Is it weird I feel bad about my ex-wife?

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Nero wrote:

I still care about my ex as well, ForeverDone. She is the mother of my kids, and at one time, I loved her more than any other woman I ever met in my life. That does not mean that because I loved the way she was 243 months ago, I keep going – hoping I will get that flavor back. The days of her taking care of me and whacking and sucking relentlessly on my c~~~ to take every drop of cum in her mouth are a distant memory. A man can waste much time trying to reconcile the past with the current or future.

I feel you brother.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Women get depress, when their past lovers are living better then they are, and happy to see them suffer.

This also why they hate nice guys so much, Karma.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

ForeverDone wrote:

Or, with him, I know what I have. It’s better than what’s out there in the dating cesspool. Another good one, I will leave when I am ready.

Knowing this would put me into zero f~~~s given mode. She’s pretty much saying you’ll pay the bills so your better than nothing but she obviously doesn’t love or respect you. Hell from how she treated you, she didn’t even like you.

You probably wouldn’t keep a “friend” around very long nor give a s~~~ about cutting a “friend” out of your life who treated you like that. I don’t know why you’d tolerate it from this c~~~ or have any sympathy for her after the fact. I wouldn’t wish ill upon her because she’d just be cut out of my life and none of my concern any more…but I certainly wouldn’t feel bad for her either.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

bigboy83 wrote:

Women get depress, when their past lovers are living better then they are, and happy to see them suffer.

This also why they hate nice guys so much, Karma.

Oh yeah…its been said many times on this forum, the best revenge is living well. Its true and its awesome because living well is something we should all be doing anyhow and something that is easier to do with no woman in your life.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

bigboy83 wrote:

Women get depress, when their past lovers are living better then they are, and happy to see them suffer.

This also why they hate nice guys so much, Karma.

She was fine til marriage. 1.5 years later, the s~~~ it the fan. I knew I had to get out of dodge ASAP or my meager assets would be up for lottery division for money and prizes. Lovers would be a stretch.. We hadn’t had sex, let alone a kiss in 1.2 years. She didn’t see anything wrong with that. Heck, even her Mom and all the therapists said she was wrong.

I do not think this woman knew how to love anyone but herself and her Mom. Her dad had Diabetes issues. I told her she needs to talk to him and get through to him. She actually said, it’s his life, if he wants to die, who am I to stop him.

Again, this new woman appeared after marriage. I use the term appear very loosely. I think this was the real personality of my ex-wife. In fact, she’d often said to me this version is the real her and only comes out when necessary. It was like a scene out of the Exorcist or something.

Beer wrote:

Knowing this would put me into zero f~~~s given mode. She’s pretty much saying you’ll pay the bills so your better than nothing but she obviously doesn’t love or respect you. Hell from how she treated you, she didn’t even like you.

You probably wouldn’t keep a “friend” around very long nor give a s~~~ about cutting a “friend” out of your life who treated you like that. I don’t know why you’d tolerate it from this c~~~ or have any sympathy for her after the fact. I wouldn’t wish ill upon her because she’d just be cut out of my life and none of my concern any more…but I certainly wouldn’t feel bad for her either.

True. I will be the first to agree that it’s weird that I pity her and not hate her. I just think she’s a foolish woman who makes very unwise decisions. It got through my thick skull about a year later and I filed for divorce. I just couldn’t take it. The misery of living with someone who is just always a negative nancy and debbie downer. Again, the complete opposite of what she was during dating.

I feel played and will not allow myself to fall into that trap again.

[hollowtipsParticipant 681]

It’s in mens nature to care about things that are weaker or stupider than them. It’s the main reason why society has survived because this s~~~ is in your DNA. It’s normal to feel bad but understand you’re responsible for your own life and happiness and no one elses. People have free will you can’t force them to choose you or love you unconditionally.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

hollowtips wrote:

It’s in mens nature to care about things that are weaker or stupider than them. It’s the main reason why society has survived because this s~~~ is in your DNA. It’s normal to feel bad but understand you’re responsible for your own life and happiness and no one elses. People have free will you can’t force them to choose you or love you unconditionally.

That’s for s~~~ sure. Just amazes me how they can change their whole personality like a flip of a coin and it’s all your fault. Naturally, only one person is to blame. I hear I was to blame for the invasion of Iraq and Afghanistan too. Lol.

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