Breaking up.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Ohhh god.

“Don’t try to bend the spoon, that is imposible, just learn the truth, there is no spoon”

THERE IS NO RELATIONSHIP, you are in a relationship SHE IS NOT.

The diference between been alone and with a woman is, that when you are with her, you are all alone with your worst enemy. And when you are alone by yourself you are safe.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[ghostParticipant]

Carnage wrote:

THERE IS NO RELATIONSHIP, you are in a relationship SHE IS NOT.

The diference between been alone and with a woman is, that when you are with her, you are all alone with your worst enemy. And when you are alone by yourself you are safe.

Why didn’t you tell me this a few years ago or maybe 15 years ago? I could have avoided plenty of s~~~ vortexes, including the most recent one.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22513]

I think that’s a bit extreme. She is in a relationship with your stuff – your money, house, savings, vehicles, property, etc. Your status.

She likes it so much that when she leaves she wants to take a big chunk of it with her.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[ghostParticipant]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

I think that’s a bit extreme. She is in a relationship with your stuff – your money, house, savings, vehicles, property, etc. Your status.

She likes it so much that when she leaves she wants to take a big chunk of it with her.

I’m going to bed now before I rage up again. I hate their nature.

[Silver FoxParticipant 2766]

I think the only real disconnect between what we read about as the ideal in Ephesians 5 (and elsewhere), versus what we see in reality, is simply this: our preconceptions about how often we are supposed to see good, biblical, lasting marriages.

It is widely assumed within the church that everyone is supposed to get married, and that everyone will have a wonderful marriage, and that divorce only happens as a random weird event that won’t affect the overall rosy outlook.

Proverbs 31 asks us, who can find a virtuous woman? Her worth is far above rubies. And so we pat ourselves on the back and assume that all Christian women must be that valuable. It’s time to be honest with ourselves in Christian circles and admit that most Christian women are not wife material or anywhere close to it, as described in the Bible.

"Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife." --Apostle Paul

[DocParticipant]

ghost wrote:

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

I think that’s a bit extreme. She is in a relationship with your stuff – your money, house, savings, vehicles, property, etc. Your status.

She likes it so much that when she leaves she wants to take a big chunk of it with her.

I’m going to bed now before I rage up again. I hate their nature.

NFG Gambit. NFG. NFG. NFG. Keep saying it. You know it works. It suppressed the rage.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Yes yes yes let the no f~~~s given go into you.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[DocParticipant]

Silver Fox wrote:

I think the only real disconnect between what we read about as the ideal in Ephesians 5 (and elsewhere), versus what we see in reality, is simply this: our preconceptions about how often we are supposed to see good, biblical, lasting marriages.

It is widely assumed within the church that everyone is supposed to get married, and that everyone will have a wonderful marriage, and that divorce only happens as a random weird event that won’t affect the overall rosy outlook.

Proverbs 31 asks us, who can find a virtuous woman? Her worth is far above rubies. And so we pat ourselves on the back and assume that all Christian women must be that valuable. It’s time to be honest with ourselves in Christian circles and admit that most Christian women are not wife material or anywhere close to it, as described in the Bible.

I agree. I have come to the conclusion that what I thought was reality isn’t reality.
The chance of finding loyalty commitment and lasting marriage just won’t happen. Women fundamentally cannot be trusted. Safest way to be is to give up and walk away. My divorce was an experience I vow never to repeat. Done deal.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[Anonymous 42]

Carnage wrote:

THERE IS NO RELATIONSHIP, you are in a relationship SHE IS NOT.

Gee Carnage, you really hit the nail on the head!

A relations~~~ in a woman’s mind is a 24 hour reassessment machine for the sake of monitoring your performance, one day you’re good as gold, next morning you’re out on the tree belt with the trash awaiting collection.

I fixed breaking up where it doesn’t happen any more simply by not getting together. Problem f~~~ing solved!

My life consists of strolling through the monkey pit in a shark cage on wheels and crutches to propel it!

[PhilandryParticipant 538]

Gambit,

what you have described is the most fundamental difference between men and women.
Your actions and toward her and her actions toward you in any given situation will reflect this.

You care about how they feel even if they don’t care about how you feel. Why is this? How can they be so cold?

You care because men contain magnificence, women are bereft of it, can’t recognise it and would deride it if they did.

Don’t ever call yourself weak, you simply demonstrated the magnificence and strength that resides in your character.

Just accept that she is unaware of these higher life forces and is very much the poorer because of it.

As far as your current feelings go, something that works for me is to “Yank myself back into reality” by looking at my immediate situation and telling myself that nothing bad is happening to me right now and if I’m smart I will plan for good things from this point.

Don’t look back, look forwards. The future is bright for you and your friends here.

Being a man is incredible good luck. Do not waste it on the unlucky.

[ghostParticipant]

Philandry wrote:

You care because men contain magnificence, women are bereft of it, can’t recognise it and would deride it if they did.

The next man or current person in her life is probably going to struggle with this as well. It is a certainty.

Philandry wrote:

Don’t ever call yourself weak, you simply demonstrated the magnificence and strength that resides in your character.

Thank you, Philandry. That means a lot.

Philandry wrote:

Just accept that she is unaware of these higher life forces and is very much the poorer because of it.

It is tough to accept that but I have no other choice. It is slowly sinking in.

Philandry wrote:

As far as your current feelings go, something that works for me is to “Yank myself back into reality” by looking at my immediate situation and telling myself that nothing bad is happening to me right now and if I’m smart I will plan for good things from this point.

Don’t look back, look forwards. The future is bright for you and your friends here.

That is a good solution. I have to keep reminding myself this. It’s a laborious process while in these phases/stages. I know I’ll come out of it but it sucks to have these thoughts constantly spiraling through my brain.

Thank you for your response, your support, empathy and compassion.

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