Threesomes

[Anonymous 2]

Me and my GF are not entirely monogamous. We do stuff like threesomes etc. I’m not going to marry this girl, we just have a lot of fun in the bedroom. We don’t see people seperately yet although we debate doing that. The main reason we don’t are STD risks.

However… an issue cropped up. Let’s say that you’ve done your share of MFM and MFF threesomes… as a man, it would be logical to prefer MFF threesomes right?

Except that I don’t. Not anymore.

Granted, I’m uhhh… “heteroflexible” or whatever a-dash-of-gay is called nowadays. And to my mind I’d rather have someone join us that is accountable and realistic. Women just cause too much drama!

Seen it time and again, the other women trying to pry themselves into my life while a brother can accept its just a bit of sexy fun. I don’t really feel cucked by men because I am psysical with them as well.

So yeah… conflicted about my own preferences, really. I’m more attracted physically to girls, but mentally I’m starting to see why I’d be better off allowing a man I trust into our bedroom. Less drama, still fun.

Maybe this isn’t the place to discuss as I’d reckon most of you guys are as straight as a whistle. But what would you do in my shoes? Would you prefer a man or a woman as your extra, taking into account I’m capable of enjoying sex (but not relationships) with men?

[It’sallbsParticipant]

If I was a gambling man, which I’m not, I’d bet £500,000 that she is seeing people without you.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[It’sallbsParticipant]

I’m heterosexual and women have no interste for me whatsoever-I have no interste in sex at age 40 and all teh betere for it.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Anonymous 2]

At this stage I’m fairly certain she’s not seeing anyone else but you never know. TO my mind that is something you just take for granted. And when it’s proven, you simply dump her. Just make sure you don’t invest too much emotionally and / or financially.

Anyway, let’s not get sidetracked by everything that could potentially go wrong. We’d never get to the issue at hand, lol.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

I’ve had a couple 3somes with 2 women only. Seeing another guy would just kill my boner. I used Thai bargirls so there ain’t no drama ever. Make sure to ask the mamasan for bisexual girls though. More fun when the girls are into each other too.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[narwhalParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Maybe this isn’t the place to discuss as I’d reckon most of you guys are as straight as a whistle. But what would you do in my shoes? Would you prefer a man or a woman as your extra, taking into account I’m capable of enjoying sex (but not relationships) with men?

I can’t put myself in your shoes, as you already understand. I would say two things though.

1 – I think you already know the answer to your question. You’ve put thought into it and weighed pros and cons. You are asking people for assistance on something you are experienced with. Are you looking for validation? Why are you questioning yourself on this?

2 – Why do you have to choose? Can you have it one way tonight and the other tomorrow? Is 4 out of the question?

Personally, I’ve never done anything like that, it seems like it would mess with the intimacy. Closest I ever came to that was watching porn during sex. I felt conflicted, as though I wanted to make sure my partner new she was turning me on and not the porn, but at the same time, not ignoring the porn. I imagine it would be the same with 2 women, my divided interest would be confusing. That wouldn’t be the case with 2 men involved, but I have no homosexual desires whatsoever, nor do I wish to compete or anything like that. It feels like any way you slice it, it turns into essentially mutual masturbation.

2 –

Ok. Then do it.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

It’s a personal choice but if I’d ever do that, which I wouldn’t, it would have to be with two other women. I have zero desire to bring a male into my sexual activity. However, if you’re comfortable with another man involved – go for it. As with anything these days – be wary of STD and the other risks appurtenant to physical intimacy with either sex.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

uchibenkei wrote:

I’ve had a couple 3somes with 2 women only. Seeing another guy would just kill my boner.

I share this sentiment exactly. I have only done 1 MFF 3some. If I had a bro that I could Eiffel tower with that would be cool. XD

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Sensible MGTOW avoid women altogether so I for one don’t see the point in this thread. Maybe this subject would be more appropriate on another site.

[Anonymous 42]

Threesomes, tensomes, how many you can you afford? Lets be Islamic and make them our untouchable exclusive property! We could trade them on the internet!

I would be a glutton for sure!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

Less drama

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

PistolPete wrote:

Sensible MGTOW avoid women altogether so I for one don’t see the point in this thread. Maybe this subject would be more appropriate on another site.

Exactly.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

Maybe this isn’t the place to discuss

Very good. because….

Anonymous wrote:

as I’d reckon most of you guys are as straight as a whistle. But what would you do in my shoes?

I wouldn’t broadcast or discuss it anywhere but within the confines of the bedroom. And even then, I still “wouldn’t discuss” it.

I don’t ask myself why (or if) I like pizza or talk about it much.
Just order it, eat it, and like it a certain way.

Do you even think about being “straight”? A fish doesn’t really think about swimming. A salmon doesn’t question why it swims upstream. It’s just what it does. In western countries, everyone is far too concerned with “is he straight?”, “are you bi?”, “are you straight?”, “am I trans?”…. or even insane questions like “are you sure you’re NOT gay?”.

How the f~~~ can any man be “not gay”??
Isn’t that just another word for “MAN”?

They make a HUGE attempt to portray Captain Spock ( in the latest Star Trek movies ) as “not gay”. That’s how silly it all is.

But in other parts of the world, they don’t have all that monkey s~~~. You just do it, or you don’t do it. A three-way is like binging on a big bag of chips. You’re not really sure why you’re digging your fist into a salty pile of crap and stuffing it into your face, but for some reason, there you are.

I had a MFF three-way once, and I have no f~~~ing idea how it happened.
4 titties in my face. Hoo ha! But I would never wake up and decide to go have one.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Tired Old ManParticipant 19]

MFF would be on my bucket list. Another peter in the mix is one too many for me, no thanks, I am out. My apologies to the rest of the MGTOW members. I would still enjoy f~~~ing women, though I don’t f~~~ at all anymore.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Tired Old Man wrote:

Another peter in the mix is one too many

It’s “one too many” for her, too. She definitely doesn’t deserve it. Both men could be doing something better with that time. Guaranteed.

If a woman wants even ONE dick, she’s going to have to make dinner.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[SolidParticipant 7520]

It’sallbs wrote:

If I was a gambling man, which I’m not, I’d bet £500,000 that she is seeing people without you.

I’m not the gambling man but, I bet a beer that she is !

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

Another guy in the situation would just lead to doing a DP

And, I’m sorry, but even if a woman is involved, I don’t play ball bumper cars with guys.

[Elric GreenstoneParticipant 1637]

It’sallbs wrote:

If I was a gambling man, which I’m not, I’d bet £500,000 that she is seeing people without you.

Bingo. Ding ding ding ding ding ding ding. OP . . . she’s not faithful. F~~~ing *guarantee* it. Also . . . just to point this out . . . ha . . . she’s mentioning a threesome with a dude because she’s already got the dude. She just wants both of you to worship her and get along. She’s building a f~~~ing harem. If she can pull off a MMF with her, perhaps she’ll go for the hat trick.

Anonymous wrote:

Threesomes, tensomes, how many you can you afford? Lets be Islamic and make them our untouchable exclusive property! We could trade them on the internet!

Now that I am older, I am half convinced that the Islamic reward for death during jihad (which includes the greater jihad, which is spiritual) really is 99 male virgins who are into dungeons and dragons and video games. Family Guy made fun of that concept. The older I get, the more I think it’s actually dead on. The virgins are all bros who are really into cool stuff. Forget women. Forget sex.

Tired Old Man wrote:

MFF would be on my bucket list.

No. Oh, dear G-d, no. *Two* women? No, no. No. Some square function of the chaos and drama. Not merely twice the malarkey. An exponential depth of s~~~. No, no, no. I am still in the market for a wife and children because my religion requires it. Luckily, the odds of my finding a wife to have children with, in my faith, at age 47 is basically *zero* (observant Jews marry *young*). If G-d drops this in front of me, I have no choice. At the least, I will be well-armed, and forewarned. Most rabbis look at me like I’m nuts when I tell them I am looking for a wife; I am obligated to be looking for a wife. I take comfort that, at this age, it is entirely in G-d’s hands. But two women? Two wives? Dear G-d, no. Why . . . why would you want two women in your life?

"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."

[AttonParticipant]

It honestly just sounds like a whole lot of risk for a few minutes of pleasure.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

Sky-O wrote:

Another guy in the situation would just lead to doing a DP

And, I’m sorry, but even if a woman is involved, I don’t play ball bumper cars with guys.

It’s not gay if there is a chick in the middle!

“With a honey in the middle there’s some leeway…”

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