Why Do Exes Do This?

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Long story short. Ex and I part ways, she immediately hooks up with a new guy she had lined up and wishes me all the best and “I just want you to be happy…without me” BS.

Then, they proceed to run a smear campaign against you and befriend all the women she hated whilst with you and convince every woman in your area you are a sleaze, a stalker, abusive etc etc whilst their relationship blossoms?

Why the f~~~ do they do this? And this is 2 years down the track and she’s about to marry this guy.

Seriously, f~~~ed with my head!

[RoyDalParticipant]

Have you ever met a woman who is not petty and spiteful when she can get away with it? Whether they are born this way or their mothers taught it to them does not matter — the fact is this behavior is almost universal.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Actually @roydal, she is the ONLY woman who has ever done this to me.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

It’s just in them. The degree varies but it’s there.

The level depends on how hurt they perceive they’ve been.

Now that hurt could be real but often time imagined. This hurt could be against her but can also be felt as hurt by proxy if you are getting on with your life and not missing her.

Her not being in your life is a punishment for you. Should she not see that you are accepting that punishment …. then she ment nothing to you …. and therefore you used her …. and she feels used … and that needs addressing …. by punishment.

Now I’m a guy so can’t go full retard like a women …. but I would imagine the above is somewhat a part of this problem.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Spiteful and vindictive

Sounds a lot like My Ex Wife, after she revealed to me about her infidelity she had a really nasty attitude of “so what?, i cheated”. I left and she came begging, crying and pleading me to take her back, only for me to later on find photos, and a video of her sexual escapades with the other man while we were trying to work on it. Glad I found those, i dumped her ass and never looked back.

I later found out she lied about me stealing money from her (which was funny because she stole $24,000 from me), and I was “Never there” even though the longest I was away from her was a month, yeah….f~~~ those type of bitches!, and i don’t mean coitus either.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Thanks, @iliveagain…

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

women have their own f~~~ed up justice system in their heads. in her mind, you deserve it and it’s her job to punish you or to make you pay. it’s like that woman who lied about DV and got her ex-husband thrown in jail. We know she lied because she admitted it on Dr Phil. But she’s ok with what she did because she’s making him pay for all the bad things he ever did to her. He “deserves” it. Of course, nobody can hold her accountable for the s~~~ty things she has done/is doing. And she can’t be an adult and just move on with her life. she has to be the judge, jury and executioner of perceived “crimes” against her.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Because women need drama as much as they need food and water.

Fuck this planet.

[UntamedParticipant]

They’re the most vindictive out of the two genders, no doubt about it. Some of ’em will hate you ’til the day you die and beyond, often for things they themselves initiated. I’ve talked to some bitter old weemins who wouldn’t mind their dead exes coming back from the dead just so they can punish ’em some more. What can you do? Except making sure that that guy isn’t you?

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[SargeslideParticipant 82]

Well Deep, my ex of three years is doing it too, and she gets married next month. She has messaged or talked to every female we ever knew, slandering me. Hell she moved down to Houston, a thousand miles away and is still doing it. It’s a c~~~ thing. If they can’t have something, they don’t anyone else to have it either.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

That reminds of a conversation i had with a friend of mine who is a psychologist or therapist. i can’t remember which. Anyway, she said men and women handle conflict very differently. Men will be direct. They’ll argue, throw a few punches and it’s over. There may be an apology, forgiveness and it’s forgotten. Sometimes they can even be friends after. Women, on the other hand, wage a psychological warfare on their opponent. They’ll go around trying to get other women/people on their side and get everyone to hate you. They’ll lie, exaggerate, leave out information, etc. They will do all kinds of s~~~ just to annoy you, even going well out of their way just to do it. This will go on indefinitely. You think the issue is over and you are moving on because you are a man. For her, the conflict will never end.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

A woman can’t live with herself knowing she made a mistake or a bad choice. You HAVE to be an asshole in her memory. When was the last time a woman ever said:

“Damn I really f~~~ed it up. I was such a bitch to him. There goes a great guy who just wasn’t interested in me. You should DEFINITELY go out with him. He’s wonderful! “.

F~~~ing never. You’re ALWAYS going to be the jerk, the player , the asshole.

When YOU cheat, you’re a cheating bastard who should pay.
When SHE is cheats….. you’re still the the bastard asshole – because “you didn’t fulfill her needs”.

I s~~~ you not. Women actually think like that.
You HAVE to be the wrong one. She will use anything and all the people around her to convince herself of this.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

It’s like buying a mobile phone. When a MAN buys a mobile phone, he compares and contrasts the POSITIVE features and makes a purchase decision based on that.

A woman a woman picks up every phone (man) and smashes it on the ground. The one that does NOT break and puts up with her s~~~… THAT”S the one she thinks is “the best”, and she will now convince herself (and everyone around her) that he’s “the one”.

Men look to qualify women. Women look to dis-qualify men.
Where you’re looking for a reason to say “yes”…. she’s looking to justify getting rid of you.

Finding out later that you’re a successful multi-millionaire (or whatever) would be devastating to her.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Keymaster wrote:

A woman can’t live with herself knowing she made a mistake or a bad choice. You HAVE to be an asshole in her memory.
You HAVE to be the wrong one. She will use anything and all the people around her to convince herself of this.

Then, as always, it’s 100% HIS fault, 0% hers. NO accountability or responsibility on her part.

I have NEVER EVER heard ANY woman admit taking even 1% responsibility for any of her failed relationships/marriages/pregnancies.

[Just a ManParticipant 934]

Keymaster said: Women look to dis-qualify men.

Actually I think they “quantify” men.

Philosophy, the female repellent

[KeymasterKeymaster]

XSDBS wrote:

I have NEVER EVER heard ANY woman admit taking even 1% responsibility for any of her failed relationships/marriages/pregnancies.

Nobody has.

Actually I just lied. Have to be honest about that.
I have heard it once (video below). I even kept a bookmark to it because it was so rare.

But even though she admits to f~~~ing up her personal relationships………. she originally titled it “Feminism ruined My Dating Life”. So once again and true to female form. a woman blames everyone but herself for her personal f~~~ups. She changed the title after I personally pointed this out to her in a comment: “Feminism didn’t ruin your dating life. YOU did.”

And why? She says “I always thought” or “I always heard men don’t like women who are needy or clingy”. Did you ever try asking the man you’re in a relationship with what he likes — instead of listening to that bulls~~~ women spew? You’re not in a relationship with “men”. You’re in a relationship with ONE man. And you don’t base your entire mood, actions, behavior and pretense on what other f~~~ed up women said about other men.

All she did was admit she can’t even think for herself!
“I thought men don’t like women who want & need them…..
I thought battling & challenging him would make me more attractive”.

Now that’s some f~~~ed up testimony.

NOBODY likes to be in a relationship with a combative bitch. HONEY: STOP READING THIS S~~~ AND STOP LISTENING TO WOMEN.
Then maybe you won’t be 40, barren and single against your own will. Enjoy your cats.

In what universe did you think battling anyone was anything like “love”??? Women should really be forbidden from giving advice to other women. F~~~ing up your own life is one thing, but don’t f~~~ it up for other women.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Sargeslide wrote:

If they can’t have something, they don’t anyone else to have it either.

True, but she punted me for this other guy (her 6th breakup from me in my former blue pill days) and I was also accused of cheating (i wasn’t) as I had a few gorgeous younger women pursuing me at the time. My buddy was saying she went for the older, single dad and not so attractive type as it was emotionally easier for her as she would be continually worried about me straying as im not bad looking, fit, monied and have girls 5-12 years younger chasing me. Plus she couldnt tame me or control me!

uchibenkei wrote:

Women, on the other hand, wage a psychological warfare on their opponent. They’ll go around trying to get other women/people on their side and get everyone to hate you. They’ll lie, exaggerate, leave out information, etc. They will do all kinds of s~~~ just to annoy you, even going well out of their way just to do it. This will go on indefinitely. You think the issue is over and you are moving on because you are a man. For her, the conflict will never end.

Ugh, great 🙁

Keymaster wrote:

Finding out later that you’re a successful multi-millionaire (or whatever) would be devastating to her.

I am pretty much at that stage and she knows it. However she settled down for an academic guy who is a paid aid worker for Red Cross and travels to places like Iraq etc for relief work. Oh don’t worry, her posie have tried the shaming tactic that “he’s a real man.”

I think the thing that still upsets me, besides the rumour mill is I miss her son and part of me is hurt that she wanted a kid and life with me and is now done this with this new guy so quickly. But as I have learnt on this site, women are f~~~ing crazy and chameleons and I realized i was nothing special to her as it is rinse and recycle with the new future husband. Actually, if anything, i should be glad that some shmuck has taken another crazy female off the market. I just hope she never calls again, but they always do!

[GrumpyParticipant]

If they think they can hurt you in any way, they will. I guess it makes them feel better about themselves. Too many people are like this. Unfortunately

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Grumpy wrote:

If they think they can hurt you in any way, they will. I guess it makes them feel better about themselves. Too many people are like this. Unfortunately

It is sad isn’t it, that people need to act this way. Worse still is the guy engages in this blue pill behaviour as well.

And the strangest thing is, out of all the women Ive dated and bedded, this was the only one who has ever engaged in this behaviour.

[GrumpyParticipant]

DeepInThought wrote:

And the strangest thing is, out of all the women Ive dated and bedded, this was the only one who has ever engaged in this behaviour

Not strange really, just very lucky for you (IMHO). I consider myself lucky due to only about 1/2 the women I’ve been with were like this. Obviously it was my fault for everything, I am somehow O.K with shouldering that, because they are history 🙂

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

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