Just found out my son's mom has colon cancer, I feel guilty

[UntamedParticipant]

Puffin Stuff wrote:

Thanks for all the well wishes. I wish I had some for her. But all I feel is numb. That’s the reality of relations between the sexes.

Her hate extended out to hurt a little boy that wanted to go to his ball game and see his mother and father. When I wouldn’t agree to allow her to take our son from LA to New Mexico because that is where Mr. Moneybags lived.

She didn’t really care about him but needed to put up a show of trying to get our son.

So she wrecked havoc on everyone. She wouldn’t allow me to go to our son’s ball games. A father missing the games, in a public park because, if I went, she promised not to take our son. I went to one game and she pulled him by the arm from the park in his uniform.

Pressuring and nagging our son to agree to move with her and dump me.

Her buying a home in Hawaii to further tempt him. But her offer of no homework if he moved to her house was too great a temptation. My son had stopped doing his homework all together as he was pretty traumatized by her moving when she lost the court case. I was there when she told our son that it was his fault she was leaving.

I was there when our son was banging on the walls the night she left.

And, I was there when she pulled me into criminal court on trumped up abuse allegations that had no foundation and her telling the judge, who had my fate in his hands, prison or no prison, that I was “mean” to her.

She put in the knife and twisted it right in my face.

I find it hard to give a s~~~ about her.

Puff! Don’t torture yourself with any thought about her, she don’t even deserve a mental reflection on your part!
She screwed your life and that of your son, now life is screwing her!
The Universe has ways to balance things out and if it takes a terminal disease or accident to do it then it is just and it is right. There’s no arguing with Karma and God is always watching!
You’re a good man, Puff; think of your son and do what’s right by

him

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F~~~ the rest!

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[Anonymous 42]

Puffin Stuff wrote:

Thanks for all the well wishes. I wish I had some for her. But all I feel is numb. That’s the reality of relations between the sexes.

Honestly Puff, I think we’re all feeling comfortably numb after all the changes this society has put us through.

This song’s for you!

[OldBillParticipant]

ForeverDone wrote:

Guess no more anal.

F~~~ing brutal. I laughed out loud, but it was still brutal.

Puff, the fact that you feel conflicted over your ex-wife’s diagnosis only confirms that you’re human. As the others have already pointed out, you need to remember that she’d be throwing a party to celebrate your cancer diagnosis.

Give her all the empathy and consideration she’s due: None.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 25021]

OldBill wrote:

she’d be throwing a party to celebrate your cancer diagnosis.

Too true. It puts things into perspective.

That helps a lot, thanks OldBill.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[iMickey503Participant 12469]

Wait.

She is with another rich guy, probably married, and lives in Hawaii, and.. seems to be financially well off. Or at least she was.

Now did the guy she was with leave her? No?

Then I don’t see what’s the Problem. She gets to live her ultimate fantasy of a guy willing to sacrifice his life for her till her sweet end.

Honestly, she’s got it better then you, She gets to live out her life in that ultimate Delusion that she gave up her life heroically for her family and man. (Or men)

So .. Why do you feel guilty of not feeling anything? Cuz its hard to see the bad in the people you love that gave you something like your son.

Now I want you to go ahead and realize why this post is so important not mine but the one that you made initially. Your post exemplifies the hole problem of gynocentrism and Society. Because you don’t feel anything you feel guilty even though you have no right or reason to feel that way about not having any feelings.

This also highlights something of an odd Goose where you’re wondering why so many European males disregard their own safety sanity security and happiness and prefer to give their lives to others regardless of the negative outcomes for not only themselves but other men and women.

Part of you is very clinical and I’m sure you understand that you need to have a Detachment and you can do that with inanimate objects in other parts of your life

however it is your heart and your soul and honestly who you are as a man that even made today Society possible

the way that you are speaking about your ex wife is almost textbook to how abuse or rape survivors talk about Stockholm Syndrome

one of the things that men take upon themselves is to hold their own cells responsible for not being able to control a situation for example relationship with a wife. This also reflects on you because in your mind you think that because of this failure of your relationship that you were holding your own self responsible because you are designed and biologically built to seek the responsibility4 issues problems and basically everything around you

basically her Horrible character is hard for you to grasp and therefore your feelings over illness are coming up solely based on the internalization that you are at fault due to her being a reflection of you as the way she turned out May be a characterization of Who You Are.

Some men I believe even think that the reason why women turn like this just because women take all the bad feelings from a man and because you are giving her sex or you’re basically giving her your seed that that is a way for you to transfer your bad feelings or the bad parts of you into her.

There is a lot of stigma when a relationship ends and when a partner who was previously loving becomes cold-hearted and for some reason men seem to think that that is their fault.

There are numerous and numbers and numbers of reasons why men seem to at least in their own minds rationalize that they have something to do with their Partners becoming the way they are.

But all the above reasons and I’m sorry this is worded like crap but I’m not typing it I’m actually doing it by speaking it to the computer sorry about that but what I’m trying to point that is that your situation is solely based on Old biological constructs to keep the species propagating

one of the other reasons why this is also going to be much harder on you is because again since you’re highly intelligent this conflicts with your natural primal if not primordial emotions feelings actions and thoughts that Center on dominance.

And now that you realize that women are like children you may seem to internalize this and think that maybe as a child you should feel sorry for her.

In the end no matter how child like a child knows when they do something wrong and you don’t see a lot of children going around killing children do you because that really really is wrong

but again now that you are make Tower at least understand the red pills in the truths of life you’re probably getting second thoughts of holding her responsible which is actually quite normal under the circumstances

however I want to remind you that you are stuck in a prison right now for 20 years and all of a sudden she got cancer and you were still in there she would still smile every time she would think about you being locked up in jail.

And I want a second the fact that you’re not a psychopath let me tell you very clearly what a psychopath would do.

A psychopath would actually go to his ex-wife make sure that whichever man she was with dumped her ass wherever the hell she was basically left her with no one to take care of her and no support group would sabotage everything around them slowly and never let them know what’s happening.

A real psychopath but also go to the trouble and the links to make sure and send all sorts of periodicals newspapers and cancer reports detailing the horrible horrible outcomes of survival and the outcomes of treatment but she is going to be going through also send her miscellaneous emails about her cancer and how to treat it effectively but they need the signature or the approval of a person who’s been able to do cancer research and when she looks to find out which person can do the approval she sees your name on that short list

that means she also knows that you have an opening for a clinical trial to cure this problem for her that would not only allow her to live a better life but guarantee survival

a real psychopath within take advantage of all this and wow simultaneously ruining every single relationship she had with everyone else she would then also committed some kind of crime or trying to bribe you and then she would spend the rest of her cancer treatment in jail.

Now real psychopath would even go as far as publishing a magazine article that swallowing semen from the father of your child would actually help cure cancer in the bowels.

And a devious psychopath a very devious one would actually go out of his way to go ahead and make sure that while she was in a nice committed relationship she would purposely go out and start taking tons of c~~~ up her ass and in her mouth and swallowing tons of semen from random guys thinking that it had stem cells in it and it would cure her cancer.

That person that gave her this bogus information would think probably make sure that the person that you was living with wood somehow sell the house that she lives in underneath her make sure she ends up on the streets with not a dime to her name

and if you are the sickest psychopath in the world basically somewhere anywhere near close my level, you would send her these and somehow find a way for her to eat at least 10 to 12 of these a day in order for her to experience the kind of quote on quote relief only Haribo Gummy Bears will provide.

And by the way she told her son just so she could go ahead and get sympathy from your ass she didn’t do it for any other reason but to go ahead and get more more more more and more from everyone else around her including you.

And if you were truly Psychopathic even more than that if she ever tries to call you I would make sure to have maybe a few soundboard recordings on of a really hot gorgeous sounding woman who answers the phone sounding like she has a dick in her mouth and a penis in her vagina or something or trying to answer your wife’s phone call and saying that she will give him the message personally. All the while saying that she’s pregnant with your children or finding out somehow that you are now happier than a clam.

Matter of fact I think that if you’re anywhere close to a psychopath you would probably not only relish what’s happening you probably watch her death over and over and over again and matter of fact if you’re really f***** up you would go there and record it maybe even send in a camera crew to go and record her last moments and make sure to give her something that makes her sleepy so that she can go ahead and fall asleep and then knowing that the very first time she went to sleep they were all cheering clapping and laughing and we’re celebrating that she was getting really really tired and about to die.

So since we can safely say that you are nowhere near that level of psychopath and I doubt anyone else is here, I think you’re safe and have nothing to worry about..

So let me send her some sugar free jolly ranchers. You know.. I care about people getting diabetes and stuff.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[iMickey503Participant 12469]

And I just jacked off thinking about it. Now. THAT is F~~~ED UP. And MY DICK WAS ROCK HARD.

jesus, i haven’t came that hard in a long time… Thanks for Early mgtow day present!

I think i just might found a group of women worth dating.. Wonder if there is a web site for that or a porn category?

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[shovelheadriderParticipant 2400]

She was never yours,women just destroy and go one to next victim

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

Puffin Stuff, I assume you’re an oncologist. I’m an ER doc and like you, deal with death and delivering bad news frequently. Doing such, we build walls to prevent us from becoming emotionally invested in our patients. It is for their good and our emotional well being to do this. I also would think you have built up necessary walls between yourself and ex-wife to deflect her harm from you. Therefore, I would not be surprised that you felt nothing at this news. You have inured yourself from her plight as any sane person would. What you have done, is demonstrate an introspection capable of aknkowledging this. Not feeling sad when something bad happens to someone who hurt you is not bad. Understanding why, is good.

You are a good man and I wish you well.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

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