WHY?!

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Anonymous wrote:

What’s in it for me? That’s how I operate these days. Personally, if one of my friends tried that white knight crap around me, he would have been very embarrassed by my blunt answer. I’d wager I’d have a much higher chance of banging one than he too.

I am the same now – unless it’s blood family. I have a nephew to influence with MGTOW philosophies – he stands to inherit quite a bit and I will be rolling in my grave if some c~~~ divorce rapes him when I narrowly escaped the bear trap.

Biggvs_Dickvs wrote:

no matter what they SAY they want/like, they will not respect a man who pays and no respect ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS equals no pussy. None. Zero. Zip. Zilch. You’re a nice guy BUT. Fuggetaboutit.

Agree 1000%.

Quick story to prove the point.

On vacation after the divorce, under my alter ego, hot (8/10), blonde 22 year old starts chatting with me. I acted like a Chad and asked her to buy me a few drinks, commented on how nice her ass looked in her bikini. I pretended I was a semi pro scuba diver/treasure hunter and a musician; about 5 years younger then I actually am. Total BS; stuff I could never do in real life.

After running up her bar tab a few hundred bucks I make to split. Guess who follows me back to my room and probably would have tried to rape me if I turned her down? She evidently wanted her monies worth!!! And men get the bad rap.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

FrostByte wrote:

ChauvinistPig wrote:

’d wager I’d have a much higher chance of banging one than he too.

Totally true. Woman don’t want white knights or maginas anymore than a deer hunter wants to hunt a deer tied to a tree. Where is the fun in the chase?

But it kind of works both ways, men are also not really interested in women who come across as desperate either. I went on a date with a woman who paid for dinner and when we got back to her place she couldn’t do enough for me either. We were lying in bed talking and she offered me some food before realising she had run out, she then offered to get up and go to the shops to get me anything I wanted.

She also offered to buy any lingerie I liked and she would answer the door wearing it.

It definitely didn’t help that she wasn’t that hot, but as soon as you put someone on a pedestal and do too much for them it immediately makes them think they can do better.

When someone does too much for the other person in a relationship it is because they feel insecure about the other person and think that doing things for them will make them like them more. Unfortunately all it does is convince the other person that they can do better.

The more online dating I did the less I gave a f~~~ and the more success I would have. The women that wouldn’t leave me along afterwards were the ones where I cancelled on them at the last minute for a better offer or just plain ignored their messages. These are the ones you could message saying you are coming over in 15 minutes who would wear anything and do anything you wanted and who you could just leave as soon as you were done.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

FrostByte wrote:

ChauvinistPig wrote:

’d wager I’d have a much higher chance of banging one than he too.

When someone does too much for the other person in a relationship it is because they feel insecure about the other person and think that doing things for them will make them like them more. Unfortunately all it does is convince the other person that they can do better.

Great point. Good insights.

I take ownership for my part in my failed marriage – I did too much for the ex. I don’t think insecurity was motivating me, but simply love and my vows. But seen through the eyes of a monkey branching female it is highly likely this was her outlook.

Thinking on it a little deeper, marriage as a relationship construct is doomed to fail. By taking the vows and supporting your wife, she process this as you are insecure enough in the relationship to ask them to marry you in the first place- and they despise you for it.

Marry them, and they know they can do better.

This explains the demanding/c~~~y/nagging/complaining attitude that their husband’s get to experience.

Yet, they all claim to want to get married. So marrying a woman in some ways is the biggest s~~~ test of them. Truly f~~~ed up.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

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