Thank you guys so much for the help, but another one bites the dust.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Hi guys,

A while back I posted a topic asking for advice for my Nephew:

/forums/topic/please-help-need-unmarriage-advice-for-my-nephew/

I haven’t had a chance to talk to him since then, and I was waiting to see how things shook out before I passed on your advice. Unfortunately, it looks like things have taken a turn for the worst.

Apparently he’s already married.

He couldn’t have known her for long – he was totally single back when he visited around August.

A few months ago I hear family rumblings about an announcement and see some pics of him with a girl on facebook. That’s when I posted the original thread.

A few days later, his mom posts something about “how wonderful her new daughter is” etc etc. The mom has bad(ish) english, so I figured she meant future daughter (in-law), but a few days ago out of curoisity I clicked on her profile or something and see that the pierced, tattooed Alaskan princess is using his last name now.

I guess not much to do now except be supportive and be there to pick up the pieces in a few years.

Any other suggestions?

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

I remember reading your original post. It seemed likely at the time that this would happen.

This is now a done deal so go with it, keep the family happy and don’t alienate your Nephew.

He will realise his mistake in roughly 12 to 18 months. Wait for him to ask you for advice. Be aware that anything you say gets reported to his wife. Actually I would just give him a link to a good Youtube video and let him work it out for himself

You will be the bad guy if something goes wrong.

You can take a horse to water but you can’t make it drink.

It's Time to get Wise

[Anonymous 54]

Once a guy “falls in love” he no longer even hears you. Not a damn thing you can do.

[bladeParticipant]

No marriages last for long these days . It’s good that you are going to be there to pick up the pieces. No point in saying anything negative to him because he will see it just as that and resent you . As this disaster unfolds been mgtow you will see all the signs of collapse . Nothing you can do but wait and be an ear for him with caution to what you say.

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Fallen Soldier Kicks ass RedpillBible! I watched it twice…nice to see my countrymen have kept the tradition of the helmet on the casket–shame its not a Stalhelm though. Thought I recognized the tune Dvorak.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

R.I.P. to your nephew,we cant save them all.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

He was single in August and is married now? From single to “relationship” should be no less than a year……… + 1 year before even THINKING about a proposal…… then another year engaged at the minimum. And thats IF she’s a goddam unicorn 100% of the time and only IF you’re looking to have kids.

Biggvs_Dickvs wrote:

Any other suggestions?

From single to married in 4 months is a mistake of such gigantic proportions, all you can do is over act the congratulations:

“You signed a marriage contract? MAN, CONGRATULATIONS!!! You’re PERFECT FOR IT!! Who else is going to keep this ridiculous gong show going??? I’m sure she’s that perfect flawless diamond in a mountain of rubble, so don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. They’re just bitter.”

Then open palm him firmly on the shoulder, immediately wipe the fake smile off your face, stare directly into his eyes for about 5 seconds without blinking….. and walk.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Biggvs_Dickvs wrote:

I clicked on her profile or something and see that the pierced, tattooed Alaskan princess is using his last name now.

He would have been better off marrying one of the Kodiak bears up there. Alaskan women are a special kind of entitled. 8:1 ratio of : in Alaska. The women there have to be less kind, thoughtful, honest, etc than those in the lower 48.

Get your mind around that.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Keymaster wrote:

Then open palm him firmly on the shoulder, immediately wipe the fake smile off your face, stare directly into his eyes for about 5 seconds without blinking….. and walk.

Awesome Advice KM. I may just have to try that. 🙂

Thank you all for the comfort. I can’t help but feel I’ve failed the poor lad somehow. I introduced him to MGTOW, showed him some of the better videos making the case for avoiding the cthwunts, but I guess his lonliness and hormones got the best of him.

I agree, a 3 month courtship straight to marriage is insane. I can only assume that he wanted to “lock that down” while he “had the chance,” probly due to the ratio and scarcity of poon in AK.

Like Eddie Murphy said, if you’re starving and someone throws you a cracker…..

I actually don’t have all the details, but I assume that because of the last name thing, they must have done it in a hurry. Plus she’s calling him “hubby” on facebook posts, so, y’know.

Like many of us I imagine, he’s probably pretty starved for some positive female attention. His mom never struck me as particularly warm, or if she was it was in a pretty obligatory fashion.

Here at MGTOW, most of us have learned to live without it, or to severely limit what we’re willing to commit to to get it. All alone in AK I guess it’s pretty hard to resist. In fairness, they look like they have some fun together, I guess we’ll see how long it lasts.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[Y_Participant 4591]

Hey BD

Sorry to say this – he won’t stay married for long to this kind of bitch. I’m sure about that.

Once she squeeeezes the required juices out of him or he has enough he’s make a beeline for your house.

Make sure you have a couch or spare bed ready.

Some guys have to find out the truth for themselves.

Peace.

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