When We Experience Suicidal Crisis, Is It Because We Are Not Resilient Enough?

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  • #457792
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    MGTOW Knight
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    @ Macho

    Great work you are doing man! Society portrays men as a infallible figure that can withstand the challenges of life. At times, the issues can seem insurmountable. I’m glad you can help men who are having difficulty coping. I’ve been there man, and it would’ve been great if I could of had a support network such as yours. Continue shaping men’s lifes! šŸ™‚

    Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

    #457796
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    MACHO
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    Great work you are doing man

    Thanks it’s always nice to hear this, I take great joy in knowing that I can make a difference (whenever I can)

    You must own a better Crystal ball than I
    #457801
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    Anonymous
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    Your Dad wants you to know…

    He is Proud of You.

    #457803
    MACHO
    MACHO
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    Your Dad wants you to know…
    He is Proud of You.

    Very Nice ?

    You must own a better Crystal ball than I
    #457805
    MACHO
    MACHO
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    Your Dad wants you to know…
    He is Proud of You.

    Old Sage you too are doing a great job I hope you know it?

    You must own a better Crystal ball than I
    #457817
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    Anonymous
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    Your Dad wants you to know…
    He is Proud of You.

    Old Sage you too are doing a great job I hope you know it?

    Seems I spend most of my time on here argueing with women! Hahah( trolls)

    Ive heard some younger guys say my stuff is helpful, but I have no idea why.

    I live in two dementions.
    That message came from your Dad through me.
    It wasnt just something I said to be nice.
    I relay messages.

    #457820
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    MACHO
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    That message came from your Dad through me.
    It wasnt just something I said to be nice.
    I relay messages.

    Ok I believe it could be from him, would he happened to have mentioned his first name when he gave you the message?

    You must own a better Crystal ball than I
    #457821
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    MACHO
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    Ive heard some younger guys say my stuff is helpful, but I have no idea why.

    As long as you are able to help them does it really matter?

    You must own a better Crystal ball than I
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    Anonymous
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    Ive heard some younger guys say my stuff is helpful, but I have no idea why.

    As long as you are able to help them does it really matter?

    No. Just if I knew, I could keep doing it.

    The info I recieve isnt specific.
    Bill popped into my head.

    #457827
    MACHO
    MACHO
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    No. Just if I knew, I could keep doing it.
    The info I recieve isnt specific.
    Bill popped into my head.

    You don’t need to know the intricate fine details, like a cake recipe, you are being yourself and your experience is transferred to them and it helps them! Isn’t that a lot already?

    You must own a better Crystal ball than I
    #457828
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    Narwhal
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    Yeah this is why I feel people are so weak today. They aren’t challenged. Through adversity we are made stronger. Complacency and accepting the status quo only breeds weakness. Sometimes you need to have your ideas challenged. Sometimes we need to experience pain. We need to experiences these things in order to grow.

    I think that’s only part of it though. Yes, experience life, but you also need an outlet to deal with failures. We are told we have to just suck it up, but there is only so much you can suck before you crack. Besides taking on challenges, we need compassion and understanding when we hurt. We need to be told that the failure doesn’t mean we ourselves are failures.

    My experience with suicide is limited to a female friend. Her behavior was vastly different then what I’ve heard men go through. Her probably was that she wasn’t getting the attention that she thought she needed. She wanted everyone around her to feel guilty for not caring about her enough. When her attempt failed, she did her very best to suck up attention and tell everyone she knew how horrible she thought everyone else was.

    I’ve heard it said before that men what to know they have what it takes. Women want to know that they are wanted. it seems like when the world tells them ‘no’ to these questions, then the crisis occurs.

    Ok. Then do it.

    #457831
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    FrostByte
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    ā€œShe doesn’t belong to you, she never did. It’s just your turnā€. Guys need to have this permanently etched into their brains…

    Great Quote

    When We Experience Suicidal Crisis, Is It Because We Are Not Resilient Enough?

    My thought is we’re not sovereign enough. We don’t say No enough. We live our lives through other people. We make our lives about other people. Men are programmed at birth you must make her happy. You can’t build resilience without being sovereign first. If everything you do is for someone else the only thing you build is dependency. You become dependent on their moods, their approval or their happiness. Resilience is something you give yourself when you are not dependent, when you are sovereign. Resilience is saying f~~~ you when it asks for too much.

    If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

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    Anonymous
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    That message came from your Dad through me.
    It wasnt just something I said to be nice.
    I relay messages.

    Ok I believe it could be from him, would he happened to have mentioned his first name when he gave you the message?

    Are you testing my ability, or is there missing info on him you are looking for?

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    Anonymous
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    No. Just if I knew, I could keep doing it.
    The info I recieve isnt specific.
    Bill popped into my head.

    You don’t need to know the intricate fine details, like a cake recipe, you are being yourself and your experience is transferred to them and it helps them! Isn’t that a lot already?

    No. Just if I knew, I could keep doing it.
    The info I recieve isnt specific.
    Bill popped into my head.

    You don’t need to know the intricate fine details, like a cake recipe, you are being yourself and your experience is transferred to them and it helps them! Isn’t that a lot already?

    Yes.

    #457837
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    Autolite
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    Ok I believe it could be from him, would he happened to have mentioned his first name when he gave you the message?

    Don’t be a smart-ass! šŸ˜€ šŸ˜€ šŸ˜€

    If he could give you a first name he’d be out making major money right now doing that kinda thing…

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    MACHO
    MACHO
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    Are you testing my ability, or is there missing info on him you are looking for?

    No my friend neither! It was a simple question just like when one goes to a food store and does not see a certain food and ask if they have it in stock?

    You must own a better Crystal ball than I
    #457841
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    MGTOW Knight
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    My experience with suicide is limited to a female friend. Her behavior was vastly different then what I’ve heard men go through. Her probably was that she wasn’t getting the attention that she thought she needed. She wanted everyone around her to feel guilty for not caring about her enough. When her attempt failed, she did her very best to suck up attention and tell everyone she knew how horrible she thought everyone else was.

    This is no different for men. We all want to feel needed. I was suicidal dealing with such thoughts. Mind you, I was only 12 at the time. I’ve been through a lot of strife as a child. I’m now able to cope with all the baggage I dealt with as a child. I have monkeys on my back at all times. The only way I can appease them is by giving them a banana every once and while. These monkeys will never leave. They seem to really enjoy dwelling on my shoulders. Sometimes these monkeys feel like orangutans. The weight can be immense at times.

    Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

    #457842
    MACHO
    MACHO
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    Don’t be a smart-ass!
    If he could give you a first name he’d be out making major money right now doing that…

    You obviously don’t believe much in the supernatural!

    You must own a better Crystal ball than I
    #457844
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    Awakened
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    I am now struggleing with feeling like my life was a complete wast of time.
    ( Im fine)

    This is similar to where I’m at except I think I’m accepting it more and more, because I care less about more and more S~~~ daily.

    No F~~~s Given provides psychological Freedom !!

    I am now spending my remaing time on Earth paying my self back.
    Oh, its all about me alright. Damn strait

    I’m working on this daily.

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #457845
    MACHO
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    Mind you, I was only 12 at the time. I’ve been through a lot of strife as a child. I’m now able to cope with all the baggage I dealt with as a child. I have monkeys on my back at all times. The only way I can appease them is by giving them a banana every once and while. These monkeys will never leave. They seem to really enjoy dwelling on my shoulders. Sometimes these monkeys feel like orangutans. The weight can be immense at times

    Well ..either they will leave you ..or you will get used to them so much that you won’t feel them anymore!

    You must own a better Crystal ball than I
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