Vouching for a block feature in the forums.

[AnthonyParticipant 2281]

Anonymous wrote:

Our differences is where we derive respect for each other, not playing suck up to Mr Popular and we’ll all be f~~~wadd clones!

Exactly. I love that I don’t have to police my speech here to avoid “offending” someone. If someone’s offended by what I have to say, then they can simply f~~~ off.

I love this place if only for that reason.

Once you have a Fleshlight real vaginas become worthless.

[Anonymous 54]

Just picture a real situation like a bar brawl. What do you do if two are on each other’s throat?
You try to de-escalate the situation, break the fight; keep them out of one another’s sight until everything’s cooled down. That’s the only practical solution. Or would you let them kill each other?

quote] I would watch the fight and see if i could learn anything to help my own fighting skills for when i need them.When one guys down id tell him the fights over. Now buy him a beer.Thats how it worked where i grew up.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Wow! I feel like every post is smeared with sweat and testosterone. I wish I was half as tough as you lot. Feminized education had made me very risk-averse. I still have a lot to learn from this place.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Varun wrote:

Wow! I feel like every post is smeared with sweat and testosterone. I wish I was half as tough as you lot

You don’t need to be tough for that.

A “block” feature actually doesn’t “block” anyone OUT.
It only locks yourself IN.

That’s why it doesn’t really work in concept. Women don’t see it that way, because they prefer to live inside their own heads – instead of reality. They prefer to be told exactly what they want to hear. We don’t do that s~~~ here.

Even when a woman asks “what do you think?” she doesn’t REALLY want his opinion. She only wants her OWN opinion repeated back to her in a deeper voice.

If it’s REALLY not what you want hear, a member said it because they think it’s good to hear – or good to SAY. (That’s extremely important) In a world that would rather you didn’t say it at all, even if someone doesn’t want to hear it, there needs to be a place where men can SAY it.

They are not saying it or writing it out for you or we.
They are saying it for themselves too. Probably more importantly.

I’ve seen a woman ask her husband “do you want chicken or steak?”, and when the man replied “Neither. I want beer an Pizza.”, she she got irritated… because he didn’t select from her controlled choices.

So she didn’t really want to know what HE wanted.
She wanted him to select from one of her controlled choices.

Nothing he said was harsh, offensive, or rude.. but she behaved like he did, and should rather have “blocked” it out. How many times have you seen that? She shouldn’t have asked in the first place.

Blocking it out doesn’t block it out.
It only locks yourself in. And that’s bad for you.

Someone mentioned @snake and his totally unapologetic style. But he doesn’t respond JUST for the OP. He responds to say it directly – for himself. GOD DAMN that feels good. Just to f~~~ing say it straight. Sure, he could care more about your reaction to it, but that’s not the only why he does it. He says it that way, just to f~~~in’ say it.

Take that ability into the real world… and HO BOY, there is no stopping you. It’s like a bullet proof vest. People are not prepared for that. They freak out. They can’t handle it. It doesn’t even need to be HARSH!!! It can just be …… “no”. No explanation. No excuse. Just “no”.

So the best way to look at it might be….

You don’t want to block people.
If anything, you want them to block YOU.

Feel free to practice that here. And welcome to our shooting range. Just don’t aim or fire at other member’s heads. You can shoot the apple off their heads, but please don’t kill anyone. I have to clean that s~~~ up.

Smiles.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Great! But no, I believe empathy is equally important as much as the ability to ‘say whatever the f~~~ you want’. I respect what you said, and now I understand that the need to express oneself is greater than the need to protect another from the other’s expression. But the importance of empathy has also been inculcated within me from day 1.. and I have seen a lot of positive results. It has its own drawbacks, I agree.. I’ve seen people take advantage of your behavior; but the good things outweigh the bad things by a large scale.

Whenever you look at the new guys posting their stories, you can’t really feel anything ‘wrong’ if you don’t put yourself in the his shoes. It becomes particularly hard for those of us who have absolutely no experience in dealing with this situations, to ‘learn’ something from it.

You might also say ‘that’s what women do’ or ‘you’re speaking like a c~~~’ but stereotyping this behavior to women only deprives us of its real effects. A big part of human nature is structured upon understanding one another and acting accordingly to live our lives as smoothly as possible. Without that, we are no different from animals (practical thought, not shaming language).

I’m going into the care-taking field, where I’ll require lots and lots of it. So, no, as far as hurting someone else with words or with a punch, I would never do it. Even if I do, I will probably apologize later. But at the same time, I’m not urging everyone else to be more like me; I just don’t want this facet of truth to be dismissed as ‘c~~~y’.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Varun wrote:

‘say whatever the f~~~ you want’. I respect what you said, and now I understand that the need to express oneself is greater than the need to protect another from the other’s expression. But the importance of empathy

To be clear. I’m not recommending to anyone to “say whatever the f~~~ you want”.

Say what’s RIGHT — however the f~~~ you want, or however is necessary to enforce it.

Saying (or doing) “whatever the f~~~ you want” is the mark of a petulant toddler. You’ve heard that before too. “I do what I want” and those people can go f~~~ themselves…. because you simply CAN’T waltz through life saying (or doing) whatever the f~~~ you want.

There are RULES. Not to protect other people’s “feelings”, but it’s about maintaining and rigidly enforcing what’s right and wrong.

If it’s RIGHT … say it however you want and don’t ever back down. Nobody should ever say “you can go f~~~ yourself” unless they KNOW they are right. If you know what’s right (and wrong),

EXAMPLE: Who’s right?

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She’s WRONG. And if the police used “language” instead of hand cuffs, they would scream louder and however harshly is necessary to keep that c~~~ in check. Should they show her any empathy? F~~~ no.

She’s going off like “I do what I want!!” like a petulant little toddler.

That’s what I’m talking’ about.

She’s not right. She’s only doing it because she THINKS she has “the right”. Not the same thing at all.

“Because you can” is not a reason to do something. For every “right” one has to do or say something, they have an equal right NOT to do (or say) it. So doing it just because they can (or want to) is a wash, and a dumb reason.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

There is always a fine line between ‘angry’ and ‘psychotic’. So of course drastic situations call for drastic measures. Its best to leave it to the professionals to deal with irrational people.

Keymaster wrote:

There are RULES. Not to protect other people’s “feelings”, but it’s about maintaining and rigidly enforcing what’s right and wrong.

If it’s RIGHT … say it however you want and don’t ever back down. Nobody should ever say “you can go f~~~ yourself” unless they KNOW they are right. If you know what’s right (and wrong),

As far as ‘doing what is right’ goes, its is important to do what’s right. But people don’t do that.

Example: Who’s wrong?

Did anyone go to do what is right? No.
Did the rational people go help enforce the right with rigidity?
No, they didn’t.

But does that make them ‘wrong’?

Of course not.

They never felt the need because it was not them who was on the side of loss. Nobody cares if a cop gets killed; but everyone gets p~~~ed off if cops ‘don’t do anything’ or ‘do not do their duty’.

How can you expect others to be right when you aren’t?

This is exactly the super weapon women use to justify their causes. This big power is valiantly responsible we’re facing a female domination.

People don’t do the right things… and ‘not doing the right thing’ does not make you wrong.

Saying something that ‘hurts feelings’ is very different than saying something something which is fundamentally wrong. It gets worse if you don’t point out that its wrong. Take the case of feminists. When they did what they thought was right, but was wrong, nobody thought anything, said anything, do anything. They kept on propagating all the ‘right wrongs’ (or wrong rights) until NOW when we’re finally beginning to see the implications of their actions.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Varun wrote:

What do you think? Should we have a block feature? Please let your valuable opinion be known.

NO

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Varun wrote:

As far as ‘doing what is right’ goes, its is important to do what’s right. But people don’t do that. Example: Who’s wrong?…..

Your point is valid, but now it’s less of a “moral” issue, and more of a legal issue. And just because something is “legal” doesn’t make it right.

Conversely, just because something is “illegal” doesn’t make it wrong.

This is why it’s called the “legal system” now … and not a justice system.

The expression “no good deed goes unpunished” exists for a reason. Have you ever done the right thing and found out you got f~~~ed over for it? That’s some real s~~~. And it’s one of the things that makes life unfair.

“No good deed goes unpunished” is the reason why nobody helped that cop. And just a couple of months ago, a man ran after a purse snatcher to do the right thing, got shot in the thigh – and he died.

It was DEFINITELY the right thing to do.
Or was it?

To run after a purse snatcher to save a fake Fendi, a lipstick, tampon, and mountain of credit card debt? It’s NOT the right thing to do, but you can argue it either way.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

I just saw this and Hell F~~~ing No.

You don’t like a member, don’t read their posts.

I like it when a member tells me I’m wrong. Members have said some things to me I didn’t like. Tough s~~~. Put on your big boy pants.

Don’t forget the reason the Nazi’s and the Klan can march is because the American Legion, Yes the US Military Veterans thought free speech was more important than protecting someones feelings. Feelings are for females. Logic is for men.

I’ve had me feelings hurt many times here, especially when I post stupid s~~~. My logic tells me to learn and do better.

Censorship is what c~~~s do. Hurt feelings is what c~~~s do. Sometimes the truth hurts.

PS. This doesn’t apply to harassment. Any harassment should be reported to the management.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Keymaster wrote:

To run after a purse snatcher to save a fake Fendi, a lipstick, tampon, and mountain of credit card debt? It’s NOT the right thing to do, but you can argue it either way.

The world is so much more than that. It doesn’t only revolve around women and their atrocities. ‘White-knighting’ is never a good thing. But does that mean I stop helping people who genuinely need my help?

NO.

Don’t help the people who don’t need it. That is wrong. Pandering to t~~~s only added to their unworthy privileges. I’m never going to do that. But there are places I know I can contribute to, and I need to be selfless and helpful. A few years ago, I actively volunteered at an old age home for a full month. Me and two of my friends were the only volunteers from our school, along with a handful of others. I didn’t get paid for it, nor did I have any obligation to help these people. But it felt good. Compassion. Love. Peace of mind. Joy. All good things… it eventually made me a good person. Maybe it was my bad my good deed did not go unpunished. Doesn’t mean it won’t someday. But I’ll wait for that day to come.

Being that good person does not make me a white knight.

In any case, experience speaks louder. I am convinced that blocking will do no good. Maybe those of us who are still annoyed by all that hurt need to ‘grow tougher skins’ and need to put on ‘big boy pants’.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Varun wrote:

Wow! I feel like every post is smeared with sweat and testosterone. I wish I was half as tough as you lot. Feminized education had made me very risk-averse. I still have a lot to learn from this place.

It’s an opportunity for improvement like no other; take full advantage of it.

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