Can anyone recommend a counsellor?

[Anonymous 7]

Do you have something like the VFW (Veterans of Foreign Wars) or American legion in your neck of the woods?

I would say your best shot at finding a male counselor that works exclusively with males is to contact a few Veterans groups and ask them if they have a list of counselors.

Then like KM suggested, interview them.

Good luck.

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Cheers Stealth, thank you.

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Great advice Grue, will look into it. Thanks.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Keymaster.

About a year ago you posted a letter from a psych doc in OZ.

Not sure if they are close.

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[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Look your boy doesn’t need a “counselor”. Those guys are fake libtards who will ONLY screw with his mind. I had a rough youth and abusive parents…this can be survived, I’m living proof. It is our left-wing society that sends the message “you must be happy–and if your not that’s OK we have drugs, and counselors” etc. I say reject that crap and let him deal with it. He is a 20 year old MAN, and we men take all kinds of s~~~. We might get knocked down but we just get back up, dust yourself off and say: “IS that all you got”?

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Yes I told him this but he wants to try it out. Everyone is different and approaches things in their own way. 6 men a day kill themselves in Australia – maybe one of them could have been saved by just having someone impartial to talk to.

[Anonymous 54]

I remember going to a place full of Male counselors

A Bar! Hahah

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Lol yep

[bladeParticipant]

Max Power wrote:

Yes I told him this but he wants to try it out. Everyone is different and approaches things in their own way. 6 men a day kill themselves in Australia – maybe one of them could have been saved by just having someone impartial to talk to.

Totally bro . You are been a good father .

Just be cautious of the councillor . I have a mate in sydney that use to be a councilor and is more damaging than good .

Give BEYOND BLUE A RING . It is advice you are after at the moment . Give them a few calls because you might snag one that has alot more expierence than another with personal insight .

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Keymaster.

About a year ago you posted a letter from a psych doc in OZ.

Not sure if they are close.

Your heart is in the right place .

Psyc or phsycologist will reinforce his sons problem in his mind .

Not good for a twenty year old to see one to have a diagnosis slapped on him wich he will be left beleaving he has a problem unrelated to his issue .

A good councilor will pick up on any signs of an illness .

Genral doctor . He will throw pills at him . F~~~ them too .

Keep your son away from the mental health system .

There are so many young people at present in mental health units NEARLY ALL OF THEM FROM BROKEN FAMILYS

One thing i will give to churches they sometimes have good people with in there ranks and some young people find trust in them more than anything and open up . There is another avenue away from the system .

BIGGEST thing is not reinforcing he has a problem . Its a natural reaction to have to a situation

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[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Thank you very much Blade. Good advice.

Thanks all, I think I have enough to go on. Cheers.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22507]

My god, dont f~~~ with him, hes asking for real help here. Jeebus.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Counseling will soon be automated, because it’s all the same – they ask you questions, make you talk and nod. If he really wants to do it – tell him to find a dept of psychology at a local U – they usually offer free counseling to train their doctoral students. I had counseling for 9 mo one hour per week like that. Counseling is not coaching, he will get disappointed. All they do is listen
The whole point of counseling – is to make you talk about what bothers you. It is therapeutic because you get things off your chest, but it’s not a job of a therapist to give you any feedback. Their job is to make you come up with your own solutions

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Thanks fellas.

[Anonymous 42]

Your son wanting a “counselor” tells me what he actually wants is a guaranteed magic pill from a magic trustworthy source, something institutional with the appearance of integrity rather than a backyard steel foundry as far as he’s concerned. In my humble opinion he’s starting from a wrong frame of mind looking to others for the answers to the questions he must answer to himself. You’re your own best psychologist if you’re willing to go through the rewiring process needed to repair any damage done to your mind.

It’s a simple process but it helps to be around the same type of people that have suffered similar kinds of damage.

Alcoholics, Drug abusers, whatever the vice, birds of a feather tend to heal well together, in my opinion he’s looking for the right thing but in the potential wrong place.

If he’s not suicidal then I wouldn’t recommend psychotropic drugs as anything but a last resort. He’s looking for the right pills, the red pills, not the wrong pills turning him into a zombie, stay away from those compounds and do the labor intense rewiring of his own mind by becoming his own master mental electrician. It’s the essence of becoming a man! We’re strong and superior in every way when we rely on our independent nature.

look inward for help not outward, it’s too easy to be deceived, every man has a different circuit board therefore it’s not one size fits all like a cookie cutter. Only he can ever become the best psychologist to suit and tailor his needs.

I wish him well! Being young f~~~ing sucks!

[Anonymous 54]

Anonymous wrote:

Your son wanting a “counselor” tells me what he actually wants is a guaranteed magic pill from a magic trustworthy source, something institutional with the appearance of integrity rather than a backyard steel foundry as far as he’s concerned. In my humble opinion he’s starting from a wrong frame of mind looking to others for the answers to the questions he must answer to himself. You’re your own best psychologist if you’re willing to go through the rewiring process needed to repair any damage done to your mind.

It’s a simple process but it helps to be around the same type of people that have suffered similar kinds of damage.

Alcoholics, Drug abusers, whatever the vice, birds of a feather tend to heal well together, in my opinion he’s looking for the right thing but in the potential wrong place.

If he’s not suicidal then I wouldn’t recommend psychotropic drugs as anything but a last resort. He’s looking for the right pills, the red pills, not the wrong pills turning him into a zombie, stay away from those compounds and do the labor intense rewiring of his own mind by becoming his own master mental electrician. It’s the essence of becoming a man! We’re strong and superior in every way when we rely on our independent nature.

look inward for help not outward, it’s too easy to be deceived, every man has a different circuit board therefore it’s not one size fits all like a cookie cutter. Only he can ever become the best psychologist to suit and tailor his needs.

I wish him well! Being young f~~~ing sucks!

Nicely writen there Mg.

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Thanks MG. Food for thought. Cheers.

[JuehueParticipant 1316]

I think your son is assuming that you can’t help him. Hence he want the counselor.

For me, the first step of mental clarity is to be aware of your own assumption. This is hard to do yourself, but one way that I found effective is through debate. A good opponent will point out your assumption for you (KM is especially good at this)

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Thank you.

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

Nicely writen there Mg.

I care about the younger guys, they don’t have all that we were given to start with.

There’s so much deception and brainwash it’s actually dangerous! Without the logic of men being utilized in a positive way only increased insanity will result, giving us the world we see today.

Don’t let a woman near your mind! EVER!

[bladeParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Your son wanting a “counselor” tells me what he actually wants is a guaranteed magic pill from a magic trustworthy source, something institutional with the appearance of integrity rather than a backyard steel foundry as far as he’s concerned. In my humble opinion he’s starting from a wrong frame of mind looking to others for the answers to the questions he must answer to himself. You’re your own best psychologist if you’re willing to go through the rewiring process needed to repair any damage done to your mind.

It’s a simple process but it helps to be around the same type of people that have suffered similar kinds of damage.

Alcoholics, Drug abusers, whatever the vice, birds of a feather tend to heal well together, in my opinion he’s looking for the right thing but in the potential wrong place.

If he’s not suicidal then I wouldn’t recommend psychotropic drugs as anything but a last resort. He’s looking for the right pills, the red pills, not the wrong pills turning him into a zombie, stay away from those compounds and do the labor intense rewiring of his own mind by becoming his own master mental electrician. It’s the essence of becoming a man! We’re strong and superior in every way when we rely on our independent nature.

look inward for help not outward, it’s too easy to be deceived, every man has a different circuit board therefore it’s not one size fits all like a cookie cutter. Only he can ever become the best psychologist to suit and tailor his needs.

I wish him well! Being young f~~~ing sucks!

Tower so well put .

I was thinking about the weed his son is smoking and his frame of mind and thought this young fella is in a vulnerable place . The chances are there to move on from weed to hardy s~~~ as it numbs the pain .

Not a beleaver in young people smoking weed

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