You Morose Motherf~~~ers

[IndigoMGTOWParticipant 2]

[BugSlaughterParticipant 46]

Lol Indigo!

[DOOGLERParticipant 17]

Keymaster wrote:

It’s seems we understand each other, and Im gonna do what little I can to stop guys from throwing each other under a bus. I know what “get over it” and “stop crying/whining/complaining” means. You don’t MEAN anything by it. You said it yourself. You actually thought it would be MOTIVATIONAL on some level. It’s not that bad or harmful to anyone… BUT ISN’T IT??? I fell when I was a kid and hurt my knee on a big rock. My Mom was a nurse and showed very little empathy for anything that wasn’t a bullet in your chest or a limb missing. Even if we had a killer flu, she would practically push us out the door to go to school anyway. I thought it was weird – even when I was 5 – and THE S~~~ F~~~ING HURT, that I would be told “stop crying”, and “boys don’t cry” and “Aw it’s not that bad”. WHAT THE F~~~? I’m f~~~ing FIVE, and Im being told to “man up” – and even then, I knew there was something wrong with that. That’s what we do to each other. We tell each other s~~~ like that. And we think we’re doing each other a “favor” when we do it. We even “gay each other out”:

 

But to the kid who screams in pain when he’s hurting… I will be there for him, but when his knee is all better and he tells other guys to “stop whining and get over it” I’m gonna bend him over and f~~~ his ass. Dry. And while I’m f~~~ing his ass, I’m gonna whisper in his ear: “Stop crying, and don’t be a f~~~ing f~~. I’m doing you a FAVOR.”.

 

lolololololololololol

[RoyDalParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

@Edog no need to explain yourself. This morose motherf~~~er came to the forums looking for understanding and support and some kind of guidance while he was standing on a f~~~ing ledge. 30 days later, he comes back with Sandman’s ball sweat on his breath. Pulling the same stunt.

The Wisdom Of Emo Phillips

I was walking across a bridge one day, and I saw a man standing on the edge, about to jump off. So I ran over and said “Stop! don’t do it!”

“Why shouldn’t I?” he said.

I said, “Well, there’s so much to live for!”

He said, “Like what?”

I said, “Well…are you religious or atheist?”

He said, “Religious.”

I said, “Me too! Are you christian or buddhist?”

He said, “Christian.”

I said, “Me too! Are you catholic or protestant?”

He said, “Protestant.”

I said, “Me too! Are you episcopalian or baptist?”

He said, “Baptist!”

I said,”Wow! Me too! Are you baptist church of god or baptist church of the lord?”

He said, “Baptist church of god!”

I said, “Me too! Are you original baptist church of god, or are you reformed baptist church of god?”

He said,”Reformed Baptist church of god!”

I said, “Me too! Are you reformed baptist church of god, reformation of 1879, or reformed baptist church of god, reformation of 1915?”

He said, “Reformed baptist church of god, reformation of 1915!”

I said, “Die, heretic scum”, and pushed him off.

— Emo Phillips

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[EscapedMentalPatientParticipant 1489]

You might well be struggling with the usage of alcohol, Bugslaughter.  There seems to be some common ties in your post which might point in that direction.

And please allow me to say that I am in no way judging you with that statement, and I do not mean this as a slight whatsoever, my friend.  I of course would not bring this up of my own volition, but it’s a statement which you’ve incorporated into more than one of your posts.

I unfortunately have some experience in this area, and a man who has recently experienced a crisis in his life, particularly one of the proportions which you’ve been sharing is at great risk for using this as a form of self-medication.

As a natural depressant, this agent will f~~~ with your rational thoughts, and truly create a hamster wheel of thinking which is very difficult to escape.

There is no shame in this; however, if this is something which you are experiencing, it must be addressed by yourself, and very promptly.

Being drunk can create a very false sense of victory.  This s~~~ has been referred to as “liquid courage” on more than one occasion.

The victory which you seek in life will not be borne at the bottom of a glass or bottle sir.

If this is something which you are experiencing, and feel you need help with, please say so, as I’ll only say it once:  I will provide references to some material which has helped me greatly in the past.

If it’s not?

I’ll just shut the f~~~ up now 🙂

 

[BugSlaughterParticipant 46]

I’m so sorry about last night.  I’m such a f~~~in asshole.

I’m sorry men.

And yeah Willy, that info would be welcome.

[EscapedMentalPatientParticipant 1489]

You aren’t a f~~~ing asshole.  I kind of figured that wasn’t you talking, man.  Pure anger and alcohol are a super wicked combination for the soul, my friend.  I know this from waking up in jail.

One has to be careful in addressing the issue.  There are an absolute s~~~load of methods and schools of thought on overdrinking, and labels are attached to them almost instantly, and all negative.  There are support groups which will deem to absolutely consume you and make this the absolute and only focal point of your life.  I will not point you in that direction.  I’d like to point you in a direction which will allow you to make that decision by yourself, without external voices, which leaves you the opportunity to “go your own way” with this.  As I’ve stated, some of the groups and such that deal with this issue are of cult status, and there are times where these resources have done more harm than good in some instances.  Combating this is a very personal choice.

The first thing you need to do however, is not have a drink today.  And if you choose to, do it with the knowledge that you are not having that drink to do good or celebrate.  Acknowledge that you are using it as medicine, in your own mind.

Since this is a very personal journey, I will create an email address or find a way to communicate with you privately in the coming days, so we can keep it off the forum boards.  Even though we support one another as brothers in this place, this is a tour which you’ll be taking yourself; there might well be a guide willing to point out some attractions, but you’ll be the only one lookin’ at ’em.

This struggle is independent of you “going your own way”, and it is important that you do not lump this together with other struggles, as it will become all-consuming.

Let me delve back into some old material of mine, but a really great place to start is:

I’m going to sit in a safe place today, where my adversaries do not have access to me.  If your current adversary is still living with you, go to a coffee shop with a book.  If you smoke, take a pack of cigarettes.  Have a coffee and a smoke and celebrate the first step you’ve taken in freeing yourself from this nasty f~~~ing demon.  You’ve controlled your environment, and removed yourself from the immediate harm.  Public libraries have, and continue to be a refuge for myself.  I used to go to a university library and sit on the abandoned political science floor with a set of headphones and a book, or I just enjoyed the total f~~~ing silence.  That idea is probably a write-off now, as most schools are toxic places, filled with potential adversaries.

“I’m gonna be ok”.

 

 

 

[EscapedMentalPatientParticipant 1489]

On second thought, I think I will start a thread in “Health and Fitness” entitled:

“Alcohol and the MGTOW”, if such a thing doesn’t already exist.  I’ll do that in the next couple of days, if not today.

This way we can passively or actively exchange healthy information on the topic, experiences if one so chooses, and we’ll be able to retain anonymity as well as conveying possibly successful techniques.  And those who don’t wish to read about such things, or haven’t had negative experiences with alcohol would be free not to read it.

 

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

EscapedMentalPatient wrote:

You aren’t a f~~~ing asshole. I kind of figured that wasn’t you talking, man. Pure anger and alcohol are a super wicked combination for the soul, my friend. I know this from waking up in jail. One has to be careful in addressing the issue. There are an absolute s~~~load of methods and schools of thought on overdrinking, and labels are attached to them almost instantly, and all negative. There are support groups which will deem to absolutely consume you and make this the absolute and only focal point of your life. I will not point you in that direction. I’d like to point you in a direction which will allow you to make that decision by yourself, without external voices, which leaves you the opportunity to “go your own way” with this. As I’ve stated, some of the groups and such that deal with this issue are of cult status, and there are times where these resources have done more harm than good in some instances. Combating this is a very personal choice. The first thing you need to do however, is not have a drink today. And if you choose to, do it with the knowledge that you are not having that drink to do good or celebrate. Acknowledge that you are using it as medicine, in your own mind. Since this is a very personal journey, I will create an email address or find a way to communicate with you privately in the coming days, so we can keep it off the forum boards. Even though we support one another as brothers in this place, this is a tour which you’ll be taking yourself; there might well be a guide willing to point out some attractions, but you’ll be the only one lookin’ at ’em. This struggle is independent of you “going your own way”, and it is important that you do not lump this together with other struggles, as it will become all-consuming. Let me delve back into some old material of mine, but a really great place to start is: I’m going to sit in a safe place today, where my adversaries do not have access to me. If your current adversary is still living with you, go to a coffee shop with a book. If you smoke, take a pack of cigarettes. Have a coffee and a smoke and celebrate the first step you’ve taken in freeing yourself from this nasty f~~~ing demon. You’ve controlled your environment, and removed yourself from the immediate harm. Public libraries have, and continue to be a refuge for myself. I used to go to a university library and sit on the abandoned political science floor with a set of headphones and a book, or I just enjoyed the total f~~~ing silence. That idea is probably a write-off now, as most schools are toxic places, filled with potential adversaries. “I’m gonna be ok”.

If you contact KM he ‘maybe’ able to help you two guys get in contact in a more private way.

I would hope this situation would call for this kind of departure from normal privacy situation.

My thoughts and encouragement are with you both ☺

[Oaken1Participant 67]

BugSlaughter wrote:

You are free. No more complaining! All I see here is blue pill fence walkin’ motherf~~~ers whining about s~~~. YOU ARE FREE. STOP IT.

 

Ha!

F~~~ you

 

[HitmanParticipant]

this aint a joke. lives are at stake. this is where i learn and strategize ..dont s~~~ here.it stinks. get your head on straight before you post , learn man , LEARN !

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

I could be wrong, but I just chalked this up to the fact that ones “tone” cant be understood via written language. I just thought the guy had a few drinks and was saying his original comments tongue in cheek. Again, I could be wrong, but I bet if we were all having beers IN PERSON and he said this, it would have come across as tongue in cheek humor.

My two cents.

Resident cynic.

[BugSlaughterParticipant 46]

Ancient – you are correct.  It really wasn’t meant as a dig on anyone.

As I said before, I had a few.  Also – it was supposed to be “motivational”.

I would have thought I would have learned by now the danger of assuming that tone would be understood via text.

I’ve apologized.  I’ve been corrected.  I’ve accepted correction.  I care about you all very much as my fellow men.

Please f~~~ing stop.

[EscapedMentalPatientParticipant 1489]

Hey Brother Bugslaughter.

I had made my way over to health and fitness in the forums, and noticed a couple of different threads on alcohol and weed and such.

Rather than start a new thread, I think these would be a pretty good place to have a discourse on such things, and we can contribute there!

There was a book I read which helped me out, and I’ve digged through some boxes to find the bastard, but can’t seem to.

The name will come to me, and I’ll post over there.  Trying to find it on Amazon.

Hope you’re well, and hang in there.

For every morning that you’re at the bottom of a dark hole, there will be a thousand mornings in your future where you’re flying around the sun, just not like Icarus! 🙂

 

[HimeoParticipant 471]

When I see threads on topics that don’t interest me I don’t read them, or comment on them, or make threads about how people should stop talking about those topics.

This is a reasonable policy. Give it a shot, BugSlaughter.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Anyone who possesses a dry wit, sarcastic sense of humor can tell JUST by the subject of this thread, the dude was being a smart ass. If anyone was legitimately offended, thats cool. I get that. To me it was clear the guy knocked a few back and was being a smart ass.

Yes, I understand many men here are on the ledge and we need to appreciate that fact. Everyone has said their peace.

You know what bothers me MUCH more than a guy posting a smart ass comment when hes buzzed?

Dudes who PERPETUALLY use the very same bitch act tactics we despise of women, to reply to threads.

Example:

Share a story about a woman in your past, which is very common on this site.

Reply:

 

“Oh bro, Im sorry YOU allow women to DEFINE you. IM sooo past that. Red pills brah. Girls dont define me anymore. Sorry your so pathetic. Im on a NEW level”.

Thats the kind of back handed bitchery I came to this site to get away from. Yet guys do it all the time and NOONE says a word? BS. That tactic is utter bitchery, and we all know it. Douchebaggery. Its a male being a bitch.

When I read this thread, I knew it was a dude who had a few drinks, who was being a smart ass. Hes being transparent as all F~~~, which is much more than I can say for the backhanded slight style comment I paraphrased above.

If anyone was offended by this dude, I understand. But why are you NOT offended by the BITCH tactic I just posted that we ALL see on here from time to time? The manner in which OP did it, was straight up, which lead me to beleive it was sarcasm. The other example is PASSIVE AGGRASSIVE bitchery.

Give me straight up any day of the week.

I simply dont understand the big outcry over this, then NEVER calling dudes out who are acting like passive aggressive bitches.

Listen, I value all of you and this site tremendously. Im just having a doficult time understanding the doscrepancy of reactions to the above.

Thats how I see it. Id love to hear all of your thoughts,

My 2 cents.

 

Resident cynic.

[GoneGaltParticipant 36]

@ancientwisdom

 

I personally have not heard that on this site but hey I’m a noob.

On the other hand if a “man” were to use that type of passive aggressive BS on me here or in the real world I believe the correct answer is; “GO F~~~ YOURSELF” (make sure you smile when you say it).

"You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength."

“The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane.”
-- Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

“Oh bro, Im sorry YOU allow women to DEFINE you. IM sooo past that. Red pills brah. Girls dont define me anymore. Sorry your so pathetic. Im on a NEW level”.

But why are you NOT offended by the BITCH tactic I just posted that we ALL see on here from time to time?

I haven’t seen that. In fact, I don’t see too many guys speaking about *themselves* unless they are telling a story about a personal experience. But I have seen plenty of understanding and outpourings of welcome…… just none of this “I’m so much better than you and sorry you’re so pathetic”. Very little member on member hostility or pea c~~~ing. But if you come across it, send in the thread and we’ll check it out.

The point is to bring MGTOW together here and create some understanding, not to push others away and create friction.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Soul ManParticipant 1856]

My worst problem these days is the protein farts I get from my workout supplements because I do what I want…and I choose to lift weights….the poots are ancillary but come in handy sometimes when I want to put a sour face on some Betty in my proximity.   Yes, freedom never smelled so…empowering. 🙂

Yessir!  I got 99 problems but a bitch ain’t one!

HISTORY...learn from it, memorize it, DON'T repeat it...

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Soul Man wrote:

the poots are ancillary

H HA H AH HA HA HA HA…..

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Author]

Posts