The Coffee Date

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

MATRIX wrote:

I’ve eaten out alone lately.
It does take getting use to, but oh man, it’s bliss when you’re not trying to impress some fake bitch.
I’ll eat and people watch.
I’ll enjoy the food for myself and only pay for myself.
Peace Bro.

I do this ALL THE TIME!
Do you know the level of self-confidence you exude when dining alone??

I have had women “bump into me” as they seen me leave for the restroom; they tell their BETA they are going to get bread.
I just smile and enjoy my meal!
It gets even better when I bring along a favorite bottle of wine.

I rotate about 4-5 favorites ,But I NEVER bring a casual date to ANY of these places.(I don’t want a bad casual date to ruin the social relationship I have made with the staff.) A bar/pub is different: I know the bartenders/barmaids and always tip them well. Doesn’t matter who I bring there, as I am always queried by staff the next time I come (lol).

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Daryll55 wrote:

Do you know the level of self-confidence you exude when dining alone??

Never thought of it that way. Since my best bud moved out of state, Ive been solo for months…always felt awkward dining alone but now that you mention it, I do get the eye from a few gals (fattie waitresses lol)

I love when a place knows you so well, after going there several years. I go to these places at lunch that are absoluetly slammed with a crowd. They know what I want already, I sit, its placed infront of me with the check already bc they already know Im ready to pay and leave. I eat fast like in the Corps and Im out of there in 15-20 mins tops! Other diner guests are there for an hour. Im treated well because I TIP well and Im easy to deal with and agreeable

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

Coffee date, oof, so cold and impersonal. Nah, I do apps and drinks. Why, because then 50% are DTF on the first date. Girls decide within the first 15 minutes whether they truly want to f~~~ you, some booze and schmooze with the happy hormones from fatty Chinese food just gets you there quicker.

Sovereignty above all else.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

booze and schmooze with the happy hormones from fatty Chinese food just gets you there quicker.

I couldn’t agree more. Liquor is the trick. I have once tried to pick up girls in a coffee house. There’s nothing like liquid speed to make girls extra annoyed and annoying. Bars are a good place to meet bar girls.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[Sky-OParticipant 18934]

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

the happy hormones from fatty Chinese food

And guaranteed not to result in anal.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Puffin Stuff wrote:

I gave this some thought and it occurred to me that coffee at a diner is not a date at all but an interview.

If you don’t want the job. why do the interview?

So use it as an opportunity to interview her instead. They hate that.

An interview for a date.

Don’t date.

She sent me back a message indicating she was much annoyed by my message and didn’t “know what I meant” when I said interview for a date.

Tell her that is not your problem. Then tell her that in your age range eligible women outnumber eligible men by about six to one. And that’s her problem.

[Vajra VarahaParticipant 1283]

Put a GPS on her car and find out how many other Sugar Daddy’s she has……..

bstoff wrote:

i think he is saying he enjoys the “dinner” dates rather than meeting for coffee because he likes nice dinners, himself.
From what I gather about their complex dating rituals, she’s dragging things out and making him commit a lot of himself before she bothers to show for an actual “date”.

I am in my early-mid 50’s and, at this point, I absolutely can never see myself even considering any woman over the age of 30, if any woman at all.
And that woman has to be good looking with no attitude, issues, kids or baggage.
This pretty much prevents me from ever “dating” again.
This is fine with me, though.
I resolved to stop wasting my time and resources having relations~~~s since I started one with a single mom about 7 years ago. All of the red flags were present shortly after she moved in and I was just waiting to make a safe exit after that.

I then accidentally began seeing a well-adjusted lady in her early 20’s and she is untarnished/undamaged from any previous relations~~~s, so we are sticking together.
She also knows that I’ve gone my own way and am only making an exception for her because she is as close to a unicorn as is possible.
When this relationship sours, I’m done.

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