The Toxic gift that just keeps giving

[Anonymous 0]

Hi guys. I just want to off load a worry I have. I hope you don’t mind. It just helps. Not sure what section to put it in.
For those who have not read my intro, I am not actually ‘parasite free’, I have a nasty malignant growth in the shape of a c~~~.
Anyway she is a sociopath. Funny how the checklist used to diagnose sociopaths explains most women, but that’s another story.
Anyway of late when my children are with me they have been refusing to eat my food. I finally got it out of the older one who is five ‘mummy says your food is going to give me cancer’. hmmm….ok. And when Ive been putting stuff in my daughters hair to make it easier to brush she says ‘mummy says this spray is going to give me cancer’ ‘but sweetheart, mummy doesn’t even know what I put in your hair’. ‘Yes she does because I showed her when we went shopping.’
The children would enjoy a cup of warm milk before bed then suddenly didn’t want it anymore. After a few weeks the oldest one again said ‘mummy says milk will make me sick’. I then give spiel about how healthy milk is and she says’ its only the milk here (at my place) that’s bad.
The last time I got my kids, the older one was very sick when I got her. I took her to the doctors and she was given antibiotics for a throat infection and a urine sample was taken for a bladder infection.
I had to take the kids back 2 days after starting antibiotics. I went to the school yesterday to help with guided reading. My daughter was sitting there crying looing like s~~~. She had been away from school for 2 days and when I asked if her mother had been giving her the antibiotics, she said ‘no, mummy says antibiotics will stain my teeth’. I asked her if she had been given any other medication like paracetamol-she said ‘no’.
I left and went straight to the chemist and bought some medication to at least make her day at school feel better.
I went back to the doctors tonight to get the results of the urine sample. She has a bladder infection too.
I am supposed to get the children tomorrow for the weekend but I’m worried the c~~~ is going to try and say that my daughter doesn’t want to come, and actually withhold her. The c~~~ knows I will give her antibiotics and take her to the doctor. The c~~~ wont immunise them and the family court has taken all my parental power away and my children’s protection from this crazy c~~~.
I’m scared of the family court. No one would believe me and they wouldn’t care if they did believe me.
Sorry about the rant.

[Maraudrz1Participant 2250]

Thanks goodness I never had children.

Women's brains and vagina have one thing in common. There is nothing in there until a man puts something in there.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I have a nasty malignant growth in the shape of a c~~~.

Nice. I plan on using that one frequently.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[GreekDragoonParticipant 460]

Can you get CPS involved? Or a Child protection non profit organization?

This isn’t just the c~~~ being a c~~~, its the c~~~ actually jeopardizing the children’s well being.

[Anonymous 0]

The way that I’ve been treated by the people within the court and the incompetence of the child protection agency I’ve got no chance. Psychological abuse is not illegal and its only ‘hearsay; One court c~~~s analysis of the abusive c~~~-with evidence of her threatening to kill the children and with an assault charge against her was to state- ‘the examples of domestic violence given seem to be indicative of normal marital conflict’. NO s~~~ I’m scared of going anywhere expecting help.

[narwhalParticipant]

This sounds extremely serious to me. I highly recommend you start recording everything you can as evidence that your ex is not properly caring for your children and you have a legitimate, legal concern for their safety.

If you don’t have a lawyer, I’d get one. I’d also look into child protective services, or whatever child advocacy is available. Since you volunteer at the school, and they are aware of the medical issues, you may want to consider enlisting your help. The government puts women ahead of you, but if a woman starts messing with the health of a child, the government will turn on the woman.

Also, you seem like a smart guy, while she only has manipulation. I imagine if you let her know that you are not playing nice any more. You are recording every conversation between the two of you, and everything the kids tell you about her care of the kids and bad mouthing you…that’ll scare the crap out of her. Absolutely make sure that you do not get emotional with her at any point. That can only be used against you.

Ok. Then do it.

[Anonymous 0]

I always like to be one step ahead so I rang the cops today to see what they could do if she withholds. They aren’t interested. Although when I explained about the sickness, they said they could do a care-check. If this needs to happen, I will go and hope their presence will be enough to back down. The cops don’t cant or wont force her to hand the kids over though. I would need to spend lawyer money whilst Papa Gov funds her.

[Anonymous 0]

narwhal wrote:

This sounds extremely serious to me. I highly recommend you start recording everything you can as evidence that your ex is not properly caring for your children and you have a legitimate, legal concern for their safety.

I been covertly filming for months. The police advised me to. There is more detail in my intro. Last changeover was show to behold. It took her 15 minutes to get the kids out of the car. Her and her boyfriend stood there smoking. I just sat down in my garden and waited. She was saying snidely ‘why don’t the children want to come to your house? What do you think the problem is? Said in a manner that was blaming me.
I’ve had to pledge solemnly to my daughter that I would never say anything to her mother about what she tells me. Another fear my daughter had been talking about for weeks and weeks now is that her mother has said that my house is going to be carried away in a flood.
So I could have said to the c~~~ ‘well maybe they don’t want to come because they don’t want to die of cancer or drown in a flood you f~~~ing C~~~. But if I say anything, it feeds her narcissistic supply and she will do more of it plus my daughter will cop it. She is scared of her a bit but also under her spell. My kids a are still very young.

[GreekDragoonParticipant 460]

It may be surprising for me to say it but the worse enemy of a woman is an other woman.

Get what you have and find either a female lawyer who is known to be ‘somewhat neutral’ or a female agent of the CPS. Women hate women and love nothing more that to beat down the ones they deem are beneath them.

A woman endangering the life of their child in such a way?

Its worth a shot I believe.

[Anonymous 0]

GreekDragoon wrote:

Women hate women and love nothing more that to beat down the ones they deem are beneath them

I agree with you however at the moment I am completely spent. I’m done. Though as I mentioned I am still trying to stay one step ahead. I’m collating evidence. I’ve told doctors, teachers, psychologists and other child-notifiers. I’ve even made a call today about going somewhere to get help in representing myself. You see my c~~~ withheld my kids, lied multiple times in legal documents with evidence to support this fact, admitted to child-neglect and she was rewarded for her bad behaviour. So she has no fear of the legal system. I know she wants to continue f~~~ing me over. She wont stop. So I’m thinking I may as well at least investigate the next road I will need to go down. I will just bumble along representing myself. At the same time telling the court what f~~~wits they are. I feel she is going to say that I am abusing the children and that’s why they ‘don’t want to come’. Hopefully I’m just being paranoid but many men here have probably copped this one for real so I should be ready for it.

[Anonymous 42]

Sometimes mothers envy their daughters to death.

Your daughter’s life is in danger if infections are not monitored and especially if antibiotics are not used properly, the infection has time to become immune and start to resist the antibiotic that was prescribed to kill it.

The mother of your children is a deranged and incompetent fool. Her hamster wheel has a bent axle and broken struts.

[Anonymous 0]

Anonymous wrote:

The mother of your children is a deranged and incompetent fool. Her hamster wheel has a bent axle and broken struts.

Oh yes. The stories I can tell. And they keep on coming. Once she picked a fight with a pregnant woman at a children’s playground. I was mortified.
Sociopaths have an ability to suck people in. I got suckered badly. She is one sick pussy. I have never fantasised about killing someone until now. I think I actually would if I knew I could get away with it.
Its been a great lesson just to learn to ignore her. I never even look at her when the kids a are changed over. She hates it.

[WallyParticipant]

Amazing she can say everything you do for the kids causes cancer, yet she will sit there smoking her cigs with with her boyfriend. I wish I had advice for you except to document everything.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Jesus f~~~ing CHRIST what a C~~~!

Doesn’t matter if her kids die, as long as it makes YOU suffer.

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[HitmanParticipant]

listen brother,
my kid had a few infections that went untreated by the mother until i intervened.
when the kids are with you , do what you can to give them good foods and bring them to the doctor as much as needed.
a lawyer can get the medical records and your videos should include the kids making those statements.
i wish you the best of luck ..
don’t give up ..
it’s tiring and stressful but the kids need you.
stock up on gummies with vit.c in them ..
the kids can eat all they want and its good for them.
get gummie multi vits. and give them as well.
boiled eggs or egg salad,
smoked salmon
whatever super nutrition you can get into them helps..
make smoothies and try to put healthy ingedients in that they won’t taste.
mask it with ice cream and blend them up a super drink.
don’t give up my friend..
what she’s doing is called maniplulation of the children against you.
it’s against the law..
record all you can and get a lawyer quickly..

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3726]

Anonymous wrote:

NO s~~~ I’m scared of going anywhere expecting help.

Still don’t give up. As long as you are clean and trying to do right, I would think all they could do is say no. Make sure you document that by the way.

GreekDragoon wrote:

Get what you have and find either a female lawyer who is known to be ‘somewhat neutral’ or a female agent of the CPS. Women hate women and love nothing more that to beat down the ones they deem are beneath them.

Normally I would advise STRONGLY against a female lawyer, but it sounds like you live in the UK, and things are stacked so badly against fathers there that the female lawyer/advocate/social worker might be a good idea. I just don’t know because I don’t live there.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[Anonymous 0]

Wally wrote:

Amazing she can say everything you do for the kids causes cancer, yet she will sit there smoking her cigs with with her boyfriend.

Yes she is very self-righteous about knowing everything, in fact she thinks she is as good as a medical doctor. She sucked me in by pretending to do a medical science degree but she never completed first semester over a three year period. Anyway, she smoked heavily during the 2 pregnancies with my children, and she has a slightly older child she did the same with.

Hitman wrote:

listen brother,
my kid had a few infections that went untreated by the mother until i intervened.
when the kids are with you , do what you can to give them good foods and bring them to the doctor as much as needed.
a lawyer can get the medical records and your videos should include the kids making those statements.

Thank you Hitman. Yes I will take your advice and try to get video of the children saying these things to me.

Hitman wrote:

don’t give up my friend..

Hitman wrote:

Still don’t give up

Thank you guys. I think you understand I am spent. But on the flip side my energy for my children is (I Hope) limitless. Just sharing my worries and getting acknowledgement and advice from you guys here really helps. I’ve been having bad anxiety all week because of this and today is changeover day and as usual my anxiety is naturally through the roof. I’m going to call the school to see if my daughter is there today. I really hope so because I do not want to have to try and negotiate anything different with the c~~~. My daughter is sick though, and she is not given any med relief of any kind. Although that didn’t stop her sending her to school Wednesday.

[Anonymous 0]

Biggvs_Dickvs wrote:

Still don’t give up

Thanks mate, The support from you and others here actually helps.

Biggvs_Dickvs wrote:

but it sounds like you live in the UK, and things are stacked so badly against fathers there that the female lawyer/advocate/social worker might be a good idea. I just don’t know because I don’t live there.

I live in Australia but I did live in the UK for a few years. Things are pretty bad here. I had week about 50/50 since my youngest was 7 months old for 3 and 1/2 years. I’m a primary school teacher. It meant s~~~!
I told the court about a time when our youngest was 10 weeks old. The mother had a serious gastro attack. She was evacuating both ends for about 4 hours then made it to the sofa and groaned for the rest of the day and night. I, of course, looked after everything, including her. The following week we were about to leave on a family day out and I started feeling ill and very quickly started vomiting and s~~~ting. I knew I had the same thing she had and I was gonna be f~~~ed for the day. I was actually apologising (blue pill zombie) for being sick as it meant she was going to have to either not go, or take three kids including an 11 week old baby, all by herself. She said ‘I’m still going, I’m leaving the baby here’. I wont go into much more detail now, but just imagine how I felt.
Anyway, she admitted this in an affidavit. One ‘family court consultant ignored it, and another said ‘maybe she didn’t want to disappoint the other children.’ Can you see why I’m feeling hopeless?

[Anonymous 0]

I have done quite a bit of arm-chair research on sociopaths since finding out what was wrong with her. I also have a working model for real-life demonstration. Anyway I came across this when I was in the middle of my quest for knowledge. My ‘spath’, I feel, is in the low 30’s (and that’s being a little bit lenient and erring on the side of caution). http://www.minddisorders.com/Flu-Inv/Hare-Psychopathy-Checklist.html
Anyway the other day I looked at this again and posted it on another forum here. Recently I have been educating myself with red-pill glasses on. When I read this Psychopathy check list now, I see it matches female behaviour very closely. I suppose it has to match Human behaviour in general anyway.

[Anonymous 0]

Anyway just got back from the school run. Spath was there with her boyfriend standing over the whole thing. She actually doesn’t even need to be there because she isn’t picking up my daughter. She enjoys the ‘show’. She had a bag of lollies and was using them as a trainer would fish to a seal.
So I have my daughter and she was relieved when I explained that the doctor had found out the reason for her discomfort in urinating, which has been bothering her for ages. I have told the mutha about this before. Anyway she’s on the antibiotics.
I have two question maybe someone here can help with. The spath is sayin that antibiotics stain teeth in children. Some arm-chair research by me has found some information about this. Instead of going to some c~~~-forum, has anybosy here got any experience in this?
Also, I’m thinking of giving my daughter the antibiotics until Monday afternoon (I will go into school and give her some at around 2:30 pm as I am not working) I have to send my kids back to the monster Monday. I cant do this Tuesday. I get them Thursday night for the night. My question is, should I just keep the antibiotics and give them to her again Thursday night and Friday, rather than having the monster flush them?

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