What makes a mother give up her son?

[Bestieboy666Participant 2358]

Anonymous wrote:

Family doesnt have to be blood.

Yep. Look how big this family is!

Women are so bad, if they changed the law so I kept the house, I still wouldn't marry one. I'd rather be homeless.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Greg Honda wrote:

what makes a mother give up her son?

I would imagine that’s her own admission of her inability to raise a man properly.

Greg Honda wrote:

Was I so disposable right from the get go?

It was never about about “you”. How could it be.

Greg Honda wrote:

I thought they were supposed to be the caring Nuturing sex

I never understood why single mothers harp on about “nurturing” like it makes them such awesome parents – particularly since they 5X more likely to live in permanent poverty, and more likely to raise a convict.

You know what nurturing means? It means — >> adding nothing.
It means allowing what’s already going on to continue going on.

When a tree is growing crooked, “nurturing” it would mean watering it and continuing to allow it to grow crooked. But it takes a man to drive a steak into the ground, tie a rope around it and correct its growth properly.

“Nurturing” does not mean good or proper parenting.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 54]

Bestieboy666 wrote:

Old Sage wrote:

Family doesnt have to be blood.

Yep. Look how big this family is!

Damn strait Brother!

[Maraudrz1Participant 2250]

I see it this way. Wouldn’t it be better to be raised by parents who wanted you and could afford to have you than to be raised by a female who was a teenager when you were born or so poor they couldn’t buy you clothes or much of anything else or were so afraid that it made them mentally sick to try and raise you themselves or were so afraid that their own parents would kick them out into the cold with a baby they couldn’t take care of? What I am saying is that there are reasons to give a child up for adoption. Many good ones for the sake of the child. There are sterile couples that want a child so badly and can more than adequately afford to do so. They would most likely love that baby as much as there birth mother would.

To me you are lucky. At 13 I had to go out and put in work as much as a man to help the family get by. We had to live paycheck to paycheck even though later on there were 4 boys doing mens work to support a family of 9. I was unable to go to college, buy a car, go out with friends, go to a high school football game. My High School was 30 miles away and my father didn’t want to spend the money for gasoline. I am not asking for pity just giving you a comparison. I hope I gave you food for thought.

Women's brains and vagina have one thing in common. There is nothing in there until a man puts something in there.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

I understand your questioning man, that searching for an answer to something that bothers the s~~~ out of you for years on end. I have the same with my American birth father. Or did. He abandoned me when I was 2 years old. I was adopted on my 6th birthday by my British stepfather.

When i was 15 i was very curious about my birth father and wanted to know about him and where i came from etc blah blah. I was able to call him on the phone and he was a total c~~~ towards me. He had no interest in me what so ever.

Actually, im glad you made this post. I was thinking the other day that i’m the sperm of a 23 year old f~~~ing loser. A 23 year old. Just a dumb young man who probably never wanted to get my mother pregnant. Cant say i blame him. It would explain his total lack of interest in me when i called.

I only wished the guy would have given me 5 mins to meet up with him so i could look at him in person, hear his voice, and see where i came from. Maybe i would have learned a bit more about myself from meeting him.

Your mother could have many reasons why she did what she did. The most likely is that she was too young and was scared and made a dumb mistake getting pregnant.

Have you ever tried getting in contact with her? Is she still alive? Are you able to locate her?

[CodeBleuParticipant 161]

I used to rack my brain trying to figure out why my ex-wife bailed on me and my son. Was it because he’s a part of me and she can’t stand me, so by default she can’t stand him either?

Was it because she wanted a new lifestyle with a new man and taking care of a kid would just get in the way of it?

One day I wake up and realize that it’s just not worth thinking about. What goes on inside their pea brains will just make you tired. AWALT.

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