Can anyone recommend a counsellor?

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Hey guys, my 20 year old son asked me to see if anyone can recommend a reasonably priced male non-gynocentric therapist/counsellor who he can talk to about his issues.

Hard to find, I know, but he really wants to talk to a professional about what he has been through with his horrible mother growing up. He is purple pill, moving towards red pill.

Please, no “he just should read these forums” replies, he has read the forums before. He wants to talk with a red pill male professional therapist, thank you. I appreciate any direct links.

Cheers fellas.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Max Power wrote:

Please, no “he just should read these forums” replies,

Well, mgtow.com DID come recommended once by a Psychiatrist (PuffinStuff knows) who pointed a patient in this direction. But everything on the internet should be regarded as certain to yield long-term negative outcomes. When you approach it like that, you can throw away everything you haven’t carefully examined.

Otherwise, it may be helpful if you leave your geographic location – city and state (only) – to kick this off.

Personally I don’t believe counseling, especially a female counsellor. They always try to turn a man into a docile controllable bitch. Goes for most male counsellors too. But as I said, you can regard that as certain to yield long-term negative outcomes.

Wishing the young man (and you) every success.
Sorry to learn he’s having some trouble.

Post your city and maybe someone can help!

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 6]

Joel Osteen
Dr. Phil
Dr. Sam Loomis
Dr. Marijuana
Dr. Jesus

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

Dr. Phil

I would rather drink bleach than listen to Dr. Phil. But Max is serious here. I don’t know anyone to recommend but if he leaves a city, it might help. Otherwise look up a counsellor in your city, and then INTERVIEW HIM to make sure he’s not hiding a tampon up his ass.

I would carefully interview ANY “counsellor” at the very least.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

The difficulty will be finding any therapist that specializes in males. Most therapist that deal with emotional issues are “person” centered, or family centered. Very little study in how specific male attributes may affect or inform therapy. There is the start of some work in this area, but you would need to dig deep to find out if the therapy is really based around a male’s experience, or the professional is just puffing his wares. Her is an article that may help and can offer some clues as to what you may want to consider when choosing a therapist. Its printed in three different languages so you need to scroll from English section to English section.

http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/14779757.2011.599512?src=recsys

Also, a Google search (therapist specializing in male issues) can be used where you add the closest major city to the end of the search phrase and you can see what available in your general area.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Thanks for your kind words and help KM, I am totally with you regarding therapists etc. but I promised my son I would ask you guys. He is generally doing ok, nothing to worry about.

I didn’t mention our city (Sydney) because he was asking for an online method of therapy. He likes the forums but genuinely thinks he needs to talk to someone, so fair enough.

He is already a semi-regular patient of Dr. Marijuana, thanks Venom. Dr Loomis treated my son’s mother after treating Michael Myers, but Loomis ended up quitting the business due to her scaring him too much.

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Oh btw KM I clicked on the bell just now and it logged me out!

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Thank you very much Romulus, will do.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Romulus wrote:

The difficulty will be finding any therapist that specializes in males.

It’s even more difficult to find a “male” specialist who can use the word “MAN” naturally – let alone specialize in helping them. One of the first questions I would ask a counsellor is what gender I am. Never know what kind of SJW is lurking beneath.

Max Power wrote:

Oh btw KM I clicked on the bell just now and it logged me out!

Aware. We’re not sure why, and it’s not even consistent. Working on it. A broadcast notification was posted about that. Thank you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Cheers.

[bladeParticipant]

Good dad looking out for his son .

Beware of feeding of each other over the ex and making it more of a problem than what it is .

When it comes to people going for counselling i think can take from a persons self learning where they start to become reliant on councilling to deal with more and more problems that the person would naturally be able to figure .

I see councilling as a last resort as there are people that need it .

A bit about ya sons problem he has bro

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Anonymous 54]

Some mothers are horrable.

Some birds get kicked out of the nest.
Some kittens dont get nursed.

Not all females make loveing mothers.

You better toughen up, and get over it.

Like I did.

Ill mail you a bill.

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Thanks Blade.

We have been separated for around 19 years so there is no animosity or us fueling anything or feeding off each other.

It is more him beginning to realise how hard and often cruel she was to him when he was small and how she basically never really liked him, even now. She has deep issues from her violent alcoholic father and she continued the cycle on to our son, and so on.

I help him as best I can and he is generally doing very well (studying and working), he just thought a bit of extra support may help him moving forward.

[bladeParticipant]

Beyond blue is an australian mental health service that is really like a directory .

Ring up BEYOND BLUE and have a chat with them . They are very good and give good advice .

BEYOND BLUE ALSO have an online forum and alot of people his age too .

Been twenty and smoking hydro might not suit him .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Thanks Old Sage.

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Thanks again Blade.

[Anonymous 54]

Max Power wrote:

Thanks Old Sage.

Dont thank me for that peice of s~~~. I could have said more humanly.

But I have found, for myself anyways…

I see myself as the bird kicked out of the nest too soon.

I can try and be strong, or I can die.

Those of us who do survive it, phsysicaly and mentaly, become very strong, special individuals.

Show him this.

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Will do Old Sage. Thanks.

[bladeParticipant]

Another thing bro beyond blue is not like f~~~ed up mensline .

A nurse will answer and they are really good on pointing you in the right direction .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[StealthParticipant 5329]

Cognitive behavioral therapy is the normal technique applied in session in the U.S., and counselors in my city as a rule are at social worker level . . . ie they have a certificate or masters degree but are not highly trained.

The result is that I have seen most of them treat symptoms, but not the underlying problems or issues. They have all seemed unhelpful or amateurish to me. One counselor started giggling nervously when the topic of sex was brought up. Another sat and talked about himself. They might be useful if you can’t figure out why your wife gets mad when you compliment her (real-life example from another couple) in order to hear a common-sense solution like, when you tell your wife you like her curves, she hears that as you calling her fat . . . so find a different way to say it. But deep seated anger against parents, phobias, personality disorders and basic psychological structural issues, I have seen them back off and change the topic.

Rational behavioral therapy takes a better approach, in my opinion. You’ll have to do some research to find a counselor who practices near you, but it seems to me to be a lot better and more . . . rational. For male counseling that is non-gynocentric BS, this might be a good place to start.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rational_emotive_behavior_therapy

O yes and we’ve all seen that lady who has branded herself “a shrink for men” — Tara Palmatier — and writes some excellent articles on how men should avoid manipulative women, etc. I think she actually takes on clients, not sure, but her articles are good and have helped me to shed the gynocracy and go mgtow. http://shrink4men.com/services/

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

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