What Does She Bring to the Table?

[DDJParticipant 1880]

Not a damn thing.

That’s the problem with the way relationships are framed to a man…authors always frame obtaining a relationship as: What does the man offer to the woman?

PUAs fall into this same gynocentric trap. They Peac~~~ (pun intended?) and parade around in a thirsty effort to compete for some woman’s attention.

However, no one ever asks the woman: What do you bring to the table?

Why do I ask? I’ve experienced criticism that I should be seeking a relationship and trying to compete for women’s attention…two things I refuse. I had two wives…I learned my lesson. Now, whenever I’m asked about relationships I respond with the following:

For me to commit to a woman I have the following five contingencies:

1. She cannot have any kind of mental health history. No seasonal affective disorder, no diagnosed depression, no history of seeing a counselor or mental health therapist. You get the point.

2. She cannot have any kind of criminal history. You’d be surprised how many women out there have a criminal record.

3. She cannot have children by more than one father. Lots of women out there have children with two or more fathers.

4. She must have her own Car/ Full-Time job/ home (no roommates or living with relatives). Lots of women cannot support themselves.

5. No drug history or addictions, even if in recovery. This includes binge drinking or women who get all nostalgic about their party years (i.e. C~~~ Carousel).

What’s funny, is that I (mid 40s) have never met a woman, over 30, who hasn’t had at least two of these strikes against her. These rules very effectively keep people from having the commitment conversation with me. Or for those who bring it up, it changes the subject quickly.

Every woman is a slut, if you catch her on the right day.

[HitmanParticipant]

very reasonable criteria.
also, not a feminist.
not FAT.
no dyed hair.
no more than one divorce.
must cook well.
must look bangin in a bikini.
must have impeccable hygiene.
must be employed.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

1) Must be an alien princess.
2) Must poop gold nuggets.
3) Must be able to grant me an infinite number of wishes.

I’ll find my NAWALT before you guys do.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Stargazer wrote:

I’ll find my NAWALT before you guys do.

Well the sad part is DDJ’s “NAWALT” would have been considered the average woman 2 generations ago lol. How sad is it when a man’s dating criteria these days consists of things like “doesn’t have multiple baby daddies.”

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

I cannot believe the you guys forgot to list the three most important items in a prospective mate. Said person much be honest, emotionally mature, and be willing to take personal responsibility for their actions.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

DDJ, your list seems pretty simple but it says something that you aren’t finding any that even meet those relaxed criteria.

Doc, I like your list. It serves well at least as a minimum.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[DarkRyuParticipant 2354]

What does a woman bring to the table? Simple. Pussy – and that’s all. Men are discovering that the pussy isn’t worth all the other BS. Men are expected to make all the money, worship her, give her a child, work their ass off, never complain, and always give her more and more and more. Every whim she has needs to be granted immediately or she’s suddenly “not happy.” All this for a wet hole? No thanks! I’ll buy my own wet hole for $80 or just use my hand.

Women don’t offer loyalty or companionship, and are incapable of engaging in an interesting conversation. Even a f~~~ing dog is capable of the first two things. Women are worse than dogs. At least the dog just wants love and attention, and is satisfied just being with you. A dog wants from you what you want from a woman. You just can’t get it because she’s lower than a dog.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

when all you really want is food, sex and silence and you can’t get any of them without the help of McDonald’s, there really is no point to get married

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[ChuddoxParticipant 585]

DDJ wrote:

This list

My wife meets all of these criteria and I still say NO,NO,NO. No to marriage.
I will never do it again.

The State should have no say in what occurs between adults and that includes this institution. this institution isn’t FOR YOU. It is FOR HER.

I’m not saying don’t f~~~. To each his own. Some men choose monk, others don’t. Your life, your choice. But marriage is a bad idea no matter what.

“Civilized men are more discourteous than savages because they know they can be impolite without having their skulls split, as a general thing.” - Robert E. Howard

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Watch from 3:45 on time line. This is EXACTLY how women are!!!

No woman, NO WOMAN gets between me and MY steak!

[Spank The MisandristsParticipant 2308]

This is what a woman brings to a relations~~~:

1. decreased sex drive
2. increased pain

[MOWsince95Participant 1446]

DDJ wrote:

For me to commit to a woman I have the following five contingencies

Hitman wrote:

very reasonable criteria.

Faust For Science wrote:

I cannot believe the you guys forgot to list the three most important items in a prospective mate.

Etc.

Criteria? Heck, do what you guys want, but if you get much involved involved with any woman then you deserve the hell you will get. There is hardly one out there in 3.8 billion who won’t f~~~ you over at the 1st or 2nd opportunity, and with full support of the state to ensure your life-destroying enslavement for doing so.

If you are MGTOW when you are young you have no heart.
If you're not MGTOW when you are 20 you have no brain.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

MOWsince95 wrote:

If you are MGTOW when you are young you have no heart.

according to this, i have no heart.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[DDJParticipant 1880]

Faust For Science wrote:

I cannot believe the you guys forgot to list the three most important items in a prospective mate. Said person much be honest, emotionally mature, and be willing to take personal responsibility for their actions.

Those should be a given for any adult. That’s why I didn’t list them. Besides, every woman is gonna tell you she is those things, even though she’s not.

Every woman is a slut, if you catch her on the right day.

[DDJParticipant 1880]

MOWsince95 wrote:

DDJ wrote:

For me to commit to a woman I have the following five contingencies

Hitman wrote:

very reasonable criteria.

Faust For Science wrote:

I cannot believe the you guys forgot to list the three most important items in a prospective mate.

Etc.

Criteria? Heck, do what you guys want, but if you get much involved involved with any woman then you deserve the hell you will get. There is hardly one out there in 3.8 billion who won’t f~~~ you over at the 1st or 2nd opportunity, and with full support of the state to ensure your life-destroying enslavement for doing so.

You missed the point of my post…women can’t even meet my minimal criteria for dating…They don’t exist anymore. Sorry if my OP was too subtle.

Every woman is a slut, if you catch her on the right day.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10909]

The only thing she brings (other than pussy) is 2 lists. One is a list of rules and the other is a list of wants. Both lists are constantly being revised. Most times she won’t let you see either list and yet you are expected to know the contents of each.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[BigDParticipant 3024]

Let’s be honest. What a woman brings to the table, especially back in the day, were a few things. However, these things are no longer worth the effort, time, or money. Let’s break it down.

1. Dowry/Title:
Let’s say her father was the Earl of Grey. You and your offspring were now in line to become the Earl of Grey, plus you would be paid with not only money, but land to help support your new Bride.
However, this was not something your new bride provided, but her father, who is a man. She had to provide the next two on her own.

2. A virgin vagina/ass/mouth.
This isn’t just for pride, this was important. A virgin woman in all ways eliminated the issues with STDs that could destroy future offspring and the head of the household, and prevented bastardization in which the real father of a child could muscle in on your hardwork and goods.

3. A good reputation
Reputation was everything back in the day. Individuals invested in people, not things. If a woman had a bad reputation, it looked poorly on the husband. Would you invest in someone who was too stupid not to marry such a c~~~?

These days, there are no longer dowries and titles. There are no longer virgins, and STDs are back on the rise. A woman no longer gives a f~~~ about her reputation. So, we are all fools who take on a woman.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

I see my co worker who just got married a couple of month ago he look miserable ,now he’s working 2 job to make his princess happy

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

What women bring to the table? Sex? Laughable, wait 6 months, then it becomes nothing.

C~~~s will always be a liability in your life. That is all!

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[SimpleLifeParticipant 439]

bigboy83 wrote:

What women bring to the table? Sex? Laughable, wait 6 months, then it becomes nothing.

C~~~s will always be a liability in your life. That is all!

With my ex wife it was 13 years of constant sex. STILL not worth it. And that included tons of bj’s. She was/is totally insane. Made a huge mess of my life.

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