The trap of beauty

[Anonymous 3]

I have notice in the last months my reactions to beautiful women.

I caught myself many times giving some value to them as better or more significant than others. However, thanks to red pill knowledge I quickly caught myself and remember AWALT. Many times I get a quick glimpse of the bad behaviour of these Harpies.

But the objective is understanding myself. Why do I react like this?

Just for the fun of it lets look at 2 pictures:

My interpretation is that we have a natural instinct to associate desirable qualities to an image.

It is easy to understand the mechanism. An animal will be repelled by something its bad for him (predators, poisonous animals, bad food, poor mating choices). Animals will be attracted to what is good for them (good food, safety and good mating opportunities).

So, what is attractive in women to a man?

Healthy – not obese, active and energetic.
Symmetry, smoothness – genetic perfection.
Confidence and entitlement – higher social value.

So these are the traps men have to be aware: there are instinctive drives designed for a moment of reproduction and have zero connection to long term relationships.

A logical and practical analysis will tell you that, in fact, nature is based in cunning behaviours and deception.

Plants will use bright colors to attract animals, so that they can transport seeds.
Some plants will attract animals based or their instinctive recognition of what is good, only to eat them!

(Remind you of something?)

Women will trap a man the same way.

They will go on diet and go to the gym, things that they hate, only to appear healthy and trap a man. Once they get one, they stop the effort and reveal their unhealthy nature that would never attract you.

They will fake symmetry and smoothness with paintings and cosmetic tricks. They are always careful at looking good for you until you are caught. Then they reveal their real self, that you might not be attracted to begin with.

They will put a social act to men and other women, to pretend they are more confident, professional, capable, valuable and wealthy, than they really are. Once they caught you, they force you to work to maintain and upgrade that image.

As my understanding progresses I get ever more free from reacting to these tras. I hope this helps others to do the same.

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

One of the most common and deadly mistakes we as males do is to assume that beauty equals good character.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[TuneoutParticipant]

Freeman_K wrote:

One of the most common and deadly mistakes we as males do is to assume that beauty equals good character.

Studies have shown this bias in companies hiring practices and Judges court decisions,and not only with females
but men as well.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Anonymous wrote:

But the objective is understanding myself. Why do I react like this?

Men are attracted to what they see. Visual stimulation “Turns On” men. Hence, the beauty industry. The above pictures you share of the “same” women are visually drastically different. If she enter her local night club as she appears “natural”, she will get little mangina attention, but if she leaves and re-enters as she appears in the other picture, manginas will be lining up.

Men are attracted to what we perceive as beauty. We are visual animals. That’s the way we are made.

Of course it’s a trap. Always has been, and always will be.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Well put. A true unicorn would combine true healthy and good looks with genuine virtues. But as we all know – we’ve a better chance of hitting the powerball twice than finding one.

[Nathan R. JessepParticipant 1102]

Anonymous wrote:

They will go on diet and go to the gym, things that they hate, only to appear healthy and trap a man. Once they get one, they stop the effort and reveal their unhealthy nature that would never attract you.

They will fake symmetry and smoothness with paintings and cosmetic tricks. They are always careful at looking good for you until you are caught. Then they reveal their real self, that you might not be attracted to begin with.

They will put a social act to men and other women, to pretend they are more confident, professional, capable, valuable and wealthy, than they really are. Once they caught you, they force you to work to maintain and upgrade that image.

You nailed it, Ghostdog.

Diet while they are trying to attract a man, use makeup to deceive their actual beauty, and fake confidence until they can hook you and live off yours.

Well f~~~ing done.

[Anonymous 54]

If we could get rid of eye liner the world would be a different place.

They just look like another dude with a hole in them.

[narwhalParticipant]

I’ve developed a habit at looking at a woman’s muscle tone to help gauge her actual beauty. She can wear makeup, where the right clothes, etc, but she cannot fake muscle tone. It isn’t exactly an indicator of real beauty, but it is definitely a sign that she is less fake then the others.

Ok. Then do it.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

narwhal wrote:

I’ve developed a habit at looking at a woman’s muscle tone to help gauge her actual beauty. She can wear makeup, where the right clothes, etc, but she cannot fake muscle tone. It isn’t exactly an indicator of real beauty, but it is definitely a sign that she is less fake then the others.

where do you look where it’s easiest to notice? can you notice it on a face?

I developed a habit where I’m consciously aware of the charming taking place and I try to replace the woman in sight with some unattractive woman with a two-pack-a-day voice before I react to anything.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Anonymous 54]

At this point the more beautiful they are,I just see it as the deadlier the poison in the trap.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Anonymous wrote:

At this point the more beautiful they are,I just see it as the deadlier the poison in the trap.

Words to live by if you’re still “dating”.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 54]

Awakened wrote:

Old Sage wrote:

At this point the more beautiful they are,I just see it as the deadlier the poison in the trap.

Words to live by if you’re still “dating”.

Im lucky cause Im done with it. Paid my dues. But you poor younger guys…Man just be careful Brothers!!!

[narwhalParticipant]

Russky wrote:

where do you look where it’s easiest to notice? can you notice it on a face?

Usually her biceps and then her thighs, if either are visible. Of course, that doesn’t work in colder weather. Sometimes in clothes, you can get a pretty good idea that there is no muscle there.

In the picture above, she has no trapezius muscles whatsoever. Really nothing but skin and bone there. I wouldn’t say that’s definitive

You can get some clues by how she moves sometimes.

Russky wrote:

I developed a habit where I’m consciously aware of the charming taking place and I try to replace the woman in sight with some unattractive woman with a two-pack-a-day voice before I react to anything.

That works too.

Ok. Then do it.

[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

narwhal wrote:

where do you look where it’s easiest to notice? can you notice it on a face?

I listen real hard when there is the slightest breeze. If I hear a whistle like blowing over a beer bottle, I’m gone.

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

[ZoidbergParticipant 965]

Okay, I give up, where is the beauty in the first image the OP posted?

[Anonymous 54]

Chaff/Flare wrote:

narwhal wrote:

where do you look where it’s easiest to notice? can you notice it on a face?

I listen real hard when there is the slightest breeze. If I hear a whistle like blowing over a beer bottle, I’m gone.

Dude you need to be in LA writeing for some one!

[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

Anonymous wrote:

have notice in the last months my reactions to beautiful women.
I caught myself many times giving some value to them as better or more significant than others. However, thanks to red pill knowledge I quickly caught myself and remember AWALT. Many times I get a quick glimpse of the bad behaviour of these Harpies.
But the objective is understanding myself. Why do I react like this?
Just for the fun of it lets look at 2 pictures:

I just realized Ive been banging hantai.

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

[joetechParticipant]

We always hear that men are visual. Bulls~~~…women are visual. They spend their time in the bathroom checking their hair & makeup and then ask each other how they look. We all know that if a guy sees a woman with big t~~~ he’ll notice the boobage…and that’s it. Another woman will look at the same woman and think, “Hmmph! Did you see the purse she was wearing with those shoes?” And we’re like…”Purse? Shoes? Was she wearing shoes?”

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

joetech wrote:

We always hear that men are visual. Bulls~~~…women are visual. They spend their time in the bathroom checking their hair & makeup and then ask each other how they look. We all know that if a guy sees a woman with big t~~~ he’ll notice the boobage…and that’s it. Another woman will look at the same woman and think, “Hmmph! Did you see the purse she was wearing with those shoes?” And we’re like…”Purse? Shoes? Was she wearing shoes?”

Great observation. Didn’t think of that.
Men are not more visual, but they more easily fall prey to the charms…but that’s also debatable I guess – not sure of anything at this point

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Anonymous 3]

Zoidberg wrote:

Okay, I give up, where is the beauty in the first image the OP posted?

The beauty is that its the same girl, before and aftermake up.

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