That ONE ex-girlfriend…

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

It’s a trap, I wouldn’t even bother responding. The best times are behind her. Her intention is to do as little as possible and make you pay as much as possible. Don’t believe me? Go on a dating site and read the walls of demands from single mothers.

Seriously bro if you’re horny either jack off to porn or go f~~~ an escort to create new memories.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[I am SpartacusParticipant 164]

Past the sex, what can she offer you……?

"I am Spartacus!", said Spartacus.................and everyone around him.

[Anonymous 6]

I am Spartacus wrote:

Past the sex, what can she offer you……?

Hell even that isn’t even worth a mention. Dude’s already been there and done that. Heck even if she were offering butt stuff it still wouldn’t be worth it. Hell she’s already over the hill and ragged out as it is.

[JVBParticipant]

Bail !!

Peace is > piece.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Let a pro school you::

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[The DealParticipant 236]

The ex I had been the craziest for contacted me after almost 20 years. She apologized for treating me like crap and said she loved me. I was a little tempted. Then she told me she had a torrid affair on the guy she married after she dumped me. That ended in divorce. She was currently divorcing a second husband. Guess I was the third string. As a side note, she had tried to f~~~ my best friend while she and I were together. After that conversation, I was no longer tempted in the slightest, felt some closure with her I had never gotten, and felt lucky as hell that I had not married her. Of course I married a different AWALT so oh well.

My advice would be to seek that closure you never got and don’t move backwards.

[MonkParticipant 16995]

Doctor Grim wrote:

Met her at 18. F~~~ed like Bunnies.

So she’s a whore.

Tons of fun.

Lot’s of other guys thought so, too.

Met her several times through my 20s: We ended up in the sack every time and dated for a few weeks/months.

Likes to keep a stable.

I am 40 now, she is my age.

So she rode the carousel and has now hit the wall.

She just contacted me through messenger. She has a kid, 9 years old. The dad’s not involved. She is on welfare …

Nice of her to let you know that you are the bottom of the barrel.

… but has a well-off family that makes sure she is “ok” financially.

But who consider her a liability and keep her at arms length.

What to do? Writing this, I already have my answer: No. No. Run away. Still, I kind of want to.

If you screw her again, she will screw you, one last time.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

All the ex wanted from me, was revenge. She was nice and her prime when she was 20, when she was 28 lost the looks and became a selfish c~~~.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

Whatever you do just be careful.

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

[Anonymous 1]

Anonymous wrote:

So let me see if I’ve got this right. A chick who you banged when she was in her prime, who is now middle aged, has another man’s kid, doesn’t work, is in bad health, mooches off of her family, mooches off of the government, contacts you and want’s to hook up, distant ex-husband who was probably abusive, and you are tempted.

Ummmmm, did I miss something? I don’t understand what exactly is tempting you.

pussy

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Doctor Grim wrote:

I am tempted, but hesitant. Basically, the story goes like this

– Met her at 18. F~~~ed like Bunnies. I dumped her after 7-8 months because of… I dont know. I shouldn’t have. She was at least a 9/10 looks-wise, with a great personality. Tons of fun.

– Met her several times through my 20s: We ended up in the sack every time and dated for a few weeks/months. It’s one of those: Can’t be a couple, but we like to f~~~ things. Can’t be friends either, because we always end up in the sack.

I am 40 now, she is my age. She just contacted me through messenger. We’ve met twice now and the chemistry is still there. She has a kid, 9 years old. The dad’s not involved. She is on welfare for health reasons, but has a well-off family that makes sure she is “ok” financially. What to do?

Writing this, I already have my answer: No. No. Run away. Still, I kind of want to. But, I will not.

Anyone else have doubts every now and then?

Don’t pick up another man’s save game. You have no idea what decisions led to that game save being where it’s at. Start your own fresh game where you’re in control of the destiny of your own character and not making decisions based on someone else’s choices.

[narwhalParticipant]

Well, you can’t go to her place or meet her kid. Way too much risk there. You can’t invite her to your place as she’s a DV accusation risk. That mean’s you could only meet at a hotel. You can’t trust her not to try to get pregnant, so you need to be wrapped or shooting blanks. I wouldn’t trust her not to have an STD unless she provides recent test results.

So, I’d tell her that you’re game if she can agree to pay for half a hotel room, brings test results and condoms, then it’s a possibility.

edit: I should add that I too am a little bit hooked on an ex. Not GF, just had a couple dates a couple years back. I don’t really want much other than to get drunk with her and have sex….because it was a lot of fun. She was looking for more though. Too bad.

Ok. Then do it.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

narwhal wrote:

Well, you can’t go to her place or meet her kid. Way too much risk there. You can’t invite her to your place as she’s a DV accusation risk. That mean’s you could only meet at a hotel. You can’t trust her not to try to get pregnant, so you need to be wrapped or shooting blanks. I wouldn’t trust her not to have an STD unless she provides recent test results.

So, I’d tell her that you’re game if she can agree to pay for half a hotel room, brings test results and condoms, then it’s a possibility.

Probably not worth all the hassle.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

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