Breaking up.

[ghostParticipant]

If I am going to end a relationship, which I have never done mind you, I would not do it in a heartless way. I have tried to break up and have given women a path on how to move on and have offered to be there through the process if they need me in any way. Women on the other hand do it in the most cruel way possible. They will ignore you, block you, have you arrested, etc. They are absolute bitches when they are done with you but I have never been an asshole to anyone.

Why can’t she just talk to you normally and explain to you that she wants a break and move in a different direction? Why does she monkey branch and then try and crush you to pieces? There is no wisdom in that. It makes no sense. Even after all of the experiences I have had, I still cannot be an asshole to someone. She can at least follow your lead on how to handle a break up. Are they just that weak that they can’t be respectful?

Someone please nuke the f~~~ing planet already.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22537]

Really? You know why. You’ve been on this site long enough to know why.

Besides, lots of guys ghost and that is cutting them off and blocking them. I don’t think that’s cruel. If they want it to be over then you are taking them at your word. If you end it you mean it so again, you’re true to your word.

Otherwise you show them you don’t hold to your word and you are actually weak. If they work on you long enough you’ll allow contact again. Then they get back in and then when they want, they dump you.

You’ve been here long enough to know this is true.

Besides other articles here show it takes a woman 2 days to get over you. It takes a guy 2 months or so. Women almost never leave unless they have something to go to, so when they break up you are already dead to them. They only come back when the monkeybranching doesn’t work out well for them. But they left once so they will probably keep looking for a better place and then leave you again. You become a default orbiter because she has no plans to stay with you.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[bstoffParticipant 4867]

Who gives a f~~~.

[ghostParticipant]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

You’ve been here long enough to know this is true.

I know. I am just p~~~ed at myself for being weak.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22537]

Well crap, man, I thought you were done. You’ve been posting along these lines.

I look at an orgasm as a release that lets me get on with the things I still need to do/get done. My sex experiences have never been that great. The mental buildup before it, the anticipation, was always a lot more than the actual thing when it did (or failed to) happen. (Actually grateful for the times it didn’t, now.) You get too horned up, you take care of it quick, and then your mind can focus back on the tasks you have before you. No sweat.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Ever5Participant 1008]

yeah I went through the same stuff, never got arrested, just the monkey branching stuff.

I don’t know. I’m done with it. One thing I learned, every woman has a squirrel fund. Like I’d be with women and not want to break up with them. Lesson learned. Of course now, I don’t have to worry about it. But never fear breaking up with a woman, even if she’s living with you. If she’s living with you, she’s saving money.

I don’t know man. Relationships are pointless. The only reason men and women should ever get together is for the purposes of raising a family, producing a family. Penis into vagina for the only purpose of procreation.

All this other mess is just bulls~~~. Just brainwashing to sell products. Like none of this crap existed in the past. Men and woman are just incompatible, we don’t have the same interest, it’s just retarded. It’s just brainwashing.

It’s a waste of time. Unless you are looking for a wife/mother of your children. And if that’s the case, you aren’t going to marry a woman you are in love with, you’re just not. Because any woman that you are attracted to, you’ll know she won’t be a good wife or a good mother. And all that said, in today’s era, even marriage is retarded. Unless you just really really really want kids, and if you aren’t in love with the woman, it probably won’t be as painful of a divorce.

Anyway, I’m done with all that crap. Once you see it for what it is, it’s just a waste of time. There’s way better things, and fulfilling things, I could be doing with my life than spending it with a woman.

Truth has no place to live in the mind of a woman.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22537]

That “squirrel fund” will never, ever be tapped to help you out.

NEVER.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[ghostParticipant]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

Well crap, man, I thought you were done.

I was but the last few days have been kind of weird. I feel like I’m going back through it again. The rage came back after it was gone for a while. I guess that means I am not completely over what happened.

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

I look at an orgasm as a release that lets me get on with the things I still need to do/get done. My sex experiences have never been that great. The mental buildup before it, the anticipation, was always a lot more than the actual thing when it did (or failed to) happen. (Actually grateful for the times it didn’t, now.) You get too horned up, you take care of it quick, and then your mind can focus back on the tasks you have before you. No sweat.

That helps but not all the time. It works most days but some days I just have unrelenting anger and rage. Prayer helps and venting a bit here helps too.

[ghostParticipant]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

That “squirrel fund” will never, ever be tapped to help you out.

NEVER.

That’s for damn sure. I just hope the squirrel ends up being roadkill someday.

[ghostParticipant]

Ever5 wrote:

Anyway, I’m done with all that crap.

I’m done with it too. I do not date or even talk to women outside of a professional setting anymore. That doesn’t mean I’m okay with how things went down. I’m sure I’ll be fine in a couple days.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22537]

The way it is now, it’s just dangerously toxic.

If you have lots of wealth its a way of passing down control of it and arranged marriages between people of means had a point.

Stability for the kids used to be a point. Kids do best with a dad around. Single dads are even better than single moms, for both genders of kids. Dads are actually grown men, women are just tempermental perpetual teenagers and have far more mental problems than grown men do.

If we actually had marriage back to what it was – more of a contract enforced on both parties – woman is sole sexual partner of man, owns no property, provided security for exchange of giving a man HIS CHILDREN (not hers), if she wants to leave she can but doesn’t take the kids or anything (no cash and prizes for bailing). Marriage would become a far more equitable possibility for a larger percentage of men.

It won’t go back to that save for global catastrophe when stuff reverts back to survival mode.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[ghostParticipant]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

If we actually had marriage back to what it was – more of a contract enforced on both parties – woman is sole sexual partner of man, owns no property, provided security for exchange of giving a man HIS CHILDREN (not hers), if she wants to leave she can but doesn’t take the kids or anything (no cash and prizes for bailing). Marriage would become a far more equitable possibility for a larger percentage of men.

This sounds like a dream come true.

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

It won’t go back to that save for global catastrophe when stuff reverts back to survival mode.

I agree. It’s not coming back in my lifetime.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22537]

Maybe regard it as weakness leaving your body.

If you can look back on the times its come back, and you notice each subsequent time the time it takes to get over it and feel normal is less and less, that means you are getting better.

One day you will not have any more flare-ups. If it enters your mind at that point, you will just laugh at it and not even think twice as you dismiss it from your mind and finish up what you are working on at the moment.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[DocParticipant]

I have had the pleasure of ditching close to a dozen women over the last 20years.
I’m not bragging – just sharing my own experiences.

Sometimes there is a mutual NFG for continuing the relationship and contact simply stops. Nice and easy.

But most require telling them that things have ended.
The last girl I ditched I told I saw her more as a friend.
One before that wanted to know where we were going.
I said ‘nowhere now you ask’.
One before that made herself too comfy in my house saw me as a wallet. I said I would text her but never did. She made it easy.
One before that had a psycho ex boyfriend and a kid by him. I used the psycho ex as my reason to dump her.
One before that was my wife and she ditched me

Over the 10 years before meeting wifey I dated women but they never ‘floated my boat’.
Sometimes it was necessary to come right out and say it.
One girl had to be told she was suffocating me so she’s had to go.
Another bored me – so I told her so.

Do I feel bad? Not in the least.
Why? Because AWALT. If they were dumping me do you they that they would have given a f~~~?

I have been dumped 3 times and none of them gave a s~~~.

Treat as treated.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[Old BuckParticipant 3596]

ghost wrote:

I feel like I’m going back through it again. The rage came back after it was gone for a while. I guess that means I am not completely over what happened.

What you are going thru and feeling is absolutely normal. Check this out:

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/blog/supersurvivors/201707/why-the-five-stages-grief-are-wrong%3famp

Don't chase tail. Turn yours around, walk away, and live free!

[ghostParticipant]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

Maybe regard it as weakness leaving your body.

That’s a good way of thinking about it. Thanks, bro.

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

If you can look back on the times its come back, and you notice each subsequent time the time it takes to get over it and feel normal is less and less, that means you are getting better.

Very good point. This makes me feel better.

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

One day you will not have any more flare-ups. If it enters your mind at that point, you will just laugh at it and not even think twice as you dismiss it from your mind and finish up what you are working on at the moment.

That’s true. It’s how I feel about other situations from years ago. The only difference this time is that I am not getting back on the wagon wheel and dating someone new. It’s made the process a bit slower, more difficult, but I think it will lead to more long-term satisfaction once this period is behind me. Thanks, bro.

[ghostParticipant]

Old Buck wrote:

What you are going thru and feeling is absolutely normal. Check this out:

Very helpful. Thanks.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22537]

It would only be a dream if we didn’t know about the true nature of women.

For me, even if we could get marriage back to what it was, we know what women are. We know all that has to be in place BECAUSE of what women are and are capable of.

You will appreciate this because you are interested in spiritual things.

It will never be as good as we think.

The genesis 3 curse on women was partially mistranslated in most versions of the bible. The correct last part is: “Your desire will be to rule over your husband, but he will rule over you.” Most bibles incorrectly say “your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you.” This was to be a curse. Which one from a womans perspective, and also the context of what she did, seems to be a more accurate translation?

Thus, the last part of the curse was that women would want to control their husbands, but husbands would control them. There would be tremendous conflict over who is in charge, from that point on, between men and women.

From that point on, nothing works out well between men and women and this gynocentric society we are in has just made it exponentially worse. And of course – mens fault. No surprises there.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[ghostParticipant]

Doc wrote:

Treat as treated.

Probably should have done that but oh well. I’m done with all of it now.

[Ever5Participant 1008]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

: “Your desire will be to rule over your husband, but he will rule over you.” Most bibles incorrectly say “your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you.” This was to be a curse.

interesting stuff

Truth has no place to live in the mind of a woman.

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