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I’m not one who gets depressed around holidays. I look forward to them because of the time off of work. I have nothing against the holidays themselves, but can’t stand what idiotic people have made of them……..you know, the usual bulls~~~ of “black Friday” and the Christmas shopping and people everywhere acting stupid at the stores.
My main problem is the “obligation” of hosting “the meal”. I enjoy having my father and my son come over on any other day except Thanksgiving and Christmas. We normally sit around and talk, or go fishing, or shoot clays with the shotguns, but on the holidays, my house becomes the gathering spot and I’m “obligated” to cook something and then have to clean up the mess. I don’t have to cook everything. Usually father and son will bring something and I just have to cook a potato dish, but it’s the fact that I feel as though I have to do it and even if I don’t cook something there’s still the mess.
I’m not the hosting type. As a matter of fact, I’m probably the worst host you’ve ever seen. I hate having people in my house even family. That may sound bad. Of course I care for my son and my father, but this twice a year obligation thing is not something I look forward to and I’m glad when it’s over and they’re gone. On any other day when they come over to visit and we just sit around and talk or do anything else, it’s fine.
I just took off work for six days straight this holiday weekend and the five days I was alone were wonderful. The one day with the family was irritating. Again, if we could’ve done anything except cook and make a mess it would’ve been fine. I told them I wasn’t cooking anything for Christmas……………..I’ll probably make chili………….
I’m just being lazy and selfish. One day my dad will be gone and I’ll regret acting the way I do now. Just wanted to come on here and bitch I suppose.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
Chili? Sounds delicious Dad, make sure to cook enough for me and you know I like mine with less onions, more Jalepino and black beans. Thanks pappy!
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Have you always been selfish?
So, let the family know it’s someone else’s turn. They’ll probably be p~~~ed. But if/when they are, that’s when you look at them and say “well, I see it irritates you that you might have to host. Welcome to my world.”
It’s also entirely possible that one of the other family members has secretly been wanting to take over the hosting duties. Just look at the biggest control freak in your family. They probably want the job.
Worst case is you end up with everyone in your house again, which is going to happen at this point anyway. But if it does, I’d tell them all they have 11 months to figure out a new plan A.
Edit: I’m assume you are talking about more than just your dad and son coming over, right?
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I’m not one who gets depressed around holidays. I look forward to them because of the time off of work. I have nothing against the holidays themselves, but can’t stand what idiotic people have made of them……..you know, the usual bulls~~~ of “black Friday” and the Christmas shopping and people everywhere acting stupid at the stores.
People have forgotten the true meaning of the holidays. I’m planning on having a more traditional Yule Tide celebration this year complete with a human sacrifice and everything. We need to get back to our roots in order to truly appreciate what the holidays are really all about…
No Hermit, you’re not bitching. I call it “sick and tired of the hypocrisy”.
I, too, am not into holidays, Christmas, Thanksgiving, Easter and the crap that entails. I don’t even like to celebrate my own birthday. Like you, I don’t like to host, I don’t like when people come to my place and I don’t ever invite anyone home. My home is my sanctuary away from all the s~~~s of the world and I will not defile my place by opening it to anyone. Even the cops have to have a good reason to come in and they haven’t had one yet.
What bothers me most about holidays is how false and hypocrite they are.
All year long we get concrete examples of how we men are considered less than dogs~~~ – online and in real life- only good to tax, take advantage of and incarcerate but when it’s time for these c~~~~~~~~~s – bluepiller Mengina traitors, men-hating feminist bitches and spineless cuck assholes – to feeeeeel good about themselves, all of a sudden they want us to forget all the evils they perpetrate all year long and wish them a merry f~~~ing Christmas!!!
Well, I say F~~~’em !
To me, those holidays are merely just other days within the year and I give no flying f~~~ if it’s “special” or whatever. It’s not “special” to me. It’s just another f~~~ing day!!I’ll tell you which day is SPECIAL to me : It’s the day I see my kids again. THAT will be the most special day over ALL the holidays they’ve invented to make businesses thrive and sell their s~~~ nobody has use for. Until that day arrives, I give NO s~~~ if it’s Christmas, Thanksgiving, Easter or St.F~~~’s Day !
Let anyone wish me a “Merry Christmas” or “Happy Holiday”, they’ll be met with an emphatic F~~~ YOU !
Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!Have you always been selfish?
Maybe, I’m not sure. It’s hard to gauge with all the other no good, selfish f~~~s out there.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
Have you always been selfish?
Maybe, I’m not sure. It’s hard to gauge with all the other no good, selfish f~~~s out there.
Introverts are usually deemed as “selfish”, or are we more honest and wear the same face?
Have you always been selfish?
Maybe, I’m not sure. It’s hard to gauge with all the other no good, selfish f~~~s out there.
Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!So, let the family know it’s someone else’s turn. They’ll probably be p~~~ed. But if/when they are, that’s when you look at them and say “well, I see it irritates you that you might have to host. Welcome to my world.”
It’s also entirely possible that one of the other family members has secretly been wanting to take over the hosting duties. Just look at the biggest control freak in your family. They probably want the job.
Worst case is you end up with everyone in your house again, which is going to happen at this point anyway. But if it does, I’d tell them all they have 11 months to figure out a new plan A.
Edit: I’m assume you are talking about more than just your dad and son coming over, right?My dad may not mind having it at his house with the exception that it gives him an excuse to get out of his house and go somewhere. Plus, my son and I don’t want to drive over there in the big city with all the idiots driving around on the holiday. We tried it last year at my x-wife’s house because that’s where my son still currently lives, but it was of course awkward and we’ll never do that again.
My son is currently looking at houses to buy, so maybe we’ll soon be able to have it at his house. He’d probably like that.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
No Hermit, you’re not bitching. I call it “sick and tired of the hypocrisy”.I, too, am not into holidays, Christmas, Thanksgiving, Easter and the crap that entails. I don’t even like to celebrate my own birthday. Like you, I don’t like to host, I don’t like when people come to my place and I don’t ever invite anyone home. My home is my sanctuary away from all the s~~~s of the world and I will not defile my place by opening it to anyone. Even the cops have to have a good reason to come in and they haven’t had one yet.What bothers me most about holidays is how false and hypocrite they are.All year long we get concrete examples of how we men are considered less than dogs~~~ – online and in real life- only good to tax, take advantage of and incarcerate but when it’s time for these c~~~~~~~~~s – bluepiller Mengina traitors, men-hating feminist bitches and spineless cuck assholes – to feeeeeel good about themselves, all of a sudden they want us to forget all the evils they perpetrate all year long and wish them a merry f~~~ing Christmas!!!Well, I say F~~~’em !To me, those holidays are merely just other days within the year and I give no flying f~~~ if it’s “special” or whatever. It’s not “special” to me. It’s just another f~~~ing day!!
I’ll tell you which day is SPECIAL to me : It’s the day I see my kids again. THAT will be the most special day over ALL the holidays they’ve invented to make businesses thrive and sell their s~~~ nobody has use for. Until that day arrives, I give NO s~~~ if it’s Christmas, Thanksgiving, Easter or St.F~~~’s Day !
Let anyone wish me a “Merry Christmas” or “Happy Holiday”, they’ll be met with an emphatic F~~~ YOU !The holidays have long since been spoiled by consumerism. I really hate it when someone asks if I’ve “bought Christmas” yet. Stupid idiots……you don’t “buy” Christmas.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
If it’s just the three of you, then just treat it like any other time you get together. I’m not quite following this, unless there are more people coming to your house than just your dad and son. I was assuming when you said “family” that you meant more than just the three of you.
Order the good wine
Have you always been selfish?
Maybe, I’m not sure. It’s hard to gauge with all the other no good, selfish f~~~s out there.
Introverts are usually deemed as “selfish”, or are we more honest and wear the same face?
Ah, you may have it right.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
If it’s just the three of you, then just treat it like any other time you get together. I’m not quite following this, unless there are more people coming to your house than just your dad and son. I was assuming when you said “family” that you meant more than just the three of you.
It is more.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
No Hermit, you’re not bitching. I call it “sick and tired of the hypocrisy”.I, too, am not into holidays, Christmas, Thanksgiving, Easter and the crap that entails. I don’t even like to celebrate my own birthday. Like you, I don’t like to host, I don’t like when people come to my place and I don’t ever invite anyone home. My home is my sanctuary away from all the s~~~s of the world and I will not defile my place by opening it to anyone. Even the cops have to have a good reason to come in and they haven’t had one yet.What bothers me most about holidays is how false and hypocrite they are.All year long we get concrete examples of how we men are considered less than dogs~~~ – online and in real life- only good to tax, take advantage of and incarcerate but when it’s time for these c~~~~~~~~~s – bluepiller Mengina traitors, men-hating feminist bitches and spineless cuck assholes – to feeeeeel good about themselves, all of a sudden they want us to forget all the evils they perpetrate all year long and wish them a merry f~~~ing Christmas!!!Well, I say F~~~’em !To me, those holidays are merely just other days within the year and I give no flying f~~~ if it’s “special” or whatever. It’s not “special” to me. It’s just another f~~~ing day!!I’ll tell you which day is SPECIAL to me : It’s the day I see my kids again. THAT will be the most special day over ALL the holidays they’ve invented to make businesses thrive and sell their s~~~ nobody has use for. Until that day arrives, I give NO s~~~ if it’s Christmas, Thanksgiving, Easter or St.F~~~’s Day !Let anyone wish me a “Merry Christmas” or “Happy Holiday”, they’ll be met with an emphatic F~~~ YOU !
The holidays have long since been spoiled by consumerism. I really hate it when someone asks if I’ve “bought Christmas” yet. Stupid idiots……you don’t “buy” Christmas.
The f~~~ is Christmas anyway? I’m a Christian and I can tell you that Christmas has nothing to do with my Lord and Saviour. He wasn’t even born in December. We know that shepherds were in the fields watching their flocks at the time of Jesus’ birth (Luke 2:7-8). Shepherds were not in the fields during December. Luke’s account suggests that Jesus may have been born in summer or early fall. Since December is cold and rainy in Judea, it is likely the shepherds would have sought shelter for their flocks at night and not be in the fields.
Jesus’ parents came to Bethlehem to register in a Roman census (Luke 2:1-4). Such censuses were not taken in winter, when temperatures often dropped below freezing and roads were in poor condition. Taking a census under such conditions would have been self-defeating. Given the difficulties and the desire to bring pagans into Christianity, the important fact is that the fixing of the date as December 25th was a compromise with paganism.Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!I’m not one who gets depressed around holidays. I look forward to them because of the time off of work. I have nothing against the holidays themselves, but can’t stand what idiotic people have made of them……..you know, the usual bulls~~~ of “black Friday” and the Christmas shopping and people everywhere acting stupid at the stores.
My main problem is the “obligation” of hosting “the meal”. I enjoy having my father and my son come over on any other day except Thanksgiving and Christmas. We normally sit around and talk, or go fishing, or shoot clays with the shotguns, but on the holidays, my house becomes the gathering spot and I’m “obligated” to cook something and then have to clean up the mess. I don’t have to cook everything. Usually father and son will bring something and I just have to cook a potato dish, but it’s the fact that I feel as though I have to do it and even if I don’t cook something there’s still the mess.
I’m not the hosting type. As a matter of fact, I’m probably the worst host you’ve ever seen. I hate having people in my house even family. That may sound bad. Of course I care for my son and my father, but this twice a year obligation thing is not something I look forward to and I’m glad when it’s over and they’re gone. On any other day when they come over to visit and we just sit around and talk or do anything else, it’s fine.
I just took off work for six days straight this holiday weekend and the five days I was alone were wonderful. The one day with the family was irritating. Again, if we could’ve done anything except cook and make a mess it would’ve been fine. I told them I wasn’t cooking anything for Christmas……………..I’ll probably make chili………….
I’m just being lazy and selfish. One day my dad will be gone and I’ll regret acting the way I do now. Just wanted to come on here and bitch I suppose.Maybe just tell them you dont mind them, just that you arent cooking. Get a cheese/meat platter with crackers, some beers. Or in a lot of places, many grocery stores will do all the cooking of a holiday meal for you and deliver it to you.
Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.
Have you always been selfish?
Maybe, I’m not sure. It’s hard to gauge with all the other no good, selfish f~~~s out there.
Introverts are usually deemed as “selfish”, or are we more honest and wear the same face?
I am introverted and have been my entire life. Its how I am, I make no excuses. The extroverts who f~~~ like bunnies and party all the time and p~~~ away money on worthless frivolity make no excuses for themselves.
I need alone time, people are exhausting to deal with. Business or family or anyone. There’s also been some work done regarding happiness of people and their alone time with respect to intelligence levels. The higher your intelligence the happier people are when they get more alone/quiet time.
Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.
I don’t even like to celebrate my own birthday. Like you, I don’t like to host, I don’t like when people come to my place and I don’t ever invite anyone home. My home is my sanctuary away from all the s~~~s of the world and I will not defile my place by opening it to anyone.
Ugh, a couple years ago, some friends had a birthday party for me and it was very uncomfortable for me. The whole evening was about me and they were doing things for me and playing my favorite music, giving me presents. I suppose someone who is self absorbed and self entitled might enjoy that kind of s~~~, but I don’t ever want anyone to have a party for me again. I don’t know why, but I did not like it. The whole event being about me just didn’t feel right.
Yes, my home is my sanctuary and the fact that I know it will be invaded twice a year puts me off. It’s the obligation thing, the fact that I have to do it. I guess it’s kind of like cooking for me. I do enjoy cooking food, but only when I feel like it. Sometimes I’ll thaw out some meat for a dish that I was looking forward to making, but then when it thaws, I’m no longer in the mood, but I’m obligated now. The meat is thawed and I have to do it. I was in the mood yesterday or two days ago when I took it out of the freezer, but now I’m not.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
I don’t even like to celebrate my own birthday. Like you, I don’t like to host, I don’t like when people come to my place and I don’t ever invite anyone home. My home is my sanctuary away from all the s~~~s of the world and I will not defile my place by opening it to anyone.
Ugh, a couple years ago, some friends had a birthday party for me and it was very uncomfortable for me. The whole evening was about me and they were doing things for me and playing my favorite music, giving me presents. I suppose someone who is self absorbed and self entitled might enjoy that kind of s~~~, but I don’t ever want anyone to have a party for me again. I don’t know why, but I did not like it. The whole event being about me just didn’t feel right.
Yes, my home is my sanctuary and the fact that I know it will be invaded twice a year puts me off. It’s the obligation thing, the fact that I have to do it. I guess it’s kind of like cooking for me. I do enjoy cooking food, but only when I feel like it. Sometimes I’ll thaw out some meat for a dish that I was looking forward to making, but then when it thaws, I’m no longer in the mood, but I’m obligated now. The meat is thawed and I have to do it. I was in the mood yesterday or two days ago when I took it out of the freezer, but now I’m not.I don’t even like to celebrate my own birthday. Like you, I don’t like to host, I don’t like when people come to my place and I don’t ever invite anyone home. My home is my sanctuary away from all the s~~~s of the world and I will not defile my place by opening it to anyone.
Ugh, a couple years ago, some friends had a birthday party for me and it was very uncomfortable for me. The whole evening was about me and they were doing things for me and playing my favorite music, giving me presents. I suppose someone who is self absorbed and self entitled might enjoy that kind of s~~~, but I don’t ever want anyone to have a party for me again. I don’t know why, but I did not like it. The whole event being about me just didn’t feel right.
Yes, my home is my sanctuary and the fact that I know it will be invaded twice a year puts me off. It’s the obligation thing, the fact that I have to do it. I guess it’s kind of like cooking for me. I do enjoy cooking food, but only when I feel like it. Sometimes I’ll thaw out some meat for a dish that I was looking forward to making, but then when it thaws, I’m no longer in the mood, but I’m obligated now. The meat is thawed and I have to do it. I was in the mood yesterday or two days ago when I took it out of the freezer, but now I’m not.Just get on with it you selfish bugger. I hope the meat isn’t Goose or Duck?
Have you always been selfish?
Maybe, I’m not sure. It’s hard to gauge with all the other no good, selfish f~~~s out there.
Introverts are usually deemed as “selfish”, or are we more honest and wear the same face?
I am introverted and have been my entire life. Its how I am, I make no excuses. The extroverts who f~~~ like bunnies and party all the time and p~~~ away money on worthless frivolity make no excuses for themselves.
I need alone time, people are exhausting to deal with. Business or family or anyone. There’s also been some work done regarding happiness of people and their alone time with respect to intelligence levels. The higher your intelligence the happier people are when they get more alone/quiet time.- AuthorPosts
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