4 Years on and my mother is still a f~~~ing C~~~

Muglintar wrote:

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

Constantine wrote:

Poor Dashing. Have you considered telling your mother that you recently started your own business and it’s really taking off? I bet she’d be nicer to you then.

I’m sure if i won the lotto the c~~~ would be ‘nice to me’

i guarantee you, it is just like that.
My mum (her last words to me were, that my sister is much closer to her and has always been, that actually her son-in-law is more important to her than me), became very friendly when my student loan got approved. well, until she managed to talk the bank into releasing the funds to her account instead of mine, that is.
It ended up with me unable to pay my rent, unable to pay for fees and the child-abusing, unemployed idiot she has been living with since I was 12, type of guy who beats the s~~~ out of wife and kids, because he completely failed his own life, got a new car.

AWALT – this includes your mum, sister, grandma and daughter.

Funny you say that mate, i have the exact same of treatment from my c~~~ mother. If i had a debate, or someone else was present when having a iscussion etc, she would ALWAYS side with the other person and go against me. If i told her to butt out and i can say what i like, she would begin her venomous verbal abuse tirade at me. “No one in our family likes you”.

Varun wrote:

That is one hell of a story there. I can’t believe you mother couldn’t see through to the cruelty your stepdad was unleashing onto you. Maybe she valued his money more than she valued you.

If you were 16, why didn’t you get child services? Or maybe it wasn’t very popular back then.

Well, whatever happened, happened in the past. You should get any thoughts of vengeance out of your head. Like people say, the greater the struggle, the more glorious the triumph. And you’re gonna have one hell of a triumph.

Thanks man.

I guess back then i had no idea such things existed and i was a dumb f~~~. I was working full time aged 17 at a live in pub job as a dishwasher. A country pub called the George Inn. No dishwashing machines, just the sink, the taps, and a sponge and metal wirey thing to scrub the dishes. It was f~~~ing ridiculous and i couldn’t handle it.

I had applied for the job as a ‘trainee chef’, not a dishwasher, but it never happened. When i complained the owners, a married middle aged couple said too bad or something like that. I was like WTF. So this was 2001 and i was paid 130 British pounds a week, free board and lodgings, had my own room, and i relied on tips to add up the s~~~ty wage i got. I worked 10 hours a day 5 days a week, and always got my days off during the week which was s~~~ as alot of my mates were still at school.

I had cystic acne at the time, and this s~~~ wasn’t sorted out until i was 23 when i went to see a dermatologist who was horrified and put me on roacutine). Within barely 2 weeks, my face cleared up completely, i was over the f~~~ing moon! That s~~~ has destroyed my self esteem for f~~~ing years.

There were gorgeous as f~~~ waitresses who would come in and work on the evenings, all around my age or a bit older. They saw me as a f~~~ing freak and ugly c~~~ because of the s~~~ on my face. I still have bad scarring on my face like Gaff (james olmos) from the movie Blade Runner.

When i think about al li went through right now, i cant believe how i was left to rot like that. No one gave a flying f~~~ about me. Had i been a female with a vagina, i would have had s~~~ loads of help non stop.

Still bothers me greatly.

Varun wrote:

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

a sponge and metal wirey thing to scrub the dishes.

You mean a steel wool. Yeah that’s what I use to scrub. It cuts a lot. I use the hard sponge with dishwashing liquid. The soap doesn’t work well.

I hope you’re sending your son to school.

Of course hes at school. Its a s~~~ one so i have enrolled him at a better one closer to where he lives.

Yeh man definitely. Cheers.