END OF THE ROAD

[Anonymous 1]

Like many men, I started out my life thinking I would have a happy, long-lasting relationship with a woman. It didn’t work out that way, however.

Nothing I did was ever enough, to make a woman happy. I held down steady jobs and brought home the paycheck. I worked long hours to buy things she wanted, only to hear her constantly complain that she didn’t get enough of my time.

After 4 marriages, and God knows how many live-in relationships I’ve had, nothing I did was ever enough. I’ve been lied to, cheated on, lost children in custody battles, even had my money stolen, and still I was attracted to females. Slow learner I guess.

Hell, in the end, I moved to Asia and had dozens of GF’s. I asked damn little of them. In return for suppling a nice comfortable air-conditioned house, great food (I’m a chef), plenty of fashionable clothing, money for their pockets, mini vacations to the beach and the mountains, even paying for schooling if they desired, all I asked for was honesty, a very little bit of house cleaning, an occasional massage, a bit of sex, and friendly/affectionate attitude.

Was that enough to make them happy ? It was not. Complaints. Endless complaints.

Finally, I just gave up and chose to live alone. But, I am paying a price. There is a huge emptiness in my soul that never leaves me. At age 72, each day is pretty much the same as every other day. I wake, have coffee and a bite to eat, read for a few hours, watch a movie, play chess, prepare a nice dinner, and that’s about it. No zest. No passion.

I don’t know how other guys manage to survive without any love/sex/cuddling. For me, it’s damn depressing.

[MACHOParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I don’t know how other guys manage to survive without any love/sex/cuddling. For me, it’s damn depressing.

Anonymous wrote:

I am paying a price. There is a huge emptiness in my soul that never leaves me. At age 72, each day is pretty much the same as every other day.

Our soul need more than female attention or sex.. one need to have a rich spiritual life in order to find peace. Don’t listen to naysayers there’s a God.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Space CowboyParticipant 1466]

You know how damaged and damaging women are and you have tried to find happiness with them. It’s not possible. You need to pursue your own interests and hobbies, join groups and meet up with people to avoid being alone so much.

If you can’t find happiness alone try groups. Women are a waste.

"Have you ever thought about any real freedoms? Freedom from the opinions of others...even from the opinions of yourself?"

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Because you conditioned yourself for your entire life to put women on a pedestal and cater to their every need. Like most men you based your value on having a female in your life and you now feel empty inside because your entire life you were lied to.

It will get better in time you have to have faith in yourself and God and things will start to improve for you. Remember YOU were always the PRIZE and they were always the parasite just sucking away everything out of you. There is no more to give and you feel drained and empty inside.

Now is the time to slowly build yourself up again stop worrying about what other people think about you and being single is not a death sentence it is a prison release. You are now off the plantation no longer tied to a slave master you have the freedom to do whatever you want in life.

You can have women in your life if you choose just don’t cohabitate with them. Some men cope by getting prostitutes or go on porn sites to get sexual gratification if that is something you still crave you can still have sex.

Praying to Jesus and having God in your life will help you it is never to late. Going out and meeting new people and finding groups with hobbies is a great way to meet like minded people like yourself. Many people at your age are single and without a wife or girlfriend you are not a leper confined to your house. Get a pet they are great comfort and will help you cope with your feelings of loneliness.

It will take time this is normal for you to feel this way you slowly have to deprogram yourself and start thinking about you for a change and what is best for you. Remember you are free to do whatever you want in life now it will get easier.

[Anonymous 12]

so you ripped out the ones that poisoned you, and are slowly healing.

No, there is no more to this existence than the life you live.
compared to the cave-man you have it all.

safety
resources
food
shelter
electronics
connectivity
wisdom
peace

and you have the absence of a soul sucking draining female.

the way you describe your life…
more money could buy you more “stuff”… be that car boat or jet…
but that “stuff” would be useless to you.

are you a Man like an empty shell, ravaged by decades of disappointments and lost battles?

[bladeParticipant]

I seen the title and thought you were dying or some s~~~ .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Well, personally, I’m not against dating. But you can’t expect a woman to live in your household and behave herself. Why? Because vagina.

You can still hang out with other men in your situation. Perhaps there’s a club you can join with others who have a common interest (music, games, sports, books).

It took me a while to be totally alone. I have been alone in my apartment for 3 years so far. I used to have noisy room mates when I rented a room in a house. It is better for me to be alone. I can rest, take a shower, watch movies/videos, play my guitar, etc. I do things on my schedule: chores, paying bills. I go to work and earn enough money for my life. If I get cabin fever, I can drive my car to a park or the the mountains and walk around. It’s not a bad situation. Once in a while, I’ll drive 100 miles to visit some family members.

You can think of your current situation as a new chapter in your life and figure out a way to make the best of it.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[Anonymous 1]

For several years, I traveled the globe. I spent time in Egypt touring the all of the monuments and museums. I went to Japan, Hong Kong, Korea, Thailand, Philippines, Indonesia, Costa Rica, Macao, and lived in Mexico for the last 7 years. In fact I traveled completely around the planet.

Now, however, my hearing is all but gone and it makes it a bit tough trying to make friends. Heck, if I was a drinker, I’d go to bars looking for possible friends but I don’t drink.

I wish that I could believe in a God but, I just can’t convince myself that any such deity exists or has ever existed. No insult intended for the believers, but it just doesn’t work for me.

[MACHOParticipant]

blade wrote:

I seen the title and thought you were dying or some s~~~

There’s 2 types of death, one physical and the other one spiritual! Being alive with a dead spirit equals to living life as a zombie!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Anonymous wrote:

I wish that I could believe in a God but, I just can’t convince myself that any such deity exists or has ever existed. No insult intended for the believers, but it just doesn’t work for me.

What is the worst thing that can happen if you ask for Jesus in your life? It is your life you are here to live it the way you want no one is here to force you to do something you do not want to do. I am speaking for me personally and I can tell you without doubt in my mind and heart that both God and Jesus is real and you too can find salvation if you seek it.

Remember you are not alone we are here to help you stay strong brother. Not here to side rail the conversation you guys can give whatever advice you feel this is just my personal belief not here to start an argument.

[MACHOParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

No insult intended for the believers,

None taken… and by the way I’m not just a believer… a mere believer is one that relies only on faith to know about a creator.. there are a few of us on earth that were blessed more than the others. Faith is secondary to some of us. I can do nothing more.. I can’t in this situation wish you good luck but I wish you faith and peace. Luck won’t give you life.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[LupusParticipant 214]

You have to find meaning for yourself, brother.
Which is the biggest trick.
I would start with the Zen of Zero F~~~s Given from TFM.
Then She’ll Never Love You.
It will show that you do not need to care about how society or people view you and that your illusion of getting love was just that, an illusion.
It might help you move forward after you let that sink in.
It will be hard.

[Anonymous 1]

What in the world does “Zero f~~~s given” mean ?

[bladeParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

What in the world does “Zero f~~~s given” mean ?

Totally dont care

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Anonymous wrote:

What in the world does “Zero f~~~s given” mean ?

Basically means look out for yourself first and don’t worry or give a f~~~ about what other people think. Have an attitude where you come first before anything else in your life and you could care less who gets hurt by that mentality.

Deflect shaming language like you have a shield swiping away a sword and you will have peace in your life.

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

Good post Ramses. The end of the road is/can be the BEGINNING of an adventure. If you had those resource draining women around that you describe you still would feel emptiness in your soul you just would be temporarily distracting yourself from that emptiness by having a woman around. It is good you have recognised the emptiness – now the woman is gone you see what is underneath. You have a great opportunity now to fill the soul with nourishment.

Anonymous wrote:

I don’t know how other guys manage to survive without any love/sex/cuddling. For me, it’s damn depressing.

Like Macho and others have said cultivating a spiritual life can bring great benefits and joy and new friends. I also testify to that. Whatever path that may entail is your OWN journey. Trust your own intelligence and discernment. You are FREE – CONSCIOUS. Visit some places or groups (does not have to be spiritual related) that you find interesting or that appeal to you – you will connect with like minded people.

EDIT: Okay I just now read that you dont believe in God and about your hearing. I also am not intending to impose anything specific on you. An internal sense of wellbeing is our natural state. Its not my thing at all (as a MGHOW I limit my contact with women) but I know a guy who is almost deaf and has problems with sight and he finds contact improv therapeutic/joyful. Qi Gong breathing may help. Tai Chi may help. Cold showers or dip in the sea gets the blood moving.

Rhino wrote:

stop worrying about what other people think about you and being single is not a death sentence it is a prison release.

YES THIS!

Feminism was funded by bankers/politicians to create more taxpayers. MGTOW IS FREEDOM https://archive.org/details/mgtowisfreedomblurayready

[Anonymous 1]

One thing I can say for certain, is that I don’t give a damn what other people think of me. I know who and what I am. So, that is out of the way.
My philosophy is, “What you see, is what you get.” If she (or anyone else) doesn’t like it, then they know where the door is.

[Space CowboyParticipant 1466]

As my signature states, your opinion of yourself shouldn’t matter to you too much. By that I mean if you were married a few times and angry it happened or regretful it didn’t work out, don’t blame yourself or see yourself as stupid for it burning.
Be free from your painful past and be free from the opinions of those who say “Find a new wife.” or “you have to have a woman in your life.” You can only be free to be happy when you go “no f~~~s given” and dont give a f~~~ what anyone thinks anymore.

Still be a good person and do what is best for you, but for some people you being on your own is ‘wrong’ somehow. Dont listen to them.
If you feel lonely because of lack of a woman, just speak to married guys or divorced ones who wish they’d never dated. Women are pits of time wasting and money grabbing control freakery.

If you eventually insist on dating, remember even blue pillers say you can’t be happy with someone else if you aren’t happy in your own company.

Given what you know now and the red pill/MGTOW way, a relationship would just be day to day red flags and bad signs. It would be hard to enjoy. It’s like seeing a resteraunt full of people chowing down on a meal that looks great, but you know the chef p~~~ed in it. Still want a plate?.

"Have you ever thought about any real freedoms? Freedom from the opinions of others...even from the opinions of yourself?"

[SH3LLZParticipant 5569]

In my very humble opinion. You sound like you spend years on years absorbed by women and you never took time to just be with your best friend and build something solid with that person. YOURSELF.

And now at 72 youre scared to be alone… Dude. Enjoy your golden years and keep dating if you want. But there’s no need to lock anything down. Especially now. You need inner fulfillment man. A woman will NEVER give you that. She can fake it, but she can also break it.

#ICETHEMOUT
#MANOUT
#HIDEYOURWEALTH

#ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

[.0000000001Participant 137]

Ramses – you have to be happy and passionate about you and your life. You cannot and should not seek validation from others. That’s the problem with a lot of people. They’re never “happy” because they expect someone else to accept responsibility for even their emotions. The essence of MGTOW is to pursue your passions, life, and if you desire the world without validation or approval from a person or group. MGTOW doesn’t mean you have to be a hermit – or consume yourself with hate. You say you love to cook? Great! Take that passion and run with it but expand your interests to other things as I’ve found I get bored doing only one thing over time. I have many hobbies and find excitement in finding new ones all the time. I take interest in what others are doing around me (as long as it is constructive) and learn something new every day. I completely shut out the naysayers. It’s been my experience that the detractors of things that are interesting or constructive are usually doing nothing except bitching about what everyone else is doing around them. All the while expecting somebody to entertain them while spewing drama. Then they cry and whine why nobody wants to be around them – gee I wonder why? You sound like you’re doing some soul searching and examining your failures. It’s good as long as you don’t let them consume you. Personally I think MGTOW is where men reflect on their past failures, learn from them, and move on becoming better men. Everyone on here deals with those in a different way but we all come together to learn from each other. This is a place where we can vent, rant, joke, “yell” while in a drunken stupor, discuss our victories and our failures, AND post pictures of fat chicks. Wink wink Blade.

Is Wayne Brady gotta choke a B!%C* ?

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