Where's the humanity in online dating??

[ResParticipant 542]

Yes, I still have an OkCupid profile. Every now and then I pop open the app and check out what’s going on. Just the usual crap like always, nothing exciting. Most of the girls are just plain unattractive and tend to be overweight. What gets me every time is the complete lack of humanity there is when “shopping” for a potential mate. It’s worse than window shopping! You pop open the app and you get a huge list of pictures side by side with a username and an age. Somehow every girl picks out one magical photo (always a closeup of the face with a smile) to draw you into her profile. In one profile, I found a girl who posted a picture of herself at “Diagon Alley” at Universal here in Orlando. Like holy s~~~, I totally want to date you now. *sarcasm* (Most of the “attractions” in Orlando are really just tourist traps. Don’t get me wrong, there’s some good stuff to see and do but don’t get caught up in the mainstream too much.)

It’s just awful. There’s no human interaction, it’s just a picture, an age, and a city. I’m a human being, I’m not a pretty piece of eye candy for you to oogle at for 1 second and swipe by. Yes, I plan to keep my OkCupid account for s~~~s and giggles, you never know what lies ahead, but my profile picture is bland and I think I’ll keep it that way. If all you want in a relationship is a pretty face and a cute instant message with a pun in it to make you laugh, I think you’re shallow. Now I suppose this is a bit ironic in a way, you might say, skip past the pictures and read the profiles (even of the fat chicks), maybe that’s more interesting. I like pretty faces too. Just not 95% of them. I have a soft spot for asian women especially.

Online dating is disgusting. There’s no way I’m going to compete with other men for the attention of a woman with this crap. It’s all fake. Fake, fake, fake. Give me my humanity back. Don’t judge me by a f~~~ing picture. I haven’t even started on the whole communication thing. Trying to talk to women through online dating apps would be akin to pulling a cats tail. Where have the all the good men gone? You ignore them because Chad has a better profile picture and makes you laugh.

MGTOW all the way. </rant>

Mr. Boats: "'Avoid the reeking herd! Shun the polluted flock! Live like that stoic bird, the eagle of the rock!' You know what that means, son?" -American Splendor

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

There is none. Online dating is a race to the bottom. Don’t go there.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[TBL225Participant 168]

Online dating is a waste of time. I equate it to trying to find a good movie in the $5 movie bin at Walmart. It’s not happening. During my time experimenting with online dating, I realized the women on there have the most ridiculous standards. They all want 6ft or taller. Have to be athletic, good job, no kids, etc. Meanwhile these same women are landwhales with little to no income, multiple kids, fat, ugly, no personality, you name it. They’re all liars, they never look the same in person, and there’s always a good reason as to why they’re online in the first place. A decent woman doesn’t need a dating website to get blue pill men, they just fall in line. Hell, the last time I was on there, I’d say at least 50% of them were on the dating site when I used it over a year ago. It’s a never ending s~~~ show.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

How can you honestly expect to have a genuine interaction on a “dating site” when women use old pictures of themselves to mislead you, lie about their age, lie about having kids, and hide their true intentions? Online dating is a waste of time. Unless you like picking through lonely cat ladies with mental issues, single moms, and women too fat to f~~~. Have some self respect. Stay away from that s~~~. It’s like surfing through a list of game saves. These women want beta simps, and attention.

[WallyParticipant]

Any online dating interaction will be a sign it’s time to walk away.

When I tried it, I was initially excited in my naïveté following my good news that I was not going to die. I was hoping to find a NAWLT on my high. This was 2014 before I found This website and was hoping the truth my father made me swallow was wrong. Alas he was right.

I have to give the women that I interacted with some credit, they were honest with me that they wanted to find a man and quickly get pregnant. It was a great red pill realization and I walked away.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[joetechParticipant]

I joined a singles group once called Events and Adventures. They have a few different locations in the U.S. The reason I liked it is because you sign up for events with other members attending. You get to meet people in person and see how they act in a social setting. I liked it a lot better than the paranoid delusionals I used to meet on dating sites.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[TBL225Participant 168]

IRuleMe wrote:

How can you honestly expect to have a genuine interaction on a “dating site” when women use old pictures of themselves to mislead you, lie about their age, lie about having kids, and hide their true intentions? Online dating is a waste of time. Unless you like picking through lonely cat ladies with mental issues, single moms, and women too fat to f~~~. Have some self respect. Stay away from that s~~~. It’s like surfing through a list of game saves. These women want beta simps, and attention.

100% correct. The last time I was on a dating website this idiot messaged me. I looked at her profile. Not only was she gross looking, but she was a total liar. I found her social media accounts. All of the pictures she posted were old. On her profile she put that she was never married and had no kids. Come to find out she’s divorced and has a child. It’s amazing that they think they can (and do) get away with it. Must be that, “He’ll be fine with it once he falls in love with me” delusion.

[TuneoutParticipant]

I dunno,the only ‘online dating’ I do is the BackPages,lol

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[StealthParticipant 5330]

There is none.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[AttonParticipant]

Delete okstupid.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[RorschachParticipant 2083]

Res wrote:

Yes, I plan to keep my OkCupid account for s~~~s and giggles, you never know what lies ahead, but my profile picture is bland and I think I’ll keep it that way.

What lies ahead is more bulls~~~. The ugly, the obese, fake profiles, cam girls gold digging, and the most wretched of them all single moms. I tried the dating app scene once or twice and it was mostly a depressing red pill nightmare. Its like the refuge bin for all the chiks that cant trap a man in real life for whatever reason.

The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "save us!"....... and i'll look down and whisper "No."

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Online dating apps is never-ending source of misery for a red-pilled man. It’s borderline masochism and source of depression. This is how I see it, mileage may vary.
If you’re an extrovert or can f~~~ anything that moves – it might be fun

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[ResParticipant 542]

I understand the redpill aspect but I don’t see the harm in leaving the profile up. Nobody contacts me anyway. I have no interest in dating, so you might ask why bother? Well I ask why not bother? Curiosity will lead me where it may. Sorry if this thread or post comes off as a bit tuna.

Mr. Boats: "'Avoid the reeking herd! Shun the polluted flock! Live like that stoic bird, the eagle of the rock!' You know what that means, son?" -American Splendor

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Res wrote:

I understand the redpill aspect but I don’t see the harm in leaving the profile up. Nobody contacts me anyway. I have no interest in dating, so you might ask why bother? Well I ask why not bother? Curiosity will lead me where it may. Sorry if this thread or post comes off as a bit tuna.

no worries. I was in the same boat two years ago.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Anonymous 18]

For women in online dating its akin to standing on a street corner under a lamp.

For attention mostly. Because objectively assessing overweight, post-wall and single mothers with a mix of polyamorous, non-binary sapiosexual women who are in an open relationship- a straight dude with half a self-esteem would not approach these women in real life.

Online dating takes the gut feel out of equation.

Its the greatest gift for sociopaths to secure victims.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Humanity? Yet another thing women killed.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Anonymous wrote:

For women in online dating its akin to standing on a street corner under a lamp.

For attention mostly. Because objectively assessing overweight, post-wall and single mothers with a mix of polyamorous, non-binary sapiosexual women who are in an open relationship- a straight dude with half a self-esteem would not approach these women in real life.

Online dating takes the gut feel out of equation.

Its the greatest gift for sociopaths to secure victim

Holy S~~~! Everything you said is 100% on point, and the sad thing is, I wish it wasn’t…

bigboy83 wrote:

Humanity? Yet another thing women killed.

Women killed society in history too, it seems their destruction is cyclical. Some might even say biblical…

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[DontTreadOnMe8945Participant 0]

damn you guys must be fugly as hell, online dating is awesome and really requires no effort. You can get a good looking lay on the regular no problem if you’re not totally awkward. OKC is probably the best website. Ovbiously you don’t wife these women.

[AstroParticipant 2045]

DontTreadOnMe8945 wrote:

Ovbiously you don’t wife these women.

I had two online dates. The first one said she had no children. She took all six of them with her on our first (and last) date. She turned out to be a land whale and her brats insisted on going to McDonalds. It took all I had to give her a goodbye hug. The second date? I married her. Look at where I am now. I look pretty good for my age and am older than I look. I just don’t want to mess with them anymore. I would suggest a sex doll, they are much cheaper in the long run and far safer.

[GrumpyParticipant]

DontTreadOnMe8945 wrote:

damn you guys must be fugly as hell,

Yup I’m ugly as sin TYVM.

Even with all the glory of 6 of my chins, deer belly, bald, old and wrinkly, hung like a stud budgie in a power dive, knock kneed, pigeon toed, slack jawed, scrawny armed, limp wristed, pasty faced, non beard growing, pimply assed, mama’s basement dwelling, Cheetos munching, orange underwear wearing, porn watching, video gaming, alcoholic, pot smoking, four eyed, under 6 foot frame.
I am still a better catch that 99.5% of the women on dating sites.

The only things women on dating sites and I have in common is we both lied about our descriptions. (Theirs on the sites, and mine right here).

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

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