Why do women go for thugs?

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Even in a no f~~~s given mode, this still intrigues me. I work with a few decent looking educated ladies and almost all of them are hitched to some bad boy trash.
You’d think their hypergamos nature would preclude these types from having access to their “golden” vagina – but looks like the Gina tingles win out.

[Anonymous 0]

Female nature is rotten to the core. Even the so called “good”, “smart” and educated women go for these losers. I can understand if the women go for arrogant assholes who are bosses and are educated and wealthy but they go for homeless, unemployed thugs who have multiple bastard children and have multiple babymommas. The only time they want a good man is when they are approaching the wall.

Even the religious church women go for these type of men. I was raised as a christian and i forced to go to church everytime and I can tell you that most females in church are whores. The older female population are rehabilited whores who rode the c~~~ carousel in their teens and 20s and are now looking for a christian beta male simp to take care of her and her bastard kids she had for a thug back in the day lmao.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

It’s called the “Florence Nightingale” syndrome. Flo was a nurse back over 100 years ago if that tells you how long it’s been a thing. Basically, they want to turn a bad guy good so they can take credit for someone else’s work. The old “behind every successful man is a great woman” thing.

What they haven’t thought out is that, if they are successful, he will turn into a cuck and she will hate him for it.

But no one here has ever accused women of having a well thought out plan.

Order the good wine

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Truthseeker82 wrote:

Why do women go for thugs?

Because he gives her plenty to complain about.

Think about it. And it makes perfect sense.
If you come perfect, there’s nothing for her to “fix”.

Women love reclamation projects and extreme makeovers. They think they can “fix” him. When they realize she can’t, he’s now the asshole she gets to complain even more, and she’s “happiest” when she is complaining.

A “good man” (or “nice guy”) doesn’t do that for her.

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it’s not just a cartoon……

Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before — But I Am Now
http://thoughtcatalog.com/anonymous/2014/04/dear-nice-guy-i-wasnt-ready-for-you-before-but-i-am-now/

Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
http://thoughtcatalog.com/leo-steven/2014/04/dear-girls-who-are-finally-ready-to-date-nice-guys-we-dont-want-you-anymore/

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ApexScorpionParticipant 602]

Keymaster wrote:

Because he gives her plenty to complain about.

The better man you are for a woman, the more ridiculous the story she has to come up with by the time she wants to leave.

They need a reason because holding accountability is too hard for them. They always need you to be the bad guy. Ironically, she will act s~~~ty until you treat her bad, to bait you into being s~~~ty to her, which is by that point, will deserved.

She wants to complain about men because all the other girls are doing it and she wants to feel accepted. Give her something to post about on facebook, twitter, instagram, etc.

Indignation, it’s called.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Many young women are all about the excitement and drama that their bad boy brings.

Fast forward a couple/few years and probably a couple/few kids with different baby daddies then these lil sweeties are trolling the single sites for beta male mangina walking wallet providers.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

I’ve seen the same thing TruthSeeker has but I have a slightly different theory.

Women get the crotch tingles from the bad boys–and I agree with the reasons put forward for this;
BUT
This is in conflict with their desire for $$$/resources, since these bad-boys are usually broke losers.

I’ve found the high paid “professional” woman type still goes for the bad -boy because she is making her own $$$/resources and doesn’t need a beta provider SOOOOO she is at liberty to indulge her crotch tingles with a loser.

[experiencedParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Female nature is rotten to the core. Even the so called “good”, “smart” and educated women go for these losers. I can understand if the women go for arrogant assholes who are bosses and are educated and wealthy but they go for homeless, unemployed thugs who have multiple bastard children and have multiple babymommas. The only time they want a good man is when they are approaching the wall.

Even the religious church women go for these type of men. I was raised as a christian and i forced to go to church everytime and I can tell you that most females in church are whores. The older female population are rehabilited whores who rode the c~~~ carousel in their teens and 20s and are now looking for a christian beta male simp to take care of her and her bastard kids she had for a thug back in the day lmao.

Perhaps it ties in with the fact that little girls want to marry their dad.
Not their brother.
They don’t want someone who is quite like them.
They want someone who is above them and impossible to attain.
Chad’s are typically aloof, think their crap doesn’t stink, etc.
Females somehow mismatch this with dad.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[GrumpyParticipant]

ApexScorpion wrote:

The better man you are for a woman,

Allow me to finish that correctly IMHO.

The less of a man you are for yourself.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Women are instinctually drawn to men with physical, economic and social power and thugs appear to fit the bill. They talk loud, act physically imposing and flash their swagger and it makes vaginas tingle.

Only when a woman’s baby clock starts to run out does she begin to think beyond the next few moments of comfort and pleasure… this is when she begins looking at the type of men who can provide her and her would-be child with stability, security and resources.

Basically women are selfish six year old children who only desire and respect the treats and strong hand of a forceful father figure. There’s not much more to it than that.

[xenonParticipant 2007]

Short answer: because they are idiots. I control my urges despite being an animal with a large brain. They can too. Anything else is an excuse for pitiful behavior.

[Anonymous 24]

Pre-agricultural days starting 10k years ago or so then all he way back women sought the protection of the Hunter Gatherer alpha males. Big, strong, aggressive, able to hunt and fight. Lets call this Alpha A.

Post-Hunter Gatherer into the Agricultural Age with the rise of civilizations came the ability of males to accumulate wealth and power came the new alpha, Alpha B.

Women today, and for that past 10k years really have been confronted with two very different Alphas. They are still hardwired to get wet for Alpha A, as they have been for millennia, but they are now posed with the dilemma that the modern world presents to them with the power being mostly in the hands of Alpha B.

This theory of mine explains why some women get aroused watching men fight. It also explains why old crusty f~~~s with money can pull 9’s and 10’s all day long.

Ultimately women want an Alpha AB, so it is no wonder they are near impossible to please.

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

Anonymous wrote:

Pre-agricultural days starting 10k years ago or so then all he way back women sought the protection of the Hunter Gatherer alpha males. Big, strong, aggressive, able to hunt and fight. Lets call this Alpha A.

Post-Hunter Gatherer into the Agricultural Age with the rise of civilizations came the ability of males to accumulate wealth and power came the new alpha, Alpha B.

Today’s woman, and for that past 10k years really has been confronted with two very different Alphas. They are still hardwired to get wet for Alpha A, as they have been for millennia, but they now also posed with the dilemma that the modern world presents them with the power being mostly in the hands of Alpha B.

This theory of mine explains why some women get aroused watching men fight.

That’s not your theory, that’s the commonly understood psychological makeup of women.

I’m always flabbergasted how dudes on here start these threads to mindf~~~ about why women feel attracted to ‘bad boys’.
It’s neither a secret nor a mystery.

Monk

[Anonymous 24]

Meister wrote:

That’s not your theory, that’s the commonly understood psychological makeup of women.

Ok, I won’t bother typing it up next time…

Maybe you should petition KM to close down the site as well as it serves no purpose.

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

Anonymous wrote:

Meister wrote:

That’s not your theory, that’s the commonly understood psychological makeup of women.

Ok, I won’t bother typing it up next time…

Maybe you should petition KM to close down the site as well as it serves no purpose.

I disagree.
It does serve a purpose.
And you should write it down.
What you wrote is 100% spot on and correct.

It’s just fascinating that there are so many people who don’t know this.

Monk

[WOTGMSpectator 749]

The interesting part about females going for “thugs” is how they respond to it when you call them out on their poor choices. There are typically 2 types of responses when you ask a woman why they like scumbags. The first response is “That’s not true! You just don’t know him the way I do, and he has a hidden good side” blah blah blah. In other words, they deny their bad choices and try to defend them. They deny the guy is a scumbag (but of course he is). The 2nd type of response is them actually “sort of” admitting they like scumbags, but defending it by saying something like “Well, it’s just evolution! We women go for the strongest animal just like other female animals in the jungle!” blah blah blah. So they basically admit they like scumbags, but try to defend their poor choices by saying “evolution”.

But later on when the bad boy leaves her and she’s stuck raising his bastard children by herself SUDDENLY evolution “disappears” and magically, she is now attracted to the successful “geek” who before she found “repulsive” and if that “successful geek” turns her down, that means “all men are scum!!!” and this all makes perfect sense in her warped female brain. That’s women in a nutshell. They want to f~~~ “thugs”, get preggo by them, and then later have you raise the bastard children from the thug after he abandons her. And if their “plan” doesn’t work out, they won’t say to themselves “wow I made some HORRIBLE life choices!”, nope. They will say “What’s wrong with men?!?!”.

Luckily, men are wising up this. That’s why women are unhappier than ever now. And they deserve to be.

[Anonymous 24]

Meister wrote:

I disagree.
It does serve a purpose.
And you should write it down.
What you wrote is 100% spot on and correct.

It’s just fascinating that there are so many people who don’t know this.

Ah, misread the tone of that, my bad murica.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Meister wrote:

I’m always flabbergasted how dudes on here start these threads to mindf~~~ about why women feel attracted to ‘bad boys’. It’s neither a secret nor a mystery.

It is ….. to any man who has ever found himself scratching his head wondering WTF. It’s not until someone broke it down into it’s most simple form that a guy will get it.

These men look for a complicated solution, but it’s actually so simple that you can make them understand within a couple of paragraphs. You cannot do men enough of this service.

/audio/do-not-worship-women/

Anonymous wrote:

Ah, misread the tone of that, my bad murica.

No you didn’t. He intended to be abrasive by taking your humble admission that it’s a “theory”, and stomping on it.

He cannot be “flabbergasted” when EVERY goddam female will lie to your face and misrepresent herself when she says “I’m looking for a nice guy”. They mislead men about this on purpose. Even AFTER bitch fell of the carousel, she still thinks she can mislead you to come running again with a LIE like “It was always you. I saved the best for last“.

Complete monkey s~~~.

It’s not a man’s shortcoming (or character flaw) for not knowing this.

• Other men don’t want you to figure it out.
• Women’s magazines don’t want anyone to know.
• Hallmark and Tiffany’s don’t want you to know.
• Women DEFINITELY don’t want you to know.
• And many women don’t even understand this about themselves until they slam into the f~~~ing wall.

It’s no surprise that it takes a man a while to connect the dots.
Baby women – and every facet of the culture – have been lying to him since day one.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

xenon wrote:

I control my urges despite being an animal with a large brain. They can too. Anything else is an excuse for pitiful behavior.

You give women too much credit… or assume not enough for yourself…

Men are capable of doing this because our survival depends on it. It is not some sort of gift from the gods… it’s a skill we have developed as a result of evolutionary forces.

Women, on the other hand, are not and have never been under any such pressure. So long as men continue to support them, they will never develop the ability to control their urges and support themselves.

[Repulsive RalfParticipant 356]

Just search Google for percentage of women who have rape fantasies or percentage of women who have an orgasm whilst being raped. Women find it sexually exciting to be over-powered by a man and in this modern age were gentlemen act civilised and therefore boring, only selfish thugs don’t care enough to treat women the way they hate being treated on a cerebral level, but adore on a sexual level but certainly wont admit it, instead they will talk about his non-existant good points.
Why do you think they like starting arguments that end in their favourite form of love-making?, they get turned on by the violence they incite.
I am generally a “too nice” kind of guy, but in my last job a married woman gave me cause to shout at her, after that she was buying me little presents, asking me to have an affair.
You haven’t got to be a thug to get a woman, you just have to know how to frighten them a bit. A very difficult thing to do in this world were if the girl isn’t receptive to such advances, you can end up in prison.
My own mother dumped a famous international footballer because he was “too nice” and ended up marrying an evil child kicking c~~~ and now claims her life is a punishment from God.
Why do you think 50 shades of grey is such a best seller?

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