Why Do Exes Do This?

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Grumpy wrote:

they are history

….oh they ALWAYS call back. As i put in another post, i had one from 18 years ago reach out recently. She’s married with 4 kids! lol #Winning

[MemberParticipant 323]

ILiveAgain wrote:

It’s just in them. The degree varies but it’s there.
The level depends on how hurt they perceive they’ve been.
Now that hurt could be real but often time imagined. This hurt could be against her but can also be felt as hurt by proxy if you are getting on with your life and not missing her.
Her not being in your life is a punishment for you. Should she not see that you are accepting that punishment …. then she ment nothing to you …. and therefore you used her …. and she feels used … and that needs addressing …. by punishment.
Now I’m a guy so can’t go full retard like a women …. but I would imagine the above is somewhat a part of this problem.

Agreed. Even if they instigate the break-up they do not want to see you come out better than they did. Even if its 10 yrs later and they find out your life is going good it p~~~es them off because they did not come out on top.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

DIP that’s nothing. It could have been worse.
When I kicked my XW out of the house for cheating, she immediately proceeded to hook up with random people and crying them a river telling them how I was beating her up and raping and how I’m a junkie. And how they need to save her from me.
This strategy worked like a charm. In two weeks she had TWO different guys proposed to her.
One was a stereotypical badass, one – stereotypical mangina.
After that she had the audacity to tell me she hasn’t decided which of us three she should choose from, implying that I have to fight for her. I told her I already decided that she’s out and it’s not changing. She chose the mangina and a year later they got married.
I am so glad I don’t have to deal with her s~~~ any longer.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[ddiggesParticipant 29]

It is a bizarre thing to witness a woman unconsciously try to break you in any way she can when you are in a relationship. It’s almost like she wants you to fail her test so she can have some good drama to gossip with the girls about. If your not an asshole already they will surely turn you into one. In these situations I just say NO to every question and laugh until she gets p~~~ed and calls her mother. It gets a lot worse when the relationship ends it becomes a conscious effort to break you. Rememeber your the asshole she created.

"Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option" Mark Twain

[AngularParticipant 114]

Women do this type of s~~~ because they know they will not be hit. If your the type of man who she thinks will f~~~ her up, she will leave you alone. you don’t threaten but give her that look, a look that she’s knows that she f~~~ed up and your just 1 second away from snapping her neck. but the down side is t she might get horny and might stalk you just got that potential great angry sex.

bitches are confusing.

and yes women never take full responsibility for their actions and her circle will co-sign her dumb s~~~.

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[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Revenge.

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