Sweet joy of seeing ex after many years

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Durden wrote:

I’m glad to hear you got to see that bitch again. Especially after hearing your story and how she ran out when you needed her most.. When you had the medical issues. Cheers mate.

Well of all these things … on reflection … that was the one. What she did and when she did it.

I was not looking or feeling very good …  and getting worse.

In the end it was the fact that I was still alive and not only that, alive, prospering and loving it. That’s what was sweet.

Hell even if I was sweeping the streets and seen her …. it would still be sweet.

Told my daughter about it. We both laughed and went for a Turkish meal ….. and me ogling the belly dancer ☺

Thanks for the support man. Much appreciated ☺

[TheBardParticipant 974]

Last year my first girlfriend called me up and asked if she could stop by after work to talk to me. She was complaining to me about how she is always broke and her boyfriend is the reason she has no money. When she stopped by the next day she explained it again and it wasn’t really her boyfriends fault she was broke it was hers. Yes he seems to be doing some stupid things, but pretty much it was her fault she had all these bills to pay. When I told her she maybe shouldn’t have bought so much stuff online using her credit card she was like “but I can’t help it, when I see something I like I buy it” then when I mentioned she should move back home to save money she said ” no my parents try to control me. They tell me not to buy all this stuff”. When I told her that wasn’t control but rather them being good parents because she doesn’t need to be buying everything she sees she didn’t seem to fully get it. She was basically 200lbs, had like 3 maxed out credit cards she was paying off and her paypal and at one point when she found out I was home alone she said “you know if I was single I would probably take you up stairs and f~~~ you like we used to do” If she was single that wouldn’t work on me anymore because while she wasn’t really a bad girlfriend seeing her in so much debit was making happy I wasn’t with her, especially with her logic of “well when I see something I just buy it”. She was also talking about how when people get married they should each still keep their own accounts and then have 1 joint account together and all I could picture was if we were married that joint account would constantly be in the negative and I would have to keep putting my money into it because her account would be negative too lol

ILiveAgain wrote:

Told my daughter about it. We both laughed and went for a Turkish meal ….. and me ogling the belly dancer

You’re single and have a daughter? You’re living the dream man, wish I was that lucky.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

I saw my ex recently but she went the other way. She is 40 and about to remarry another sad blue pill knob. Anyway she has always had body issues and bulimia. Since punching this new kid out she has lost so much weight she looks ill, I mean massive wrinkles and crows feet, Frankenstein lips, nana neck, blotchy skin and small saggy t~~~ and her perfect perky ass from training and running with me everyday…gone! I just see her now and think “you are so far beneath my batting average now.” This guy she is marrying thinks he’s won the lotto, he has no idea what he’s in for as she’s a sociopath.

[Anonymous 1]

ILiveAgain wrote:

Every man should feel this …. so in the spirit of a true mgtow … I offer you my ex for a day of your choosing.

Touche.

Thanks for the laughs. 😀

 

[narwhalParticipant]

eh.  I am wary of the whole revenge/karma factor.  I really don’t want to get my satisfaction out of someone else’s suffering.  I understand the draw, and am not trying to ding anyone for it, just that I see it as flawed.

For one thing, my ex is still the mother of my children.  If she suffers, so do my kids one way or another.  She is currently remarried and I don’t want them to suffer indirectly, nor deal with the s~~~ that will start bleeding over into my life, if things start to go crappy for her.

The other is that life does not always work out that way.  As I said before my ex is remarried, so her success is heavily tied to how successful he is, not to mention the child support money she gets from me, and her rich parents.  She seems to be doing ok, although I have heard of some money issues.  I avoid getting details about her life as much as I can, but she seems to be the same person with the same issues, that I’m glad aren’t my issues anymore.

My worth is not dependent on how well her life is going.    I don’t want to give her the power to be any sort of measuring stick for my success and happiness.

Ok. Then do it.

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