The friend zone.

[Anonymous 1]

This curious definition came out in 1994(or at least wikipedia says so), during the show “friends”. As a kid I used to watch the show, here is a definition: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Friend_zone

How does that happen? well, after taking in consideration my cases and the ones of other people that I know, I am quite sure that it is all due to the bluepill.

You start off believing that women like good guys, nice guys, and guys that will treat them in a fair way. So that is how you behave, you treat a girl just like you would treat your best friend(big mistake), with the difference that you don’t want to f~~~ any of your friends. The bluepilled believes that women reason like men, and that friendship is just a step in a relationship with a woman, and that is completely wrong. A woman who wants you to be her friend simply do not want to f~~~ with you, she is not attracted to you. Harsh truth, but when you are man enough you can just accept how things are.

Hey Math, how come that I have f~~~ed with a girl who once was a friend?
Life change, we change, and a girl may see you as an unattractive male one day, and attractive after maybe months or years, if you change yourself(can come from all the things that make you more atractive).

Anyway, girls remember how you behave towards them, and when they understand that you are a bluepilled moron, they will less likely transform your relations~~~ into something sexual(unless they want to marry you).

If you have any self esteem, get out of the f~~~ing friend zone, get out from the toxic relations where people are using you and giving NOTHING back.

And, I forgot, she will make fun of you, and crush any of your desires right away with “I just want us to be friends”.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

And, I forgot, she will make fun of you, and crush any of your desires right away with “I just want us to be friends”.

When you see the word JUST and FRIENDS in the same sentence it tells you everything you need to know. That means (in her mind) that you want to have sex with her but she doesn’t want to have sex with you. A friend is a friend, period. But “just” implies sex, or specifically a lack of desire for sex on one person’s part. Hers.

When you think about it, it’s really f~~~ing insulting. My friends mean the world to me. I would never say they are “just” a friend. A real friend is one of the hardest things to find, next to a mythical unicorn. They should be celebrated not diminished with the word “just”.

I just want us to be friends
Just? What are you talking about? How disposable ARE people to you? F~~~ you, I wouldn’t be friends with you in a million years if that’s how you feel about friends.

Order the good wine

[pabsawakeParticipant 1761]

No such thing as a female friend imho. I thought I had one in high school the so called “friendship” lasted into my early 30’s.

As soon as my ex wife kicked me to the curb she took the ex wife side.

I knew this female since I was 13 f~~~en years old!

She knew my then wife for only 5.

Any woman that hangs around a man is looking to extract something from him, even if he’s gay.

"You can either love women or understand them, you can't do both". Truth over everything

[LookAfter#1Participant 352]

The “friend zone” is nothing but selfish manipulation.
She only wants to know us guys when she wants something. The rest of the time she couldn’t care less about our feelings.
She wants a lift home from work or someone to talk to, on a night out. But as soon as you’ve feelings for her, she soon distances herself.

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant 1719]

Here is my opinion about being friend zoned. The women basically want all the privileges(that she wants you to help you whenever she needs you for something), without any of the responsibility(owing you back by giving you what you want from the relationship so that she can do her end of the deal). She is basically teasing you by putting a carrot in front of you that you are trying to chase for but will not actually reach, even after going through hoops(doing whatever she wants you to do) to try to get to it. This type of relationship is not even real and it can even put you in a state of depression, because it would actually put you in a bad state of mind in being in such a relationship such as a friend zone relationship, where the woman is basically teasing you to do things for her, but she does not actually deliver in her end. The girl is basically taking and not giving, when all good relationships in general have a guideline to be a give and take relationship on both sides.

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

The “friend zone” means that she can keep men around to satisfy her “male emotional needs”, but without any form of physical commitment which gives the lil besty the freedom to ride the c~~~ carousel.

Women don’t make men good friends !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 6]

Although I respect all of our opinions and experiences. I have to disagree, as a friend to at least half a dozen great looking girls, I have had sex with every one of them. Now take what you want from this, yes, to me, being a friend to a women is correlated with their level of attractiveness lol..but I’ll stay friends, sometimes they have interesting advice and perspectives, and I f~~~ them all now and then, so perhaps opposed to many views and experiences, the friend zone is EXACTLY where I love to be.

The friend zone is what you make it.

[Anonymous 11]

Women can’t even be friends among themselves. You will never get past the friendzone. Like the OP said, it’s the bitter truth so accept it.

You will be dropped like a hot rock as soon as a Chad or a fat wallet enters her life which is the part that really gets me. She’ll completely forget you. Friends don’t pull crap like that.

There are a few women I’m friendly with but have zero expectations from them in all aspects.

@Dolla_DD: You’re not the in friendzone brother but the FWB zone! 😉 Be careful….

[RennieParticipant]

Yeah, the friend zone sucks. Don’t let them keep you in their virtual prison.

Haven’t been in the FZ in 10 years and I don’t intend to ever go back.

[pabsawakeParticipant 1761]

To Doll, with all due respect watch yourself! At any given moment these cupcakes can turn on you and make your life a living hell.

A dog that bites is a dog that bites

"You can either love women or understand them, you can't do both". Truth over everything

[Anonymous 1]

Anonymous wrote:

Although I respect all of our opinions and experiences. I have to disagree, as a friend to at least half a dozen great looking girls, I have had sex with every one of them. Now take what you want from this, yes, to me, being a friend to a women is correlated with their level of attractiveness lol..but I’ll stay friends, sometimes they have interesting advice and perspectives, and I f~~~ them all now and then, so perhaps opposed to many views and experiences, the friend zone is EXACTLY where I love to be.

The friend zone is what you make it.

Well, they do not see you as a friend, they see you as a Chad(and they like to keep you in that place, if you are willing to test my words try to change towards them, try to avoid sex, or to ask for commitment, you’ll see them running or attacking you). I would not be surprised if any of your female “friends” have a boyfriend or an husband, being cucked, and probably knowing nothing about this.

The situation that I wrote about is when you are in a spot where you do not want to be, in your case that spot is occupied by the boyfriends/husbands, while you are taking all the fun part.

You are free to play your games and f~~~ ’em all(you go your own way), but just be careful brother, each single female that you f~~~ is another risk in your life.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Anonymous wrote:

If you have any self esteem, get out of the f~~~ing friend zone, get out from the toxic relations where people are using you and giving NOTHING back.

Math,

You nailed it.
If you have any self respect, self esteem or self worth get out of the “friend zone” right now.

Men who stay in the friend zone are delusional. Staying in the friend zone sends a message that you have little self worth. It’s like an invitation to walk all over you.

“Friend zone” = door mat

[Anonymous 11]

Dolla, you ought to do like my main Chad friend does. He eventually lets them all know about each other then the c~~~s start attacking each other over him.

Too much drama for me, but his c~~~ wars stories are funny as hell.

[Jim01Participant 6678]

great thread – nodding in agreement as I was reading all the posts

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Anonymous wrote:

I have to disagree, as a friend to at least half a dozen great looking girls, I have had sex with every one of them.

You were not friend zoned. These “girls” made you a friend with benefits. The DIFFERENCE is obvious.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[LookAfter#1Participant 352]

TaxGuy wrote:

When you think about it, it’s really f~~~ing insulting.

How disposable ARE people to you?

True. I do find it insulting that one woman only wanted me when nobody else was there. To be honest she was real nice spending time together …But… Then when she’s with her girlfriend (or even another guy!?!?) she couldn’t care less about me. Its like she’s a different person, a spit personality. I was discarded on the rubbish pile.
What hurts me the most, is this was no accident… She knows what she’s doing. I message her about it and she acts the victim.

[Anonymous 6]

I guess I just equate the friend zone with the FWB zone..because I would never be friends with a girl if I wasn’t f~~~ing them once in a while. I’ve done this for over 10 years with some girl “friends” of mine, no issues, you have to be MGTOW in order to do it properly, and understand the dynamics, not a move a blue-piller or rookie red-piller should attempt, as they are sure to catch feelings and melt into a pile of blue jelly.

I’m surprised any guy would be friends with a girl for just that..then again, I’m surprised at basically the manginaness of most guys these days..thank god for MGTOW.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

I’ve been used this way by more women than I can c~~~… oops meant count (Freudian slip).
Looking back, excepting for one woman (not an American – surprise surprise) I should have told them all to take a hike.
The bad boys, chads and rich dudes were what they wanted – I was just a sounding board. NEVER again. Ive grown a pair of giant MGTOW b~~~~ and those b~~~~ won’t take s~~~ from these cupcakes.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Anonymous wrote:

I’ve done this for over 10 years with some girl “friends” of mine, no issues, you have to be MGTOW in order to do it properly, and understand the dynamics, not a move a blue-piller or rookie red-piller should attempt, as they are sure to catch feelings and melt into a pile of blue jelly

You sound more like a CHAD then a MGTOW. Just saying….

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

The only reason why two men who are friends don’t have sex is that they’re heterosexuals.

I repeat

The only reason why two men who are friends don’t have sex is that they’re heterosexuals.

That’s why

Friendship without sex with an heterosexual or bisexual girl is not a thing.
It cannot be.

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