Someone please understand

[Anonymous 1]

I need someone to understand. I was mistreated by them for 12 years and people never understood except what seemed like a small portion of people. I figured this out now. I tried connecting and communicating about this for years and years and they always made me look like the bad person when I’m genuinely one of the kindest, most loyal, helping people out there.

I don’t know how to explain it but they didn’t accept, love, or see me for who I was or believe in me and kept rerouting/redirecting me. Every time I tried talking about it in a chat, socially or other they used it against me over and over until I had no voice and was outcast/isolated and lost out on a better life. Once I found out what happened and that they have a billion ways to try to rationalize it I realized that speaking the truth was just in vain and that it was either going to be neutral or negative from their perspective from now on or this would have never happened.

Not a single one of them loved me for who I was in 30 years of my life and it’s almost as if I was crucified existentially to the point where I couldn’t say a word or have any meaning or worth without being belittled or degraded as a human being (“OH HE’S VICTIMIZING! GENERALIZING! HE WANTS TO PUT EVERYONE IN THE SAME BOX! Maybe it’s the way he’s looking at it!! He’s still young! Who is this “they” he keeps talking about?”

I started to realize that it wasn’t me but I had been treated a way I didn’t deserve for so long and that was a double standard or so much below what I am as a human being that I could only rely on myself as the rest of them twisted this into some obscure story or fragmented truth.

I kept resisting to join this forum and then I realized that the bits and pieces came together and that I had essentially been treated like trash/dirt/completely invisible for 12 years of my life wrongly. Can someone please say something? I need good people that understand that this wasn’t my fault. I waited 30 years of my life for the wrong person (please don’t comment on the issue as I’m sensitive to it and am by no means one of those passive, introverted, socially negative individuals). In fact it seemed as if everything I had said or done there was always a reason to not agree with me. If I said I deserved this because of that then he “thinks he’s better” if I said I was mistreated because of money or could have done this and didn’t “he’s blaming us, making excuses”…

I don’t want to get into details but what I realized was that I wasn’t wrong it was the other way around and I was crucified like a piece of trash for 12 years of my life.

Does anybody understand? If you knew me in person you’d understand that I’m not a loser either and very talented.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Anonymous wrote:

I started to realize that it wasn’t me but I had been treated a way I didn’t deserve for so long and that was a double standard or so much below what I am as a human being that I could only rely on myself as the rest of them twisted this into some obscure story or fragmented truth.

I kept resisting to join this forum and then I realized that the bits and pieces came together and that I had essentially been treated like trash/dirt/completely invisible for 12 years of my life wrongly. Can someone please say something?

first of all, welcome. i’m glad you found the path to freedom.

it’s not your fault that you got treated like s~~~ for 12 years. It’s female nature, and its the biased laws that allow female nature to treat men as disposable objects.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Anonymous wrote:

Not a single one of them loved me for who I was in 30 years of my life and it’s almost as if I was crucified existentially to the point where I couldn’t say a word or have any meaning or worth without being belittled or degraded as a human being

stay strong brotha.

we’re here to support each other, share stories, gain wisdom, and preserve our personal sovereignty

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[The Wood RatParticipant 143]

Anonymous wrote:

I need someone to understand. I was mistreated by them for 12 years and people never understood except what seemed like a small portion of people. I figured this out now. I tried connecting and communicating about this for years and years and they always made me look like the bad person when I’m genuinely one of the kindest, most loyal, helping people out there.

I don’t know how to explain it but they didn’t accept, love, or see me for who I was or believe in me and kept rerouting/redirecting me. Every time I tried talking about it in a chat, socially or other they used it against me over and over until I had no voice and was outcast/isolated and lost out on a better life. Once I found out what happened and that they have a billion ways to try to rationalize it I realized that speaking the truth was just in vain and that it was either going to be neutral or negative from their perspective from now on or this would have never happened.

Not a single one of them loved me for who I was in 30 years of my life and it’s almost as if I was crucified existentially to the point where I couldn’t say a word or have any meaning or worth without being belittled or degraded as a human being (“OH HE’S VICTIMIZING! GENERALIZING! HE WANTS TO PUT EVERYONE IN THE SAME BOX! Maybe it’s the way he’s looking at it!! He’s still young! Who is this “they” he keeps talking about?”

I started to realize that it wasn’t me but I had been treated a way I didn’t deserve for so long and that was a double standard or so much below what I am as a human being that I could only rely on myself as the rest of them twisted this into some obscure story or fragmented truth.

I kept resisting to join this forum and then I realized that the bits and pieces came together and that I had essentially been treated like trash/dirt/completely invisible for 12 years of my life wrongly. Can someone please say something? I need good people that understand that this wasn’t my fault. I waited 30 years of my life for the wrong person (please don’t comment on the issue as I’m sensitive to it and am by no means one of those passive, introverted, socially negative individuals). In fact it seemed as if everything I had said or done there was always a reason to not agree with me. If I said I deserved this because of that then he “thinks he’s better” if I said I was mistreated because of money or could have done this and didn’t “he’s blaming us, making excuses”…

I don’t want to get into details but what I realized was that I wasn’t wrong it was the other way around and I was crucified like a piece of trash for 12 years of my life.

Does anybody understand? If you knew me in person you’d understand that I’m not a loser either and very talented.

You will never get closure from the person instead release you need to get closure and regulate your emotions.

Take note of any self-worth issues that you have going all the way back to your childhood work on the self-worth issues understand that the fact that you exist means you have worth you are deserving you don’t need to do anything to earn that.

It’s good to talk to people and get validation about the torture we went through into experience compassion from others but it’s even more important for us to give compassion to ourselves educate yourself as much as you can a male and female nature and understand that what happened to you has happened to others any man who’s ever had anything to do with any woman has suffered

To ask yourself this question if a man escapes a room he was imprisoned in where he was tortured does it really matter what the wallpaper look like what the torture tools were any of it? No. What matters is that the man is no longer being tortured

May you be released from your suffering and may you generate your own closure through acknowledging your worth and that you were deserving of compassion

Hang in there keep strong

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

I understand what you mean about that because it’s not just women it’s all of society today. I’m 57 years old and I was programmed my whole life to be of service to other people or else I’m being selfish. You Are Not Alone by any means and yes these people are going to definitely try to shame you into coming back to the plantation. You done with that kind of life unless you want it. You have the support of so many men understand completely what you have gone through we only wish you the best and hope that you stick around. When I first took the red pill when I first started to digest the truth it was a bitter pill to swallow but I’m so glad that I took it and that you get to take it. Welcome keep coming back

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Anonymous wrote:

I need good people that understand that this wasn’t my fault. I waited 30 years of my life for the wrong person

Many of us have experienced the same things.

Blue Skies wrote:

we’re here to support each other, share stories, gain wisdom, and preserve our personal sovereignty

Yup
Welcome brother.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

TattooDave wrote:

I’m 57 years old and I was programmed my whole life to be of service to other people or else I’m being selfish.

No truer words…Don’t fall for any shaming.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 1]

Thank you so much for seeing me for who I really am. Never give up on your dreams.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome

[Anonymous 16]

welcome brother from another father.
and dont worry we all here have been used and treated like mules (most of us).
Now use the “i dont give a f~~~” aplication in your brain.
🙂

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

The BEAUTY of MGTOW is that you’re now making yourself your first priority, and coming to the realization that you do not NEED nor WANT a women to complete the picture. Actually, living ever happily with a women is a fairy tale, and not part of the reality we live in. Embrace, the FACT that you have been lied to since birth by societal indoctrination, and now you know the truth, your eyes have been opened. Now take the truth, and begin to live your own life.

You have been awakened, and now you must learn to not give a f~~~ about what others (men or women) think, say, or do. You have to BEGIN to live for YOU !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[WhoIsAskingParticipant 105]

Hello my Brother

Getting closure from the past is a difficult thing to achieve and all to often, we try to challenge it to a duel. IMO that is not the way to go. You walked into a bear trap and have been fed just enough food to keep you from dying. Now the bear trap is gone, but it is still gonna hurt. It might feel like you missed opportunities but everybody has. And if you’ve been in this bear trap for 10 years or 10 days……most people obsess about it all the same.

There are 2 ways to live your life:
1) you let society tell who you are and / or have to be
2) you show society who you are and that only your terms apply

You left 1) behind and are now heading for 2). Rest assure, being MGTOW will not make you any popular. But you might love yourself and find the courage to surround yourself, with people who are elevators and not a cage (damn that would had been so much better than the bear trap thing…already missing missed opportunies :-/)…but srsly google it: “are your friends an elevator or a cage?”

[Anonymous 1]

It’s crazy they treated people like s~~~ for no reason.

[WhoIsAskingParticipant 105]

It’s not crazy at all. It was not nice. But forcing someone to be your mindless puppet, is a pretty smart thing to do.

You wanna take revenge? Is it worth your time or do you have better things to do?

[KillmandrillParticipant 497]

Welcome Anon,
I guess a lot of MGTOWs here have been through a phase of doubt in their lives, so I guess a basic understanding of your situation is here.

Anonymous wrote:

I don’t know how to explain it but they didn’t accept, love, or see me for who I was or believe in me and kept rerouting/redirecting me.

Unfortunately you are never ever going to be loved for who you really are, rather for what you pretend to be or what you have (money, status etc.) or what people see in you. I had those illusions too and had to destroy them one by one, it hurts, yet it was a ballast I was happy to lose.

Ah, women. They make the highs higher and the lows more frequent. Friedrich Nietzsche

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Brother
Can’t say it any better than Awakened just said.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Hello Anon,

Cheers for your call for help and the great responses it has generated.

Anonymous wrote:

I don’t want to get into details but what I realized was that I wasn’t wrong it was the other way around and I was crucified like a piece of trash for 12 years of my life.

Does anybody understand?

NO,

I DO NOT UNDERSTAND!

You need to share more details Anon.

Everyone assumes you are talking about Marriage or a Relations~~~.

Anonymous wrote:

I was mistreated by them for 12 years

Who is treating you like a doormat for 12 years?

Is it mostly Women?

How about men?

Anonymous wrote:

I waited 30 years of my life for the wrong person (please don’t comment on the issue as I’m sensitive to it and am by no means one of those passive, introverted, socially negative individuals).

With all due respect, that is a pusillanimous statement.

It sounds like something a woman would say.

This is tough love.

Try not to feel bad about what I just stated.

If you are a man who is complaining about a woman and HER children, then you are experiencing “Woman’s Nature.” AWALT.

If you are a man who is so beaten down that everyone s~~~s on you, then you have a serious problem that will kill you brother.

In fact, you will eventually be in so much pain that you will wish for death, if you do not take drastic measures. And I have been there.

With boys being raised without fathers, this situation is more common than you may know.

The following post is about some of the things I did to stop being a “doormat:”

/forums/topic/the-power-of-celibacy/

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[ChromestarParticipant 101]

You remind me of Myself about 2-3 years back. Trust me its not YOU thats the problem the first trait you must get rid of is blaming yourself in this instance. its the Females/Feminists (white knights & Simps are their protectors) they will have excuses and back-up for their excuses and point the sword back at you in every way possible. Emotional blackmail and making their ‘enemies'(men) feel guilty for even breathing in their direction and how they are always right.
To combat this you have to accept them as they are (not accept them, but accept the situation), and I mean this in the loosest sense of the term.
1. For me I accepted that they dont like to take responsibilty for their actions.
2. They blame others for their mistakes.
3. If they cant Argue against something no matter what it is they will resort to more personal attacks.
4. Crying is their ‘get out of jail free’ card and last resort and can be a powerful tool that only works on ‘Simps’ and ‘Whiteknights’.
5. They Don’t do ‘Logic’. It does not matter how intelligent they think they are, LOGIC does not comply with the opposite gender as you may have witnessed many times youreself.
This is just the tip of the Iceberg.

Soon You will find that ALL male spaces are gone because of Females – the only male space that I know of is this very website but thats a different story.

Focus on YOU and try to get these things in order in your mind.
As an introvert myself I seek validity from within myself which is where my confidence comes from – not from others ESPECIALLY Bitches.

First thing you have to do accept the situation by knowing how these stupid women roll especially their hive-like mentality.
Once you ‘Get it’, your mind will be much calmer and any stupid responses will eventually become numb to you.
Dont expect to learn this overnight, it will take time and when that day comes, you will feel like you’ve opened up a door to the world and react and see everything differently.

It seems like you’ve Unplugged yourself from the Matrix and trying to wake the others up, for which there is no longer a need to worry anymore. By visiting this site, you’ve reached ‘Zion’ so to speak – you’ve hit the jackpot.

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

when I’m genuinely one of the kindest, most loyal, helping people out there.

Bro, that’s our Achilles heel! Stop that s~~~! That’s Mangina’s Job, White Knight’s duty, and feminism’s DEMAND! F~~~ that! Throw that f~~~-me-in-the-ass attitude in the trash!

Don’t believe me? Come on over and check out my asshole, You can fly a 747 through it with two football fields on either side! All because I was once a rollie pollie nice guy. It costed me dearly as I add up the unreturned favors and efforts over my lifetime, I traded my friendship gold for worthless radioactive waste!

Teach a man or woman to fish and he or she sits on his or her ass then eats yours! New World Order! Get used to it!

Anonymous wrote:

It’s crazy they treated people like s~~~ for no reason.

It’s way more crazy that someone would willingly swim around in their septic tank looking for a meal!

Bro, you got allot of learning and deprogramming to do, stick around and soak up some bitter truth…

[Anonymous 1]

Ok, will do. Thanks for the support.

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