Suicide Text from the Ex…

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

Recently posted how my Ex (of just 3 months since the final declaration) has been spiraling downward and crying about how miserable she is.

Well late Friday before Christmas I turned in early b/c I needed to get up at 4:30am for a race. After I was asleep the Selfish One sent a text stating I could have the kids full time and that she was “checking out”. The language was pretty clear she was alluding to suicide.

When I woke up at zero dark thirty I saw the text that was sent at 11:45pm.

S~~~ – My daughter is over there. WTF. I was p~~~ed! Is she so selfish that she would off herself while my daughter was there for Holiday Effect?

I called the Ex. No answer. Texted. Nothing.

My older son was home from college but I knew he was staying at some friends so I called him and he picked up. I try to shield the kids from this kind of bulls~~~ but I needed his key. He is not a silly snowflake but a responsible 20 year old unlike the POS Snowflakes that abound these days. He said, “What the hell is going on”. I had to tell him. He said “I’m leaving now and I’ll meet ya”.

The second I hung up with him she called me. “What is your problem – I was asleep”. W T G D F. I told her I just got her text and our son and I were on our way. She scoffed. “You didn’t give a damn last night when I sent that text – I’m fine”. CLICK hung up on me.

I caught my son before he left and we stood down.

Later that day I told her we needed to talk about this – it was alarming that she sent this while my daughter was in her custody. True to form for a spoiled bitch who has never had to take responsibility for her actions she said, “It was just holiday blues and alcohol. I was feeling sorry for myself”.

I would be lying if I didn’t wonder how great things would be if she followed through with it. I bet I’m still the beneficiary and the will has not been revised (note to self to get mine done).

She was a c~~~y bitch before I moved out. Constantly doing as she pleased and behaving like a c~~~ and telling me how to just “deal with it”.

Well now she is dealing with it – she can f~~~ off. NFG.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Hahaha, next time ignore it totally.

If a men says im checking out you can be your ass he is at least gonna try.

Women just like the drama.

Prefered method of suicide by sex:
Women: pills, Vein cuts, toxic ingestion, low letality, slow method.

Men: hanging, jump from high places, fire weapons. High letality and fast.

WOMEN ARE SOO USELESS THEY CANT EVEN DIE RIGHT.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[BoarParticipant]

Save those texts and talk to a lawyer. If she does this once, she will do it again. Then she will blame you for not responding and then try to turn your children against you. Sometimes the nuclear first-strike is the only option.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Boar wrote:

Save those texts and talk to a lawyer. If she does this once, she will do it again. Then she will blame you for not responding and then try to turn your children against you. Sometimes the nuclear first-strike is the only option.

Good one

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[LionOnTheLooseParticipant 1315]

My ex loved to threaten me with suicide, and it was exactly that–I now realise she never intended to go through with any of the threats, but she knew it freaked me out and got me to comply on occasions when I wasn’t quite doing what she wanted.

We all need to watch out for this trick.

Obviously made more complicated with kids involved. How can someone be so sick?

Glad you’re on the MGTOW path man!

There aren't holes in your pockets. It's called marriage.

[SH3LLZParticipant 5569]

Let this be a lesson. People who are going to really kill themselves, do not threaten. They just do it. If anything, they usually are super nice and try to make amends with those they’ve screwed over. Still, I would work on that “getting full custody” thing. Who knows if and or when she decides to kill herself if your daughter could be in danger just to hurt you one more time.

Something to think about seriously.

#ICETHEMOUT
#MANOUT
#HIDEYOURWEALTH
#VAGINAISWORTHLESS

#ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

[SpleeferParticipant 959]

Call the police next time. They are trained to deal with suicidal tendencies and They can make the decisions. You won’t need to even get involved next time.

Galatians 5:1 (KJV) Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

It was a s~~~ test brother. A sick one, but a s~~~ test. She was hoping for a panic phone call from you and she didn’t get it. God forbid you turn your phone down when you go to sleep and don’t stay up all night getting drunk like she does.

It was the fire triangle: It takes heat, fuel, and oxygen to start and maintain a fire. She just put a little heat (the text) to the fuel (your collective past with her) to see if you would give it any oxygen (the panic phone call). The call that night would have lit the fire and she could have played out whatever drama was spinning around in her head. But you didn’t call. No oxygen, no fire.

Order the good wine

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

TaxGuy wrote:

It was a s~~~ test brother. A sick one, but a s~~~ test. She was hoping for a panic phone call from you and she didn’t get it. God forbid you turn your phone down when you go to sleep and don’t stay up all night getting drunk like she does.
It was the fire triangle: It takes heat, fuel, and oxygen to start and maintain a fire. She just put a little heat (the text) to the fuel (your collective past with her) to see if you would give it any oxygen (the panic phone call). The call that night would have lit the fire and she could have played out whatever drama was spinning around in her head. But you didn’t call. No oxygen, no fire.

Great analogy. If my daughter weren’t there I’d not have even called or texted! When I saw the text that morning I doubt my heart rate even increased… it was more like, “Fk – she is going to f~~~ up my race this morning. Damn bitch”.

[GrumpyParticipant]

I agree with Spleefer.
Call 911 and let the pro’s handle it, there is also the added bonus of documentation for future use.
Law enforcement also seems to frown upon giving directions in order for the “attempt” to be successful, (dont ask how I found that out).

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Colin Combover in a ComaParticipant 5067]

TaxGuy wrote:

It was a s~~~ test brother. A sick one, but a s~~~ test. She was hoping for a panic phone call from you and she didn’t get it. God forbid you turn your phone down when you go to sleep and don’t stay up all night getting drunk like she does.
It was the fire triangle: It takes heat, fuel, and oxygen to start and maintain a fire. She just put a little heat (the text) to the fuel (your collective past with her) to see if you would give it any oxygen (the panic phone call). The call that night would have lit the fire and she could have played out whatever drama was spinning around in her head. But you didn’t call. No oxygen, no fire.

What race is this?

[BritGHOWParticipant 2566]

Agree with previous comments, from black_knight’s recent thread getting involved only opens you to repercussions, let the police handle (and document) it

[JVBParticipant]

Carnage wrote:

Hahaha, next time ignore it totally.

Yes!!!

Peace is > piece.

[JVBParticipant]

TaxGuy wrote:

It was a s~~~ test brother. A sick one, but a s~~~ test. She was hoping for a panic phone call from you and she didn’t get it.

Double yes !!!!

Peace is > piece.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

TaxGuy wrote:

It was a s~~~ test brother. A sick one, but a s~~~ test. She was hoping for a panic phone call from you and she didn’t get it. God forbid you turn your phone down when you go to sleep and don’t stay up all night getting drunk like she does.

Correct, TaxGuy.

Combat Roll: Sit your children down and explain this behavior to them. Tell the c~~~ if she really wants to “check out” no-one will be able to stop her, but life will go on. She will be missed [by her children only], but LIFE WILL GO ON without her. Tell her you will donate her body to science and have medical students use her as an anatomy cadaver.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[narwhalParticipant]

TaxGuy wrote:

It was a s~~~ test brother. A sick one, but a s~~~ test. She was hoping for a panic phone call from you and she didn’t get it. God forbid you turn your phone down when you go to sleep and don’t stay up all night getting drunk like she does.
It was the fire triangle: It takes heat, fuel, and oxygen to start and maintain a fire. She just put a little heat (the text) to the fuel (your collective past with her) to see if you would give it any oxygen (the panic phone call). The call that night would have lit the fire and she could have played out whatever drama was spinning around in her head. But you didn’t call. No oxygen, no fire.

She did get what she wanted though, at least partially. She created drama in you and got some attention. Ideally, you would have called her immediately telling her she was important to you, but it was still worth her effort.

I would tell her that you’re keeping track of communication between the two, and let her know that texts alluding to suicide and/or drunkenness while you’re daughter is under her supervision will be saved if you ever need to take full custody. Although honestly, even that give her the attention she wants. She will surely started telling friends and family that you’re trying to steal her daughter from her…the poor, poor, single mother that she is.

Ok. Then do it.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22534]

CombatRoll wrote:

Recently posted how my Ex (of just 3 months since the final declaration) has been spiraling downward and crying about how miserable she is.
Well late Friday before Christmas I turned in early b/c I needed to get up at 4:30am for a race. After I was asleep the Selfish One sent a text stating I could have the kids full time and that she was “checking out”. The language was pretty clear she was alluding to suicide.
When I woke up at zero dark thirty I saw the text that was sent at 11:45pm.
S~~~ – My daughter is over there. WTF. I was p~~~ed! Is she so selfish that she would off herself while my daughter was there for Holiday Effect?
I called the Ex. No answer. Texted. Nothing.
My older son was home from college but I knew he was staying at some friends so I called him and he picked up. I try to shield the kids from this kind of bulls~~~ but I needed his key. He is not a silly snowflake but a responsible 20 year old unlike the POS Snowflakes that abound these days. He said, “What the hell is going on”. I had to tell him. He said “I’m leaving now and I’ll meet ya”.
The second I hung up with him she called me. “What is your problem – I was asleep”. W T G D F. I told her I just got her text and our son and I were on our way. She scoffed. “You didn’t give a damn last night when I sent that text – I’m fine”. CLICK hung up on me.
I caught my son before he left and we stood down.
Later that day I told her we needed to talk about this – it was alarming that she sent this while my daughter was in her custody. True to form for a spoiled bitch who has never had to take responsibility for her actions she said, “It was just holiday blues and alcohol. I was feeling sorry for myself”.
I would be lying if I didn’t wonder how great things would be if she followed through with it. I bet I’m still the beneficiary and the will has not been revised (note to self to get mine done).
She was a c~~~y bitch before I moved out. Constantly doing as she pleased and behaving like a c~~~ and telling me how to just “deal with it”.
Well now she is dealing with it – she can f~~~ off. NFG.

Ignore the texts. Seriously. Don’t ever, ever respond to a suicide text or call. DO NOT.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Duke TogoParticipant 2664]

Forget your race. See your lawyer with the text. If she cannot take care of herself, gets drunk and suicidal with your child in her care she needs to learn by a court order how she is not of sound mind to have a child in her care. She needs to suffer the consequences of her own decisions.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

I sent out a text like that once when I was drunk. The next morning, while I was asleep drunk… the Police KICKED DOWN MY DOOR. They handcuffed me and took me to a mental hospital where I was held against my will for 3 days.

All you have to do is make the phone call on her ass.

“911, what’s your emergency”

“I need to report a loved one who texted me and is at risk of harming themselves, a suicide text”

“what’s the address sir?”

Problem solved. Anyone sending out texts like that ought to learn better. I wish I had learned from that experience and I wish I had just stopped drinking at that point. (These were the final stages of my alcoholism about 6 years ago). I staggered on a few more months drinking very hard and self harming but keeping it secret. Then one night, the BAD ONE happened. I lived and I never drank again.

If she has a child over there. Let me be straight up with you. Your child is at risk.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Next time she is drunk and texts you. Do what 3 mgtow men here have suggested, call 911 and report her ass. She will go to the Cuckoo’s Nest. She needs to learn.

We shouldn’t have to disregard people’s foolish threats. Take them at their word. She says she may harm herself? That is not a joke. That bitch is unstable and could harm others too.

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