What would you say to a guy who earns 10K a month

[Anonymous 13]

MGTOW Knight wrote:

I want to be making that level of income after graduate school.

Even if you make TWICE that level of income a woman will still spend it all, either for her OR by making you, as a couple, buy bigger and better.

Bigger houses, more cars, newer cars. More extravagant vacations.

It NEVER ends.

There is no satiating them in ANY way.

They are a BLACKHOLE in your life.

Not even your light can escape as she sucks your soul away.

[SkeptiskParticipant 3679]

I fear it’s nothing you can do, but cut your losses and walk away.

"Expecting to find a decent woman on a dating site is like dumpster diving and expecting to come out with a gourmet meal." Won'tGetFooledAgain

[WPLParticipant 2397]

My limited understanding of the subject is that if you create an irrevocable trust with your daughters, for instance, as the beneficiaries, you can still be the trustee — and although you cannot take the assets back, there is considerable latitude in how the trustee can apportion and use the assets while he is alive.

TaxGuy wrote:

Venom wrote:

Irrevocable Trusts can’t be f~~~ed with brother. Do it years in advance and all she can do is look at the assets, but she definitely cannot touch them.

It’s been a while since I played with trusts, but I thought that an irrevocable trust meant that the assets can’t come back to you. If you do a grantor trust, which is revocable, meaning you can get the assets back. So, for example, if put money into an irrevocable trust for my daughters, and they get the money when I die, but I can’t ever get those assets back. The reason I would do that is so that the gift can grow without counting against my estate tax. But if I give them a grantor trust, I really have given them nothing because I can change my mind anytime up until death.

Am I missing something? It’s been a few years.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Anonymous wrote:

Even if you make TWICE that level of income a woman will still spend it all, either for her OR by making you, as a couple, buy bigger and better.

Bigger houses, more cars, newer cars. More extravagant vacations.

It NEVER ends.

There is no satiating them in ANY way.

They are a BLACKHOLE in your life.

Not even your light can escape as she sucks your soul away.

Robert DeCuck proves your point.
http://pagesix.com/2017/02/23/robert-de-niro-snaps-at-wife-for-spending-all-his-money/

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[narwhalParticipant]

I don’t think he will listen, but you can ask questions that could possible lead him on the right path.

Have you had a look at her bank statements? Credit card statements? Does she have any outstanding loans? Does she live within her means? Have you all discussed budgets and how you all are going to live within your means?

I would guess that this woman is swimming in debt, and he’s assuming she lives within her means, like he does. That will be a huge shocker to him.

Ask him if he’s talked to her about what conditions she would want a divorce under? What are her thoughts about other people’s divorces? Ask if they’ve talked about having kids.

Ask him if the amount sex has gone down since the engagement. Are there things in her behavior he believes will change, or not change once married. What does she think is going to change once married?

Get the man thinking about these things. He needs to draw his own conclusions.

Maybe most importantly, if you’re up for it, let him know that you will always be there for him. I saw the red flags when I was engaged, but I was very much afraid of what would happen if I pulled out of the engagement. I didn’t think I could recover from that. I would have felt selfish and letting everyone down, particularly the woman I loved. If a friend had told me he would be there for me no matter what, it might have helped me do what needed to be done.

Ok. Then do it.

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

Still won’t work. Full blown Stockholm Syndrome. He’ll have an excuse for every concern or question. Don’t stop trying, but also don’t expect to succeed.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

[SandalsParticipant 4254]

freedom wrote:

he got super angry with my buddy and me for joking.

You cannot hang out with him anymore.

~BS wrote:

she’s 30 and makes bracelets for a living. lol wtf. i bet she has negative net worth as well, a real winner.

let me guess, she has an etsy account, and markets herself up as CEO and business owner for validation and praise? i see s~~~ like that all the time.

Maybe she’s got a second business card that says she’s a Life Coach.

[SandalsParticipant 4254]

What’s his mother like? I guarantee you his fiancee is a carbon copy, even if it does not appear to be that way.

[FreedomGuyParticipant 51]

and is going to marry, after knowing the woman for only a year and she does nothing but make bracelets and sell them?

an accountant friend of mine

can you keep track of his marriage and update us.. i mean if it is going well.

[AttonParticipant]

I would tell him to remember what he has learned and to apply it to this situation.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[kbbroilerParticipant 886]

Ah the end of days. The marriage apocalypse. There isn’t really anything you can say but let the man fall.

I know that might be sad to hear but it is true.

A majority of the male population are blue pill men.

These guys will not the red pill light until they’ve lost everything.

It’s sad but true.

The only thing you can do is be there to explain to him what happened when it does.

[Deadly RaverParticipant]

If I were at the wedding, I would utter these words of warning unto him.

Learn from the past, Control the present, and you will know the Future.

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