4 Years on and my mother is still a f~~~ing C~~~

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  • 2016-10-29 at 4:22 AM#337890
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    Dashing Young Dissident
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    I’m kicking myself right now and so p~~~ed off with my self that i bothered replying to my mothers nagging requests for me to get in contact via my sons mother, (fat land whale ex who bulls~~~s and tells one sided horse s~~~ slagging me off to my mother on F~~book) despite cutting her off 4 years ago for being the worthless c~~~ that she is.

    I assumed it was regarding my son, to come see him etc so i reluctantly replied to her message asking her what she wanted and she began with the “dont you take that attitude with me” bulls~~~. I said what do you want you miserable f~~~ing has been sow? And watch your f~~~ing mouth, I’m 32 not 12. Then she commences her “no one in our family likes you, we all think you are mentally ill, you have an attitude problem, you treated your sons mother like s~~~, you didnt deserve her, you need help, you are this, you are that, etc etc blah blah blah”.

    My mother has always been cold and indifferent toward me, but has a super close relationship with my precious half brother and sister to my stepfather who she is still married to.

    She also got my sister involved today and my sister started emailing me “how dare you speak to mum like that” to which i replied with “f~~~ off you selfie taking little hoe bag and go suck a dick”.

    4 years and nothing has changed.

    Who the F~~~ does this c~~~ think she is, thinking that i give an iota of a f~~~ what any of her gutter trash inbred family thinks of me? Lol. She never has a nice word to say about me and loves to demonise and slander me to anyone who will listen to her bulls~~~.

    Anyone else have toxic wretched family like this? My mother is a snob who married a middle class guy and they now run a business together bought by him. She has never worked a full time job in her life and has ridden/rode? his coat tails since being married.

    Easy for c~~~s like her isnt it? Get married, take some dick, have his kids, voila, im special and important and never have to work again in my life. I’m a c~~~ and what im doing is very important and im special.

    F~~~ you ‘mother’, instead of ever cultivating and maintaining a relationship of any kind, she much preferred to treat me like the hole in the condom.

    Everyone (and her) in her family can suck my fat f~~~ing hairy c~~~.

    2016-10-29 at 4:48 AM#337898
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    Anonymous
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    Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

    on F~~book

    Trash Book is for gutter trash and modern women (one in the same).

    Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

    “no one in our family likes you, we all think you are mentally ill, you have an attitude problem, you treated your sons mother like s~~~, you didnt deserve her, you need help, you are this, you are that, etc etc blah blah blah”.

    Everything is YOU =s negative!

    Very toxic and narcissistic family you have there DYD, want me to have Guido (AKA saw) pay them a visit?

    You mentioned this s~~~ quite a while ago if I remember, and I said you were the black-sheep of the family.

    We can’t choose any of our family to be civil and kind when all they ever known is abuse, slander, discord, and mockery!

    I know the feeling and some of my relationships in family are permanently placed on ice with the Kool-Aid of narcissistic superiority they thought they could just serve me like I’m one of Jim Jones willing Kool-Aid drinkers!

    <in Yoda’s extraterrestrial voice> “Bitter is the gall laced vinegar they call wine and expect us to drink willingly”.

    2016-10-29 at 4:50 AM#337900
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    Awakened
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    Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

    4 years and nothing has changed.

    And, apparently nothing will change. I too do not have ANY contact with my siblings or extended family, and my parents are dead. Therefore, other then my kids, I do not have any other family members. Too much toxic drama for me.

    You obviously haven’t missed her for the past 4 years, so it sounds like it’s time to cut her/them out permanently, but that’s up to you.

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    2016-10-29 at 4:54 AM#337901
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    Anonymous
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    They bring NOTHING TO THE TABLE BUT MISERY?

    FLIP THE F~~~ING TABLE AND WALK THE F~~~ AWAY!

    That’s what Jesus did..

    2016-10-29 at 5:01 AM#337903
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    Atton
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    she much preferred to treat me like the hole in the condom.

    A hole that she likely poked into said condom deliberately.

    A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

    2016-10-29 at 5:03 AM#337904
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    Binary Logic
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    Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

    Anyone else have toxic wretched family like this?

    Yup, pulled the pin on that grenade about 3 years back. Haven’t spoken to my Mother or 5 sisters in about 3 years. While I don’t believe in burning bridges all Willy-Nilly, I don’t have a problem with burning one where it is clearly evident I don’t NEED to go back.

    Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

    2016-10-29 at 5:06 AM#337906
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    This is why feminism worked.

    As I’ve stated before, mothers don’t care about their own sons. A mother will prefer a completely unrelated woman over her own son.

    If women truly cared for their blood, for the men and boys in their lives, they would never have gone on this five decade plus long campaign of misandry, crushing their brothers, sons, husbands, fathers, etc.

    Thing is they don’t care. They’d rather someone else’s daughter get an easy life than their own son gets a fair chance.

    This is why you can’t build a society on female whims. They destroy family and male power, which has been the basis of all civilization.

    2016-10-29 at 5:15 AM#337909
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    Constantine
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    Poor Dashing. Have you considered telling your mother that you recently started your own business and it’s really taking off? I bet she’d be nicer to you then.

    To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

    2016-10-29 at 5:16 AM#337910
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    Duke Togo
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    @DYD

    I have a similar situation with my mother and sister. I just ignore them and only communicate with them when I choose. They try to talk to me when other people are around thinking they can trap me but I continue to ignore them. I feel no shame or pressure, and it backfires on them as I am sure the other relatives know why I am not speaking with them. My father definitely knows why.

    Just always remember: The first A in AWALT stands for all, making it an inclusive statement that excludes no woman, including mothers and sisters.

    2016-10-29 at 5:16 AM#337911
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    Meister
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    Cut all cords with your family and everyone associated with them.

    Just do it and thank me later.

    Monk

    2016-10-29 at 5:18 AM#337913
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    Duke Togo
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    Constantine wrote:

    Poor Dashing. Have you considered telling your mother that you recently started your own business and it’s really taking off? I bet she’d be nicer to you then.

    The best revenge is not giving a f~~~ about them. A man is a success if he does whatever the hell he wants or needs to and nothing else.

    My $0.02 on this point at least.

    2016-10-29 at 5:22 AM#337915
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    Constantine
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    Duke Togo wrote:

    The best revenge is not giving a f~~~ about them. A man is a success if he does whatever the hell he wants or needs to and nothing else.

    Yeah, it just might be amusing to see the sudden difference in her attitude.

    To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

    2016-10-29 at 5:45 AM#337925
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    Anonymous
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    I believe its best to only allow people into your life who support you and have your back,vise versa.I dont believe in being obligated to people who dont have your best interest at heart.

    2016-10-29 at 10:03 AM#338025
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    Back in Black
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    My mother sounds just like yours. I went for a period of 3 years when I cut off all contact. Eventually I reconnected with her via telephone only. She had not changed, of course. What worked for me is the second she started talking s~~~ I informed her that she was not allowed to treat me that way and if she continued I would hang up the phone. Of course she continued to act like a piece of s~~~ and I hung up on her. After about 3 months I tried again. Finally after repeating this pattern for about a year she got it.

    You need to show her you demand and deserve respect by setting IRON CLAD boundaries about how you are treated.

    "Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.” Quote from Arthur Shopenhauer, 17th century philosopher

    2016-10-29 at 7:51 PM#338398
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    Silverstone the Second
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    I hear you, man. My family is largely a bunch of c~~~s. The females tell endless one sided stories about me, and they are believed because much of my family is blue pill and come white knighting.

    WALL OF SILENCE.

    They don’t exist. Forget that they’re you’re family, like that means anything. It doesn’t to them because they treat you like s~~~, so don’t feel bad. Cut them off. Don’t talk, don’t speak, don’t email.

    WALL OF SILENCE.

    When you open the door, it only lets in the “so you’re finally ready to admit you’re wrong” type s~~~. They will take it as validation that they were right. You can’t force other people to change, you can’t make them grow up, you can’t turn them into decent humans.

    So don’t bother, forget them. Cut that negative s~~~ out of your life.

    Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

    2016-10-30 at 2:31 AM#338550
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    Dashing Young Dissident
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    Anonymous wrote:
    Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

    on F~~book

    Trash Book is for gutter trash and modern women (one in the same).

    Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

    “no one in our family likes you, we all think you are mentally ill, you have an attitude problem, you treated your sons mother like s~~~, you didnt deserve her, you need help, you are this, you are that, etc etc blah blah blah”.

    Everything is YOU =s negative!

    Very toxic and narcissistic family you have there DYD, want me to have Guido (AKA saw) pay them a visit?

    You mentioned this s~~~ quite a while ago if I remember, and I said you were the black-sheep of the family.

    We can’t choose any of our family to be civil and kind when all they ever known is abuse, slander, discord, and mockery!

    I know the feeling and some of my relationships in family are permanently placed on ice with the Kool-Aid of narcissistic superiority they thought they could just serve me like I’m one of Jim Jones willing Kool-Aid drinkers!

    <in Yoda’s extraterrestrial voice> “Bitter is the gall laced vinegar they call wine and expect us to drink willingly”.

    I can’t stand the f~~~ing whore. She kicked me out when i was 16 then f~~~ed off to New Zealand with her c~~~ husband and two kids. How am i not supposed to be bitter and angry about that, even now? If she died tomorrow i would feel nothing. She is a f~~~ing ghost to me, i feel no relation to her what so ever.

    2016-10-30 at 2:33 AM#338552
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    Dashing Young Dissident
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    Awakened wrote:
    Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

    4 years and nothing has changed.

    And, apparently nothing will change. I too do not have ANY contact with my siblings or extended family, and my parents are dead. Therefore, other then my kids, I do not have any other family members. Too much toxic drama for me.

    You obviously haven’t missed her for the past 4 years, so it sounds like it’s time to cut her/them out permanently, but that’s up to you.

    I haven’t replied to her last message and i wont be contacting her again. All she states repeatedly is that they gave me a good life, and that I am the one who f~~~ed everything up. I’m sick to f~~~ing death of of hearing that false bulls~~~.

    2016-10-30 at 2:34 AM#338553
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    Dashing Young Dissident
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    Constantine wrote:

    Poor Dashing. Have you considered telling your mother that you recently started your own business and it’s really taking off? I bet she’d be nicer to you then.

    I’m sure if i won the lotto the c~~~ would be ‘nice to me’

    2016-10-30 at 2:37 AM#338554
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    Dashing Young Dissident
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    Back in Black wrote:

    My mother sounds just like yours. I went for a period of 3 years when I cut off all contact. Eventually I reconnected with her via telephone only. She had not changed, of course. What worked for me is the second she started talking s~~~ I informed her that she was not allowed to treat me that way and if she continued I would hang up the phone. Of course she continued to act like a piece of s~~~ and I hung up on her. After about 3 months I tried again. Finally after repeating this pattern for about a year she got it.

    You need to show her you demand and deserve respect by setting IRON CLAD boundaries about how you are treated.

    Definitely agree with that. Yet it will never happen. She feels superiority over me and just doesn’t reply and runs off when she doesn’t like something she hears/reads. Typical bigoted c~~~.

    2016-10-30 at 6:24 AM#338615
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    Varun
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    Kicked you out at 16? My mother would never do that to me.

    I am sorry. I really can’t imagine a mother not caring for her son. I mean, they do get the oxytocin hormone or maternal hormone, which makes them love their children no matter what. I guess some mothers can override its effects.

    Dude, no need to trash talk with them. You can be a better person by just ignoring them.

    Being poor isn’t your mistake. Having a personality like you do (and that your family can’t stand apparently) isn’t your mistake either, no matter what anyone says.

    But the more you think about it, the more angry you’ll get…and it’ll only harm you, no one else. Better to chuck them out of your life if you can’t stand them. Block numbers and emails. Don’t give a f~~~. You can always be the better person by not giving a f~~~.

    A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

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