The moment men knew the marriage is over.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

Isn’t it weird there is always ONE “moment” where a guy knows “she’s done”?
Its’ either she’s all there, or she’s done.

Too true.

First ex wife, was a look of sheer terror in her eyes when I came home a day earlier than expected from the field. Less than 6 months later we were separated and waiting on the divorce. I found out later that she cheated every time I deployed. Nearly 2 years later the divorce was granted when she was 8 months pregnant with a known drug dealers kid. The judge even asked her if she wanted child support from me for it.

Second ex wife was the day after the wedding, she told a neighbor “now I own that c~~~-sucker”, (she was pregnant with my daughter). 18 months later I had sole custody, and the egg donor was gone.

Sometimes when a man seems oblivious, it is not really the case. 🙂

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

Grumpy wrote:

I found out later that she cheated every time I deployed. Nearly 2 years later the divorce was granted when she was 8 months pregnant with a known drug dealers kid. The judge even asked her if she wanted child support from me for it.

Grumpy, brother!

WTF has a fellow brother-in-arms have to endure for a t~~~? I mean, she CHEATED on you, and the c~~~-sucker, pussy whipped, son-of-a-bitch judge DARE to ask her if she wanted child support for a kid THAT WAS NOT YOURS?

WTF? Justice is not justice anymore. You can call US Justice System as US C~~~ System.

This is just so f~~~ed up, brother. Damn.

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

I_Walk_Alone wrote:

Number 3 though. Many of us have had that epiphany!

That was a MGTOW moment. 2 sticks with me though:
2. “I knew it was over when I got home from another long day at work and my kids told me that mommy took them out to Burger King to eat and told them they were moving to Canada and Daddy wasn’t going with them.” — C.D.

Ya think the marriage was over that that point? Wow, what does it say about American culture where you use a Burger King to break news like that to your kids?

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[dawson1Participant 138]

I knew it was over when I came downstairs to the media room and found her chatting with someone online. I kinda snuck up behind her and was gonna kiss her on the neck. I could see what she was typing (pretty graffic) and my blood pressure went thru the roof. I grabbed the brand new computer smashed it on the fireplace, and her response was….”what? I can’t have friends?” “So…. you f~~~ your friends ?”Did I mention it was my birthday? Lol, .after a few expletives…..I packed my s~~~…jumped in my little beater car and hauled ass. I was determined to simplify my life at that point. Turns out this guy was just released from jail on fraud charges and she had been seeing him for quite sometime. He beat the s~~~ out of her a few months later. I may have spoken to her 1 time since that night 4 years ago. Her son on the other hand, is mine in his eyes and mine. He has very little to do with her now.

[ironheartParticipant 942]

From the minute she tries to change you, and succeeds……….the marriage or the relationship is usually over. When you change for her, she does not see you as cooperative or agreeable, but as someone who is weak. Showing weakness to a woman is like showing fear to a dog; neither will treat you the same again afterwards.

From the minute your income stops. I have had five long-term relationships where within two weeks of being laid off from work or losing my job, she left me.

At the moment when she realizes she has all that should make her happy – a loving mate, kids, house, career, and family. Women cannot accept a state of comfort, which is why they will start attacking you as a man when you try to do anything that makes you feel comfort. Such women live for the chaos they create, and seek to destroy whatever is required in order to keep from achieving that state of grace. You are just an actor on her twisted stage.

The instance you succeed in fixing her – be it mental health issues, addiction, or self-destruction – she will leave you. You no longer feed her dysfunctional thought patterns.

All just more proof why women can never be equal to men. They are very few that are stable enough or analytical enough to be proper functioning mature humans. Even those few good ones are contaminated with the same social brainwashing, and it turns up at times. Sufferable, but still annoying.

Pathetic that women have so successfully destroyed the whole concept of a happy marriage, but the majority of times it really is all on them. If they cannot handle happiness, they cannot handle a real marriage.

"Women have become so full of hatred that they are blind to reason and humanity. That which they practice will be the end of humanity, long before any war that men may fight.." "Women are predators by nature. Why else do you think they are so quick to gang up and go after a man they hate for showing any sign of weakness?"

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