Men initiate sex often and refuse it rarely. Women initiate it much more rarely and refuse it much more often than men. Given an opportunity for sex, men leap at it, while women say no. One classic study sent student research assistants out on campus to approach fairly attractive people (of the other gender) at random with the line, “I’ve been noticing you around campus and I think you’re attractive. Would you like to go to bed with me tonight?” More than three-quarters of the men said yes. Not a single woman did.

Women find it easier than men to go without sex. An adult woman who is between relationships can easily go for months, sometimes even years, hardly thinking of sex and not minding if she doesn’t have it. Men go nuts without sex (or at least some do). A man who loses his girlfriend will often start masturbating by the next day or two.

Even when both men and women make a heartfelt, sacred vow of chastity, the men find it much harder to keep than the woman. Catholic priests have much more sexual activity than the nuns, even though both have committed themselves to the single standard of complete abstinence and have backed this up with a sacred promise in the context of the most important beliefs and values in their lives.

In short, pretty much every study and every measure fit the pattern that men want sex more than women. It’s official: Men are hornier than women.

Surprise! “Men are Hornier than Women.”

EVERY single counter-argument to that comes from a feminist/pro-feminist source.
Post one, and I’ll check the source, and I’ll find out it’s feminist/feminist-leaning.

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[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

Prefer Peace to Piece wrote:

Interesting thread.

My own opinion is that men are loyal. Women not so much.

Men enjoy sex for sex.
Women often use sex as a tool.

I personally think that while both men and women have sex drives, men do a better job of controlling their urges.

This I think this is the gusty gist of it all

Anonymous wrote:

Even if men have a higher sex drive, we do a better job controlling a higher sex drive than women do a lower sex drive. Perhaps they just don’t even try or care to try.

This thread, can’t really get my head around it, it’s all over the place.

It messes with my simple head.

I agree men even if handicapped with a higher sex drive can control it better. Especially after taking the red pill. My sex drive was higher even than my ex-wife’s (and hers seemed pretty high in my limited experience) but she liked to play the denial of sex game and in the end she found out I could go longer without than she could. WILL gentlemen. We have it. They don’t. One of our few advantages in this day and age.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Viciouscunningtreacherous wrote:

This topic is the epitome of my life conundrum. As a boy I started out observing female nature and abhorring it. Then my hormoney kicked in and I found myself insatiably craving the enemy. Loving them and hating them. Unquenchably listing my entire adult life. Striving to be desired by them. Building myself into what society says I should be. Tall, muscular, successful, brave,and yes a bad boy. ALL TO NO F~~~ING AVAIL!! Hot or not, they only wanted me for what I could give them. I am forced to agree with the red pill because I can no longer deny what I’ve seen and experienced with women. They are all the same. Some less,some more so. I’m 52, in great shape, moderately wealthy (even after divorce rape) and horny as all f~~~! This topic illustrates men’s supreme frustration and agony. To now know that women actively use this in such accute ways is sometimes more than bearable. The only choice that we have now is to go our own way. Perhaps there is much we can learn from those 15th century barbarians that we are fighting. Since going mgtow, I have had some understanding and empathy for them. In the end it is all very sad, yet liberating. Excellent comments my brothers! Much respect!

Brilliant post; especially the line I bolded.

Resident cynic.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Anonymous wrote:

Ghân-buri-Ghân wrote:

I rarely lose my cool. But this tuna s~~~ with an established member who differs on opinions is akin to women calling rape when being confronted by a man with opposing viewpoints.

It is beneath each and any one of you who has been here for over a month.

Duly go f~~~ yourself.

I agree with this. Eric is a long time member here, just because you disagree you can’t just make that accusation. It is one thing to say his account could have been hacked, that’s also bad, but not as bad as if you think Eric was tuna the entire time. That’s just stupid.

As to this topic. It’s obvious young men have higher sexual desire than women do, this is how the system works, there is absolutely nothing incorrect about that. Anyone denying that is full of it. It’s well documented scientifically, it is completely linked to testosterone. There have even been tests with women being given testosterone, who have said as much. But even that is a small fraction of what a young man’s desire is.

That is why feminism came about the way it did. Older men that should know better abdicated their duty to society, and sold younger men up the river. It was of course intentional by the elites to use women as useful idiots, and here we are decades later. As men age, their drive lowers, but for many the memory of how society and specifically women treated them while young remains, and so men are armed with both knowledge and resentment, and then less and less can be shamed into marriage at later ages. And that is how we get our current trend, with more and more women in their 30s and beyond single, with zero marriage prospects, which they don’t deserve anyway so it’s just desserts.

A mistake sometimes made on this site is MGTOW don’t understand that we are not average. I have posted this before, and I truly believe it. Men, we are the best of the best. We are not mindless simpletons, but the average blue pill man IS. And the blue pill man is the MAJORITY. So when you’re discussing the overall picture, you can’t think of just yourself or your MGTOW brothers. You have to look at BLUE PILL men who make up the MAJORITY.

Now framed with that point, anyone arguing about the sex drive, does that change your position?

Fantastic Pheonix – simply excellent.

Resident cynic.

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