When We Experience Suicidal Crisis, Is It Because We Are Not Resilient Enough?

[MACHOParticipant]

Awakened wrote:

That shows the STRENGTH of the societal conditioning/blue pill that men have been exposed to since birth. The Societal blue pill LIES are so hardwired into the psyche of Men that it takes some “2 or 3 nasty break ups / divorces” before they realize that IT’S NOT THEM.
Men have been conditioned to take the blame/responsibility when a relationship ends, but Women never take the blame for anything, and just move on to the next c~~~ while they receive their child support payments and alimony

Yep right on! And being a very red pill since forever I say “those trials will shake a man to his core and show how much he is attached to life!” Either he will collapse or find the strength within to see the true nature of reality! Some men refuse and prefer to take their own lives. My own dad committed suicide at the age of 38!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[EekParticipant 1162]

It was the world trade center’s fault for not being resilient enough, when 2 fully fueled airplanes slammed into them and burned hot enough to melt steel for almost an hour before collapsing

[MACHOParticipant]

Eek wrote:

It was the world trade center’s fault for not being resilient enough, when 2 fully fueled airplanes slammed into them and burned hot enough to melt steel for almost an hour before collapsing

Very creative thinking ? I like it! But buildings have no soul and can be completely destroyed!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

MACHO wrote:

Sounds like a life long blue piller dude that has a rude awakening! A life long red piller man does not snap taking lives with him!

You obviously do not understand what the “red pill” is.

Technically speaking, taking the “red pill” is having a “psychotic break”. This is where “red pill rage” comes from. “Red pill rage” is “psychotic rage”.

The only difference is instead of being violent a MGTOW walks away.

But, if you keep abusing someone. Pushing someone. That person is going to push back. This is human nature.

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

You can bet your life on it there’s always a C~~~ involved.

I bet my life and staked all my security and happiness on it! I knew walking the f~~~ away from modern women and the thought of marriage with these beasts was the ABSOLUTE RIGHT THING TO DO!

I have an acute eye for seeing how far douchebags have been brainwashed!

1st priority? KILL TELEVISION!

2nd priority? MAKE SURE IT’S DEAD!

[MACHOParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I bet my life and staked all my security and happiness on it! I knew walking the f~~~ away from modern women and the thought of marriage with these beasts was the ABSOLUTE RIGHT THING TO DO!

It’s so simple once understood and made peace with! but too many seem to entertain rage and hatred ..probably out of frustration!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[MACHOParticipant]

To me now those whom I used to fear have become common Pigeons.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Anonymous 54]

MACHO wrote:

When We Experience Suicidal Crisis, Is It Because We Are Not Resilient Enough?

I now run a Suicide Crisis Centre and I regularly see individuals who for most of their lives have been the person who other people depend on. They are often men in their middle years. When there is a major life event, they are the person who supports everyone else and their own emotions are often suppressed in order to put other people’s needs first.

Mike always did this. Everyone in the family turned to him in times of crisis. When there was a death in the family, he looked after the needs of everyone else and was there for them. It was as if he locked his own pain, grief and distress in a compartment in his head, he told us, and just carried on. Then one day, his wife announced that she was leaving him after decades of marriage. He was given no warning and he saw no signs that it might happen. She just walked out that day.

The shock of the totally unanticipated event destabilised him. That event was the final trigger for him. It unlocked all the boxes in his head, he said – all the boxes containing unresolved grief and trauma. He was having to experience them all at once, and it was overwhelming.

Mike was at high risk of suicide in the early days of his contact with us and we worked tenaciously to support him. He has now gone on to build a new life as a single man, but it has been a very hard journey for him…

One is left with the feeling that your life has been a compleet waste of time.
You gave your all for nothing.

Beyond disheartening

[MACHOParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

One is left with the feeling that your life has been a compleet waste of time.
You gave your all for nothing.
Beyond disheartening

Yes Old Sage for some that have gone through the blender of those ruthless / heartless females several times it leaves them devastated! I was destroyed and had to survive a serious disease right after so no more , no second helping of female BS for me!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Anonymous 54]

I had a niebor. IQ
71 ( he told me he was slow)
One day Im running late for work. I got 10minutes to get me ass out the door.
Then a nock.
Its him. He says hes done with life, hes gonna kill him self.
I got 10 minutes.

I asked him how.
Pills..
I said, its not like you think. Youll asfixiate on your own vomit.
What else you got.

Ill cut my wrist…
Youll leave someone a horrable mess
Whats else you got..

Did this till he gave up on the whole idea.

I made it to work on time.

Ive done this alot.

[narrow road travelerParticipant 1680]

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The shock of the totally unanticipated event destabilised him. That event was the final trigger for him. It unlocked all the boxes in his head, he said – all the boxes containing unresolved grief and trauma. He was having to experience them all at once, and it was overwhelming.

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This man lives in boxes, he compartmentalized grief in a box. His c~~~ wife put him in a box in her head.
He probably worked in a box. His car was a box. His home was a box. Etc.
When life is small, cramped, and the people in closest proximity to you push you further into a box. The light of freedom is snuffed out.

If someone had shown him that life doesn’t have to be series of boxes. He may have kept going. This is a concrete example of why GYOW is the first rung on the survival needs pyramid. Many of us here a can empathize with Mike. I know I’ve been stuck in cramped quarters with black widow/preying mantis’. Those aren’t pretty creatures to be around.

The supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy without fighting. --Sun Tsu

[MACHOParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I had a niebor. IQ
71 ( he told me he was slow)
One day Im running late for work. I got 10minutes to get me ass out the door.
Then a nock.
Its him. He says hes done with life, hes gonna kill him self.
I got 10 minutes.
I asked him how.
Pills..
I said, its not like you think. Youll asfixiate on your own vomit.
What else you got.
Ill cut my wrist…
Youll leave someone a horrable mess
Whats else you got..
Did this till he gave up on the whole idea.
I made it to work on time.
Ive done this alot

You are a riot ?? That’s the winning spirit right there!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Anonymous 54]

Ive helped my 3rd ex wife( yea yea I know) over come the worst of her mental illness.
30 yers ago she is severely depressed and sicidel.
I would come home from a gig, the house black with no lights.
I would take a deep breath and turn the door knob, expecting to find a body.
Its very strange going from a party atmosephere to that every night. For years.
Divorced 20 years ago, but have been her freind, got her theropy, meds ect.

Shes better these days. But still nasty to me.
The economy went bad, my checks got smaller,
And she turned on me.

I am now struggleing with feeling like my life was a complete wast of time.

( Im fine)

I am now spending my remaing time on Earth paying my self back.

Oh, its all about me alright. Damn strait.

[MACHOParticipant]

narrow road traveler wrote:

If someone had shown him that life doesn’t have to be series of boxes. He may have kept going. This is a concrete example of why GYOW is the first rung on the survival needs pyramid. Many of us here a can empathize with Mike. I know I’ve been stuck in cramped quarters with black widow/preying mantis’. Those aren’t pretty creatures to be around

Life is a jungle! Surviving is the game! Ultimately the true strong survive, the weak perish! Life is not like..here .. You had a difficult day rest up have a nice Hot ? Chocolate! That’s why so many commit suicide, maybe they only had chocolate every time the going got tough!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

MACHO wrote:

One harsh truth! Life is not made for the Weak! It test us to death! Who said that it was supposed to be fair? The PC folks keep saying have a hot chocolate you will feel better! Right!

Yeah this is why I feel people are so weak today. They aren’t challenged. Through adversity we are made stronger. Complacency and accepting the status quo only breeds weakness. Sometimes you need to have your ideas challenged. Sometimes we need to experience pain. We need to experiences these things in order to grow.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[MACHOParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I am now struggleing with feeling like my life was a complete wast of time.
( Im fine)
I am now spending my remaing time on Earth paying my self back.
Oh, its all about me alright. Damn strait.

It’s all about being able to become our own best friend, too many are their own worst enemy! Well in real everyday life when they turn out to be my enemies, all I have to do is walk away and sure enough they self destruct every time!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Anonymous 54]

Macho. Bless you for the work you do.
I can feel your big Spirit.
I would say to you,
Becareful not to give too much.

[MACHOParticipant]

MGTOW Knight wrote:

Yeah this is why I feel people are so weak today. They aren’t challenged. Through adversity we are made stronger. Complacency and accepting the status quo only breeds weakness. Sometimes you need to have your ideas challenged. Sometimes we need to experience pain. We need to experiences these things in order to grow

Well..You took those words right out of my mouth Thank You!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[MACHOParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Macho. Bless you for the work you do.
I can feel your big Spirit.
I would say to you,
Becareful not to give too much

Thanks, you are right in my much younger days I did just that and nearly self destruct ..but my spirit survived and now I have become part Bruce Banner part The Hulk! And if need be part Wolverine!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Anonymous 54]

MACHO wrote:

. My own dad committed suicide at the age of 38!

A Man will speak his truths in one simple sentence.
I am sorry for your loss.
I believe in the afterlife of some sort.
I beleive we all meet up again one day.
Bless you Brother.

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