What Red Flags Made you Realize How Little you Meant to Her?

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

This is my take regarding women, and this question:
* How much a man means to a woman is based upon either what he does for her, or exactly how much of a catch he is considered by others and the fact that he accepts her. So, if you are very high up in desirability, or can do a lot, or both, he would mean a lot for her. For a man, it would end up being what she looks like and who she is, and maybe some stuff. Doing stuff here is usually money, but it can also often times involve stroking her ego and making her special.

Now, I would say one ability that helps a big time with walking MGTOW is not needing to know how much a woman (or anyone else) you mean to someone else. Can you walk this way alone? If so, you stand a much bigger chance to be MGTOW, than if you can’t. Pretty much: damn it man, stop needing a woman to stroke your ego and find strength within yourself. I am starting to this “self-esteem” teaching is meant for women who can’t be content in themselves.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[SeamusTheDogParticipant 78]

I was with a Canadian woman (I’m an American), and I was visiting her for 6 weeks out of every three months for about half a year. living in Tennessee… she was near Winnipeg. That’s a long f~~~ing drive, guys. I eventually decided to move to North Dakota, so as to be near her. Finally settled in, in June and we had a phone conversation. She asked me what my plans were, and I explained that I wanted to hit the Rainbow Gathering (which is the last week of june/first week of july) before getting a job and getting into the routine of spending every weekend up there with her.

Right away she’s raging at me, “I need someone who I can count on”. I’m like Okay, okay… because you know… that crazy pussy is the best. Only I was still deep in blue pill land and didn’t see it that way. So I dashed my own plans to provide convenience for her. It’s not like she was starving. She had her rent paid, had a car (paid for), had 3 kids in school from 3 different fathers, none of which had anything to do with them.

That was the first time I got a hint “you should run”, but I didn’t. not for another year.

"All your children are poor, unfortunate victims of systems beyond their control... A plague upon your ignorance to the great despair of your ugly life!" -Frank Zappa

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